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pleaseadvice:
Good evening everybody.

Mods please help me move to the right section if it's not to be posted here.
i need advice/help for my very close female friend. naturally she is a very intelligent girl and also very very beautiful.

Their is this young lecturer in her department that has been disturbing her since her 200 level days. the guy said he wants to marry her but she refused. the guy kept on disturbing her and she still refused. then in her 300 level the lecturer was assigned to take she and her mates three second semester courses and that's where her problems started.

this is a girl that since her 100 level maintain As and Bs and rarely C. this week monday her 300level results came out. only for her to get the shocker of her life. the lecturer had given her carryovers in the three courses (3 units each) and she has been crying since that monday. she has already met her course adviser and she said she can't do anything as the results are already out.

then on tuesday again while she was writing exams for another departmental course. the same lecturer was supervising. then he came and claimed he saw her talking with somebody a seized her script. she started crying and asked the lecturer why he is treating her this way but he simply told her, she has not seen anything. and he didn't give her back again.

then today been Thursday while writing exams again the said man was supervising again. so he came and changed her sitting position to the front. seeing she didn't say anything. he then came to her the second time, asking if she has paid her school fees. she said yes and then he brought a register and started checking if she has paid (he stopped her writing all these while)when she showed him her name in the register he allowed her to continue writing. later, he came back the third time and started checking her scripts. he then said the handwriting in the script were not hers and collected her script.

she called me around 5p.m today and has been crying ever since. i have tried everything to make her stop crying but she won't.

she said her course that will normally take her only 5 years to finish. but, with the three carryovers they man gave her will now be 6years to complete.

the said school is a federal university in the east. i would have revealed more informations but i don't know who is reading..

NOTE she has not gone to ask the lecturer anything since that monday as she already knows what he wants.

she doesn't know what to do again and i neither. hence me posting it here on nairaland because i know what nairaland can do
Cc Richiez olawalebabs Fynestboi

Go and get urself a lawyer and sue his ass .....
Request for your scripts and attach other victimising issues !!

lat1tudeo3:
Fine this is what u will do. If the said school is in east then is their way. She should try and go and meet him in his office and ask what he wanted with boldness tone, then she should make sure everything is recorded to gather the evidence required. After that she send the evidence to the HOD and even leak it online and see how it will trend

What do you mean by it is their way!?

OAU that is currently trending for sexual victimisation is a school in the East?

I have also have a lecturer friend that showed me sex tapes of students he slept with in a college of education in the south west.

You can't even write in proper English.

Bigoted illiterate offering advice.

UBGG:
I was bloody thinking the same thing.

As a student, I was the second best graduating student in my department. I am a beautiful woman too and I never had to deal with such mess in a department with 60% randy lecturers.

You cannot truly be one of the best in your department and deal with things like this. These lecturers weigh you intellectually before they pull up the s€x-for-marks trick on you.

Correct, but how many ladies can be "truly one of the best" in their department?

pleaseadvice:
really unbelievable but very true bro. she is still young and just 20 years old. the problem is that she is afraid she might report and something worse happens. currently she is in 400 level and the same lecturer will still teach her in her final year (500 level)

If the story is true then her solution is on the other side of fear.
She should meet him without disrespect and boldly ask him what he wants, get enough evidence and then proceed with it.

That was how my project supervisor suffered me, he didn't want to sign on my clearance form after result was out I got angry and told him to add my degree to his own if it would be of use to him, he got angry tho but later signed it on that same day
But I seriously doubt this story Sha, not with this OAU saga trending.

This chic na learner . One babe in my dept wey no no book played along with a wicked lecturer that tried victimising her, agreed to marry him sef, used the guy to help all her close friends pass exams even did introduction, as soon as she collected her certificate the chic bolted off..no look back even changed her line sef..

ademi87:
checking if she has paid for her school fees is dat even possible

I think say na only me see am oooo bro

pleaseadvice:
Good evening everybody.

Mods please help me move to the right section if it's not to be posted here.
i need advice/help for my very close female friend. naturally she is a very intelligent girl and also very very beautiful.

Their is this young lecturer in her department that has been disturbing her since her 200 level days. the guy said he wants to marry her but she refused. the guy kept on disturbing her and she still refused. then in her 300 level the lecturer was assigned to take she and her mates three second semester courses and that's where her problems started.

this is a girl that since her 100 level maintain As and Bs and rarely C. this week monday her 300level results came out. only for her to get the shocker of her life. the lecturer had given her carryovers in the three courses (3 units each) and she has been crying since that monday. she has already met her course adviser and she said she can't do anything as the results are already out.

then on tuesday again while she was writing exams for another departmental course. the same lecturer was supervising. then he came and claimed he saw her talking with somebody a seized her script. she started crying and asked the lecturer why he is treating her this way but he simply told her, she has not seen anything. and he didn't give her back again.

