Mother-of-two, who has been married for only eight years, said her husband has become so unattractive that she finds every reason not to have sex with him, but she can’t leave him because she needs his financial support.The Australian mother featured on the Kyle & Jackie O radio show on Monday morning as part of the hosts’ Group Therapy segment. She shocked listeners when she revealed she has fallen so far out of love with her husband that she can’t bear to look at him in the bedroom.

The unnamed woman shares two young daughters with her husband who she now finds repulsive. She shared her story on the show in order to then ask the public for their advice, because though she had fallen out of love with her husband, she didn’t want to leave him as she needed his “financial support”She told the Sydney-based radio duo:I just don’t want him to see my sex face anymore because when I look at him I am picturing someone else – I just go through all the artists.I find every excuse under the sun not to have sex, I just pretend I am tired. It’s once a month now and when we do do it I just want to cover up, I don’t want him to look at me because I’ve lost touch with him.

I don’t want to make any eye contact anymore… there’s just no love anymore.She said the love “just died down” over the years and there was no specific issue in the relationship.She continued:I am in a predicament because if I leave I’m not working and I know he won’t pay child support or help. I am calling out to ask people what I should do.It’s really hard, there’s no love there anymore and I don’t want to have sex with him anymore.

I think he thinks I am still into him – he’s not really getting the signs.I know he has said if ever we were to split he wouldn’t pay child support because he reckons I am nothing without him.Radio host, Jackie O also revealed that the woman had said off air that she “winces” when her husband touches her.

Yes, that’s right. Everything about him just freaks me out but I can’t just say ‘go away it’s over’ because I know he won’t financially support us anymore, the woman said.Four callers were then asked for their opinions on the controversial situation. The first caller was a little blown away by what she was hearing. AJ, a single mum, said: “How can you say that you don’t love this guy and he disgusts you but you will stay with him for child support? We live in Australia, you get so much support here, there are so many opportunities. I am a single mum and my toddler is only 10 months and I make it work. You can’t live with someone who disgusts you, that’s a bit extreme.

There’s a million ways you could make it work, trust me. In the long run, what kind of example would you be setting?”Another woman, Belinda, suggested the woman get out of her “terrible” relationship as soon as possible. Belinda said: “He has to pay child support by law. At the end of the day you are not going to be destitute. I am a single mum and it is extremely hard however all you need is to know where they work and child support will do the rest of the work for you.”One caller, Sam, said she had been in a very similar situation. She said: “I actually learned the pillow thing from someone that I was studying with. I actually have the utmost respect for you for being so honest on a radio show.

I was unhappy and I actually communicated that and it did get to the stage where I was sleeping on the lounge.”I had two young girls, I went to TAFE and I got a HSC and I applied for a university. Don’t stay, it will set a bad example for your children. Go for it.”At the end of the segment, it was revealed that 90 per cent of the show’s listeners believed the woman should leave her husband. The woman concluded: “I think I will [leave] it is just a matter of when and how. But I will get there. I’ll get out there as soon as possible.”
http://newsnow.com.ng/mother-two-admits-finds-husband-unattractive-cant-sex/

Why marry him when you are unattracted to him, I can't marry a person am unattracted to, no matter the amount of money.

Wedding by proxy

Chikita66:
Why marry him when you are unattracted to him, I can't marry a person am unattracted to, no matter the amount of money.

She's just said the truth


You see, I tasted the truth, but was bitter


BTW, Are you the "in loco parentis" on your P/text

Have you forgotten leah sharibu?!
If you have

Shame on you.

hadjipapiey:




She's just said the truth


You see, I tasted the truth, but was bitter


BTW, Are you the "in loco parentis" on your P/text

In loco parentis is a slogan used by professional teachers.

Chikita66:
In loco parentis is a slogan used by professional teachers.

My dear save the schooling

You may either someone's In loco parentis or otherwise

That's my question

Franzinni:
Have you forgotten leah sharibu?!
If you have

Shame on you.

What is a Leah sharibu? Na motor?

Hahaha maybe six packs have given way for potbelly and he has suddenly become unattractive.

Well everything can fail a man and he'll still stand strong but once his pocket fails him, he'll be completely finished.

forreelinc:

What is a Leah sharibu? Na motor?

you are not even worth it... FOH

if she is staying only due to financial support, then she should STFU and be miserable in silence.

Franzinni:
Have you forgotten leah sharibu?!
If you have

Shame on you.

Dude go and blackmail that Duara man that passes blames on Nigerians

Stop throwing cheap blackmail at people of you really want to be heard write an open letter to the government.. The thing you're doing here doesn't go above 2mb

Do it the right way and stop shaming people over who 90%here don't even know

Franzinni:
you are not even worth it... FOH

Na wa o person no fit ask question again

forreelinc:

Na wa o person no fit ask question again

sorry bro was on edge... In retrospect. I responded rather inappropriately...

If you didnt know who she is for real, please kindly do a Google search... For full details but in short she was not released by boko haram because she would not denounce Christianity

Once again sorry for my reaction, too many mofoka out here and can't tell who is for real or who is taking a piss.

