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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamD18: 3:14pm On Jun 14, 2018
Colourich:
Karma they say is a bitchh cheesy. She don't get to insult a faculty and its graduates when she can't defend the one she newly got admitted to.

I'm done with her issues. She don't worth it.


You refused telling me how you are undecided

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by toyosi15(m): 3:14pm On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.
LINDA IKEJI THE II, keep pushing ‘em, some guys are dead scared of rejection so asking your guy out might do the trick, just saying
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 14, 2018
Kimcutie:
It's Aries. You were talking about honesty and straightforwardness, things like that are given to the deserved.
So I was right.

That makes absolutely no sense.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


I'm done with her issues. She don't worth it.


You refused telling me how you are undecided
I'm balling cheesy. Kinda occupied though.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamD18: 3:17pm On Jun 14, 2018
Colourich:
I'm balling cheesy. Kinda occupied though.

Nice, very necessary to be busy and occupied. Stay cool, kiss
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 3:17pm On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
Mrphysics's alternate. Broke guys claiming what they can never be. grin

Hehehehehe. Mrphysics does not use any alternate. I don't hide for any reason.

If I am broke, I wonder what you are, maybe wretched.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Kimcutie: 3:18pm On Jun 14, 2018
JupiterGeekVII:
So I was right.

That makes absolutely no sense.
How? You expect me to honest to a deceiver, liar, gossiper and other bad traits some people possess?
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 3:22pm On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


I doubt if I'll quote the ugly and dirty looking girl again on this forum cry
You were not online around 4:30am, the moniker called preshy called me nwa teacher, or a physics teacher (which isn't bad anyway).

I had to show her screenshot of my Fiverr earning for the month of May and my on-going orders, ever since then, she never replied or mentioned me.

The kimbraa girl is like every year 1 student. Very soon, the first semester result will come out, that is when she will know the difference between six and half a dozen.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by IamD18: 3:29pm On Jun 14, 2018
mrphysics:

You were not online around 4:30am, the moniker called preshy called me nwa teacher, or a physics teacher (which isn't bad anyway).

I had to show her screenshot of my Fiverr earning for the month of May and my on-going orders, ever since then, she never replied or mentioned me.

The kimbraa girl is like every year 1 student. Very soon, the first semester result will come out, that is when she will know the difference between six and half a dozen.
grin grin grin grin grin

Right now; I'm angry and upset with myself because of who I've being dissing with.

Her DP passed a lot of messages to men here concerning how ugly, local, dirty and poo these ladies look like.

Imagine what was calling me broke grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 14, 2018
mrphysics:

You were not online around 4:30am, the moniker called preshy called me nwa teacher, or a physics teacher (which isn't bad anyway).

I had to show her screenshot of my Fiverr earning for the month of May and my on-going orders, ever since then, she never replied or mentioned me.

The kimbraa girl is like every year 1 student. Very soon, the first semester result will come out, that is when she will know the difference between six and half a dozen.
E go clear for her eyes very soon, imagine a year one student calling a whole education faculty never do well and referring to me as a backyard teacher, ok am a backyard teacher that knows her intoto cos I studied that same economics she is bragging about, was expecting her to solve the derivative mathematics but she couldn't, yet she is busy parading herself as one intelligent guru on nairaland. She never see anything, school is yet to go through her.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 3:40pm On Jun 14, 2018
toyosi15:
LINDA IKEJI THE II, keep pushing ‘em, some guys are dead scared of rejection so asking your guy out might do the trick, just saying
Are you better than linda ikeji undecided are the females in your family better? Maybe being linda ikeji II is not a bad thing afterall
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by fredmichael(m): 3:43pm On Jun 14, 2018
youcanmakeit:
Remember men are different..If a guy start taking a girl for granted because she ask him out, be rest assured that the guy self-esteem is very low..Only boys will act like that..Boys prefer chasing and begging women. Op, your brother and his friends are still BOYS

No Real Man(I mean no Real Man) will take a girl for granted simply because she was the one who ask him out.. Instead he'll so much appreciate her effort and make sure she doesn't feel bad about it..

Some years back a lady asked me out, she never regretted it cheesy

so r u til with her.. Or u broke up..??
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 3:43pm On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:

grin grin grin grin grin

Right now; I'm angry and upset with myself because of who I've being dissing with.

Her DP passed a lot of messages to men here concerning how ugly, local, dirty and poo these ladies look like.

