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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 20, 2018
Jman06:
Eeh...we are agree that we are broke and kids but that doesn't change the fact that you are a morally bankrupt hoe!
Thanks man,you nail it.hoe she is.

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by samisj4real(m): 8:30pm On Apr 20, 2018
SoapQueen:


Apt! In this case the girl is a liar. A liar is a liar, no be broken hymen dey cause lies..
Hehehe this soapqueen you just scatter full nairaland thread.. What would it take to change your plans for the weekend by visiting me.. Based on Abj 2 Abj levels #wink #mention_what_it_would_take_to_change_your_plans_&_its_all_yours
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by SoapQueen(f): 8:47pm On Apr 20, 2018
samisj4real:
Hehehe this soapqueen you just scatter full nairaland thread.. What would it take to change your plans for the weekend by visiting me.. Based on Abj 2 Abj levels #wink #mention_what_it_would_take_to_change_your_plans_&_its_all_yours


Not interested. I'm working.

I don't do Abj 2 Abj levels. Goodnight.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Apr 20, 2018
So op will not marry a non virgin because of family pride? Even though you love One? Or you will not marry a non virgin because one lied to you? Are all virgins truthful? Lol


Please who else thinks this op, is still a teenager? A confused one at that!

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by samisj4real(m): 9:01pm On Apr 20, 2018
SoapQueen:



Not interested. I'm working.

I don't do Abj 2 Abj levels. Goodnight.
Was just saying, don't take it personal oooh
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by damtan(m): 9:27pm On Apr 20, 2018
predmine20:
Is not that I detest or loathe non-virgins,they are humans just like me too.
But there was a bitter experience I had with a girl in the past which i am obliged to share.

When i was a teen I fell in love with a girl of my age.

We were madly in love but never had any bodily contact like kissing not to talk of sex.

I promise to marry her when the time comes because of the love between us until tragedy struck.

How could she lie to me that she was a virgin when she is not.

How did I find out that she ain't no virgin you ask?

I was so obsessed in marrying a virgin since i am one and it is a pride in the family.

So i decided to raise the topic with her one day in a rather smart way.

I ask if she is a virgin and she replied back in the affirmative so i added i will like to marry a non-virgin to a virgin.
I saw that she became uneasy when i said so and then i decided to probe further until she let the cat out of the bag.

In tears she told me that she is not a virgin,that she was sexually abused by an uncle but lied to me that she is because she can't bear to see me go.

That moment my world came crashing down,i was bitter and angry but i have vow never to break the family pride and have to let her go.

After this experience I couldn't love any girl again because i don't want to make another mistake of falling in love with the wrong woman.

Tricia anywhere you are right now pls find a place in your beautiful heart to forgive me for not fighting for you,for not been their for you but i have to keep the family pride.

I don't know if i could fall in love again.
Virgin or no-virgin, make i sha have a happy home.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by preshdiva(f): 9:37pm On Apr 20, 2018
I'll tell you why girls resolve to lie about their sexual history or how they got disvirgined. "JUDGEMENT". The African society already has a warped concept of virginity in relation to morality and this places men who have no business judging a woman's past, present, or future in the position to declare who is morally upright or loose by the status of the hymen. Now, women are sexual beings just like men and have a right to their own bodies, women are not just sexual creatures whose value decrease once they are disvirgined. By the way, who disvirgins these girls? Their fellow women? yet the same men will come back to say they want to marry a virgin, what an unfair world. For the records, some girls actually were raped or sexually molested at a young age, some are nymphomaniacs because of terrible experiences they had in their childhood, some are just sick. You dont judge someone as immoral because he/she is not a virgin.

