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Good evening and happy Sunday Nairaland.
Please I need ur advices on this;
I've been besties with this girl for quite a while and I like her so much and she likes me too but I just can't be in a relationship now... I need ur advices good guys/girls, men/women of this forum(especially d girls) ... Should I tell her this?,,, would it be okay if I tell her?,,, or will it ruin my chances of ever having a relationship with her for good?... Pls mature response pls.

Thanks all

What advice do you need?
You said you both are besties, why are you then complaining?
Keep being her bestie and allow us rest biko!

This Story Is Becoming Boring!

Dont You Have Any Thing Useful...

You mustn't date her.... Relationship x overrated... Continue yuh friendship in peace...

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

IamD18:
What advice do you need?

You said you both are besties, why are you then complaining?

Keep being her bestie and allow us rest biko!

Alright thanks a lot... But Wat am asking is... Should I say it to her or be silent abt it?, would it spoil my chances of being with her in future if I tell her.

iammolise:
Good evening and happy Sunday Nairaland.
Please I need ur advices on this;
I've been besties with this girl for quite a while and I like her so much and she likes me too but I just can't be in a relationship now... I need ur advices good guys/girls, men/women of this forum(especially d girls) ... Should I tell her this?,,, would it be okay if I tell her?,,, or will it ruin my chances of ever having a relationship with her for good?... Pls mature response pls.

Thanks all

No ooo, don't tell her, tell me.

ladiesreject:
No ooo, don't tell her, tell me.

Lol

MhizAJ:
Lol

Lol. No mind op with yeye question.

iammolise:
Alright thanks a lot... But Wat am asking is... Should I say it to her or be silent abt it?, would it spoil my chances of being with her in future if I tell her.

tell her you have a crush on her, don't look too serious and not like a clown when you say it, just say it and let her think about it herself, whether you want her or not as a gf does not matter but this can go along way and it wont break the friendship, If you act stupidly towards her(u knw wat i mean) she wont be too offended, she already knows you are into her

This is my advice...

dukeprince50:
tell her you have a crush on her, don't look too serious and not like a clown when you say it, just say it and let her think about it herself, whether you want her or not as a gf does not matter but this can go along way and it wont break the friendship, If you act stupidly towards her(u knw wat i mean) she wont be too offended, she already knows you are into her

Alright, thanks a lot for d advice bro