then today been Thursday while writing exams again the said man was supervising again. so he came and changed her sitting position to the front. seeing she didn't say anything. he then came to her the second time, asking if she has paid her school fees. she said yes and then he brought a register and started checking if she has paid (he stopped her writing all these while)when she showed him her name in the register he allowed her to continue writing. later, he came back the third time and started checking her scripts. he then said the handwriting in the script were not hers and collected her script.

she called me around 5p.m today and has been crying ever since. i have tried everything to make her stop crying but she won't.

she said her course that will normally take her only 5 years to finish. but, with the three carryovers they man gave her will now be 6years to complete.

the said school is a federal university in the east. i would have revealed more informations but i don't know who is reading..

NOTE she has not gone to ask the lecturer anything since that monday as she already knows what he wants.

she doesn't know what to do again and i neither. hence me posting it here on nairaland because i know what nairaland can do
Cc Richiez olawalebabs Fynestboi

Arrant nonsense, a complain with no school name and lecturer name is nonsense...

She should keep on writing

pleaseadvice:
really unbelievable but very true bro. she is still young and just 20 years old. the problem is that she is afraid she might report and something worse happens. currently she is in 400 level and the same lecturer will still teach her in her final year (500 level)

Y r u gals doing like mumu, report d mata 2 a HOD, faculty dean, dean of students, vc academics,.
Don't u know any top female professors or doctors in ur school. Take d mata 2 dem. Y r u crying. U have d right 2 challenge d lecturer.

pleaseadvice:
Good evening everybody.

Mods please help me move to the right section if it's not to be posted here.
i need advice/help for my very close female friend. naturally she is a very intelligent girl and also very very beautiful.

Their is this young lecturer in her department that has been disturbing her since her 200 level days. the guy said he wants to marry her but she refused. the guy kept on disturbing her and she still refused. then in her 300 level the lecturer was assigned to take she and her mates three second semester courses and that's where her problems started.

this is a girl that since her 100 level maintain As and Bs and rarely C. this week monday her 300level results came out. only for her to get the shocker of her life. the lecturer had given her carryovers in the three courses (3 units each) and she has been crying since that monday. she has already met her course adviser and she said she can't do anything as the results are already out.

then on tuesday again while she was writing exams for another departmental course. the same lecturer was supervising. then he came and claimed he saw her talking with somebody a seized her script. she started crying and asked the lecturer why he is treating her this way but he simply told her, she has not seen anything. and he didn't give her back again.

then today been Thursday while writing exams again the said man was supervising again. so he came and changed her sitting position to the front. seeing she didn't say anything. he then came to her the second time, asking if she has paid her school fees. she said yes and then he brought a register and started checking if she has paid (he stopped her writing all these while)when she showed him her name in the register he allowed her to continue writing. later, he came back the third time and started checking her scripts. he then said the handwriting in the script were not hers and collected her script.

she called me around 5p.m today and has been crying ever since. i have tried everything to make her stop crying but she won't.

she said her course that will normally take her only 5 years to finish. but, with the three carryovers they man gave her will now be 6years to complete.

the said school is a federal university in the east. i would have revealed more informations but i don't know who is reading..

NOTE she has not gone to ask the lecturer anything since that monday as she already knows what he wants.

she doesn't know what to do again and i neither. hence me posting it here on nairaland because i know what nairaland can do
Cc Richiez olawalebabs Fynestboi

The lecture us doomed already. I'm a 400l from a state university and we have such lectures in my school likewise we know how to deal with them. All you have to do is go to his office with a recording device and start a conversation that would make him confess after which use the evidence against him. You can start the conversation like this

Good morning sir, while have you decided to ruined my life because I turned down your proposal? At the moment I'm not thinking of getting married and I don't know why you've refused to understand. Sir can you please tell me what else can can do for you other than we getting married because I can't bear it any longer. You purposely failed me in three if your courses as if that's not enough (you list all he has done) then allow him to do the talking and see how it goes

Thank me later

She should get one of those Aboki suya knives in her hand bag, lure him to a hotel, seize a moment and cut off his d*ck. If he struggles too much, slice his throat and end the life of the bastard.

Khayri:
Hello, tell your friend I contact me o Whatsap. I created a thread on this but nobody seemed to bother, now there is an issue. She should contact me. I I'll give her something to use and also I need the name of the lecturer in privately. He will never remember her again in this life.

hello bro nairaland won't allow me send PMs. said i have received to many e-mails. how do i contact you?

agabaI23:
Op inbox me please. Pleaseadvice

hello bro nairaland won't allow me send PMs. said i have received to many e-mails. how do i contact you?

