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Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Divay22(f): 9:53pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
ArchangeLucifer:This hurts 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 9:55pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
majekdom2: I see it as baseless dude!!! I've had bad experiences working with females. I've had bad experiences working with males. I ask you all again, don't men do evil to men? Don't men do worse evil to women? Why don't I hear, men hate women or men hate themselves? You men don't ever wanna be judged by the evil of other men out there, but you come and make swiping remarks, theb talk about 'attack on women'. Abegi, spare me all that. Person that's wicked is wicked. Not everyone will do you good. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 9:58pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Apus: Go ask those women around you if they hate other women. If they say yes, come back and we will have a discussion. I flow with anyone that treats me well. Good heart isn't by gender. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:thing is I didn't read through the post but your comment. And if you read through my post, you will see I wasn't talking "evil" or evil just the usual jealousy and little fights. Well each to his opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Apus: 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
boiz2men: Lols!..I don't think u are. Biko no sorry for me oo I'm also throwing in my resignation soon,na only u sabi Proud??. Been submitting applications and must confess things are really looking positive. Thanks & all d best. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 10:05pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
majekdom2: You as a man,if society was in support of a woman having more than 1 husband...will you be happy with it? Would you be happy sharing your woman with other men openly? Won't you have the usual jealousy and little fights? You might decide not to fight for her, and some other man will. Two different persons... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Apus: 10:09pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
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Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:who vex you this night Naaa. Well, yes, even as she doesn't have the right, I still get jealous of admirers. I am not even talking that jealousy. I am talking of the jealousy of beauty, endowment and abilities not a man. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 10:16pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
majekdom2: And you really wanna convince yourself, that men don't jealous the handsomeness, endowment and abilities of their fellow man? LOL...Just stop it. They are all over NL, bad belleing every physically fit guy, telling them girls prefer 6cars to 6packs. The ones with small prick console themselves with sayings like size doesn't matter. My dear, anyone can be jealous. Women are only more vocal and expressive about theirs. Unlike men who have to act tough, whereas they're harbouring serious insecurities inside... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:Well said. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:the bolded is just the summary. Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by ArchangeLucifer: 11:31pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
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Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by MissRaine69(f): 5:09am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Lack of self esteem manifests itself differently it’s easier to transfer your anxieties and insecurities on to others rstehr than deal with matters. That said one of the best teachers and mentors I had was a woman she believed in me when many did not. Not once did she view me as a competitor she nurtured my ambitions. Now if she was insecure she would have relished all my failures and disappointments. Women are their own worst enemy as most lack emotional intelligence. |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Lionbite(m): 5:35am On Nov 21, 2017 |
pocohantas:baby you just said it all.... Kneel down lemme pray for you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by babtaima(m): 6:21am On Nov 21, 2017 |
pocohantas: pocohantas:Your posts always made sense but right now you make absolute zero sense.. no reason whatsoever in this argument you make.. are you now feministising all your posts? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by QueenSekxy(f): 6:34am On Nov 21, 2017 |
women are there own problem, so as men!! jealousy is an individual thing and can't be allotted to a specific gender!! there are some men that are also jealous of their fellow men in one way of the other!! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 6:50am On Nov 21, 2017 |
babtaima: Why don't you read the opening post, it'll help you quote sensibly. Lionbite: I'm on my knees Sir... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by IamLaura(f): 7:48am On Nov 21, 2017 |
pocohantas:As much as I'll like to agree with you and you've also made some valid points,the truth still remains. As a beautiful woman I've experienced it firsthand, almost everyday of my life. Women are their own worst enemies.QED 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by DaddyKross: 8:10am On Nov 21, 2017 |
babtaima: Why ask the obvious ? It's black n white. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by DaddyKross: 8:14am On Nov 21, 2017 |
IamLaura: Blessed are you among women, for the truth has set you free 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 21, 2017 |
IamLaura: I know your type. Lmao 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 10:43am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: LOL. People like her will always say they experienced it... Ask them if they have ever done it to another, they will say NO!!! They are always the victims. I'm looking for a woman who will agree she has been the perpetrator, not beautiful women like her who are always victims. Women are their worst enemies indeed. Who are these women that are enemies to another woman? They should come here and raise up their hands... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Nobody: 11:13am On Nov 21, 2017 |
pocohantas: They are usually narcissists who lack self awareness and treat others like trash. when people seem to continuously have problem with you it is time to check yourself because you might be the problem. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Earthquake1: 11:15am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Women are already hating women in this thread 15 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Medicineguy: 11:53am On Nov 21, 2017 |
Earthquake1:lol..so , You noticed that too...the ugly ones are already combining to fight @iamlaura...I don't know why men waste their time arguing with women...all u have to do is WAIT and watch them 15 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by pocohantas(f): 12:19pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: I wouldn't tag it narcissism as I don't know her. It's a case of seeing gender instead of a person. Now some guys are here claiming we're hating on her bc we're ugly, but guys have countered women in this same thread and they didn't call it hating. That's exactly how it plays out in reality. Women are not allowed to call another woman out, without it being out of jealousy. These are the kinda guys that go about setting women up against themselves with this same baseless saying, I am very wary of their antics. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by IamLaura(f): 12:22pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga:And I know urs 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by ReinaFarine: 4:09pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Because I was brought up in a society where I was meant to think I have to compete with millions of girls for the attention of a 'man' And instead of us joining hands to build ourselves for men to envy us, it seems easier to point out supposed flaws, bring others down to feel perfect... Instead of you teaching me how to have a nice skin, and me teaching you how to understand budgeting and financial management, and she teaching us how to dress like a lady and on and on, we concentrate on pointing out what others are lacking at sohhat we'll feel better about ourselves... Do I think it is a sexist comment, Yes, kinda.... But is it true... Hells Yeah.... I grew up a tomboy... So I don't understand hair and make-up and catwalks... And I used to feel insecure about that... And I still do to an extent.... It never bothered me before... Guys around me weren't complaining about my looks or my vulgar mouth... It was my fellow ladies that started the snide little comment... And I don't blame them... Right now, I can see they were threatened by my closeness to the guys in school and they threw rocks at the area I was lacking... #Fashion sense... And I didn't help matters... I had the vulgar, insultive language of a teenage boy and I made them feel like shit about areas they invest effort into..... But over time, I had to grow up... I take insults and attacks at me as places I need to work on... When a girl calls me olosho, I watch my interaction with the opposite sex and amend a little... When she calls me a stuck up bitch.. I try to improve my interpersonal skills... When she takes a shot at my power of English I read... Instead of attacking her, I work on the aspect she's correcting in her own verbally abusive way.... Threatened by another woman... I am who I am and as hard as it is to be who I am, if I see anybody, man or woman playing underhanded games to disrupt my career, I call you out on it... I don't have to fight dirty.... I'm strong enough to win fighting clean... 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Toks2008(m): 7:38pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
ReinaFarine: Excellent |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Toks2008(m): 7:40pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
Eke1: Lalasticlala will mediate. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Rukkydelta(f): 8:14pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
pocohantas:Exactly sis Most times is men that always come with the saying that women hates each other I'm a woman so I can't hate my fellow gender cos of some baseless reasons Any woman that hates women isn't a woman but a bitch (apologies for the rude word) |
Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Safiaa(f): 8:19pm On Nov 21, 2017 |
ArchangeLucifer:Are you gay? Just a question.. |
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