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Apr 20, 2018
preshdiva:
I'll tell you why girls resolve to lie about their sexual history or how they got disvirgined. "JUDGEMENT". The African society already has a warped concept of virginity in relation to morality and this places men who have no business judging a woman's past, present, or future in the position to declare who is morally upright or loose by the status of the hymen. Now, women are sexual beings just like men and have a right to their own bodies, women are not just sexual creatures whose value decrease once they are disvirgined. By the way, who disvirgins these girls? Their fellow women? yet the same men will come back to say they want to marry a virgin, what an unfair world. For the records, some girls actually were raped or sexually molested at a young age, some are nymphomaniacs because of terrible experiences they had in their childhood, some are just sick. You dont judge someone as immoral because he/she is not a virgin.
Where and when did i judge them,you lost it.
See if you don't av anything good to say just skip this thread and be a spectator than a commenter.
women disvirgin women,reread ur quote,nawa.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 10:14pm On Apr 20, 2018
preshdiva:
I'll tell you why girls resolve to lie about their sexual history or how they got disvirgined. "JUDGEMENT". The African society already has a warped concept of virginity in relation to morality and this places men who have no business judging a woman's past, present, or future in the position to declare who is morally upright or loose by the status of the hymen. Now, women are sexual beings just like men and have a right to their own bodies, women are not just sexual creatures whose value decrease once they are disvirgined. By the way, who disvirgins these girls? Their fellow women? yet the same men will come back to say they want to marry a virgin, what an unfair world. For the records, some girls actually were raped or sexually molested at a young age, some are nymphomaniacs because of terrible experiences they had in their childhood, some are just sick. You dont judge someone as immoral because he/she is not a virgin.
Na so grin

Keep consoling and deceiving yourself
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by ofeshe(m): 10:18pm On Apr 20, 2018
Always its their uncle that disvirgin them
Chei this uncle shaaa dey enjoy oooo

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 20, 2018
You are beautiful and intelligent. Take
preshdiva:
I'll tell you why girls resolve to lie about their sexual history or how they got disvirgined. "JUDGEMENT". The African society already has a warped concept of virginity in relation to morality and this places men who have no business judging a woman's past, present, or future in the position to declare who is morally upright or loose by the status of the hymen. Now, women are sexual beings just like men and have a right to their own bodies, women are not just sexual creatures whose value decrease once they are disvirgined. By the way, who disvirgins these girls? Their fellow women? yet the same men will come back to say they want to marry a virgin, what an unfair world. For the records, some girls actually were raped or sexually molested at a young age, some are nymphomaniacs because of terrible experiences they had in their childhood, some are just sick. You dont judge someone as immoral because he/she is not a virgin.

Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jodha(f): 11:05pm On Apr 20, 2018
IamD18:


This is one of the things that annoys me about these loosed non-virgins, they are good in telling lies and trying to play smart by playing with your intelligence.

After turning their private part to tourist centers and loosing their virginity to their street mechanics for biscuit and coke, they'll start coming up with stupid sort of lies when asked.

It's either their neighbor's goat molested them or they lost it while riding a bicycle.

If they did not loose it while laughing, then they lost while crying.

Most of them will even tell you that they lost it while dancing shaku shaku!

If you aren't a virgin, please stop telling lies and misleading men who loves virgin, it's disgusting, loosing your virginity isn't the end of the world.

Yhure way off niggur...
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 11:07pm On Apr 20, 2018
Jodha:

Yhure way off niggur...
I don't get.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by nairaland20: 11:09pm On Apr 20, 2018
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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jodha(f): 11:16pm On Apr 20, 2018
IamD18:


I don't get.
I mean yhure far from d point...what yhu typed made zero sense..
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 11:19pm On Apr 20, 2018
Jodha:
I mean yhure far from d point...what yhu typed made zero sense..
I'm going to logically converse with you because you harmlessly quoted me.
Now madam, tell me, what's the point in this thread?
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jodha(f): 11:26pm On Apr 20, 2018
IamD18:


I'm going to logically converse with you because you harmlessly quoted me.

Now madam, tell me, what's the point in this thread?

First of all the op was off...
His reason for not marrying a nonvirgin was not logical ...and he was typing and also making decisions out of point..

Yhu on the other hand...yhu had the opportunity to correct d op and lead him on the right path...but rather...

Yhure shooting aimlessly at space...
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 11:33pm On Apr 20, 2018
Jodha:


First of all the op was off...
His reason for not marrying a nonvirgin was not logical ...and he was typing and also making decisions out of point..

Yhu on the other hand...yhu had the opportunity to correct d op and lead him on the right path...but rather...

Yhure shooting aimlessly at space...

OP didn't go off point, he's a virgin who loves a virgin, he met a lady who claimed to be a virgin but weren't one, when he found out, he left her, hence his thread.

Check my comment, I had to embolden where the lady claimed her uncle molested her to drop my comment concerning how ladies tell lies on how they lost their virginity.

What's confusing there?

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jodha(f): 11:42pm On Apr 20, 2018
IamD18:


OP didn't go off point, he's a virgin who loves a virgin, he met a lady who claimed to be a virgin but weren't one, when he found out, he left her, hence his thread.