Simple solution.....The lady should buy the new pen camera (8000-10000).Then walk up to his office privately,after which she will engaged him in a rough talk ,making reference to her past ordeal and the reason why he went that far.Then she could offer him what he want and they should fix the venue.
Note: this will serve as proof and deterrent to others,cos it will be shared on nairaland and other social platform.

proffemi:
This story doesn't quite add up, but FWIW: a good point to start is for her to identify two very senior FEMALE academic staff who are also known to be no-nonsense, vocal types. They don't have to be in her faculty, but should be senior academic staff, vocal, and FEMALE. If there are people who fit that description, let me know, and I'll make my suggestions known.

brother everything i posted here are according to her just as it happened. you can ask me questions on the ones you think are 'not adding up'. however, thanks for your contributions. i will ask her to know if she knows of any reputable top female lecturers in her school.. thank you

eddy42:
If the story is true then her solution is on the other side of fear.
She should meet him without disrespect and boldly ask him what he wants, get enough evidence and then proceed with it.

That was how my project supervisor suffered me, he didn't want to sign on my clearance form after result was out I got angry and told him to add my degree to his own if it would be of use to him, he got angry tho but later signed it on that same day
But I seriously doubt this story Sha, not with this OAU saga trending.

brother the story is 100% true without exaggerations. you can point out what you don't believe and i will talk more on more. however, thanks for your contribution.

1st thing you should do if you ever wana survive is to be strong
;have the heart of a lion,so sorry to say it bur all i see in dis ur writeup is weakness.
I dont even knw how u guys see this life.
u cant even call the name of the lecturer,not even the name of the school
wake up dear.this world is not for the weak,talk more of a country like nigeria
this is just an intro to what happens outside those four walls
mugu fall,man chop!..thats just what he'll do to u

Dont yeild in!!! I repeat, dont !!!!!!!....report the bastard by urself..change am 4 am sef...shout 4 am!!
Certificate wey u go get still dey find job. and smbody will stil want 2 use u ontop....make i catch that lecturer


as i graduate wit 2.1 for medical course dey sell cloth my body dey pepper me.upon all the midnight reading...nonesense!!!!!!

UBGG:
I was bloody thinking the same thing.

As a student, I was the second best graduating student in my department. I am a beautiful woman too and I never had to deal with such mess in a department with 60% randy lecturers.

You cannot truly be one of the best in your department and deal with things like this. These lecturers weigh you intellectually before they pull up the s€x-for-marks trick on you.

hello madam. it baffles me how you will use just your personal experience to conclude that of others.

strange things happens remember? the same sun that melts the ice hardens the clay. that been said. thank your God you didn't experience cases like these while you were in school. you can go ask female university students close to you if they have had cases of randy lecturers and you may be surprised on stories you will hear..

eddy42:
If the story is true then her solution is on the other side of fear.
She should meet him without disrespect and boldly ask him what he wants, get enough evidence and then proceed with it.

That was how my project supervisor suffered me, he didn't want to sign on my clearance form after result was out I got angry and told him to add my degree to his own if it would be of use to him, he got angry tho but later signed it on that same day
But I seriously doubt this story Sha, not with this OAU saga trending.

lol,bro no need to doubt it o
even with the oua saga,they are still fearless
one of my female friends has a similar issue bur not wit this kinda pressure.i just told her to give me the man's phone number.i go carry my 2 legs go meet the man if she agree.we are not just outspoken in this country.thats our problem!

simple case,if u trust ur abilities, then request for ur scripts for remarking and make sure u knw ur handwriting very well

Lakeside79:
It's a made up story , no.lecrurer will accuse an intelligent stiduent of hand writing not being her during a live exam

The lecturer has evidence of her previous malpractice in exams that's why he is so confident and that's why all the said girl does is cry

Maybe he even keaked exams to her in the past

Lecturer do not mess with top grade students

all your comments on this story are just getting me angry. how can you just conclude those nonsense above? who told you it's a made up story?
you have brains but has refused to use them. i have said before that you can ask questions for me to talk more about the ones you consider 'made up' but no, you refused.
just leave this post in peace.. thank you

MILITO12345:
lol,bro no need to doubt it o
even with the oua saga,they are still fearless
one of my female friends has a similar issue bur not wit this kinda pressure.i just told her to give me the man's phone number.i go carry my 2 legs go meet the man if she agree.we are not just outspoken in this country.thats our problem!

Very true the Nigerian Public University system is designed to intimidate it's student, plus almost everyone dey fear.
As for me I always tell my self that what will be will be, I only have one life on earth no Man can make it unbearable for me.

One cannot amount to anything great without God. When you pray your way in the devil cannot pray you out.

pleaseadvice:
all your comments on this story are just getting me angry. how can you just conclude those nonsense above? who told you it's a made up story?
you have brains but has refused to use them. i have said before that you can ask questions for me to talk more about the ones you consider 'made up' but no, you refused.
just leave this post in peace.. thank you

Wow that escalated very quickly.

