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pafo:
Beautiful and intelligent ladies don't think about marriage at 21. They think about careers! Or at least the ones I know.

doesn't mean that the ones that do are less intelligent... it all depend on individual, destiny, time zone... I can marry early and yet be successful, the other way round too, go ask omotola or joke silver. so my dear, let's not narrow it that way

queenice7:
Am in my final year and am 21, I wana get married early so I ain't playing, I don't want childish stuffs.

This right here is your problem ma'am. Happiness and fulfilment in marriage has no age barrier. When you set a target such as this, you are most likely to end up dissapointed. Most women who married early didn't choose it so, they lived their lives and went with the flow.

Most guys see female undergraduates as nothing but a sex object. Only a few can be genuine. Focus on your studies.

queenice7:
doesn't mean that the ones that do are less intelligent... it all depend on individual, destiny, time zone... I can marry early and yet be successful, the other way round too, go ask omotola or joke silver. so my dear, let's not narrow it that way

I don't believe in things like destiny and timezone. We make our destiny as we choose but marriage does complicate things especially for a woman.

You guys are busy advising a slay queen. God knows i can't take someone like you serious. With your writeups you're a gold standard digger, you wanna attract what you don't have.

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

Honestly you made the best decision, I like you for that, honestly

Hiss... Sign.. You'll crazy you didn't finish tori 1 now you 22 jumped street to your foolishly or bastardized rich ex or bf... Own now what's your purpose in life now? Date 1 guy hmmm wahala. You fucking Hot you see sex you format.. Holy holy what will my friend say.

OK date an average guy wahala... You guys are naturally confuse... Will I"ll drop my number with you so I can finish my discussion Via WhatsApp. I can't say if you bleeped up or not. Cause you tori doesn't smell right... If you need just sex, or words of reason... Pm me.

androidroot:
You guys are busy advising a slay queen. God knows i can't take someone like you serious. With your writeups you're a gold standard digger, you wanna attract what you don't have.

going thru her post all I could see is a desperate old lady look in for a man to lay her burdens on.
Shameless gold digger

queenice7:
doesn't mean that the ones that do are less intelligent... it all depend on individual, destiny, time zone... I can marry early and yet be successful, the other way round too, go ask omotola or joke silver. so my dear, let's not narrow it that way

Pauper...Looking 4rich dudes and don't want to open legs and nt even that,u r a virgin oooo....

Go for people at ur level and build up together because those rich dudes u crave for ll soon use u do yahoo yahoo..


Last last,I forgot to ask u...wat kind of guys do u like


Aswear.... u r seriously madt and u ve no one to tell u...

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

Dear you did well, hold your self, many men can comfortably use people and dump th like rags. Same guys that did like sex is the best thing for them will easily call you a white because you slept with them. Be circumspect, when the right guy comes, you will know.

DateMynd44:
going thru her post all I could see is a desperate old lady look in for a man to lay her burdens on.
Shameless gold digger

May God continue to protect us from this kind of people.

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

.......................my dear in you I see a decent and disciplined young woman trying so hard to get loose and belong due to negative influence and the desperate need to align with rbe statusquo.

M y dear who told u that u cannot be a female student , dedicated , diligent in her studies , having well disciplined and decent friends across the sexes and yet not getting down with men ..,.

Going through your right up I feel sad , you said your beautiful and all , good ....add to that beauty a strong resolve to be a disciplined , virtuos , diligence, dedication to your studies and a commitment to be a woman of substance , u will see that men and their issues will be the least of ur worries .

Then too, true love will come , love happens most times when we are busy with our lives goals and aspirations ...a man that truely loves u will not be in a hurry to open the package .


Most importantly live a God fearing life ....and refuse to be distracted.

Hope this helps .....

LivingFree:
1. Wait for a guy to declare you as his gf
2. Never follow a man to any room.
3. Speak your mind: what you want out of the relationship (tell them you are looking for a serious relationship)
4. Stop looking for 'Rich' made men when you are a broke student.
5. Give those on your level a chance (grow rich together)
6. Respect yourself and don't be intimidated by a man stance (be he 'rich' or a 'doctor')
7. Most importantly, concentrate on your studies and become successful yourself and men will line up for you to pick from .

You were making sense until you got to the part i cancelled.

Ur perfectly fine,sex is not everything. Not that am a saint or anyone but do what ur heart tells u

queenice7:
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.

You are not smart in anyway. How can someone that can't make up their mind be smart? You just think you're smart because you can type English well but you're not. You really aren't as Smart as you think and you have to come to terms with that.

Openly saying "I'm smart" already makes you a dumb person with low self esteem.

iamJ:
Anybody that says I'm beautiful and intelligent is always the opposite


Abeg I no wan talk

This guy don wise pass him age ohh

luminouz:
These girls and their lies Sha....ur beautiful and intelligent (n yet u can't seem to figure out ur problem) but still fvcks up abi??