Turn off the lights, close your eyes, encourage him to smell nice. A nice smelling man can turn you from ugly to attractive in 2 seconds. It’s all in the mind. There’s no going back now, you’re married and stuck with him forever. Work with what you have.

Dasherz:

Dude go and blackmail that Duara man that passes blames on Nigerians

Stop throwing cheap blackmail at people of you really want to be heard write an open letter to the government.. The thing you're doing here doesn't go above 2mb

Do it the right way and stop shaming people over who 90%here don't even know

it is an utter shame that a write up like this is coming from a "female" do you really let those words pass through the reasoning part of your brain? Did you take time to process it before you decided to comment and show your self freely? Blackmail? Can you even fathom the meaning of blackmail? I guess you have used those words so much in your gossip center that the true meaning eludes you... Miss, I am using this as a medium to keep her memory alive and you call blackmail? And you are a woman? And you might have children of your own or pray to have them... May you never go through what that angel called leah's mum is going through.... Imagine her mother is reading your Coment you think she will smile at your insensitivity? ... Anyway let me continue reminding people who care.. Stay blessed

Saff:
Turn off the lights, close your eyes, encourage him to smell nice. A nice smelling man can turn you from ugly to attractive in 2 seconds. It’s all in the mind. There’s no going back now, you’re married and stuck with him forever. Work with what you have.

make the guy just dey hammer the area jaree

Chikita66:
Why marry him when you are unattracted to him, I can't marry a person am unattracted to, no matter the amount of money.

Try read next time...she was in love initially & was attracted to him but according to her, d love just went dead & she no longer found him attractive...

The man is unattractive but is money is attractive... This woman must be high on boiled sperm

Franzinni:
it is an utter shame that a write up like this is coming from a "female" do you really let those words pass through the reasoning part of your brain? Did you take time to process it before you decided to comment and show your self freely? Blackmail? Can you even fathom the meaning of blackmail? I guess you have used those words so much in your gossip center that the true meaning eludes you... Miss, I am using this as a medium to keep her memory alive and you call blackmail? And you are a woman? And you might have children of your own or pray to have them... May you never go through what that angel called leah's mum is going through.... Imagine her mother is reading your Coment you think she will smile at your insensitivity? ... Anyway let me continue reminding people who care.. Stay blessed

Well in the end... Your medium of keeping her memory alive is not this... Get it in the government's face so they can work at preventing this from ever happening again... You're keeping her memory alive by posting "shame on you" seriously? How thoughtful!!!...

Am not being insensitive here just being realistic if you want to pass a message don't be rude about it... Do it right not going about posting shame on you... And for her mum I pray she finds solace and the fortitude to bear the great loss...

Have a nice night mister

Dasherz:

Well in the end... Your medium of keeping her memory alive is not this... Get it in the government's face so they can work at preventing this from ever happening again... You're keeping her memory alive by posting "shame on you" seriously? How thoughtful!!!...

Am not being insensitive here just being realistic if you want to pass a message don't be rude about it... Do it right not going about posting shame on you... And for her mum I pray she finds solace and the fortitude to bear the great loss...

Have a nice night mister

honestly I get your point of view and your message is clear.... But you need to understand that we are the people who make the government what they are,and if I can do something.... Anything to wake the people from this trance of complicity and nonchalance shouldn't I try? I guess you should too...

Forgive me if my writing " shame on you " was offensive but it was targeted at those who has taken that girls story and swept it under the carpet... In a sane society people like that will be celebrated... and even monuments parks and all will be named after them for thier bravery and resilience in the face of adversity... GOD know I might just barely count the number of Nigerians who can be brave like her and people like that have now been mentally defeated to the point that they are afraid to rise up and speak....

I think we all need to play our part no matter how small... We all owe it to that little girl most especially if you are Christian.

The government doesn't care about the people... It has never cared, look back to the birth of Nigeria and you will see and so until the people wake up, we will all keep dwelling in bondage...

Bbn is allover the place and celebrities and politicians alike are reacting like chemicals up and down...

This lit the fire in me to remind us all to not forget a little girl is somewhere. Probably weeping and her family is also somewhere missing her.. I hope with this I have justfies my reason for the rude statement earlier... It was a drastic but necessary one.. Thank you and I hope you will remind someone... Anyone that leah is still captive for the love of the Almighty God. Good night madam and God bless Nigeria

Dasherz:

Well in the end... Your medium of keeping her memory alive is not this... Get it in the government's face so they can work at preventing this from ever happening again... You're keeping her memory alive by posting "shame on you" seriously? How thoughtful!!!...

Am not being insensitive here just being realistic if you want to pass a message don't be rude about it... Do it right not going about posting shame on you... And for her mum I pray she finds solace and the fortitude to bear the great loss...

Dasherz
Have a nice night mister

Hello Dasherz

ABJDOT:
Hello Dasherz

hello .. good day

Dasherz:
hello .. good day

Thank you, please i will like to have a private discussion with you, call me on this number

ABJDOT:
Thank you, please i will like to have a private discussion with you, call me on this number 09069659579

Please send me a message via Udiapromise@outlook.com.. I'll reply you there

Dasherz:


Please send me a message via Udiapromise@outlook.com.. I'll reply you there

Okay I will, thank you.