pocohantas:
The irony of this is, if this were a thread on some 'slayqueen' who ran mad, some guys would be so quick to comment. They will tell us how they don't want daughters because most girls are whores.

They wouldn't be able to hide their happiness.

It gets me wondering, is being a LovePeddler a bigger problem?
Why are we so wicked?
At what point did we lose our humanity?
Why do we chase the wrong people and things?

We really need to get our priorities right in this country.

JoannaSedley:
Women have downgraded to the lowest ebb in our society. What do you call a home? A house with a practicing pedophile in it....smh. Women are the enemies of themselves. I have never seen a more confused set of beings like women in my life.
A house filled with commited and about to be committed pedophilic crimes is what they are fighting for instead of tackling the monster head on. Instead of asking for the animal to be locked for defiling a small girl with an underdeveloped pelvis, his in law for that matter. My parents would have locked him up and my siblings will throw away the key after serious session of CIA styled waterboarding.

Imagine the advice.
Send her home like she is some piece of thrash, as if she is the one in the wrong, as if she is not the victim.
Keep a secret for a pedophile and continue living with him.
If this man can fvck his inlaw what do you think will happen to his daughters.

jamesharryson:

Of course! The whole family really joined in raping the child. If that is how you think of it.

When the head aches, the feet trembles or weakens.
When the hand is wounded, the neck stiffens and the mouths sours! That is natural law. So indeed, the whole family participated in the stigma. When a finger touches the oil, it drips to the rest of the four

SAMBARRY:
story for the gods.the world has moved passed victimizing rape victims.ask Oprah winfrey,Joyce mayer,Tyler perry etc

jamesharryson:

I am not defending anything. But I am just trying to weigh the situation properly. I have never had sex with any underaged person and I pray never to have such ugly experience. But we have to advise after weighing the situation at hand. Those people calling for the head of the husband will still be the ones to say you ran away from your husband's home without even talking about the reason you did. Save your home! Save your children from the embarrassment! Save yourself from the shame.

Come to think of it, do you know that a great number of people will blame you for that happening? Some will say that you don't do your duties as a woman, while some will say you expose the child to the act! But in everything, the name that will be in circulation will be urs and not even your husband's.

But if you think announcing it to the whole world is the only solution to the problem, go ahead and do it. Pay for jingles in the radio if u wish. Buy TV airtime So that it with be aired in the television, that is your own business anyway. But all I know is that inasmuch as your husband will suffer for the act, you are directly or indirectly suffering with him.

Besides, there is no one who will say he has no faeces in his/her anus

jamesharryson:


My dear, the earlier you start thinking we are in Nigeria, the better for you. Stop mentioning some of these ambiguous names when we are talking about our Nigerian issues. Do you really know that what is obtainable in the countries where all these names you mentioned came from cannot be obtainable here we call Nigeria? One applies a formula that works well for him. You cannot keep using a formula just because someone somewhere used it and it worked for him.
You cannot tell the barber to cut your hair the same style he cut Emma's hair without reasoning if you have the same shape of face with Emma

SAMBARRY:
hiv is real,aids is real,gonorrhea is REAL,syphilis is REAL.all these excuses you are giving to justify why a rapist should be covered up is nothing compared to catching any of these diseases that gulps MONEY.

Your solution is akin to a burning house.instead of opening the doors and Windows to draw attention and help so that people will help you quench the fire from escalating and razing down the building,you cover the Windows and lock the door because you don't want anyone to know,the smoke will still find its way to the door and draw attention and suspicion unfortunately before things can be salvaged you will have been engulfed in the fire and the situation will have been irredeemable.speak up now before its too late

If you keep silent the emotional torture and guilty conscience anytime you see the girl will not make you rest

SAMBARRY:
hiv is real,aids is real,gonorrhea is REAL,syphilis is REAL.all these excuses you are giving to justify why a rapist should be covered up is nothing compared to catching any of these diseases that gulps MONEY.

Your solution is akin to a burning house.instead of opening the doors and Windows to draw attention and help so that people will help you quench the fire from escalating and razing down the building,you cover the Windows and lock the door because you don't want anyone to know,the smoke will still find its way to the door and draw attention and suspicion unfortunately before things can be salvaged you will have been engulfed in the fire and the situation will have been irredeemable.speak up now before its too late

If you keep silent the emotional torture and guilty conscience anytime you see the girl will not make you rest

SAMBARRY:
a lot of naija women are masochistic.They have been used to being sexually,emotionally and physically abused that they don't see it as abuse again.a lot of twisted value system even coming from the pulpit is very repulsive.Even the so called Christian mothers are good at defending these nonsense and hiding under protecting your marriage the Christian way.tuehhhhh


My daughters cannot be born here.this society is sick with a lot of misogynist culture and rape enablers even by women.I can't even Imagine I will be blood related with a rape enabler or pedophile.the thought of it is even causing me abdominal pain tueehhhhh

jamesharryson:


I do t think you are a married lady. If you are, I am very sure you will know how to handle this. Or better still, you will be more confused than the lady. Pray you don't have such experience because people like you won't even say a word to both the child and the husband.
I am not trying to insult u please, but all I want you to understand is that the best thing to do is to settle the dispute in a low manner and not calling attention from many

SAMBARRY:
a lot of naija women are masochistic.They have been used to being sexually,emotionally and physically abused that they don't see it as abuse again.a lot of twisted value system even coming from the pulpit is very repulsive.Even the so called Christian mothers are good at defending these nonsense and hiding under protecting your marriage the Christian way.tuehhhhh


My daughters cannot be born here.this society is sick with a lot of misogynist culture and rape enablers even by women.I can't even Imagine I will be blood related with a rape enabler or pedophile.the thought of it is even causing me abdominal pain tueehhhhh

pocohantas:
The irony of this is, if this were a thread on some 'slayqueen' who ran mad, some guys would be so quick to comment. They will tell us how they don't want daughters because most girls are whores.

