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Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by ikombe: 5:46pm On Apr 12, 2018
Vicargeneral:
My friend you are not far from the truth, 95% of ladies or guys between 20-- 25 years principally date out of lust and for sex. They don't have plans for themselves neither are they mature for relationship and it challenges. The point for them is eat this one,get another eat and look a better one to still eat. With the female folks always loosing. You hear things like pass me the microphone when I finish I will pass to the next and they (the ladies) feel like am a slay queen, men are dieing for me.
The bold side got me laughing grin grin grin
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by ositadima1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
Do you imply that laddies don't enjoy sex as much as guys do? Let's assume the desire for sex is disproportionately one sided, can't you decline if it's not what you want. I don't get why a lady should feel used when sex involves both parties that have consented.

I also noticed that ladies like bribing guys with sex to gain love, attention, material gifts etc, and it is very wrong.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Nobody: 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2018
Obainoneandonly:
so if we dey date,we no go knack ourselves. sex is part and parcel of d dating itself.and nobody is using and dumping anyone.I don't know how your brain is wired,but I think u should change your mindset .
The best answer cheesy
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Nobody: 5:53pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
I think u are Oscolo..... u think sex is for sale
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Fourwinds: 5:54pm On Apr 12, 2018
SoapQueen:
Okay! Thank you! I still anticipate your patronage.
children....you can perceive their reasoning from their written words
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by olatunjithomas(m): 5:55pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chikita66:
Why should you Bleep a lady that you don't have future plans for, after you ask about their bodycount, don't you know that is how ladies body count increases?
Madam if you no give, I no go take.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Fourwinds: 6:02pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chikita66:
Even guys that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for sex.
the question is, why will a girl accept dating a guy if she is not ready to settle down....we need to stop deceiving ourselves simple
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Qsscruz(m): 6:07pm On Apr 12, 2018
Which part of Abuja are you ?


SoapQueen:
What are you saying? What are you trying to tell me? Why do you think all girls are the same? I will only date someone that I love and would want to settle down with. I'm sorry, I can't play around and mess myself up. What if he doesn't feel the same way?


When you are done putting me on blast. Kindly patronize my dishwashing liquid soap. God bless you!
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Troublemaker007(m): 6:09pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
This words annoys me. And who says men aren’t the one giving, who dey release sperm, who dey lose blood, who dey do all the knacking. The only time I will say a woman is useful is when she brings something to the table, be it finance or positive ideas. If your definition of useful is to bring pussy for me to _fuck to then you are as useless as the P in psychology.

Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Funkybabee(f): 6:09pm On Apr 12, 2018
See how they are ranting over a fact...
Yeye
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by kinzation(m): 6:10pm On Apr 12, 2018
noble71:
grin the Op has just been dumped. Move on and stop complaining undecided. Nobody used you. You enjoyed his money, he enjoyed your Honeywell 1-1. wink
hehehe...what's the aggregate.. they turn m to champions league...
obo jona
lemme coman be going
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Divay22(f): 6:11pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:
trolling which people?
they don't worth my time,, nairaland ladies are broke.
Oya leave us alone na grin grin grin
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by pornhub: 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
My own opinion: Relationship is being used as a free ticket to cheat, extort and defraud the other in the vein of expressing wisdom and causing emotional casualties which has made the entire globe spin squarely.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by prechbills1(m): 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
Divay22:
Oya leave us alone na grin grin grin
you guys should go and make money so we can talk cry
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by frankson1(m): 6:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
MissRaine69:
It’s a two way street just as you argue men are abusing women and dumping them all over the place

What of the women that fleece a man and then leave him when he has nothing?
What is that called?

Women who rely on a man for everything if he can’t hit it what’s the point there has to be some reciprocation that happens it’s difficult to argue otherwise

Some men would like to know what to expect before they get married liken it to test driving a car sometimes you test drive and think maybe I will get this car and then a few months later you realise that the traction control is actually quite bad and you look for another car or you buy it and realise this car costs way too much money let me downgrade.

No one is used some women attach themselves to a guy who has never promised them anything if he has not promised you anything why are you disappointed when nothing happens? While others will ignore the one who wants to be with them for them cause he has no car and go with the one who is fvucking you, your friends and your aunties and sometimes your mother too! How is that going to end well?

Sex is mutually beneficial don’t make out like the guy was the only enjoying things and the woman can always say no. To apportion blame to men only is ludicrous.

