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Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Oyindidi(f): 4:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI:I understand now. She called you demon? some Nairalanders sef 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 4:58pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Oga no vex o. Just think of me as your sister that sees that you are about to enter fire that will destroy you and she is trying to talk some sense into you before you allow love and tight toto to cloud your judge. No vex. JoshVI: 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by genq(m): 5:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: OP please expand on this issue so we can better advise you. What causes the fights? You are almost 40 and have been together 4 years, why havent you guys married yet? any financial issues or infidelity? From the little I see here it seems this is a purely lustful relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 5:41pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:no financial issues and no infidelity. If these were the case I wouldn’t have been here to seek advice. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 5:43pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:Also she’s a student and wants us to get married even now but I told her to wait till when she’s done with school. Her home and school is like 10min drive from me. So we do see almost everyday. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by genq(m): 5:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: Dr. I know exactly who you are. Is this post is about your short, egocentric, fair complexioned wife who has no friends because of her disgustingly prideful attitude? Have you twisted the story slightly to hide ur identity? Claiming that you've been dating for 4 years when in fact you are married with a child. Is the reason for ur latest fight because she snooped on ur phone and found that you've been flirting around? Is it true that your mother has decided to be careful with her ever since the day you took her home and she ordered your father to switch on the fan "because she is hot".. I mean why won't she have such boldnes when you literally lick her a**! Is it true that the relationship with one of your closest family members has been strained because she continuously disrespected him and you turned a blind eye? Is it true that you are madly in LUST with her especially because of her skin tone and 'beauty' and thats why you continously post corny epistles online celebrating her whilst secretly wishing her attitude will change for the better? You are free to deny what we both know |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 6:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Josh we are waiting o genq: |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by chii8(f): 6:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Two cholerics want to meet in holy matrimony.....ok My opinion: after the wedding, you will eventually get over her beauty She can never change. Will you be comfortable if later in life,she emotionally or verbally abuses your friends or family? You dated for 4years but you will be surprised if you cannot be able to survive the first six months after wedding You saw the red sign but you can as well choose to act now or not. I feel you're not really in love, you are just deeply attracted to her beauty. Have you ever considered her parent's relationship? Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:im lost! Where is all this coming from? Seems you wanted to post this reply on another thread! 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:16pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
OmoAlata1:not sure he or she wanted to post that in this thread! |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by genq(m): 6:22pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: JoshVI: Oh yes Dr. I am talking to you. Seems you wanna push me to get nasty but I refuse to reveal your identity on this site. You are loved by many but your wife is merely tolerated because of your strange obsession with her. Wish you all the best and hope you get good advice on this site. I'm out! |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:27pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
chii8:certainly not because of her beauty. Have dated ladies more beautiful and endowed than her. Her parents lived a happy life. She always recount sweet memories of her late dad. Her mom is a sweet woman too! |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:i still don’t understand what you saying! You are certainly mistaking me for someone else. Dr. Of what? Certainly won’t be writing this poorly if I was a doctor or Dr. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:37pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:oh now I know where this young man is coming from!! Dr Gilbert, THIS IS YOUR LAST WARNING. Stop stalking me and my woman on every social media. Not after I caught in right inside her house at 10pm while your wife and kids are left suffering in London. LEAVE ME ALONE. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by sisisioge: 6:39pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Hmmmm...fire! Your story would have been perfect but for the physical abuse and fuse touchings in between. I recommend you stay shag mates until further notice. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 6:41pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:you can never have my woman. Even the car you bought for her to lure her is rotting away in my house in Nigeria. When we get back to that Nigeria we will hunt you and disgrace you. Don’t joke with me |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by sisisioge: 6:50pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Oh dear! It's getting dramatic! 7 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Table don finally break o 5 Likes
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Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Dyt(f): 7:33pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: genq: Oh The both of you registered to start throwing jabs? Pls post with your known usernames London men Hian |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:36pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
kai!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I fear London men. I don’t know why women deal with them. Dyt: |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Daeylar(f): 7:56pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
What's happening These accusations started like joke, now it has turned to something else |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Dyt(f): 7:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
OmoAlata1: Let these two sha come and open dia nyansh |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by texttosh: 8:06pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