Are you on your period ?

Your rant doesn't change the facts to the more discerning.

This is a lie or an intentionally twisted tale to hide the facts

Unless that as I suspected it's entirely made up

Every university has an ethics committee, why can't she go there?

hardon1:
i stoped reading after the fifth paragraph cos i started smelling lies. No lecturer explicitly disturbs a girl he is chasing like that during exams cos ppl will raise eye brow.

a lecturer that untends to marry a gurl will not put her through all that, he will rather do the opposite cos its an opportunity for him to get her to say yes to his proposal

secondly, if she is certian of what she wrote in the exams, let her demand that her script be remarked

lecturers are careful to harass very brilliant female students or toil with their script cos they know it can easily get them in trouble

back then in my school days, the most brilliant girl in my class (elect engineering) is known by all lecturers including the hod. Her brain is out of this world, so u dont dare harass her with anything school related, there is no way u can fail her.

So if ur friend is sure of what she wrote, let her demand that her script be marked by a seperate lecturer or the hod

the most sensible reply I came across here.. no sane lecturer will harass a sound and intelligent girl like that...

she should check her self and see what is it that makes the lecturer to want to make her academic career a failure if she is indeed a good atudene,,she would contest the results and a remark will be done..

Make she use that OAU babe technique

pleaseadvice:
Good evening everybody.

Mods please help me move to the right section if it's not to be posted here.
i need advice/help for my very close female friend. naturally she is a very intelligent girl and also very very beautiful.

Their is this young lecturer in her department that has been disturbing her since her 200 level days. the guy said he wants to marry her but she refused. the guy kept on disturbing her and she still refused. then in her 300 level the lecturer was assigned to take she and her mates three second semester courses and that's where her problems started.

this is a girl that since her 100 level maintain As and Bs and rarely C. this week monday her 300level results came out. only for her to get the shocker of her life. the lecturer had given her carryovers in the three courses (3 units each) and she has been crying since that monday. she has already met her course adviser and she said she can't do anything as the results are already out.

then on tuesday again while she was writing exams for another departmental course. the same lecturer was supervising. then he came and claimed he saw her talking with somebody a seized her script. she started crying and asked the lecturer why he is treating her this way but he simply told her, she has not seen anything. and he didn't give her back again.

then today been Thursday while writing exams again the said man was supervising again. so he came and changed her sitting position to the front. seeing she didn't say anything. he then came to her the second time, asking if she has paid her school fees. she said yes and then he brought a register and started checking if she has paid (he stopped her writing all these while)when she showed him her name in the register he allowed her to continue writing. later, he came back the third time and started checking her scripts. he then said the handwriting in the script were not hers and collected her script.

she called me around 5p.m today and has been crying ever since. i have tried everything to make her stop crying but she won't.

she said her course that will normally take her only 5 years to finish. but, with the three carryovers they man gave her will now be 6years to complete.

the said school is a federal university in the east. i would have revealed more informations but i don't know who is reading..

NOTE she has not gone to ask the lecturer anything since that monday as she already knows what he wants.

she doesn't know what to do again and i neither. hence me posting it here on nairaland because i know what nairaland can do
Cc Richiez olawalebabs Fynestboi

the lecturer has done his worst. it's now her turn. she should not be afraid cos if it blows open she will get the support of the public. besides even the lecturer is afraid she will go public but he is still bold cos it's not his first time and he probably sees her as scared.

let her take it up with people in authority higher than even her department. look for females in authority, they might even be more sympathetic. it might be difficult getting recorded evidence but still try. keep in mind that even if you don't your results already speak for u. his actions are indicting him already. did he check if other students had paid too? why only u? you have lots of evidence against him my dear...just take it up. all other things u need to know or do will fall into place. people will give you help. all the best.

shortgun:
What's wrong if she marries the lecturer?

What if she was your daughter , you`d say this to her??

Lecturer wey I go cut him tongue or blind him eyes....

Some people will think they are wicked and have strong head but when you start your own dem go dey cry dey beg..... me wey sabi carry people matter for head....esp in cases of intimidation ..... That lecturer go cry bitterly ,anything wey him be.

From what I get, This is FUTO, they are currently writing their first semester exams.

The young lady should report this to the school Anti Corruption Unit in the senate. Or go to senate, meet the DVC Acad, he is a father and the former head of ACUT, inform him, and keep calm.

I guess she is in SAAT or SOHT.

lat1tudeo3:
Fine this is what u will do. If the said school is in east then is their way. She should try and go and meet him in his office and ask what he wanted with boldness tone, then she should make sure everything is recorded to gather the evidence required. After that she send the evidence to the HOD and even leak it online and see how it will trend

If the said school is in east then is their way.what happen in ui that's in west is not their way.

Tell your parents! Dont form voltron on nigerian lecturers they are terrible.