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Toks2008:
*Don't get it twisted,this is not about bringing the women folks down but this is a mystery the world still finds very difficult to unravel.. *

I have heard this countless times from different ladies "I don't get along with women,“I prefer being friends with males than females,” or “I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama.”

A lady walks into the room and sees a more attractive lady and she suddenly feels threatened and starts hating on the more attractive one even when she does not realize it...the older ladies just get fussy when they see younger ladies flaunt their freshness,the married lady suddenly feels she is more superior to the unmarried ones,the unmarried one is happy to hear about a crash in a friend's marriage and the same women who are ready to bring down the roof when they hear the words "Men are polygamous in nature" are the same women snatching each other's husbands,having an affair with married men and even getting married to married men.The wife and the husband's mum compete with each other.Put women in one room and you are certain to settle issues several times.

So i tend to wonder why the hypocrisy? what will happen if every lady approached by married men say NO?, Does it not just make logical sense if the second baby mama of 2baba or Wizkid stood their ground and asked these guys to go stay faithful to their first baby mamas? How convenient it is for some ladies to be so vague,heartless and hypocritical that the very act they cry out against are encouraged by them.

In my opinion,when we consider the heartaches,hurts and all the drama men create in women’s lives,i believe the male folk deserves all the hatred from he ladies but amazingly the women keep loving us. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them and this is one mystery no one may be able to unravel and this one question we may never be able to answer..WHY ARE WOMEN THEIR OWN WORST ENEMIES?

its no doubt. Women, our wahala is just too much. Swallow the bitter truth. we cant even live together without serious quarrels or malice. i wonder what the competition is all about. Our emotional nature might have side effects on us, but the men nko, dont they have feelings too? Me, i got no time for such jokes..

piamily:
its no doubt. Women, our wahala is just too much. Swallow the bitter truth. we cant even live together without serious quarrels or malice. i wonder what the competition is all about. Our emotional nature might have side effects on us, but the men nko, dont they have feelings too? Me, i got no time for such jokes..

lol!

Jesus

Well some of us don't know their self worth.If you grew up not being told you're a beautiful,strong,black woman no matter the shade or size,if you didn't spend quality time with the first man in your life(your dad)and if you weren't paid any attention too by your mom,or experienced affection in your family,it may cause you to be insecure.Insecurities don't come from men,so ladies you can't blame men.It starts with the experiences you grew up with,long before a man came into the picture.If you're whole,a man can cheat and hurt you but you'll not let it continue to happen,and I promise it won't break you.It won't make you become jealous of other women,unless the jealousy ]was hidden deep within you already.I love it when I see another sister ,looking just as good or better than me.I smile because in my mind and with my upbringing she is my sister,no need to be jealous or demean her Character.I've been cheated on not once but twice but if you're whole & strong,you know that's not about you or the other woman.You should be glad that God is working in your favor and revealing everything to you.Move on gracefully.Trust me,hating on your sisters does nothing but show your weaknesses and takes away your dignity and class.❤

Wow I can't believe I reach this dept of nairaland!