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Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
imagine if humans has every physical attributes besides the desires of coital wants... will there be need to romantically love someone and want to be in a relationship?


huh

it seems no matter how we look at it romantic love is physical, mental and is infact sexual attraction. please let's stop deceiving ourselves. when u see or meet a lady or a guy and having spent time with them... u begin to feel butterflies.... know it today!!! what u feel is love because u want to fùck!!!

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:27pm On Apr 29, 2018
Lol!
That boy is so hilarious!
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Jamie90(m): 3:28pm On Apr 29, 2018
Before we fall in love, we must first be sexually attracted to our partners.

Before we decide to woo a lady, we must had already fuccked her a our skewed mind.

This is the raw truth

Without sexual attraction, love isn't complete.

Argue with your hypocritical ancestors

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by izzou(m): 3:28pm On Apr 29, 2018
blackpanthar:
you must have been DEPRIVED of lots of healthy care as a child.

When the butterflies are dead, or the body can not respond to sex anymore.... what keeps our aged grannies together or our parents....

LOVE IS NOT ABOUT SEX... but you must be damaged psychologically to expect every LOVE to contain SEX.

pls get necessary HELP.



You said it all

I wonder how the future generation will be like, if we almost nothing left to hold on to in our time

Just look at his shallow thinking.

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by MJBOLT: 3:32pm On Apr 29, 2018
undecided

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Headlesschicken(m): 3:33pm On Apr 29, 2018
undecided D boy obviously didn't suck bwest when he was born..
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Apr 29, 2018
blackpanthar:
you must have been DEPRIVED of lots of healthy care as a child.

When the butterflies are dead, or the body can not respond to sex anymore.... what keeps our aged grannies together or our parents....

LOVE IS NOT ABOUT SEX... but you must be damaged psychologically to expect every LOVE to contain SEX.

pls get necessary HELP.


what keeps parents together after all has settled and old age sets in are the marital vows and promise of being together forever ... even @ that some cannot cope... that's y divorce is prevalent

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by mhisbliss(f): 3:48pm On Apr 29, 2018
It depends on the type of love, but ya i love without getting sexually attracted to someone

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by tetula123(m): 3:50pm On Apr 29, 2018
yeah. that's so so possible
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Apr 29, 2018
Jamie90:
Before we fall in love, we must first be sexually attracted to our partners.

Before we decide to woo a lady, we must had already fuccked her a our skewed mind.

This is the raw truth

Without sexual attraction, love isn't complete.

Argue with your hypocritical ancestors
u are wise bro
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 29, 2018
blackpanthar:
lol am ashamed u even know that.

GOD is LOVE abi? so he is also a fvcker..... because according to your MALADY... LOVE must contain sex.

Am ashamed of you as an intellectual human

l made mention of romantic love Mr papa Ajasco
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Apr 29, 2018



Can You Hug Your Crush Without Your Prick trying To Tear Your Trouser?


Can You Hold Your Girl Close and Kiss her In A Quiet Room without Your Prick Singing "Freedom" by Beyonce?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting To Grab Her Ass?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting to Kiss Her?


Can You Kiss Her Without Wanting More?

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by BabaRamota1980: 3:57pm On Apr 29, 2018
blackpanthar:
you must have been DEPRIVED of lots of healthy care as a child.

When the butterflies are dead, or the body can not respond to sex anymore.... what keeps our aged grannies together or our parents....

LOVE IS NOT ABOUT SEX... but you must be damaged psychologically to expect every LOVE to contain SEX.

pls get necessary HELP.



His question has validity but need some polishing. This question will apply to women and as well people within certain age bracket.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Preshy561(f): 3:57pm On Apr 29, 2018
how can i date someone im not sexually attracted to?so what happens if it eventually ends in marriage.shocked

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Apr 29, 2018
DeadRat:



Can You Hug Your Crush Without Your Prick trying To Tear Your Trouser?


Can You Hold Your Girl Close and Kiss her In A Quiet Room without Your Prick Singing "Freedom" by Beyonce?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting To Grab Her Ass?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting to Kiss Her?


Can You Kiss Her Without Wanting More?



lol
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Apr 29, 2018
what this means is... when there is romantic love between two persons and they consent to aving a relationship it translates into meaning that they are sexually attracted to each other... and this is a key factor to so many marriages... l do not have a record of anyone who chose to kickstart a relationship or make a choice wedding partner based on Agape love or friendship love... what this mean is that if u take away the sex in a romantic relationship, people might not want to be in a relationship. on that note romantic love is the only relationship factor that has the long term capacity to lead both persons on deciding to marry and live together forever.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by sirgalahad26(m): 4:46pm On Apr 29, 2018
DeadRat:



Can You Hug Your Crush Without Your Prick trying To Tear Your Trouser?


Can You Hold Your Girl Close and Kiss her In A Quiet Room without Your Prick Singing "Freedom" by Beyonce?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting To Grab Her Ass?


Can You Love Her Without Wanting to Kiss Her?


Can You Kiss Her Without Wanting More?



bad guy! sha no corrupt person!
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by ibkonekt(m): 4:47pm On Apr 29, 2018
Its possible
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:11pm On Apr 29, 2018
Call it whatever you like, but I honestly can't love a man if I can't imagine being intimate with him.


But at the end of the day, restraint and a sense of self-worth is what sets the pace.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by austyn0(m): 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
Jamie90:
Before we fall in love, we must first be sexually attracted to our partners.