Check my comment, I had to embolden where the lady claimed her uncle molested her to drop my comment concerning how ladies tell lies on how they lost their virginity.

What's confusing there?


Op went off point in the sense that... He should be angry d girl lied to him.... Her nonvirginity did nothing to him..only her lies..

Yhu should have pointed out to him..

Yhur post was some worth demeaning to girls... Yhu saying some girls lost dia virginity for coke and biscuit.... Isn't nice and proper...
Even if its true...it's not proper saying it like that... Yhu are indirectly saying... If yhuve lost yhur virginity yhure a LovePeddler...

And that's off..
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 11:51pm On Apr 20, 2018
Jodha:



Op went off point in the sense that... He should be angry d girl lied to him.... Her nonvirginity did nothing to him..only her lies..

Yhu should have pointed out to him..

Yhur post was some worth demeaning to girls... Yhu saying some girls lost dia virginity for coke and biscuit.... Isn't nice and proper...
Even if its true...it's not proper saying it like that... Yhu are indirectly saying... If yhuve lost yhur virginity yhure a LovePeddler...


And that's off..

As for the Op, he's right and not off if we are to judge from his thread. And for my comment, i'm right because some non-virgins lie a lot about their virginity.

@Embolden, i'm not suppose to apologize for my comment in anyway, but for the sake of what I can't say, i'll say 'I'm sorry ' cheesy grin
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jodha(f): 12:00am On Apr 21, 2018
IamD18:


As for the Op, he's right and not off if we are to judge from his thread. And for my comment, i'm right because some non-virgins lie a lot about their virginity.

@Embolden, i'm not suppose to apologize for my comment in anyway, but for the sake of what I can't say, i'll say 'I'm sorry ' cheesy grin

I still maintain my stand that the op is wrong... The topic was "why I will never marry a non virgin ...my bitter experience" and what he posted after that did not correlate with the topic... I was expecting a heart touching story...
Dearie yhure wrong because nowadays... The world has gone so bad ...no one gives a hoot about virginity...so there's no need to lie..
90% of guys presently do not want to marry a virgin...most guys do not care at all...
So why should they lie?.... Yhu see my dear yhure wrong...


Lool...it's awk... I just felt yhu were harsh that's all...

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Jman06(m): 12:18am On Apr 21, 2018
Jodha:

I still maintain my stand that the op is wrong... The topic was "why I will never marry a non virgin ...my bitter experience" and what he posted after that did not correlate with the topic... I was expecting a heart touching story...
Dearie yhure wrong because nowadays... The world has gone so bad ...no one gives a hoot about virginity...so there's no need to lie..
90% of guys presently do not want to marry a virgin...most guys do not care at all...
So why should they lie?.... Yhu see my dear yhure wrong...


Lool...it's awk... I just felt yhu were harsh that's all...
And when did you conduct a research to arrive at the conclusion that 90percent of guys do not want virgins Because a few loose guys on nairaland type such rubbish to lure more naive girls into bed

For your information, more guys still crave and respect virgin girls. Stop deceiving gullible girls here!

Virginity remains one of the prides of a lady!

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 12:24am On Apr 21, 2018
predmine20:
Is not that I detest or loathe non-virgins,they are humans just like me too.
But there was a bitter experience I had with a girl in the past which i am obliged to share.

When i was a teen I fell in love with a girl of my age.

We were madly in love but never had any bodily contact like kissing not to talk of sex.

I promise to marry her when the time comes because of the love between us until tragedy struck.

How could she lie to me that she was a virgin when she is not.

How did I find out that she ain't no virgin you ask?

I was so obsessed in marrying a virgin since i am one and it is a pride in the family.

So i decided to raise the topic with her one day in a rather smart way.

I ask if she is a virgin and she replied back in the affirmative so i added i will like to marry a non-virgin to a virgin.
I saw that she became uneasy when i said so and then i decided to probe further until she let the cat out of the bag.

In tears she told me that she is not a virgin,that she was sexually abused by an uncle but lied to me that she is because she can't bear to see me go.

That moment my world came crashing down,i was bitter and angry but i have vow never to break the family pride and have to let her go.

After this experience I couldn't love any girl again because i don't want to make another mistake of falling in love with the wrong woman.

Tricia anywhere you are right now pls find a place in your beautiful heart to forgive me for not fighting for you,for not been their for you but i have to keep the family pride.

I don't know if i could fall in love again.

