Akowemoon:
Ladies,access your man before u say I do. Ones witnessed a similar case like this. immediately the surgeon explained to the husband that the wife might not be able to conceive again if she has to go through a surgical procedure involving the removal of the fallopian tube n the uterus, the brother zoomed off leaving the lady in the hospital crying. She cried all through that day n she regretted bitterly for loving the guy. All that glitters aren't gold, a man with a quality heart n can stand by u in any situation is what you ladies ought to be praying for..

Don't mind dem. Stupid ladies. They would only be after financial security. Everything is money. Even love without money is no love, according to them. No problem na, if health challenge come, dem go come dey look for husband wey go stay with dem. Foolish human beings called women. You don't love the man, but his money; and u expect him to love u back?

Just today,I met a middle aged woman hawking ground nuts . She was looking so weary and emaciated. The inquisitive part of me got working. Long story short. Her husband left Nigeria for the US and abandoned her and her two sons to their fate. The said clown is a study in deadbeat parenting. No calls,no remittances of funds. Some men do not deserve to live.

It was pretty obvious that she was eking out a living with the proceeds from the groundnut sales. I had to part ways with what I had on me. She was so thankful. The smile on her face was priceless . I went home feeling somewhat fulfilled that I could erase the vestiges of pains on someone's face.

I showed her my office and told her not to hesitate to ask of me whenever she comes around that axis to sell.

It's evil to shirk responsibilities and abandon your loved ones.

please give me her contact. wikoson@gmail.com

dominique:


Speak for yourself oga. I've seen couples stick by their ailing husband or wife till they recover or death did them part.

The guy has a point. Do you know how the man has been footing the bills and for how long, may be from his nose. lm not saying what the man did was the best but don't judge him either. Pray you never jamb wahala especially if you no get money. I can relate from a village guy whose sister died of HIV.

dominique:


Speak for yourself oga. I've seen couples stick by their ailing husband or wife till they recover or death did them part.

So because you've seen couples act in certain ways doesn't mean that's how every couple should act.

Madridguy's assertion was right. He was only describing human nature. He was in no way giving excuses for the man.

Honestly what the man did was utmost despicable. But that is basic human nature.

The husband must be a PDP card carrying member.

If the story is true, they should have the hospital, account number and a little bit more information for immediate medical and financial assistance.


Just saying...

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It's only normal for the man to run away.

Which man won't abandon this kind sick woman?
No booby and kpekus again due to illness
Plus N400,000 to raise.
I don't blame him at all.

Men were not created to endure bullsh*t all in the name of marriage.


If the man was the patient, the woman would be sleeping under his bed in the hospital. She would have sold all she had and borrowed.

Man wey dey abandon healthy wife wan stand by this kind ailing woman.... Impossicant!
Not in this lifetime!!

madridguy:
When health challenges reach some stage bro, na only your family you go see especially in case of young couple.

Do you not know that this is a test of faith? We all shall be tested one way or another. You fanatics of religious islam are quick to utter mumbo jumbos that have no meaning. See how quick you were in saying Subhanallah...but to you as long you say these arabic words that have zero significance your faith is cemented. Worship without acts is meaningless.
I bet you if she plays lottery and win billions that guy will return to her quick quick.....for the money.

For your info Im muslim, a spiritual muslim!

Zionista:
Just today,I met a middle aged woman hawking ground nuts . She was looking so weary and emaciated. The inquisitive part of me got working. Long story short. Her husband left Nigeria for the US and abandoned her and her two sons to their fate. The said clown is a study in deadbeat parenting. No calls,no remittances of funds. Some men do not deserve to live.

It was pretty obvious that she was eking out a living with the proceeds from the groundnut sales. I had to part ways with what I had on me. She was so thankful. The smile on her face was priceless . I went home feeling somewhat fulfilled that I could erase the vestiges of pains on someone's face.

I showed her my office and told her not to hesitate to ask of me whenever she comes around that axis to sell.

It's evil to shirk responsibilities and abandon your loved ones.

That woman deserves to suffer.
Women don't learn.
Husbands have shown how wicked, disappointing, unreliable and hard hearted they can be towards their wives.
Yet wives refuse to learn.
Many women still go into marriage without any source of livelihood.
Even in the marriage, they have no source of income.
They are just comfortable with "I love you" scam,depending on a man for everything.
Then when the man begins to act like the real man, the woman becomes a poverty stricken foool.

