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Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Trippledee(m): 9:14pm On Apr 29, 2018
Some men deserve to be stoned to death
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by shaybebaby(f): 9:15pm On Apr 29, 2018
pocohantas:
Honestly, if I talk as e dey for my mind...hmmm!

Yes, she has to keep her home.
The husband is the crown of the woman.
Crown that should be melted down into earrings in cases like this.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by SAMBARRY: 9:16pm On Apr 29, 2018
TEYA:
Thanks for the answer. I knew you were speaking from experience. Too bad your dad was a bad influence.
see how this weakling and sorry excuse of a man is jumping into conclusion.Do you think at all? Are you capable of reasoning? Or is your phenese the only functional part of your body
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 29, 2018
Telling the whole world about it won't solve the problem but living in the same roof with that beast of a husband is a bad idea.

Report that man to the authorities, let him face the consequences of his action and also to save a potential prey.

I so get mad at Nigerians who always advise people to leave things to God as if God instructed the beast to rape an innocent girl. angry
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by TEYA: 9:19pm On Apr 29, 2018
SAMBARRY:
see how this weakling and sorry excuse of a man is jumping into conclusion.Do you think at all? Are you capable of reasoning? Or is your phenese the only functional part of your body
Lol you are the one I see as a sorry excuse of a human being! If you had no bad experience of an older male relative raping little girls while you were growing up you will not be pushed to generalise.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by etrange: 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
Hhmm... I pity the female gender in Africa.

Before you criticise these women, kindly note that they are only evidences of a messed up society. A society where men are faultless and marriage is a do or die affair. Ladies get married out of societal pressure. A single lady is almost worthless. Regardless of what Linda Ikeji, Rita Dominic or Genevieve Nnaji achieves today, you'll still see nairalanders calling them out for not being married; even our supposedly educated younger generation. Why won't they take any shit to save their marriage when they eventually get married? If the lady in question leaves the marriage, we'll still call her out for being a divorcee and not being able to keep a home. It's always the lady. How many of us here would marry a divorcee or a spinster?

The men here may not understand this. The unmarried ladies here may not. Only a few actually knows what a woman passes through to keep a home and many here would do the same if found in such position. Nobody wants to be an object of mockery; no thanks to our messed up society.

Bottom line is, we're all the forces behind the terrible advices above. Always look at the mirror and talk to the person there in.

Say no to #WhenWillSheGetMarried!!!
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by shaybebaby(f): 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
Olulinks:
The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?
You are very mad and should be hung by the balls for this foolish utterance of yours.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by shaybebaby(f): 9:20pm On Apr 29, 2018
Gaddafiyusf:
Very complex situation. What if the little girl made the move. People will say why the man can't exhibit self-control. It's difficult
Paedo alert!
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 29, 2018
You'd think the fools are referring to one demigod. Cover his unclothedness indeed angry
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by shaybebaby(f): 9:22pm On Apr 29, 2018
walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All
He is the animal and should be exposed and ostracised.

Jail is exactly where he belongs as he is not fit to be let loose in the society.

The fvck is wrong with you?
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2018
walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All
You are actually the ignorant mofo.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Daeylar(f): 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2018
I hope nairaland is not corrupting me? grin

I cannot get angry at these kind of posts this night. I just laughed.
All is not well with you guys.
But I'm not surprised. People like you abound in this forum.
Even if you guys are trolling. It's in poor taste and very disturbing.

One of you even posted God will judge you, grin LMAO
Like I said. All is not right.

Gaddafiyusf:
Very complex situation. What if the little girl made the move. People will say why the man can't exhibit self-control. It's difficult
walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All
Olulinks:
The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by June2: 9:24pm On Apr 29, 2018
Woman, please don't beat that girl, treat her, pet her n take her back to her mom. But the cow of a husband you married take him to church for deliverance n forgive him but if he refuses to go to church then threaten to report him to the authority.You need God more than ever now
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:25pm On Apr 29, 2018
Olulinks:
The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?
What nonsense is this comments like this make me puke.You need mental evaluation.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by SAMBARRY: 9:25pm On Apr 29, 2018
walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All
if you know it will lead to ridicule and embarrassment why rape a child in the first PLACE? Is the phenese that hard to control? A child's mental health and psychology is messed up because OF an adult that has no control of his phenese.if you don't want to be ridiculed don't do shameful,wicked and disgusting things.

