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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Nobody: 2:17am On May 08, 2018

Preshy561:

you don't want to sleep right?

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Makaveli217(m): 2:22am On May 08, 2018

she thinks you dont find her attractive. If you like or love her, take her out on a date Thats what she want

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by thunderbabs: 3:26am On May 08, 2018

Ewooooo, Chioma again ooooo!! !
Chiomas everywhere be infeecting niggas everywhere that they dont even know what they re doing again.

Chioma ehhhhhhhhh shocked

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Hector09(m): 5:23am On May 08, 2018

wildfire2000:
you never jam person wey go make you go gaga till you craze join

not in this life am too good for any girl to drive me crazy

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Hector09(m): 5:23am On May 08, 2018

ccrazy:
are you a homosexual?

maybe

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Preshy561(f): 5:53am On May 08, 2018

Hanseel1:
you don't want to sleep right?

I'm up

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by tolustwart: 6:17am On May 08, 2018

ask witch doc.... oh sorry love doctor

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by MARX77(m): 6:28am On May 08, 2018

adonisgold:
I have tire more than you! I swear I have. They are always looking for advice. All these people asking for advice online, don't they have elders in their village?

lol, elders in village?
This one is strong... lol

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by talk2percy(m): 6:37am On May 08, 2018

So for ur mind u are the only guy alive?? Anyways she got tired of looking foolish and cheap to u-let's say another guy has appreciated those things u took for granted!

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by KingHadassah: 6:45am On May 08, 2018

MARX77:
See Ehn, I am tired as f of all this relationship stuff, I DON TIRE!!!

This is so funny. LMAO. I can hear the frustration all the way from over here. grin

MARX77:
See Ehn, I am tired as f of all this relationship stuff, I DON TIRE!!!

This is so funny. LMAO. I can hear the frustration all the way from over here.

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by dhesmond(m): 6:57am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?
going through the same but I don't give a bleep....I will leave her to manual reset herself..ladies can be very funny and unpredictable at times.....after saying sorry don't push hard on them, it takes a while before a girl can get her brain working perfectly.

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by brownhawk: 7:03am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

the same thing happened to me two months ago. She's seemed like the one for me and she suddenly disappeared.

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Nobody: 7:07am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by firstolalekan(m): 7:09am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

It's Joblessness and loneliness that is worrying you.

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by oluboom(m): 7:38am On May 08, 2018

Famousqueen:
there is no pride in love, if u truly love her tell her

hello

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by KAbolade: 8:05am On May 08, 2018

intresting

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by CaptainGOOD: 8:11am On May 08, 2018

Preshy561:
lol,yeah dear.
goodnight.♡♡♡

Morning sweety

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Kendrick80(m): 8:18am On May 08, 2018

tommyken:
Its just your brain cells at work.I don't know the medical name for it but as a psychologist I can tell your present state of mind towards her has nothing to do with love.
Its the brain missing what used to be there, even if you call her back and reconcile your feelings will again return to it previous state.
just let her go by thinking about something else that interest,build your career and make it your first priority,if you need sex you can pay a randon girl for it.
My final advice to you,remember women will also be there the one you call your love is just the one occuping your brain and feeding your illusion.

Deep...

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by 9tailskid: 8:19am On May 08, 2018

To all of you telling the OP that it's pride, you're wrong.

The truth is that, we men can be so daft and clueless sometimes when it comes to ladies, infact we by default take things for granted.

The OP liked the attention/worship from the girl and thought it was going to be that way until the girl shock am.

I've been there OP, and i won't tell you what to do or not do, i'd just say this "DO NOT STAND OUTSIDE, LOOKING IN ON THE INSIDE WONDERING WHAT MAY HAVE BEEN BETWEEN THE BOTH OF YOU"

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Preshy561(f): 8:25am On May 08, 2018

CaptainGOOD:
Morning sweety

morning dearie.

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by CaptainGOOD: 8:29am On May 08, 2018

Preshy561:
morning dearie.

How are u nwayi OMA. ?
Kedu?

