A newly wed bride identified as Virtuous Joy, who is also a plus-sized lady, has taken to her social media to narrate how she was able to overcome hateful comments about her size.

The lady who seemed so overjoyed about her new status shared on how her husband appreciates her for whom she is and how this gave her confidence in herself.

Joy shared this motivational piece on her social media. Read below:

I remember being so happy and excited about my wedding day and how beautiful I felt. When my husband first saw me in my wedding attire he couldn’t take his eyes off of me. He couldn’t stop talking about how beautiful and amazing I looked.. it was such a magical moment for the both of us.

Once we posted our pictures for our family and friends. So many people were so happy for us! Then there were those folks that wanted to let me know just how much a fat girl did not deserve this kind of happiness so they tried their hardest to take it away.

People will try to take away your joy. They will try to disturb your peace. They will do everything in their power to make you feel miserable and worthless. DO. NOT. LET. THEM! For so long I let people dictate my every move and decisions! I let what people thought or said about me effect how I viewed myself. At one point I felt like I didn’t deserve to feel beautiful. I didn’t deserve to be loved. I didn’t deserve to pursue my dreams. Oh, how wrong I was!

I’m so happy I’m constantly being reminded of who God says I am! I am fearfully and wonderfully made!

Sis, PURUSE YOUR DREAMS. WRITE THAT BOOK. START THAT BUSINESS and continue to know and remind yourself that you are loved, you are so important, you are BEAUTIFUL in so many ways, and you are needed!

Let today be the day that you stop letting people who don’t matter hold you back!

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Wow, BOLD and BEAUTIFUL

may their union be BLESSED

You are beautiful dear. Happy married life!

When it comes to happiness, SIZE DOESN'T MATTER..

Haters will be haters coz they are frustrated with their own lives so they want others to be miserable as well...

Oyindidi:
You are beautiful dear. Happy married life!

No she isn't beautiful with all those body fat.

Just another excuse to be lazy, fat people disgust me.

And for future reference, we all can't be beautiful. That's life.

I agree with her.


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where iz d Joy? please

Madam, go and dedicate your time to the gym. Don't console yourself with words for being over weight. There are many disadvantages for your size.

Happiness ke. Obese people have a reduced life expectancy by about 10 years ; this is similar to the effect of lifelong smoking. Better lose all those fats if you want to be happy.

Virtous Joy...

Very meanigful name...

his profile tells me, he is an orphan and he is igbo

Osinbajo profile shows, he is from biafra

Who wan try you

A wife I can't turn 360deg without breathing like a Christmas goat who's being chase by NnwamaAkpe....is that one a wife?

Heaven forbid that I Offpoint son of offpoint-senior should marry a wife I can't raise my voice at when I'm angry without her pinning me on the wall and beating the living hell out of me.

A wise Chinese man once told me: "a man who knows is limit and boundaries will live long"

On this occasion I'll arrive at...Never allow a fat woman reduce your life span, know your limit.

Young man on RESCUE MISSION

this one big oo

it really depends on who is feeding who , joy can be taken or given

She's beautiful sha.I just pray God gives the hubby the required resources to bear the "Heavy Duty"

If na guy fat like this now... una no go say bold and beautifull o

We humans are too judgemental! Thank God for preferences, the "you're too fat crew" would have died, the "you're too thin crew" would have committed suicide . Your physical appearance should never determine your happiness or lack of it. You owe your happiness to yourself, not from anyone's approval!

#proudlyslim
#proudlyfat
#proudlyaverage

QueenSuccubus:



When it comes to happiness, SIZE DOESN'T MATTER..

Haters will be haters coz they are frustrated on their own lives so they want others to be miserable as well...

Preach!
Love comes in different shapes and sizes. Beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder.

To love and to hold.

Girl....we ain't hating on you...but you gotta lose some of that if you wanna live....

Fat is understatement, She is Mighty.

Jamariwolff:
No she isn't beautiful with all those body fat.

Just another excuse to be lazy, fat people disgust me.

And for future reference, we all can't be beautiful. That's life.

But i thought Codien and trams ave bin banded

Jamariwolff:
No she isn't beautiful with all those body fat.

Just another excuse to be lazy, fat people disgust me.

And for future reference, we all can't be beautiful. That's life.

How can you say such a vile statement biko? What is wrong with this one? I have always said overweight people should make an effort to lose the extra pounds and not give excuses; but I do not support such insults. Haba! Disgust kwa! Common, grow up.

I agree with her. But sis, for the sake of your health, you need to loose weight.

TheAngry1:



How can you say such a vile statement biko? What is wrong with this one?

Leave her to spill bile. How much has her skinny body achieved?