Before we decide to woo a lady, we must had already fuccked her a our skewed mind.

This is the raw truth

Without sexual attraction, love isn't complete.

Argue with your hypocritical ancestors
Yea, I'm gonna argue with my hypocritical ancestors and they are gonna strike me down if I loose you free of this ginormous lie and fallacy you just put up here.....

You apparently know nought of what the word "LOVE" entails, if you do, you would know that a girl's happiness comes first before sex if you truly love her,, if she wants to abstain till you put a ring on her finger, LOVE IS PATIENT.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by CarlosTheJackal: 9:37pm On Apr 29, 2018
PrimadonnaO:
Call it whatever you like, but I honestly can't love a man if I can't imagine f*cking him.


But at the end of the day, restraint and a sense of self-worth is what sets the pace.
This one Don spoil finish #lol.


Everything is about sex today.

i read your story about the new apartment and the dolt. i just felt like putting a bullet in that dolt head
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:49pm On Apr 29, 2018
CarlosTheJackal:
This one Don spoil finish #lol.


Everything is about sex today.

i read your story about the new apartment and the dolt. i just felt like putting a bullet in that dolt head


I'm a very good girl o. grin. Everything isn't about sex. But if I'm going to be romantically involved...and marrying a man, I definitely have to be sexually attracted to him amongst other things (not in exclusion of everything else).

That was a horrible experience. God was kind to me. He didn't allow the irreversible happen. I'm thankful. smiley
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by CarlosTheJackal: 12:15am On Apr 30, 2018
PrimadonnaO:



I'm a very good girl o. grin. Everything isn't about sex. But if I'm going to be romantically involved...and marrying a man, I definitely have to be sexually attracted to him amongst other things (not in exclusion of everything else).

That was a horrible experience. God was kind to me. He didn't allow the irreversible happen. I'm thankful. smiley
You are correct. Emotional and sexual feelings had to be there before saying I DO.


To your second paragraph, i had cause to harbour a friend i met once. She came to see her friend and the lady in question wasn't around so she was stranded. She gave me a call and i went to pick her. I made sure we sat in the sitting room and talk about different things because i needed to make sure her story adds up and also to know if she is afang soup or bitter leaf soup. when i found out she was just egusi soup i went inside and made the bed for her asking her to come lie down. I slept on the rug while asking her to sleep on the bed. She refused and asked me to climb the bed. i obliged her and i slept without crossing the line.
my joy was that when morning came this girl hugged me and told me Thank You because she never expected me to be a gentleman that at first she didn't sleep but she had to snore off when she found out i was harmless.

In essence not every guy is a jerk. It's disgusting for me sleeping with someone i don't have feelings for

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by uwa1(m): 7:34am On Apr 30, 2018
Op can u see a plate of delicious meal without the desire to consume it...
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Lalas247(f): 7:37am On Apr 30, 2018
Kolewerk ..... if we talking about dating then Issa no no

No beard no love

Shalom .. grin
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:08am On Apr 30, 2018
CarlosTheJackal:
You are correct. Emotional and sexual feelings had to be there before saying I DO.


To your second paragraph, i had cause to harbour a friend i met once. She came to see her friend and the lady in question wasn't around so she was stranded. She gave me a call and i went to pick her. I made sure we sat in the sitting room and talk about different things because i needed to make sure her story adds up and also to know if she is afang soup or bitter leaf soup. when i found out she was just egusi soup i went inside and made the bed for her asking her to come lie down. I slept on the rug while asking her to sleep on the bed. She refused and asked me to climb the bed. i obliged her and i slept without crossing the line.
my joy was that when morning came this girl hugged me and told me Thank You because she never expected me to be a gentleman that at first she didn't sleep but she had to snore off when she found out i was harmless.

In essence not every guy is a jerk. It's disgusting for me sleeping with someone i don't have feelings for



Fortunately, my perception of men wasn't damaged. Perhaps, I've become a little weary of them and less trusting, but not damaged. In the weeks that followed after the incidence, I'd look at an innocent young man on the street and conclude that he's probably a rapist. Lol.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by CarlosTheJackal: 9:28am On Apr 30, 2018
PrimadonnaO:
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Fortunately, my perception of men wasn't damaged. Perhaps, I've become a little weary of them and less trusting, but not damaged. In the weeks that followed after the incidence, I'd look at an innocent young man on the street and conclude that he's probably a rapist. Lol.
I hope you don't see me as such. #lol. Being careful is cool.

Good morning and how was your night?



Happy new week
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:31am On Apr 30, 2018
CarlosTheJackal:
I hope you don't see me as such. #lol. Being careful is cool.

Good morning and how was your night?



Happy new week

For now, I'm only wondering why you're a jackal.

Good morning. I slept well. A happy new week to you. It's going to be a very long one for me.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 30, 2018
Yes! I love my family members
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Being Sexually Attracted To Them? by CarlosTheJackal: 9:46am On Apr 30, 2018
PrimadonnaO:


For now, I'm only wondering why you're a jackal.

Good morning. I slept well. A happy new week to you. It's going to be a very long one for me.
google that name Carlos the jackal and u will be surprised of his exploits. I love history so my moniker always goes with people that became popular through good or bad things.


Tomorrow is public holiday so your week has been cut short. Remember there is no amount of stress you will put yourself through that the company will give you a raise the next day #Lol

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