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SoapQueen:
Hello, to answer your question. Yes.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate. My mental health nose dived.

Danty37:
exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

SoapQueen:
Hello, to answer your question. Yes.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate. My mental health nose dived.

DavidEsq:
Was it a Yoruba demon or a fvckboy?

HeWrites:
Yeah. But it's no disease.

mrfarmer600:
Scammers everywhere

Biglittlelois:
We dated for 5 years, i stood by him when he had nothing, last year july he got a job at an oil company, december he called to tell me he is not ready to get married anytime soon that i should look for some one else, there was no issues, fight or whatever.

Now i am almost 29 and my heart is stone cold, i thought men appreciates a lady that was with them during tough times but i was wrong, if i go after men that are already made who would blame me? that is why i dont blame ladies that do, i am very comfortable but i cant bring myself to feel anything for any man, i hope it changes soon.

Earthbound:
2016. I was at a maritime school in VI. I met this lovely girl at a buka off Adeola Odeku, just opposite GTbank. We were both waiting for 200 naira change. The woman selling had just one. She insisted I take it, I refused. We went back and forth until someone came to buy bottle water with a 200 naira note and the woman selling food said ' Oya husband and wife, take'. Just like that I entered into a new episode in my life story.
I previously hadn't been in a serious relationship since 2009. She worked with a real estate firm and was earning 6 figures. I was still collecting allowance from my parents once in a while. I wasn't completely independent.
We shyly laughed at the woman's words. I thought she'd have to be around my age group so I walked quickly up to her and didn't even know what to say soon as I did. She figured me out and said 'do you work or stay around?' I told her I schooled. She was really impressed with the prospective of being in a maritime school. She was from PH and knows a lot of people who work in the oil and gas sector who also attended the same school. She was going to enter a keke napep when I asked for her number. She was way too beautiful and shapely to pass up. I flashed her immediately and it rang. We said our good byes and split. A week passed by and I didn't even call her. I figured she was out of my league. I was right. One Thursday, I saw her missed call and my heart skipped a bit. I called back, she cut it and called me back. She invited me to Silver bird to see a movie, she didn't want to go alone and since its just a stone's throw from my school I accepted. We scheduled to meet on Sunday. I was a bit nervous. On Saturday evening, she called in sick saying she might not even go to work on Monday. I offered to come see her where she lived. She rented a bq behind a huge mansion somewhere in VI. I really took care of and showed her real affection that day, I spent the whole day and even slept over in her living room, thinking to myself, maybe I'd found a real relationship. (I went there with the intention to fúck.) On Monday, she was feeling better. We had noodles in the morning and I headed to school. I came back after a couple of hours and she had made Egusi which we ate together. About an hour after the meal, she told me she really wanted to have sex. I had never had a woman make the first move on me before so I was a bit confused. I was like you're just recovering. She was intent and we had mad, mad sex in her living room. She was a gusher, second time I met someone like that. I completely fell in love with her that day.
We went on for about a week and a half until she confessed that the mansion in front belonged to her boss who had travelled abroad to visit his family. He was letting her stay there because he knew her FIANCÉ who worked in PH who hardly gets free time to come and see her.
Needless to say I was heartbroken. I thought she was humble to want someone like me. I thought I could plan my future around her. I thought I'd share memories with her forever. Women can be scum.

Since then, if a lady shows interest in me, I'll just turn her into a intimacy gadget and keep leading her on. I derive maximum pleasure from this, but deep down I'm unhappy and want something more. My heart's too fragile to gamble anymore.

gozie112:
ahhhh it won't my potion.amen would definitely do as u said earlier,,take her out buy some drink for her,etc....thank u for advice

Hybridz:
Guy! You no understand the moniker of person wey dey give you advice ba,you better loan urself some sense biko

CyberWolf:
enjoy your time with her. Once you break the calabash, she will be yours forever as long as you’re there for her. Please don’t date her for 10 years ooooo, if you’re not ready for marriage in the next 2-3 years, don’t invest feelings in her. More importantly, don’t give her belle ooo

doctorkush:
don't be surprised lover boy, I might be the one to help you create the pathway in her...

Don't mind that guy advising you, if you break her hymen, she will still leave you to date a more matured guy who can meet her demands financially and sexually. She will call you naive and immature and since she is no more a virgin, she has the ticket to get whatever she wants from any Matured guy.

And if you don't break it, another guy will and he will ruthlessly devour her and she will really enjoy it while you will be waiting to masturbate to her voice... Oh she enjoys oral too... Can you send me her number, I need to confirm

Well Am sorry son, its best you start been sober from now because she will leave you sooner or later for a muscular, matured,bearded and cucumberish brother. And you know what, he will fuccck the living day out of her and you can't do anything about it.

Oh! She is still 18 She is becoming ripe for harvest. Only if you can stop her from getting mature, but .......
Start crying in advance...

gozie112:
belle?,,am also afraid of that,,she still insist neva to use a condom for first time,,,I Ave slept together in her room several tyms,,but babe still dey fear to open

gozie112:
funny ,,I trust my baby 100%,,she will neva disappoint me,,thank u for the advise though,, looking forward to break the calabash,

Divay22:
but you'll tell me privately then

CyberWolf:
The thing is that as a man, never invest your 100% feeling in any relationship, just 10% will do. Unless you are ready for marriage, never date for love but fun and enjoy yourself as much as you can and most importantly, make sure you’re servicing her caberator very well. If your ready for marriage, find a girl you will like to marry and date her for only 6 months or at most 1 year and marry her right away. If she says no sex until marriage, leave her and run away as fast as you can. Besides, don’t marry for love, marry because you want kids and concentrate your energy on that, that is making sure that your kids and their mother has more than enough of their essential needs. A word is enough for the wise!!!

CyberWolf:
then buy postinor2 keep by your side.

gozie112:
what is postnor2

highpriestess:
heartbreak is when he promised #300,000 but gave me #295,000

CyberWolf:
it’s a contraceptive but I strongly advice you use condom. If she insist you do it without condom, stand your ground and don’t allow her to have her way, that’s why you’re a man. Insist on using condom. You must be in control and not the other way round.

CyberWolf:
it’s a contraceptive but I strongly advice you use condom. If she insist you do it without condom, stand your ground and don’t allow her to have her way, that’s why you’re a man. Insist on using condom. You must be in control and not the other way round.

Danty37:
exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

gozie112:
my mind is telling me ur deceiving me,,so u want me to hurt my Baby,,I hope ur not?

OhiOfIhima:
You have a point brother but one way or d other everybody must taste dis scam call LOVE b4 you wise up... I said if u have never had a heartbreaking in a relationshp, you are not a real man.. because it good to have the feeling now dan later.

CyberWolf:
Me deceiving you? Okay oo, do whatever you want but don’t come here crying that a girl you loved break your heart bla bla bla.

gozie112:
I will do exactly what u asked me to do,,can't wait to fvck her

CyberWolf:
Good luck!

masks:
Dated a good girl back then in school who was ready to do everything for me. Got an I.T placement with intercontinental bank.... Found a cheap f**k and dumped my girl.... babe begged me and even solicited the help of my best friends to beg me... but the p***y had a choke hold on me.... after a year and I came back to my senses.... I realized that this girl was my soul mate... begged her for 3 years.... even went as far as searching for her on every platform.... she eventually changed her number and disappeared..... I felt broken..... Till this day I've never felt the kind of love I had for her.
Till this day I'm still searching for her or her details.....