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| Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 7:32pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that, I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it. Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship. Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening, The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time. ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude. Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone. 70 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Oyindidi(f): 7:34pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
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| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 7:36pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
sure,they will use it against you las las. 37 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Saff(f): 7:39pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Beforeee nko It’s all part of the game, if you don’t play it well you’ll end up heartbroken and shattered. All the guys will come and say “ it doesn’t matter, we like bold women” Just an advice, never listen to what men say, listen to their actions. That’s all. 49 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by sinaj(f): 7:41pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Yaaaaawns! Issorites! Just know that some guys love being asked out sha. One man's meat is another man's poison 170 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 7:45pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
especially the ones without beard.... not worth the risk  45 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Na that kind girl i dey love pass.But make i no dey dey see her hanginge out with other guys because i go begin see her as an okrika girl. 13 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 7:47pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
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| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamD18: 7:48pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
This is the most useless post I've read from a lady this year. But hey! I don't need to be surprise. She's a Nigerian, I don't expect much from them. >A big proof that Nigerian ladies can't handle rejection. >A big proof that Nigerian ladies are weaklings and not brave atall to challenge, that's why they are mostly poor. >A big proof that Nigerian ladies are boring and can't stand to approach and entertain a man. I can go on and on. If a man ask a lady out; It doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship. If a woman ask a man out; It doesn't still guarantee a long lasting relationship. You ladies should start having sense, stop embarrassing this country with your attention seeking threads on this forum just to be relevant. You all just can't handle rejection from a guy. You don't want to ask a guy out and get rejected or used, but you'll want a guy to move on when rejected. M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued. Goddam m'dafvqaz who thinks being approached by a man will guarantee a successful relationship. Dumb biiiitches who thinks a guy who approaches them won't still use and dump them. Yes! It's risky for a woman to ask a man out because most men won't reject her but to accept, fvck and dump her. But does it still change the fact that men still ask ladies out, fvck and dump them aswell? Truth is; Whether you approach a man or not as a Nigerian woman. You'll still be used and dump, it won't stop you from suffering heartbreak from a man who approached you. You all should have some sense!! If possible, borrow sense on credit!! 410 Likes 44 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 7:48pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
sinaj:not in Nigeria ... the west yes its possible.. but back home na even the man would be seen as not manly ... like a bitch noone wants a manbîtch . 8 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by imitateMe(m): 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
No matter how classy the girl is, she'd look cheap and worthless to him. The more you try to seduce a man, the more worthless and disgusting you'll seem to him. However, playing hard to get doesn't raise your standards - it only postpones your 'heartbreak day'. If you know you know! 93 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by youcanmakeit: 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Remember men are different..If a guy start taking a girl for granted because she ask him out, be rest assured that the guy self-esteem is very low..Only boys will act like that..Boys prefer chasing and begging women. Op, your brother and his friends are still BOYS No Real Man(I mean no Real Man) will take a girl for granted simply because she was the one who ask him out.. Instead he'll so much appreciate her effort and make sure she doesn't feel bad about it.. Some years back a lady asked me out, she never regretted it  60 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Nigerian guys? I will pass  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
comshots:Okirika girl, see what I'm saying? 3 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 7:49pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
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| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by YemiHadid(m): 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
So because your brother said this, and said that - "girls should not ask a guy out" - ok. 6 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
sinaj:with the sort of guys we have in this country?  they will always make it known to you that you were the one that came for them when the chips are down. 6 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Saff:...a piece of advice... 15 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 7:50pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Lalas247:I love beard gang too but not the goat looking type, they're scary 5 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by GrammarNazi1(m): 7:51pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
sinaj:...some guys love... 22 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
IamAirforce1:Why does this sound like "Your brothers and his friends are IamAirforce1?  7 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 7:52pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
mhisbliss: lol .... yes I'm Still coming to terms with a goatie..... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 7:53pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Preshy561:ticket to cheat anyhow 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamAirforce1: 7:54pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
[quote author=MariaLavina post=68455266]Why does this sound like "Your brothers and his friends are IamAirforce1? [/quoteLol you're just a kid, go away 5 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Humchi(m): 7:54pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
What the op wrote and inciting the ladies to do is one of the reasons why ladies will remain unmarried, forming hard to get is one of the things that turns me off in a lady... People like me, who is interested in a lady and when it happens that i am trying to get her and she is like ignoring me, i would forget her because i can't force myself on you... Have it in mind that i may not even have the idea that you are forming but i'm likely going to take it as you are not interested in me and i can't love who i will force to love me... Secondly, i respect women who have the boldness to express their feeling towards me.. I would even treat her like a queen.. After all i have said, my point is you should know that not all men are the same.. Some will take you as cheap, while some won't.. Op you are in company with flirts.. It is simple... 64 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 7:55pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Lalas247: I tell you,they will so belittle your presence and still go for the ones that actually like. and when being reminded of their acts,they will ring it to your hearing that you actually did the chasing ,and not the other way round. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
[quote author=IamAirforce1 post=68455316][/quote]I will! But I have to let you know, You using the word "Stupid " is like describing others in your identity. We all know what Airforce is Synonymous to here  Bye1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 7:58pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Humchi:stop advertising yourself ntori olurun. 6 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round. 4 Likes |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by TSOM(m): 8:00pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
Lalas247: mhisbliss: Score one for hirsute men, again. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Lalas247(f): 8:03pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
TSOM:yes! 1 Like |
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