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hello nairalanders,i am new here and i urgently need ur help.although my post might sound kind of annoying or so but please help a brother.
I am a boy of 19years,dating a girl of 18years...we've been together for almost a year now and i am the first guy my girl has gone far in love with..to the extent of having sex and doing everything.that aside,am sure she loves me because she is this very tough kind of girl and i remember sweating under fan when i was still asking her out,until she finally fell after some months,and since then,its obvious she cant stay a day without me and am sure about that.
i had to change my bad habits because i know she wont accept me if am not responsible,so i made sure everything i did earlier would make her sure i am responsible,i even had to try my best to stop takin weed,which only lasted for 3months before i went back to it.we've been living well for a long time now without troubles and being that i am her very first serious date,she is ready to go far with me..last week sunday,i left her online and went to chill with friends,and the friends are the ones i discarded so i could live a good life because i know i cant be friends with them and still make my girl happy..so that sunday evening,when i got home,she messaged me asking me where i have been,and being a faithful,i told her that i went to chill with my friends,when she asked which friends,i told her...she just started crying and said she doesnt ever want to set her eyes on me again...before then,she had seen some pictures we took with a stick of weed in my hand...i begged her that night,she said she was done with me and that i know how much she hate smokers and i never cared about her feelings,else i wouldnt have done it,i wasnt really feeling bad about the break up,it was she i was bothered about because i know she cant withstand my absence in her life..am sure about that.after begging on monday,she still insisted,i gave up and started thinking of how to forget her and try to mend my life...this morning,she called me and told me she wants me back.i happily told her am still hers....please,nairalanders,she's been crying ever since we started talking on phone that i no longer care about her,but deep withing me,i know i love,please how do i handle this?

u can bash me for my habits but please before u do,advice me on how to mend my relationship...my girl is dying..thank you

Weed is a bad thing now?
First of all correct yourself, you are a man and she is a woman. Everywhere in the world people of age 18 and above are adults.

I don't see any problem in your relationship. You people are prone to disagreeing over one thing or another. Enjoy your small quarrel, it could have happened over something worse.

thanks man.but i have really tried to kill the habit.
another thing is care...what kind of care does she want?
am trying my best,but she is still scared i might leave her soon..which is not true

Ephraim998:
hello nairalanders,i am new here and i urgently need ur help.although my post might sound kind of annoying or so but please help a brother.
I am a boy of 19years,dating a girl of 18years...we've been together for almost a year now and i am the first guy my girl has gone far in love with..to the extent of having sex and doing everything.that aside,am sure she loves me because she is this very tough kind of girl and i remember sweating under fan when i was still asking her out,until she finally fell after some months,and since then,its obvious she cant stay a day without me and am sure about that.
i had to change my bad habits because i know she wont accept me if am not responsible,so i made sure everything i did earlier would make her sure i am responsible,i even had to try my best to stop takin weed,which only lasted for 3months before i went back to it.we've been living well for a long time now without troubles and being that i am her very first serious date,she is ready to go far with me..last week sunday,i left her online and went to chill with friends,and the friends are the ones i discarded so i could live a good life because i know i cant be friends with them and still make my girl happy..so that sunday evening,when i got home,she messaged me asking me where i have been,and being a faithful,i told her that i went to chill with my friends,when she asked which friends,i told her...she just started crying and said she doesnt ever want to set her eyes on me again...before then,she had seen some pictures we took with a stick of weed in my hand...i begged her that night,she said she was done with me and that i know how much she hate smokers and i never cared about her feelings,else i wouldnt have done it,i wasnt really feeling bad about the break up,it was she i was bothered about because i know she cant withstand my absence in her life..am sure about that.after begging on monday,she still insisted,i gave up and started thinking of how to forget her and try to mend my life...this morning,she called me and told me she wants me back.i happily told her am still hers....please,nairalanders,she's been crying ever since we started talking on phone that i no longer care about her,but deep withing me,i know i love,please how do i handle this?

u can bash me for my habits but please before u do,advice me on how to mend my relationship...my girl is dying..thank you

Quit smoking weed young fella, and stay far away from bad friends for your own good before it's too late

Burgerlomo:
Quit smoking weed young fella, and stay far away from bad friends for your own good before it's too late

That girl is an angel, stick close to her

ITbomb:
That girl is an angel, stick close to her

Yep

Your priorities now should be school that’s if you’re not in school yet or how to make money.
Forget all this gabbrish about what she feels now or you thinking she can’t do without you smh...
She’s just 18 giver her few years and you see.

Better focus on school/How to make money !!

Are u a student or a civil servant, do u ve any skills, if no ur periority should be how to make it in life cus as time goes on that girl we dump u for a better guy

Hector09:
Are u a student or a civil servant, do u ve any skills, if no ur periority should be how to make it in life cus as time goes on that girl we dump u for a better guy

is it possible for her to leave me like that?
am her first love

daewoorazer:
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It is your life man...

If you like, grow canabis with 1000 hectares of land and smoke all in a day, it’s your life.

One thing about such girls is mess her up the second time and she is forever gone...

Lest I forget...work on your ego...who told you she can’t do without you? Better deflate your ego before you spend the rest of your life single. Not only women loathe ego, brothers hate it with passion....

She can’t do without you bawo ??

It’s your life...

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thanks man...i really appreciate,i got all u said

Burgerlomo:
Quit smoking weed young fella, and stay far away from bad friends for your own good before it's too late

okay boss...

ITbomb:
That girl is an angel, stick close to her

yeah...she is really an angel.

Ephraim998:
is it possible for her to leave me like that?
am her first love

Lolz. oga forget that first love ish. it's not as strong as you think it is. she is growing and priorities change. so, u better be ahead of the curve otherwise she go leave u for back.
first love, lwkmd.
hope say you Dey university so. and she Dey ur uni too.
cos if she Dey different university, ogbeni forget it. isallover

Nawa hoo so u no think abt money abii

wizrose:
Nawa hoo so u no think abt money abii

money also on my mind...thats why most times i dont have her time....she's complaining bitterly about it

Ephraim998:
is it possible for her to leave me like that? am her first love

women never show u their true colors before

Ephraim998:
is it possible for her to leave me like that?
am her first love

Hahahaha 100% possible.

Fernandowski:
women never show u their true colors before

Leave am.....He go soon wise...

coolh3ad:
Leave am.....He go soon wise...

nobi only first love


Na over 2.5 lover

talk2saintify:





What baffles me the most is that you opened a fake account and came up with a fake story

why did u say that?