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Dear Jzhane,

Good day, please i need your take on this issue.

 

I am a christian by Gods grace and kept my self till my marriage, i DID NOT get married out of pressure or desperation, neither did i pressurize my husband into marriage. I Courted my husband for less than a year. We had just one misunderstanding during courtship in which he accused me of manipulating him... I noticed something wasnt right with his attitude then. But I waved of the feeling, went for counseling after which I just put it all aside and we continued ( this is one regret I appear to have now!)

 

Within the first week of marriage, I realized a couple of things about my said husband:

 

1. He dint really love me( he actually told me that)

2. He got depressed after the wedding.

3. He got married to me cause he taught I / family are financially buoyant.

4. He really

...read and comment on full story on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/helpmy-husband-is-mentally-challenged-how-do-i-get-out/

ask your father

You are a victim of the negative effect of no courtship B4 marriage. sorry my dear

FOR BETTER FOR WORST REMEMBER!!

If you are a blogger plagiarizing another's work, seven shames on you.

If you are truly the woman who's husband has gone nuts, you should really carry your cross. I don't know the recommended time frame for couples to engage in courtship before getting married but I think there has to be ample time defined by the willing individuals to understand each other before saying I Do.

You pledged to love till death do you part. Love him and be faithful. If he was sane, would your love for him grow?

Her life is at stake! Should she die in the name of marriage!

for your mind !!!

KrystosCJ:
If you are a blogger plagiarizing another's work, seven shames on you.

If you are truly the woman who's husband has gone nuts, you should really carry your cross. I don't know the recommended time frame for couples to engage in courtship before getting married but I think there has to be ample time defined by the willing individuals to understand each other before saying I Do.

You pledged to love till death do you part. Love him and be faithful. If he was sane, would your love for him grow?

Hmm

Its doesnt really work like dat. There are those who dated for 18years and their marriage didnt last one year

Chizuru01:
You are a victim of the negative effect of no courtship B4 marriage. sorry my dear

FOR BETTER FOR WORST REMEMBER!!

Asking God for guidance b4 marriage very important

Serious key. Though some see the sign but they get blinded by lust.

Samuelgr8:
Asking God for guidance b4 marriage very important

Hmm