It takes two
Bae, I owe you � dinner outing. You get brains. kiss
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 12, 2018
Very true. And nowadays, the youthful exuberance has taken over.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 6:20pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
Which part of Abuja are you ?
Apo, Sir.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Divay22(f): 6:22pm On Apr 12, 2018
prechbills1:
you guys should go and make money so we can talk cry
We will o
All because of prechbills so that he can stop to attack us
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Olamida(m): 6:35pm On Apr 12, 2018
Obainoneandonly:
so if we dey date,we no go knack ourselves. sex is part and parcel of d dating itself.and nobody is using and dumping anyone.I don't know how your brain is wired,but I think u should change your mindset .
u know u are a bad shaild
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Adebowale89(m): 6:43pm On Apr 12, 2018
this Op write-up made me remember one of my ex. she don't want sex because she felt we ain't married but she want me to be spending for her, when you talk about double standard, talk about ladies most esp Africans


if you as a Lady feel is wrong having sex with a man that had not engaged u legally then asking him for Money is wrong too, it's only in Africa that guys carried the responsibilities of a girlfriend, buy her this buy her that.


you closed your legs, I closed my pocket, case closed omo iya mi cheesy
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by DonBenny77(m): 6:47pm On Apr 12, 2018
Obainoneandonly:
so if we dey date,we no go knack ourselves. sex is part and parcel of d dating itself.and nobody is using and dumping anyone.I don't know how your brain is wired,but I think u should change your mindset .
Her brain is upside down who does she think she's doing a favor.......
4
I keep telling them what is good for the goose is also good for the gander

After its them that will be shouting "harder harder" wait "baby wait lemme turn around". They like do**y �
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Oreofepeters: 6:56pm On Apr 12, 2018
Fourwinds:
children....you can perceive their reasoning from their written words
it's like you didn't get the point. The lady sells liquid soap and she want you to patronize her.. Na Hussle she dey Hussle on nairaland, abeg try and patronize her....
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Fourwinds: 7:00pm On Apr 12, 2018
Oreofepeters:
it's like you didn't get the point. The lady sells liquid soap and she want you to patronize her.. Na Hussle she dey Hussle on nairaland, abeg try and patronize her....
issorite ...thanks
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by komodapson(m): 7:00pm On Apr 12, 2018
Obainoneandonly:
so if we dey date,we no go knack ourselves. sex is part and parcel of d dating itself.and nobody is using and dumping anyone.I don't know how your brain is wired,but I think u should change your mindset .
bros abeg how i fit see u. make we ball. u too get sense
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by komodapson(m): 7:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
MissRaine69:
It’s a two way street just as you argue men are abusing women and dumping them all over the place

What of the women that fleece a man and then leave him when he has nothing?
What is that called?

Women who rely on a man for everything if he can’t hit it what’s the point there has to be some reciprocation that happens it’s difficult to argue otherwise

Some men would like to know what to expect before they get married liken it to test driving a car sometimes you test drive and think maybe I will get this car and then a few months later you realise that the traction control is actually quite bad and you look for another car or you buy it and realise this car costs way too much money let me downgrade.

No one is used some women attach themselves to a guy who has never promised them anything if he has not promised you anything why are you disappointed when nothing happens? While others will ignore the one who wants to be with them for them cause he has no car and go with the one who is fvucking you, your friends and your aunties and sometimes your mother too! How is that going to end well?

Sex is mutually beneficial don’t make out like the guy was the only enjoying things and the woman can always say no. To apportion blame to men only is ludicrous.

It takes two
pls can I pay into ur acct?u spoke the gospel truth
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by MissRaine69(f): 7:23pm On Apr 12, 2018
komodapson:
pls can I pay into ur acct?u spoke the gospel truth
I just aired my views I am tired of women playing the victim all the time. Men can be at the end of a very wrong long stick.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by alertness(m): 7:25pm On Apr 12, 2018
Holywizard:
But I've been having regular sex although I've not been dating and they are peoples' lovers
That's why you're still in need of Job.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SlayerForever: 7:25pm On Apr 12, 2018
SleakBuzzPR:
ishilove after sucking deeeek....
Jesus of Nazareth LWKMD!
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by ivor1(m): 7:37pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
mind your business
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Nobody: 7:40pm On Apr 12, 2018
flimzy24:
.keep quiet.And is dating an automatic ticket to gold-digging for u broke ladies.That is all u ladies can offer not even a tangible advice. Fish brains
Such bitterness.... Smh
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by highqueen(f): 7:43pm On Apr 12, 2018
olatunjithomas:
Madam if you no give, I no go take.
Why should you ask in the first place?
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by rudepen(m): 7:48pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
I'm sorry isn't sex supposed to be a 50 50 thing, like both party enjoy the shi right! Why are Nigerian ladies so uneducated and chicken brained
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