Lemme humor u....

Your write-up is all about the guys being very rich or with good jobs and all dat...u never seem to take your time to know these guys....what's the rush??
The fact that both guys just jump on you on 1st/2nd dates,trying to sleep with you(almost forcefully) speaks volumes about your skewered taste in men...

Once again....I don't ever trust girls who HYPE themselves!!!

She's just an escort living in denial

Doctors are usually very promiscuous. Some, not all though.

Thank God he didn't boink you. You should be grateful, weytin you carry come, you still carry am go.

No jokes now, dust yourself and keep your head high. It is imperative that you do not let your thoughts get clouded by marriage or been married at this time of your life.

The best years of your life here, give your life the best.

Put a clip in your "box" to protect it from this guys out there.

Stay well.

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

Your intelligence is only on your exam paper and your CGPA. You need to live life and be able to know what’s wrong from what’s right!

Take yourself on a journey and spend some time alone and have a soul searching on what you want. Good luck while at it!

queenice7:
I am in my final year, I want serious sth. I have dated students b4 and it wasn't a tale I'll like to share. they were so childish and had nothing to offer but sex... I'll advice anybody entering university not to date fellow student but face your studies. if you must date, go for sth bigger, someone more matured and has experienced life more than you

As typical... Always selfishly thinking of how it will benefit their folk...
What did you yourself offer in all those relationships with fellow students? Is it not only sex you too can offer?
Stop asking for what you can't give...

austyn0:
I love you.....
Especially because of.no.5

do you school in unn

LivingFree:
1. Wait for a guy to declare you as his gf
2. Never follow a man to any room.
3. Speak your mind: what you want out of the relationship (tell them you are looking for a serious relationship)
4. Stop looking for 'Rich' made men when you are a broke student.
5. Give those on your level a chance (grow rich together)
6. Respect yourself and don't be intimidated by a man stance (be he 'rich' or a 'doctor')
7. Most importantly, concentrate on your studies and become successful yourself and men will line up for you to pick from.

Just logged in to say wow;
Someone called Ubuntu says Nigeria girls are intelligent. This confirmed it... .
Best advice this morning

queenice7:
I am in my final year, I want serious sth. I have dated students b4 and it wasn't a tale I'll like to share. they were so childish and had nothing to offer but sex... I'll advice anybody entering university not to date fellow student but face your studies. if you must date, go for sth bigger, someone more matured and has experienced life more than you

and what did you think you had to offer those experienced and matured men? no be totoh? füčk off ashawo.. gold digger

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

Abeg stop to dey claim hard to fxck. u are a fxcking Olosho looking for a fxcking maga so give them the fxcking Toto to fxck

You have to work on your mindset, it seems what attracts you to a man is the fatness of his pocket.
Any good man that want sth serious with will not want to have sex with u on first date, some will even not want to do it until wedding night. So there mission is chop and clean mouth nothing more.
You have done very well in rejecting their offer but the second u should have done it in a very mature way without shouting on him.
Pls work on yourself the more stop thinking any man will add value to you, first add value to yourself the right man will come at the right time.

Goldmaxx:
do you school in unn

Nah....Why do you ask??

LivingFree:
1. Wait for a guy to declare you as his gf
2. Never follow a man to any room.
3. Speak your mind: what you want out of the relationship (tell them you are looking for a serious relationship)
4. Stop looking for 'Rich' made men when you are a broke student.
5. Give those on your level a chance (grow rich together)
6. Respect yourself and don't be intimidated by a man stance (be he 'rich' or a 'doctor')
7. Most importantly, concentrate on your studies and become successful yourself and men will line up for you to pick from.

U are blessed

Wao.... Smart and intelligent
And you are already thinking of getting married very very soon at 21.
Over smartness will not kill you

LivingFree:
1. Wait for a guy to declare you as his gf
2. Never follow a man to any room.
3. Speak your mind: what you want out of the relationship (tell them you are looking for a serious relationship)
4. Stop looking for 'Rich' made men when you are a broke student.
5. Give those on your level a chance (grow rich together)
6. Respect yourself and don't be intimidated by a man stance (be he 'rich' or a 'doctor')
7. Most importantly, concentrate on your studies and become successful yourself and men will line up for you to pick from.

Nigerian men line up to pick successful women?!! � you made mad sense on the rest.

LivingFree:
you quoted the wrong woman with this. #feminist

He is referring to Nigerian men. A majority flee from successful women.

This one dey find rich guys to clinge to...LMFAO....op there is this 65 yr old widow friend i have with lots of cash....come and harvest..i can link u up with him...remember to bring ur equipments when coming..( digger and other digging equipments)...

austyn0:
Nah....Why do you ask??

you look familiar

queenice7:
I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

You did nothing wrong.