The way you sound it seems you really don't know that rape is bad.it is evil,ungodly,wicked unchristlike,animalistic to rape anybody talk more of a child.rape means forcing your pjenese into a vagyna that is still growing.maybe I need to splash vaginal pictures of children that have been raped so you will understand the severity and beastly act.

Hope you have been educated.maybe your mom,pastors or imams didn't tell you rape is brutish.I am educating you now.it is one of the most heartless things an adult can do to a child

If you say she should send her back to her parents what about her sanity,education,future,body,her marriage in future,child pregnancy.those are the consequences of raping a child.if you Cannot control your penis you need to see a therapist
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2018
June2:
Woman, please don't beat that girl, treat her, pet her n take her back to her mom. But the cow of a husband you married take him to church for deliverance n forgive him but if he refuses to go to church then threaten to report him to the authority.You need God more than ever now
Deliverance from what exactly? The devil goes to church OK... Sit in the front row every Sunday sef.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by DrMuzungu(m): 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2018
I swear to god, if he claims the devil made him do it, I would also claim the devil made me smash his balls to pulp with a hammer. For fvcks sake, what attracts a man to one 11 years old (or even younger?! That certainly isn't a man but just an ordinary piece of $hit. To the lady who posted her concerns and seeks advice... if you have any personal friend in the police, SARS, army... anyone wearing uniform and carrying a gun, ask for their assistance... they will know how to handle the ba$tard appropriately.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by pocohantas(f): 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2018
June2:
Woman, please don't beat that girl, treat her, pet her n take her back to her mom. But the cow of a husband you married take him to church for deliverance n forgive him but if he refuses to go to church then threaten to report him to the authority.You need God more than ever now
Please, stop mocking God.
What is God supposed to do? Tie his prick?
Of all the issues in the world, you want to take this nonsense to God?
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Quaco(m): 9:26pm On Apr 29, 2018
This is a very sensitive matter which should be handled with care. The man deserves to be brought to justice alright but it's prudent to remember the children (if any) and the wife will end up being casualities in this mess. The stigma they will get from society...children of a paedophile, wife of a paedophile. In my opinion this should be handled by the family and the man should be made to handsomely compensate his sister-in-law.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by mmsen:
I'll say it 1000 times, Nigerian women give and accept the absolute worst advice.

They listen to snake oil salesmen in the form of pastors and their half-wit "friends".
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Josay: 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2018
Cutehector:
Its only when you are married that you will understand why these women advise such....
I am married, bin married for 5years, and I don't understand why dey gave such evil as advise.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by DrMuzungu(m): 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Deliverance from what exactly? The devil goes to church OK... Sit in the front row every Sunday sef.
oh, by the way, I would happily deliver him...












... using red hot iron rod up his sorry a$$.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Daeylar(f): 9:28pm On Apr 29, 2018
You tried, cheesy but you're speaking to him as if you're speaking to someone who is sane. Which if he were, he wouldn't have written that trash in the first place.
Not to talk of being so shameless as to post it on a public forum.

Won't be surprised if he comes back to argue with you. grin

SAMBARRY:
if you know it will lead to ridicule and embarrassment why rape a child in the first PLACE? Is the phenese that hard to control? A child's mental health and psychology is messed up because if an adult that has no control of his phenese.if you don't want to be ridiculed don't do shameful,wicked and disgusting things.

The way you sound it seems you really don't know that rape is bad.it is evil,ungodly,wicked unchristlike,animalistic to rape anybody talk more of a child.rape means forcing your pjenese into a vagyna that is still growing.maybe I need to splash vaginal pictures of children that have been raped so you will understand the severity and beastly act.

Hope you have been educated.maybe your mom,pastors or imams didn't tell you rape is brutish.I am educating you now.it is one of the most heartless things an adult can do to a child
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:29pm On Apr 29, 2018
IsaAbubakar:
disadvantages of marrying to a wide possy because on a long run you'll be needing something tighter cheesy
What is this one saying?
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by JoannaSedley(f): 9:30pm On Apr 29, 2018
Olulinks:
The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?
Please do not quote to type this rubbish again? I didn't see any where you blamed the animal only to tell me that an 11 year old seduced him. What sort of warped mentality is that? If the poor girl is your sister this is what you will say as an elder brother? Is this how you will protect your younger siblings ? Instead of hounding for the animal to be thrown in jail you are blaming the innocent victim. God punish you and your likes...Imagine defending thus atrocity. God have mercy
Even if he did not deflower the girl what right has he to defile an immature young girl.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Daeylar(f): 9:31pm On Apr 29, 2018
Another one, people who all is not well with them grin
They are coming out from their hiding places grin
Handled by the family. Stigma?

