Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?
What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?
Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away? Should she discuss with them calmly?
I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?
@cococandy, magnolia, bukatyne, mynd44 etc.
Thanks.

She should walk away and decide her next line of action from a safe distance.

Should she discuss with them calmly?

By calmly, like, she should make them to sit down, make a cup of tea for them and ask them politely why they're engaging in immoral act?

She can
Walk away
Revenge
Do nothing.

Walk away and go clear her head as she processes what she has observed.

This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Kajaard:


She should walk away and decide her next line of action from a safe distance.

Okay. Thanks for the contribution.
Do you think it's advisable for such a woman to stay with the husband?

Zonefree:
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By calmly, like, she should make them to sit down, make a cup of tea for them and ask them politely why they're engaging in immoral act?

Hahahaha

Ok but seriously, some women might just stay calmly and wait for the ashawo to dress up and go, and then engage only the husband in a calm conversation. That's what I actually meant.

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Is that not what many men want, a woman who would not confront their infidelity?

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

If this actually happen then the fiancee is just a desperate and pathetic human being. She actually offered to wash filthy after-sex bedsheets of other people after she caught her fiance cheating on her?
What kind of low self esteem is that?
I can understand some married women doing low, degrading stuff like that because they want their marriage to continue, but the girl in this situation is not even married to the cheater yet, she has every chance to leave him now that she discovered his true colors.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.

Or was the guy a very rich man that she was desperate to hook? Na wa for some girls o.

Mindlog:


Is that not what many men want, a woman who would not confront their infidelity?

Honestly, I can't help but feel bad for Nigerian women.
The way a lot of men actually believe it's normal and expected for wives to forgive unfaithful husbands.
It's a very cruel something. Cheating really wreaks havoc on the victim's mental health.

CHoccolaTE:


Honestly, I can't help but feel bad for Nigerian women.
The way a lot of men actually believe it's normal and expected for wives to forgive unfaithful husbands.
It's a very cruel something. Cheating really wreaks havoc on the victim's mental health.

ANY WOMAN THAT DID NOT MARRY A VIRGIN IS FOREVER UNFAITHFUL. ONLY VIRGINS CAN TALK ABOUT CHEATING.

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

get high and forget

They will say its a man's world, if woman cheat them go send her packing, this inequality is too much

I usually am an advocate for violence but when I consider the state of naijas prison I tend to be much calm and calculated. The thoughts of eating watery beans or being locked in an overcrowded jail is not an option in this hell hole.

I'll advise she just walks out and settle the matter amicably, its not a crime to divorce or separate, but don't lose your freedom over sex, not worth it at all

Damnnn niggar
The man is a big idiot
.yes I agree that we men are polygamous in nature

But we should always do it with sense

Like me I will marry one wife and have many girl friends outside
But I won't be that foolish to rub it on the face of my wife or disrespect my wife by bringing those girls to the house

Reason I like the husband of my elder sister

The man is a womaniser but he has never disrespect my sister my rubbing it on her face or bringingany girls home...and his womanzing nature doesn't stop him from his responsibility towards my sister and their kids.
Infact as I'm typing my sister is driving a venza car bought for her by the husband...the kids are well fed and taken care of... Their school fees alone for each one is about 1.2 million and there has never been a time he doesn't pay it

Serve him breakfast...🙄🙄

pa won

That's bad...could be a trap .

She should walk away because if she forgives him immediately he will do more.
Take a look at May Edoche, she's living her best life. Some men are very wicked and weak.

E go be

CHoccolaTE:
Hello Nairalanders,
What would you advice a woman who walked into the room and found her husband on top of another woman (having sex) to do?

What should be the best reaction for her at that moment?

Should she fight the husband and his female companion? Should she walk away?

Should she discuss with them calmly?

I need both male and female inputs please, thank you.

What is the best response for a woman who walked in on her husband sleeping with another woman?.
Thanks.

Poison him?











Walk away?







Poison him.

Walk out calmly. This will help you cool off so you don't act rashly and spend the rest of your life behind bars because of two unworthy individuals.

How do you delete a post on Nairaland?

Nigerian women don't know how to walk away.

Nigerian women don't like to walk away

The title "Mrs" means much more than life to them.

Nigerian women would always search and find reasons to stay.

Most Nigerian women can't live or survive without cash inflow from husband.

The biggest, ultimate achievement of most Nigerian women is to be married.

Thus walking away is not an option.

Ahmed0336:
This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past.
He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry.
She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady
He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them.
He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet
After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.


My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.

That she's capable of murder

Join them, that party sex, all of them go enjoy am wella

Mindlog:


Is that not what many men want, a woman who would not confront their infidelity?

They don't know what they want. But they want to get away with anything and everything that they can.

Such man is a complete animal, taking strange woman to room that meant for you and kids, if not for woman at home, he shouldnt have done that for his own kids.

ADVICE


Such type of man hardly change oo, they re totally irresponsible and immature for marriage.
The ball is in her own court, if her mentality is strong enough to leave with beast, she may continue, but if she can't stand it and also an independent woman,she can separate for a while, ..........if the man latter comed to her senses after separation they can reconcile and move back.

Alright