₦airaland Forum

Cadec007:
@OP Like the lady above me said...don't flaunt ur wealth try to gain trust 1st!

Thank you for your response and your concern. I would like to believe that I live a very modest life compared to my status. I was just answering the question about money stating that whatever is needed for the woman I choose to marry would not be an issue.

annie74:
@OP. I guess this post is about you so here's my response

1)Sure! As long as you are responsible, presentable and have good intentions towards her.

2) Since you want children, it is advisable you go for someone below the age of 30. Severe birth complications are more common with older mothers. However, with proper medical care, it shouldn't be too much of a problem.

3) 25-32

4) It all depends on the type of family she's from. There are families who won't accept a man from other ethnic groups in Nigeria talk more of someone that's not a Nigerian. There are also others who don't care about ethnic group, nationality etc.

Finally OP, never ever flaunt your wealth. It will attract the wrong set of people.
I pray you find a good woman.

Thank you

avled:
A successful Jamaican born United States citizen minister and entrepreneur male who has been living in the United States for 30 years of his life desires to relocate to Nigeria. This Jamaican man wants to start a family and raise them in Nigeria. He is 41 years old, never been married, and has no children. However, he would like a female who could obviously love him and build a life with him, but also give him children without risk. Here are the questions?
1. Would a Nigerian woman even consider marrying this man?
2. What is the safest age for him to consider in a wife?
3. What are the youngest age for him to consider and the maximum age for him to consider?
4. Would a mother and father bless an union with their daughter to this man?

Please, keep it professional. I really appreciate the honest feedback. Always trying to learn and understand the culture!

Hi there, let me chip in something for you.


1. Nigerian women are adventurous and always very faithful if treated well. Yes, loads and loads of our women will jump on your oyinbo ass. They are not cheap but they like cheap thrills. The way you speak alone will attract a horde of women that you won't know what to do with.

2. 27 - 32 years old women: Nigerian women give birth well into their late thirties.

3. 25 - 33-year-olds

4. Without any hesitation but there might be slight resistance at first. All you need do is to prove yourself. Invite your prospective father-in-law to your office and show him around. We are practical people and once we know that our daughters will not suffer, we gladly pour our blessings out.

avled:
The answer is simply for this one. God told me to go to Nigeria! I accepted the assignment. After that, I researched the country and extremely fell in love with the country.

R u a missionary?

avled:
Thank you for your response and your concern. I would like to believe that I live a very modest life compared to my status. I was just answering the question about money stating that whatever is needed for the woman I choose to marry would not be an issue.

you are welcome bro! No problem.

It's amazing to know that people are trying to relocate to this my country Nigeria, when I'm looking for means to run out of it. Chai bro can we just exchange Like come to Nigeria, (I get wife for u free sef) let me go over there to the states..

avled:
Thank you

You're welcome.

Noloss:
R u a missionary?

No I am a Bishop

Zinny25:
It's amazing to know that people are trying to relocate to this my country Nigeria, when I'm looking for means to run out of it. Chai bro can we just exchange Like come to Nigeria, (I get wife for u free sef) let me go over there to the states..

Why are you amazed? Stop believing the hype that westerners are trying to sell you about America? Love your country. America is no different than your country. Whatever problems you think you are escaping in Nigeria, you will face right here in America and probably even harsher. It's not location that will change your life, its your mindset. The only thing that I can say about America that helps to make this country a great nation is the fact that her citizens are patriotic.

pa·tri·ot·ic
ˌpātrēˈädik/Submit
adjective
having or expressing devotion to and vigorous support for one's country.

When one becomes patriotic to their country, then they invest in themselves which in turns adds to the value of their country. This can only lead to surplus in their private and public lives. Stop trying to escape Nigeria and become patriotic towards Nigeria.

Just my thoughts!

KOPT33:
Hi there, let me chip in something for you.


1. Nigerian women are adventurous and always very faithful if treated well. Yes, loads and loads of our women will jump on your oyinbo ass. They are not cheap but they like cheap thrills. The way you speak alone will attract a horde of women that you won't know what to do with.

2. 27 - 32 years old women: Nigerian women give birth well into their late thirties.

3. 25 - 33-year-olds

4. Without any hesitation but there might be slight resistance at first. All you need do is to prove yourself. Invite your prospective father-in-law to your office and show him around. We are practical people and once we know that our daughters will not suffer, we gladly pour our blessings out.

Very well argued. Thanks for this contribution.

avled:
No I am a Bishop

Wao, may GOD guide and prosper your way. Some of the advice given is necessary. All the best.

Noloss:
Wao, may GOD guide and prosper your way. Some of the advice given is necessary. All the best.

Thank you. I am truly excited to come to Nigeria. God has equipped me to speak and empower the emerging population for their best life yet. Hopefully when I come there, I might see you at one of my LIVE EVENTS!