Of all the things in this world to take pride in, it's virginity that your family can take pride in and you are hear proudly saying it like you won the world cup.
By the way, how does your topic correspond with the its context?

I mean how will you not marry a non-virgin because a non-virgin lied to you that she's a virgin? And you even said you stopped loving coz you don't want to fall for the wrong one. Mtchew!

This is just a cooked up story

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:39am On Apr 21, 2018
RuthDaniels:
So op will not marry a non virgin because of family pride? Even though you love One? Or you will not marry a non virgin because one lied to you? Are all virgins truthful? Lol


Please who else thinks this op, is still a teenager? A confused one at that!

I can boldy say the person behind that moniker isn't upto 26

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:41am On Apr 21, 2018
Jman06:
And when did you conduct a research to arrive at the conclusion that 90percent of guys do not want virgins Because a few loose guys on nairaland type such rubbish to lure more naive girls into bed

For your information, more guys still crave and respect virgin girls. Stop deceiving gullible girls here!

[s]Virginity remains one of the prides of a lady![/s]


and what is the pride of a man? his penis?


women aren't sex objects.


you deserve to be jailed cry

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by highpriestess: 6:42am On Apr 21, 2018
RuthDaniels:
So op will not marry a non virgin because of family pride? Even though you love One? Or you will not marry a non virgin because one lied to you? Are all virgins truthful? Lol


Please who else thinks this op, is still a teenager? A confused one at that!
that boy is one hungry lad.

He is a little boy believe me.

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by IamD18: 7:58am On Apr 21, 2018
Jodha:

I still maintain my stand that the op is wrong... The topic was "why I will never marry a non virgin ...my bitter experience" and what he posted after that did not correlate with the topic... I was expecting a heart touching story...
Dearie yhure wrong because nowadays... The world has gone so bad ...no one gives a hoot about virginity...so there's no need to lie..
90% of guys presently do not want to marry a virgin...most guys do not care at all...
So why should they lie?.... Yhu see my dear yhure wrong...


Lool...it's awk... I just felt yhu were harsh that's all...

Please, i'm trying hard not to see you like the rest of these dumb ladies on this section undecided

He vowed never to marry a non-virgin because of the lies a non-virgin told him, what's hard there to understand embarassed

Didn't you see where he noted himself a virgin, saying that his family values virgins a lot


Say what you know mrs/miss, who said men don't give a fvck about virgins , this is one of the lines non-virgins uses to console themselves undecided which man will like to marry a lady who's pussay isn't tight

And where d'fvck did you get your statistics from?

I was harsh, but said the truth.

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Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by oyatz(m): 8:03am On Apr 21, 2018
Mr Man ,you don't ask your girl if she is a virgin ,you discover it yourself.
Asking this kind of question will cause unnecessary emotional breakdown for either or both of you.

Though,it is desirable to marry a virgin if possible but Love conquers all.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by oyatz(m): 8:10am On Apr 21, 2018
Many non-virgin ladies who recently lost their virginity usually get embrassed whenever the topic of virginity is discussed, with time they get irritated and long after, they easily get offended if you discussed virginity with them.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Heavance(m): 9:27am On Apr 21, 2018
This rape line by ladies is something else... many keep claiming rape
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 21, 2018
Highpriestess just check all your comments on this thread and you will find out that you are so pained about something.

Upsetgirl1 your own case is another thing entirely i don't know if you live in mars because you reason from your anus.

And you Jhoda your own tire me,i don't know where you belong because you re quoting off point.

One thing the three of you have in common is that you all are not virgins,anyway your comments is insignificant because it is all thrash and lies.
I don't hate virgins for the records but i will never marry such,not in my life.
Re: Why I Will Never Marry A Non-virgin Lady!my Bitter Experience! A Must Read? by highpriestess: 9:40am On Apr 21, 2018
predmine20:
Highpriestess just check all your comments on this thread and you will find out that you are so pained about something.

Upsetgirl1 your own case is another thing entirely i don't know if you live in mars because you reason from your anus.

And you Jhoda your own tire me,i don't know where you belong because you re quoting off point.

One thing the three of you have in common is that you all are not virgins,anyway your comments is insignificant because it is all thrash and lies.
I don't hate virgins for the records but i will never marry such,not in my life.
this is my only accnt safe,you will hear from me soon!
oh sorry,you still a poor toddler undeserving of my attention.
Take your beggy syndrome to somewhere.

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