They wouldn't be able to hide their happiness.

It gets me wondering, is being a LovePeddler a bigger problem?
Why are we so wicked?
At what point did we lose our humanity?
Why do we chase the wrong people and things?

We really need to get our priorities right in this country.

Wroxxane:

The fact that you share the same air with rational thinking humans disgusts me. Pray tell mister, how can she solve the dispute in a 'low manner' like you said? Heck, what does low manner even mean to you? A pat on the back for the pedophile and a box of sweets for the girl to shut her mouth? Smh. I really want you to try to imagine this happening to your daughter, wife or sister and tell me how good the thought feels to you.

Wroxxane:

The fact that you share the same air with rational thinking humans disgusts me. Pray tell mister, how can she solve the dispute in a 'low manner' like you said? Heck, what does low manner even mean to you? A pat on the back for the pedophile and a box of sweets for the girl to shut her mouth? Smh. I really want you to try to imagine this happening to your daughter, wife or sister and tell me how good the thought feels to you.

jamesharryson:

Some people speak words because they really want to speak. Do you think the lady that brought up the issue for advice did not see the whole of the options that we are debating here. All she wants is the one that will be good for her and her family.

Why will you leave the person that requested for a piece of advice and start insulting one who gave his own words of advice? Must you show the world that you are I'll mannered? Must you say how stupid you are? Ethics demands that we respect each other's opinion. Even Nairaland has it as one of its rules. Why will you awaken the beast in someone? Who are you and what do u even think you are? Compound fool

Wroxxane:

The fact that you share the same air with rational thinking humans disgusts me. Pray tell mister, how can she solve the dispute in a 'low manner' like you said? Heck, what does low manner even mean to you? A pat on the back for the pedophile and a box of sweets for the girl to shut her mouth? Smh. I really want you to try to imagine this happening to your daughter, wife or sister and tell me how good the thought feels to you.

jamesharryson:

.your insults are much. Thunder scatter your brain you bloody fool for saying rubbish with me. U are more than an idiot to say my living disgust u. Who are u to make such statement? Are you crazy? Sorry! You are crazy. May tour generation die the way you think for another. Bastard!!! Why will you say my breathing in air disgust you? God punish your whole generation.

Wroxxane:

You had to stoop this low, what point are you trying to make exactly? That you're a thinking member of this society? Can you even comprehend English? Now you have me feeling all sorry for you. Any further quotes will be ignored. Cheers.

SAMBARRY:
I quoted bible verses that was written before you were born.I am not the author of the bible so they are no insults

Secondly a man raped a child,it's the person that raped the child that Will suffer it the most followed by his parents and siblings.it's people that will be pointing behind the mother that see the mother of the rapist and if he has brothers women will think twice before entering that family.more so did the wife and children follow the man to rape? .NA the owner of the load go carry him load

You still ve not gotten my point. Nobody supports covering evil! But your own life is at stake here. If the man is the breadwinner of the family, trust me, you will be shooting yourself in the heart.

Thirdly which one is better in being a single mother or spending thousands of Maura weekly or monthly to treat stds or using expensive retroviral drugs for hiv because sexual diseases aren't always far from rapists and wayward men.

All these petty excuses you're giving is part of what is making the world unsafe for little girls.the culture of silence is what is giving rapist and pedophiles boldness .

When there is blood shed,injustice,covered up wickedness and iniquity in a land,that land can never prosper even if they pray till THEY loose their voice.I'm not the one that wrote it,check your bible.stop using fear tactics and emotional manipulation to encourage women to cover up wickedness as if you don't have a daughter or your son will not marry a woman.
Fifty,What's the stigma of saying a woman was raped?did Oprah not say it,Joyce Meyer etc?was it their fault? The world has moved past rape stigmitization except you are living in a cave with no access to tv radio or internet

Gaddafiyusf:
Very complex situation. What if the little girl made the move. People will say why the man can't exhibit self-control. It's difficult

walex2:
Some ignorant mofos who are not married are condemning the advice given to the wife. so deliberately the woman will expose her Husband to ridicule and end up embarrassing herself as well. the best advice is treat the girl and let her leave her house to avoid future occurrence and maybe take her husband for counselling, so if the husband is the bread winner, the wife will put him in jail and end up destroying her own family.
funny enough all these guys are sleeping with secondary school students as well. God will judge you All

Wroxxane:

The fact that you share the same air with rational thinking humans disgusts me. Pray tell mister, how can she solve the dispute in a 'low manner' like you said? Heck, what does low manner even mean to you? A pat on the back for the pedophile and a box of sweets for the girl to shut her mouth? Smh. I really want you to try to imagine this happening to your daughter, wife or sister and tell me how good the thought feels to you.

Olulinks:

The woman never told us her husband deflowered the little gel. What if the gel life don already spoilt from their village? What if the gel seduced the man or even possessed with some familiar spirit? What do you do? Will you help devil to finish the work he started by tearing your family apart? That shows you don't want that family to stand in the first place. If not, where's the effort to fight for what you want? What about working on the man and helping the young gel then take her to her family?