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jessca048:
haba what can N500 do.money I will just spend in a twinkle of an eye

prechbills1:
not applicable to Nigeria...

jessca048:
common shift with that poverty mentality away from me. did I tell you am looking for marriage. mind yourself

chris31:
Lol
Wake up & stop deceiving urself
Some of ur colleagues that said this before are now sleeping in the ministry

folake4u:
If you give me N500 to cook soup, I'll use it to buy cold Hollandia yoghurt and drink .

ImaIma1:
Okro. 100
Pepper 50
Round fish 200
Ugu 50
Palm oil 100

EphraimRoyal98:
kerosene nko?

Saff:
look at them. Sex sex sex. Cosume your life with more productive things

Cupie22:
Even though she has bad character like cee c?

loverboys:
What do men want in a long-term partner? I am sure you have some idea but I am about to clarify what men seek in a potential wife...

1. Dependability

Men want a woman who is faithful, reliable and trustworthy. They are looking for a loyal mate who will have their back and not stray elsewhere. Men need a good reason to commit to women, especially given the life-cycle of most marriages these days so it's no wonder that being a dependable partner is highly revered by men.

2. Emotionally stable

Men who a ready to settle down want a partner who has a high level of emotional intelligence. Physical attraction is only part of it and not as important to men as you may think. Men will only make a safe investment in a woman who is grounded and who will not make their life more difficult or potentially threaten their freedom.

3. Intelligence

This next factor is really important and highly undervalued. Guys want to be able to connect on an intellectual level to a woman. They adore women who have something between their ears and a high level of education to back it up.

4. Happy Demeanour

Guys love women who are happy within themselves. To men these women are a joy to be around. Playful women are irresistible women. There is something mesmerizing about a woman's playful nature - so be happy!

5. Sociable

Men want to cohabit with a woman who makes friends easily and can converse with their friends and family. Men think about this because they want to be able to socialise with a woman in the future. Going out and engaging with others is highly valued by men and you need to be comfortable at fitting in and interacting with new people.

6. Being Healthy

Men subconsciously assess how healthy you are when they meet you, this is a mark of your ability to be fertile in the future. Your skin, vibrancy, body disposition and energy levels are all factors men assess you on without even realizing it. However, what they will also take into consideration when dating you is how active you are and how much effort you put into staying healthy and looking good. A man will want to know if you are going to look after your body as he wants to be attracted to you now and in the future. So make sure you look after your self-image.

See source for more

Farmerforlife:
Patience and Contentment: As a sage once said, patience is not just the act of accepting whatever fate throws at you, it is the attitude you maintain while doing so. There is nothing comparable to a woman who is truly content no matter her circumstance, and truly patient in hard times. Such women are those referred to when it is said; "behind every successful man, there is a woman". Women who constantly gripe about how they have never been to Dubai mall since they married you, and how they only ate chicken lap in their father's house never give their husband the mental harmony he needs to develop his life. The griping may not even be overt; for example, she may just show it in her expression; like the repressed disgust on her face when her husband gives her money that is 'never sufficient' even while she is thanking him, or the envious gleam in her eye when she sees another woman in a Range Rover sport, and of course, the man will notice this, even though he may keep silent, and start plotting his escape strategy. Note that this is not a trait that can ever be hidden, nor can it be learned later; she either has it from birth, or she doesn't.

Good manners: Women who suddenly lose their self respect and become sharp tongued at the drop of a hat grow stale very quickly. They sorely tempt their husbands to make them lose their own self respect and become wife-beaters. In order not to become a wife beater, a man would always prefer to marry a woman with exemplary manners.


Logical reasoning: men are creatures of logic and reason. If they make decisions on behalf of the family, they want you to either oppose it logically the way they thought it through before telling you, or to keep silent and accept it. Conversely, women usually are emotional creatures; 'I just don't like it' is enough justification in most women's opinion. A man would be wise to keep a woman who helps him fulfill the status of two reasoning heads being better than one.

yemi15:
Bros, how many of our women dey use logical reasoning for issues? Na emotions na our women dey use do things bros. We gas manage them like that.