I am happy with myself today. I worked for 6 years after graduation from law school and got married at 32 despite societal pressure to get married much earlier.
God forbid.. Marry when I no get money?
Not me.

I needed to achieve some form of financial security. I saw myself as unqualified for marriage as long as I couldn't survive on my own financially.

My husband met me living in my own apartment and riding my own car.
I have 2 sons and 1 daughter including a set of twins.
I am 35 now and am done with child bearing.
My husband can have more outside, if he so desires. I am not bothered. Men will always be men.
What I am concerned about right now is MAKING MORE MONEY and raising my kids.
I will NEVER allow a man in the name of husband to frustrate me.
The day he kicks me out, I will live in the house I built and my life will continue beautifully.
No time.

Ps: I don't pray for bad but I plan for the worst. With the way Nigerian men are in marriage, anything is possible. The most loving husband can turn to a terrible monster tomorrow.

Weak husband

Lesson: Be humble in life, Human beings are nothing...

from the experience I have had. I noticed men hardly get financial assistance unllike women. wen men run around for money people don usually have pity on dem. but wen women do people usually assist dem.

P.S- frustration the make man think otherwise

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Akowemoon:
Ladies,access your man before u say I do. Ones witnessed a similar case like this. immediately the surgeon explained to the husband that the wife might not be able to conceive again if she has to go through a surgical procedure involving the removal of the fallopian tube n the uterus, the brother zoomed off leaving the lady in the hospital crying. She cried all through that day n she regretted bitterly for loving the guy. All that glitters aren't gold, a man with a quality heart n can stand by u in any situation is what you ladies ought to be praying for..

which tool dem go use access am. abi name ACCESSOMETER
PS- Marriage is luck. get dat right. no claim I too know. pastors way access tire still divorce.

madridguy:
Don't blame the man. I pray we don't see problem especially health challenges, we human get tired of each quick. The only you can see in situation like this is blood relative.
Forget spouse.

I once suffered almost same thing as her last year.... my husband was there for me in prayers and support.... I couldn't believe it either and for 3months,he was by my bed side.... he hardly ate it took his bath unless I begged him to.... his support and strength backed by God's grace kept me going and determined to live.... there are spouses who sticketh closer than blood relatives though not easily seen...

ojmaroni247:
She needs 400k to do a surgery in her large intestine. We the alumni of FUTO as of yesterday have been donating on line, today I heard the money is already 340k. If you are an ex-futoite donate atleast 1k by this week I am sure the operation would commence. May God bless u all as you do so.

400K?

Far less than some people spend on champagne in one night. The sad irony of life.

Sorry dear, the Lord is ur strength nd i pray for quick recovery

ojmaroni247:
She needs 400k to do a surgery in her large intestine. We the alumni of FUTO as of yesterday have been donating on line, today I heard the money is already 340k. If you are an ex-futoite donate atleast 1k by this week I am sure the operation would commence. May God bless u all as you do so.

Abeg make the hospital accept the 340k first na. Everyday that is passing is a that she does not do the surgery is another problem on its own.

trapQ:
No truer words have been said. It is only your immediate family and a very infinitesimal number of friends who can be there for anyone through such.

That's why I pity people who neglect their family because of marriage. Tragic!

cc madridguy soberdrunk
Bros marriage is family. When you marry someone, you become their family, you donate blood for them, clean them up when they're sick, ensure they take their drugs and pursue medical personnel to attend to them immediately. If we use your logic, then your mum and Dad are not family hence should not take care of each other.

Moreover, as I've stated above financial assistance is good but it's not the only thing. A long with helping them do basic thing as listed above, you must also always be there for them to gist with them, play with them, or just sit quietly beside them, let them sha know you're there. This helps boost their morale because some of them are depressed and maybe suicidal.

That's why when I see some people being selfish, it pains me, saying things like its my right to cheat on my husband or wife, or I will keep majority of my money or this or that, or I will do him or her strong thing, i just laugh.

Marriage is a family, and if you're going into it, know that it is not small business. Be ready to put your all. I know male relatives, who were the ones bathing their wives in the hospital. They would sleep outside on a chair or pavement because men were not allowed in the female ward.

