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MrBrownJay1:
some people are really funny.....
- you have a babe, but then you go see alfa and he tells you to run away from her, which you did. FAIR ENOUGH! life goes on
- then you suddenly DISREGARD what alfa said and come back to the babe, start again and take her virginity. FAIR ENOUGH! you saw the light and realize alfa aint shiiit!

- now you come back and wanna hide behind what that nonsense alfa told you to try to dismiss that you guys are in a r/ship again. HELL NO! you made your bed, now accept consequences!

men like you are the reason why so many lose their lives to crzed babes. watch your back to make sure that she doesnt take you along in her afterlife journey

hmmmn thanks

secondincommand:
only if I can see you faca to face then I would have slapped sense into you ,i knw that been heart broken sometimes changes u,BT get senses even if na small ,she really loves u can't u see ? she's now on her sick bed because of u ,which girl u go fit see wey go feel that way for u now a days ,op use ur brain no let ham use you. go back to her .stay with her and watch how it goes .

Thanks Sir

religious fanatic,you can't even think for yourself as a man,see how you wanna throw a true love away all because of one alfa and prophet.
shame on you.Go and meet that girl and console her for your foolish deeds.

But You Tell The Girl say You no De Do Again but Here You Are Calling Her Your Girlfriend.


Dont Make Me Slap You This Hot Afternoon

Hurlarzan139:
Bro help me out.. what can i do to get out of this mess

I suggest you go back to your pastor and tell him how far you have gone with the girl...
Ask him if the consequences(based on his earlier prophecy) can be undone or salvaged...

eezeribe:
I suggest you go back to your pastor and tell him how far you have gone with the girl...
Ask him if the consequences(based on his earlier prophecy) can be undone or salvaged...

Thank you bro

the alfa abi pastor didnt tell u to stay away from her before you banged her abi

If I bash religion now, some idiots would say "how can you bash something you don't believe in? " see how magical thinking is causing strife in the op's life. Religion and clergymen have robbed many people.

Op you are a very selfish, unserious and thoughtless person. Whether you like it or not, all religions and other world mysticism are ridiculous garbage. Clergymen should never be taken seriously. Go and accept that girl as your gf.

Hurlarzan139:
Thank you bro

90% of prophesy are false.. shit ain't happening to you dude, These pastors and imams are scammers, they just predict, that's how they go about complicating people's life, I was about your age when I start questioning the activities of these prophet of doom.

You are a man, think like one and don't let others tell you what to do, go back to your woman and apologize, when you get older you won't see any genuine love like this.

Peace!

Efewestern:
90% of prophesy are false.. shit ain't happening to you dude, These pastors and imams are scammers, they just predict, that's how they go about complicating people's life, I was about your age when I start questioning the activities of these prophet of doom.

You are a man, think like one and don't let others tell you what to do, go back to your woman and apologize, when you get older you won't see any genuine love like this.

Peace!

Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate..

Hurlarzan139:
Good morning to everyone on this forum.. please I need your help urgently. Moreover don’t mind my English, am not good in writing..

All what am going to write here now is a true life story, happening presently in my life..

It’s about my girlfriend. We have been dating since last year February, but some things happened around the middle of the year last year. The matter is very strong that eventually leads to our break up. Well around November last year we reconciled. But I let her know that am not interested in relationship that we should just be friend. She agreed and we became friends. Later on we start doing the romance game. Little by little it lead to sex which I deflowered her. She want us to be back to bf and gf status but I insist am not doing that. The game continue goin on and I discovered that she as given me her heart totally. She can do anything for my sake, she can go extra mile just because of me. When I discovered this I begin to worried. Cause I don’t know how I will handle it. Well I act as a man and I called her that we are not dating and that I don’t think we can date, so I told her to reduce the love and caring. Since then she as not been normal, she as been admitted thrice, even till now that am talking to you she is still sick. What makes me come here is that she told me I should come and carry her corpse very soon. I’m really scared right now. I don’t know what I can do..


Let me also tell you this. am not like this before, I really love with all my heart and soul It takes me more than two years to convince her that I really love her..... but the problem started when one pastor prayed for me and after the prayer he told me I should run away from my girlfriend, I asked one Alfa also he said the same thing.. that’s how the love I have for her turn to something else.. I still love her. I have never have sex with any person since we have been dating. And also I did not date anyone.. but the fear of what I heard then has taken over me that’s why I don’t want to date her again.. I wish I could go back to how we use to be before, have tried my best it just didn’t work for me.. ...

Please how am I going to stop her from committing sucide. Cause when I visit her yesterday she as become lean.... I’m not happy with myself cause it’s my fault.. Today is my birthday, I suppose to be happy but I’m not. I’m really sad and confused.. please I need advice...

If you don't mind my asking, how old is she?

pressplay411:
If you don't mind my asking, how old is she?

20 years old

Hurlarzan139:
20 years old

OK. I guess she's still quite naive and in love.
But more importantly, she's yet to know herself. No woman was ever created to feel suicidal without a man and vice versa.
You need to be there for her, to comfort her with the truth (not with lies). You know her, magnify her strengths and let her know what she's capable of even without you. Never let any woman guilt-trip you into a relationship.

About the prophets, yes they sometimes have visions but don't live your life depending on them. They've led many to their doom.
So if all that scares you is the vision, I'll say there's probably an iota of truth in it cos if you get serious with a woman at the wrong time of your life, when you should be serious about building yourself and being successful, she'll definitely limit your chances of achieving your purpose. Perhaps the vision is a matter of timing.

That said, you need to do some introspection to know what step to take. And If your a believer, pray about it.

pressplay411:
OK. I guess she's still quite naive and in love.
But more importantly, she's yet to know herself. No woman was ever created to feel suicidal without a man and vice versa.
You need to be there for her, to comfort her with the truth (not with lies). You know her, magnify her strengths and let her know what she's capable of even without you. Never let any woman guilt-trip you into a relationship.

About the prophets, yes they sometimes have visions but don't live your life depending on them. They've led many to their doom.
So if all that scares you is the vision, I'll say there's probably an iota of truth in it cos if you get serious with a woman at the wrong time of your life, when you should be serious about building yourself and being successful, she'll definitely limit your chances of achieving your purpose. Perhaps the vision is a matter of timing.

That said, you need to do some introspection to know what step to take. And If your a believer, pray about it.

Thank you very much for the advice Sir