I want to ask u something

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by mapet: 8:39am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

At times I ask myself, is it that God "blessed" some people with emotional weakness or what? Bros, were you my junior brother, I for wire you slap huh

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Preshy561(f): 8:44am On May 08, 2018

CaptainGOOD:
How are u nwayi OMA. ? Kedu?
I want to ask u something

I'm great love.
what's the question?

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by mikejj(m): 8:46am On May 08, 2018

loke!!! leku!!! legede ...find a way of meeting her face 2face most times ecpressing ur feelings to som1 u love,won't work on phone... and stop procastinating bro..real men don't procastinate

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Sluvist(m): 8:47am On May 08, 2018

Divay22:
Scarcity increases value

Economist just defined the subject matter according to her moral, nawao.

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by JhyMedex: 8:49am On May 08, 2018

Troubledmind:
I met her on Facebook and we moved to whatsapp, she likes everything i like, she's Caring, ambitious, smart and romantic, she gave me alot of clues that she's into me like the way she's always telling me that she believes in me, telling me that her kind of guy has all my qualities, sending kiss emoji, asking if I've eaten and all, but all the while she never asked for favors, but i wasn't romantically intrested in her, i just found her interesting and a great company.

Then suddenly she changed her behavior, she gets angry over little things, she sent me a message one night and i didn't reply on time then she said I'm giving her attitude, and all my explanations fell on deaf ears, then she finally told me we should stop being friends, i said ok because i didn't think I'd miss her.

Now i think about her everyday like she's the air i breathe and its wierd, no matter how i try to be emotionally detached its not working anymore, and this was someone i didn't have feelings for back then, what do i do about this?

Bn in ur shoes b4..tho 4 me it wasnt an overwhelming sense of affection 4 d lady..it was more like dis shii has to end on my terms..Play the long game..

In ur case it cld b wat Tommyken said it cld b ur brain cells craving 4 wat was...or it cld b d "u dnt now d value of stg till u lose it"..

My two pence ...Reinititate contact..However dnt go apologizing like some kinda wimp..Kick off tins like u guys neva broke up..This gal likes u ..a lot i myt add..

dts y she felt particularly hurt by u ignoring her..Its not gon b a hard sturvs..

Reinitiate contact...Bt neva show desperation!!..

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Kenswitch(m): 8:49am On May 08, 2018

Ladies and their strategies, maybe u didn't tell her what she wanted to hear from u all this while. U don't need to explain anymore tell her what she want to hear.

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by prityego: 8:52am On May 08, 2018

Good example of you don't know what you have, until you lose it. www.schoolcrayon.com

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Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by CaptainGOOD: 8:58am On May 08, 2018

Preshy561:
I'm great love.

what's the question?

1. I ma na imara mma too much? grin

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by Dickspray(m): 9:20am On May 08, 2018

Nogodye:
You will never value what you have until you loose it...

bro,that a ragged saying..... I've lost somethings,luxury places, and I didn't miss it a bit, I thanked God I was out and never looked back

Re: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by mhisbliss(f): 9:29am On May 08, 2018

HARDDON:
op, don't ever listen to ladies when heart matters are involved. A case in point.

What just happened you might want to ask?

well, She noticed you ain't taking her serious like she is doing to you. You always give her monos, never initiate convos, don't care how she's faring and a host of others. It breaks their hearts.

Ladies can sense a guy's thought process through the little daily chit chats/behavioural patterns and draw conclusions which are correct most of the time.

Here the ARE POSSIBLE crux of the matter;

1. another guy HAS been by the side giving her medication from your sickness. She just got well and blam! She gone!

2. She just activated reverse psychology on you and boy! How effective it is! She gave you space so that you can miss her and come running to her! Then the control knob that you have been holding ever so gallantly by sendingless, she would now have it by the time you come begging and trying so hard to have her back!

THIS IS WHY I SAID YOU SHOULD NEVER APOLOGISE!

Do you want a Solution?

Well I would love to ask you a question first: WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HER? Because from your write up, I can vividly tell she isnt your kinda woman.

Why this comment of yours is directed at me instead of the OP who needs advice is a big mystery grin

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