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ADVICE on the real life scenario.
I have this lady I met in my neighborhood, she's pretty and cool headed. She was in a relationship when I met her, I wooed her and she agreed to be mine.

During the time I was asking her out, she told me she was a virgin, only for her to tell me after a week later that her boo pressured her and she gave it willingly, I smiled and didnt say anything.

My time, she agreed to be mine and told the other boo, she's no longer interested. Her reasons were, the boo's mother is saucy and do rain curses on her children (all her children are grown-ups). she dreamt and her pastor told her the boo got a short life span, when I asked why she chose me over the other boo.

She has been loving and a bit caring. we do have sex, at least two times in a week without protection ( i dey comot penis when i notice say sperm one come). after two months, I dont bother myself; I will release freely in her pussy, this I did for over a month, and nothing happened: she was not pregnant.

So, I called her one day and had heart to heart talk,
me: bae, wassup ?
babe: fine
me: do you use morning pills after sex with me?
babe: no, why do you ask?
me: because I have release in you times without number But it didnt turn to preg
babe: so you want me to get preg?
me: answer the question.

she later told me her she noticed it and even her former boo had released in her before.
that she knows when she settles down, God who has been keeping her alive will make way for her. less I forget, she is an SS.

what am i expected to do, I love her and a matter of fact, I was thinking of settling down with her, but Now I am confused

thank you dearest nairaland for your candid advice in anticipation

Love they say is blind, why not go see a gynaecologist to help you, from there you may decide you fate.

continue until u get hiv, do you know how many people that release inside her just like you do. if u want her to get pregnant for you marry her simple.

I wish you STD for diz fornication, guy Zip up!

Very childish post

Stop deceiving yourself with "LOVE"

No man will be happy to marry a barren woman

This isn't about love, just be truthful and honest with yourself.

sinaj:
Very childish post

How?

donstan18:
How?

go thru d 2nd,3rd,4th,5th nd 6th paragraph again.

donstan18:
Stop deceiving yourself with "LOVE"

No man will be happy to marry a barren woman

This isn't about love, just be truthful and honest with yourself.

nd how is she barren

Smh!

sinaj:
nd how is she barren
Smh!

I never called her girlfriend a barren woman, I never did
I only said no man will be happy to marry a barren woman.

chia see as you dey test run person pickin.Na God go judge you

sinaj:
go thru d 2nd,3rd,4th,5th nd 6th paragraph again.

I'v gone through those, but didn't spot any childish shii there.

The only flaw I spotted was that he chyked a woman in a relationship, which is bad. Nothing else.


Now tell, what's childish there? Is it the fact that he fvcked her raw

donstan18:
I never called her girlfriend a barren woman, I never did

I only said no man will be happy to marry a barren woman.

o! Okay
My bad

sinaj:
Very childish post

Smile, it maybe childish to you. One man smiles is another man's worry.

SUPERPACK:
continue until u get hiv, do you know how many people that release inside her just like you do. if u want her to get pregnant for you marry her simple.

Somebody is complaining that his girlfriend is yet to get pregnant after series of unprotected sex and you're saying he should marry her before she gets pregnant.

How does that sound to you?
Will it be a different dick or pussy after wedding?

How about those that are married and are yet to have a baby?

My point is getting pregnant has nothing to do with being married or single.

ladiesreject:
Somebody is complaining that his girlfriend is yet to get pregnant after series of unprotected sex and you're saying he should marry her before she gets pregnant.

How does that sound to you?
Will it be a different dick or pussy after wedding?

How about those that are married and are yet to have a baby?

My point is getting pregnant has nothing to do with being married or single.

do you think the girl is a fool, where is it written that the passport to marriage is pregnancy, all baby mama you see today were they not promised pregnancy before marriage, if she were to be your sister will you accept such terms and condition, knowing fully well that their was no witness when they made the agreement.

thank you all for your contribution

Unique0001:
thank you all for your contribution

Why not do her a favour by taking her to a gynae for test on her reproductive organ, you might end up rendering an invaluable assistance to her even if you ended up not marrying her.
Of course, you wouldnt marry her but pls help her if you have the means, she might not be able to afford the cost.
Not to forget that you are having unprotected sex even when you are unmarried, I want to believe that even if she had got pregnant, this same you will still say you arent ready to be a father yet. Confused set of people.

ask her to tell you about her parents and what her parents have told her. there maybe something she knows that will help stay or leave.

Unique0001:
Smile, it maybe childish to you. One man smiles is another man's worry.

I think there is an issue here...

A lady who is below 30 years of age should get pregnant if she has constant unprotected sex

The fact that she is an SS even makes it more complicated

Are you ready to bear the financial burden involved?