ROTFLMAO,



Quaco:
This is a very sensitive matter which be handled with care. The man deserves to be brought to justice alright but it's prudent to remember the children (if any) and the wife will end up being casualities in this mess. The stigma they will get from society...children of a paedophile, wife of a paedophile. In my opinion this should be handled by the family and the man should be made to handsomely compensate his sister-in-law.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by SAMBARRY: 9:31pm On Apr 29, 2018
Daeylar:
You tried, cheesy but you're speaking to him as if you're speaking to someone who is sane. Which if he were, he wouldn't have written that trash in the first place.
Not to talk of being so shameless as to post it on a public forum.

Won't be surprised if he comes back to argue with you. grin
I am.expecting him.to.I have met several twisted,low down dirty and depraved men like him on nl so it's nothing new cheesy
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by jamesharryson(m): 9:31pm On Apr 29, 2018
JoannaSedley:
Women have downgraded to the lowest ebb in our society. What do you call a home? A house with a practicing pedophile in it....smh. Women are the enemies of themselves. I have never seen a more confused set of beings like women in my life.
A house filled with commited and about to be committed pedophilic crimes is what they are fighting for instead of tackling the monster head on. Instead of asking for the animal to be locked for defiling a small girl with an underdeveloped pelvis, his in law for that matter. My parents would have locked him up and my siblings will throw away the key after serious session of CIA styled waterboarding.

Imagine the advice.
Send her home like she is some piece of thrash, as if she is the one in the wrong, as if she is not the victim.
Keep a secret for a pedophile and continue living with him.
If this man can fvck his inlaw what do you think will happen to his daughters.
My dear, there is no advice better than the one given by the first two speakers who said he should protect her home, cover her husband and the little sister. It is the best thing to do. If you go the way you are saying, know that you are creating a bad name for your own family and children and also you ate keeping a stigma that may mar your little sister in the future. Remember that such gossips cannot be easily forgotten. My candid advice is for her to let go and bury the secrets. Pray for God's grace
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by SAMBARRY: 9:33pm On Apr 29, 2018
JoannaSedley:
Please do not quote to type this rubbish again? I didn't see any where you blamed the animal only to tell me that an 11 year old seduced him. What sort of warped mentality is that? If the poor girl is your sister this is what you will say as an elder brother? Is this how you will protect your younger siblings ? Instead of hounding for the animal to be thrown in jail you are blaming the innocent victim. God punish you and your likes...Imagine defending thus atrocity. God have mercy
Even if he did not deflower the girl what right has he to defile an immature young girl.
amennnnnnn


For every rapist,pro rapist,rape enabler,May these curses manifest in your lives till you learn
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by pocohantas(f): 9:34pm On Apr 29, 2018
Quaco:
This is a very sensitive matter which be handled with care. The man deserves to be brought to justice alright but it's prudent to remember the children (if any) and the wife will end up being casualities in this mess. The stigma they will get from society...children of a paedophile, wife of a paedophile. In my opinion this should be handled by the family and the man should be made to handsomely compensate his sister-in-law.
Compensate an 11yr old girl?
What compensation would you have asked for if it's your daughter?
Chai! Some of you are disgusting.
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by TroubleMaker47(m): 9:35pm On Apr 29, 2018
richG:
The man needs serious deliverance.
11years old. Your little sister in-law. What a world. No matter how much the family wants to keep this secret, nothing is hidden under the sun.

Woman thread cautiously. This is a very serious matter. If you were the one caught will your husband forgive you too? I'm not saying you shouldn't forgive him but the fact is if he could do this under your roof, you should expect more when he is outside. Please go for HIV test to know your own status too.
He does not need deliverance! HE NEEDS JAIL TIME! OR CASTRATION!!! angry
Re: See Advise Woman Received After She Caught Her Husband Assaulting Her Sister by Emmahunk(m): 9:36pm On Apr 29, 2018
First, LEAVE that fb group, you can't learn anything from there.
Secondly, if you get hoodwinked by their senseless advice, the next victim will be your mom or aunt.
Let's face it, you can't keep on living with a beast in the name of marriage. Open your eyes my dear. A man that does not respect you is not worth the F..k
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