As a man, you will design your wife to your taste, know that two of you are from different background. how you people prayer life check it out? |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 8:10pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Dr Gilbert, I have all evidence of your lustful chat with my woman, if you dare me or provoke me, I’ll send them to your wife and kids. Just dare me and see! What an ingrate, after all I did for you? You came to London because of me, you had no where to stay and I housed you and fed you for years. I paid the first rent for the house you and your family are living currently, remember? You went to Nigeria and started saying all sorts of evils and trash against me. I know what your problem is, jealousy, you can never get my woman and can never dine with me. If not for your beautiful kids, I would have gotten your wife fired and sent packing to Nigeria. Ingrate! |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by JoshVI: 8:11pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
genq:Dr Gilbert, I have all evidence of your lustful chat with my woman, if you dare me or provoke me, I’ll send them to your wife and kids. Just dare me and see! What an ingrate, after all I did for you? You came to London because of me, you had no where to stay and I housed you and fed you for years. I paid the first rent for the house you and your family are living currently, remember? You went to Nigeria and started saying all sorts of evils and trash against me. I know what your problem is, jealousy, you can never get my woman and can never dine with me. If not for your beautiful kids, I would have gotten your wife fired and sent packing to Nigeria. Ingrate! |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by OmoAlata1(f): 8:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Wow, this is serious. He actually brought the stalking of you online. Please if he is still based in London, go report him to police ASAP. He is a psycho. JoshVI: |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Restroom: 8:19pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
A real man does not beat a woman or physically abuse her, no matter what. This pattern and behavior between the two of you will continue after marriage....sadly enough, after marriage it will get worse.. Your relationship right now is an abusive relationship.Face it. If you go ahead and marry her with your eyes wide open Your children will be born into a dysfunctional family, an abusive family where the parents take it out on each other. Then, the eldest child will start abusing his siblings, copying the abusive pattern of their parents. How can you say you love her and occasionally, you hit her? The Bible says, husband should love their wives as their own bodies. So have you beaten yourself before ? If you love your wife or girl, no matter how bad she offends you, you can't beat her. If you cant beat yourself, don't raise your hand on your wife or girlfriend. She has to change now....if she does not improve her personality b4 marriage, don't expect her to change after marriage. If she fights back now, after marriage, she will fight you constantly because that is who she is. Marriage and relationship are two different things......my Broda. You never see anything.... I can't tell you not to go ahead.....but mark my words.... Your foundation for a happy married life with this girl is already faulty You have anger issues she is rude or unapologetic Add the two together .....and you see war ahead... That is a girl that can kill you in retaliation if you attack her out if anger This is the formulae for a happy home: Hot + cool Cool+ Hot Not Hot + hot Hot + stubborn The fact that you have anger issues is enough to think twice about your happiness with a senseless girl that does not know how to apologize, say I am sorry or even calm you or pet you. O boy.....you are not in love...you are in a dream......just make sure you don't wake up in marriage. If you believe you really love her, here is my advice : take her out and show her this post made on nairaland let her read it and ask her how she feels about it then ask her this question: na so we go dey dey? is she happy with the relationship? If we get married is this how things will be? Ask her...if the method of settling querels and dispute, currently practiced is the best! If she says no, ask her what is the best method? Let her recommend..... After that ask her...why she does practice it two of you should grow up and practice what you want to happen in your married life tomorrow, today. But if she is not willing to discuss your happiness with her, then, I think, you have a big problem.She should be willing to change for the better, just as you should be ready to stop beating her. If she is not ready to work on herself now, to improve herself to bring happiness to your relationship now, she won't do it in the future after marriage. If she values you, and truelly loves you, well she got to make sacrifices for you bro. If she does not and will not, then she nor love you men. If her mother is still alive, go meet her and confide in her . Tell her mom to help you work on her, because you want to marry her If her mom talks to her, she go calm down bro Read the Bible together especially the book of Ephesians chapter 6. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Lush100(m): 8:38pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
the two if you should visit a well respected elderly Christian couple in ur church for counselling. u will see changes if both if u are willing. |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Dyt(f): 8:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: Hmmmm How did he know you will be on NL? And infact How does he know it's you Some kind of games? London men ehhhhhh 2 Likes |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by pointblank247(m): 9:25pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
NA SLAP DE SOLVE THAT KAIN PROBLEM OO, SOME LADIES ARE LIKE THAT. SHE WILL NEVER SUBMIT WITOUT A HOT SLAP. I DATED ONE BACK IN SCHOOL, EVEN NOW SHE REFUSE TO FORGET ME, |
Re: Married Folks, How Do You Handle Stubborn Wife? Please Help. by Roland17(m): 9:58pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
JoshVI: I am not writing to demonize or sound sanctimonious because we all have our bad behaviors, consequently, no one has the moral justification to judge you. That being said, you have a lot to work to do on yourself before you get married to this woman or any woman for that matter. Firstly, you must stop being too emotional as that is the reason you are in this situation in the first place. Be pragmatic for once and consider the advice you sought for in the first place. Have you laid hands on women in your previous relationships? or is this the first time? If this woman is the first time, then I would advice you walk away from this relationship because it is perfect definition of a "toxic relationship", however, if hitting women has been a historical behavior with you, then I would also suggest you not only leave the lady but more importantly work on yourself before you kill another man's daughter and end up in jail. When you get married and hit her, she will not forgive you and while she may still love you, she will find ways to hurt you really bad and I don't mean physically. The test of love is not about the fun times, its how you both handle challenges and bad moments. Sometimes, incompatible partners are able to thrive, however, they must be honest about their situation and know when to withdraw and that does not seem like the case in this situation. She seems like the type that holds grudges. A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets, be wise before you ruin yourself completely in the name of love. |
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