These are the kind of sacrifices mothers and fathers make for children, these are kind of sacrifices husbands and wives should make for each other.

Don't forget your children will be watching. They will learn love, devotion and loyalty if they see you doing it, since if you're going otherwise, well...

Am glad you're bless with a spouse that stood by you during the hardest time. My greetings to him.

Jessyjack:


I once suffered almost same thing as her last year.... my husband was there for me in prayers and support.... I couldn't believe it either and for 3months,he was by my bed side.... he hardly ate it took his bath unless I begged him to.... his support and strength backed by God's grace kept me going and determined to live.... there are spouses who sticketh closer than blood relatives though not easily seen...

Good observation from you sister. Alhamdulilah my dad and mum are family don't get me wrong, my point is base on majority and you can confirm my point this morning by having a tour at any general Hospital close to you.

MarieSucre:


cc madridguy soberdrunk
Bros marriage is family. When you marry someone, you become their family, you donate blood for them, clean them up when they're sick, ensure they take their drugs and pursue medical personnel to attend to them immediately. If we use your logic, then your mum and Dad are not family hence should not take care of each other.

Moreover, as I've stated above financial assistance is good but it's not the only thing. A long with helping them do basic thing as listed above, you must also always be there for them to gist with them, play with them, or just sit quietly beside them, let them sha know you're there. This helps boost their morale because some of them are depressed and maybe suicidal.

That's why when I see some people being selfish, it pains me, saying things like its my right to cheat on my husband or wife, or I will keep majority of my money or this or that, or I will do him or her strong thing, i just laugh.

Marriage is a family, and if you're going into it, know that it is not small business. Be ready to put your all. I know male relatives, who were the ones bathing their wives in the hospital. They would sleep outside on a chair or pavement because men were not allowed in the female ward.

These are the kind of sacrifices mothers and fathers make for children, these are kind of sacrifices husbands and wives should make for each other.

Don't forget your children will be watching. They will learn love, devotion and loyalty if they see you doing it, since if you're going otherwise, well...

LadySarah:
Cc:pain,dhardy09,kingthreat,karlboss,awa... And others.Pls see her details below.

God bless you mucho

Thanks alot. Will do my part.

madridguy:
Don't blame the man. I pray we don't see problem especially health challenges, we human get tired of each quick. The only you can see in situation like this is blood relative.
Forget spouse.

Do u see ur self, abandoning ur spouse, in such predicament?



Tell them to seek professional advice, dey will tell u, u like wasting money. Something, that could av been solved with less than a 100k


Where're all those private jet, buying pastors, when u need them n all those tithes paying, all service attending nincompoops

This kind of post, should come with acct details, sha

I am always the last man standing with whoever am with. I have stood with total strangers in situation like this so no reason will I abandoned my spouse so far am alive, able and agile.

ashjay001:


Do u see ur self, abandoning ur spouse, in such predicament?
Tell them to seek professional advice, dey will tell u, u like wasting money. Something, that could av been solved with less than a 100k
Where're all those private jet, buying pastors, when u need them n all those tithes paying, all service attending nincompoops

This kind of post, should come with acct details, sha

Just ruptured appendix that they couldnt take cre of.



What if na kidney or liver?



Pls let them be specific with her ailment jor



Get well soon , Sis!

who has her contact please

madridguy:
Don't blame the man. I pray we don't see problem especially health challenges, we human get tired of each quick. The only you can see in situation like this is blood relative.
Forget spouse.

Yeah if the wife did the dumping at such a critical time I wonder if people will say dont blame her.

madridguy:
I am always the last man standing with whoever am with. I have stood with total strangers in situation like this so no reason will I abandoned my spouse so far am alive, able and agile.

And may God keep you happy all yhe days of your life.

madridguy:
Subhanalah.
May God Almighty healing hand be upon.

Amen!

madridguy:
Don't blame the man. I pray we don't see problem especially health challenges, we human get tired of each quick. The only you can see in situation like this is blood relative.
Forget spouse.

Na lie, this may be a calculated stratagy to receive help from the public.

madridguy:
I am always the last man standing with whoever am with. I have stood with total strangers in situation like this so no reason will I abandoned my spouse so far am alive, able and agile.

Exactly, my point. That runaway husband, was a coward! Don't make excuses for him.