Imagine what was calling me broke grin

The thing tire me ooooo

Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mhisbliss(f): 3:53pm On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

Didn’t see her comment .. to be fair everyone is entitled to their opinion ....I’m just being realistic about it from what I have seen in that Country....
It doesn’t make you modern lol Hell no
With all the modernisation still we can’t get 24/7 electricity .... I can’t call ambulance and it will be there within 1 min grin police station has closes time shocked... customer service rep doesn’t even know what they are doing shocked
Go out with a white sister there see how they will be looking at you like she ain’t just another’s human being ... these are the one who are modern .. I see grin
Men I will keep praying for our beloved country .....

Just look at that body count thread ... in other countries no one gives a shīt if you have 1 or 20 oh but These so call modern Nigerians see how they bashed ladies .... most ladies can’t even tell their bf they lie why ... cause their modern..
Just to say I’m not a Virgin is big stigma yet we are modern cry like it’s a crime or disease

I need Ice tea I’m parched grin
grinIKR? they're so judgemental and backward coupled with sentiments and archaic religious beliefs yet they form modern women every chance they get

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Deltayankeeboi: 4:13pm On Jun 14, 2018
adesina746:


I have answered you now no because it is not right simple as it is
bro you have so much time. Stop bothering yourself to engage her in any intelligent conversation. Can't you see the replys she has been giving is myopic and very unintelligent. She is not worth it. Don't waste your time again. See the handwriting on the wall. She only feels bolder when her group of dipstick friends agree to her flawed analysis. Stop wasting your time bro. I am surprised that as intelligent as your comments have been, you are still bothering to reply her dumb assertions.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Deltayankeeboi: 4:22pm On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

my dear,NL is full of pretentious beings.

both men and women!!
don't feel flabbergasted about it.


I am not disappointed at some pretentious comments here,worst is that the guys that claimed they were toasted never agreed to marry these ladies.
and the ladies here that form civilization didn't end up with those ones they approached.
lool,I can't stop laughing.

Will chat you when I'm back dear.smiley
Imagine this very ugly thin dark girl that looks like something from a roadside dustbin feeling important. Why did you remove your former photo. You are either ashamed & not self confident enough of yourself and you stand up to insult other ladies. The only reason guys now bother to engage you in conversations is because you are now faceless. I guess they might be thinking you a beautiful lady, if only they knew how ugly & ordinary you are. You will be spat on. Thank God i saw your picture before you took it down. You need to go work on yourself.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 4:28pm On Jun 14, 2018
Colourich:
E go clear for her eyes very soon, imagine a year one student calling a whole education faculty never do well and referring to me as a backyard teacher, ok am a backyard teacher that knows her intoto cos I studied that same economics she is bragging about, was expecting her to solve the derivative mathematics but she couldn't, yet she is busy parading herself as one intelligent guru on nairaland. She never see anything, school is yet to go through her.
Intelligent? lol
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by KingSango(m): 4:28pm On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.


This looks strange. A woman must never kneel before a man that's not her husband. The man must kneel if he wants to marry her.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 4:29pm On Jun 14, 2018
mrphysics:

You were not online around 4:30am, the moniker called preshy called me nwa teacher, or a physics teacher (which isn't bad anyway).

I had to show her screenshot of my Fiverr earning for the month of May and my on-going orders, ever since then, she never replied or mentioned me.

The kimbraa girl is like every year 1 student. Very soon, the first semester result will come out, that is when she will know the difference between six and half a dozen.
nwa teacher,cos you earned $20 per month??

shame on you,and don't ever mention my moniker to suit your hungry teaching life.undecided
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
Stop being sentimental, nothing can be yours if you don't work for it, guys should chase girls not the other way around, we're the Price not you guys

Which price, petrol price or diesel price lmao. You better woman up now. Price ***u there .

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Deltayankeeboi: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2018
adesina746:


Madam u are just pouring your own frustration all over the place without reasonable argument or contribution u better take it easy and if u come here u quote me wit insult i shall give it to u double till u tire
man that girl is as ugly as fvck. Ugly girls are always angry, very frustrated and bitter. She knows deep within herself that no man will ever look her twice in the face whether she chooses to propose first or not so she is intentionally picturing herself as an important whatsup lady. It's funny how girls can be different. Some ugly girls i have met that are even finer than her are very humble and quiet because they know their condition. I have a picture of her on her profile sometime ago before she took it down and believe me when i tell you. I can only imagine the type of guys that even bothers to approach her. Ugliness is not a crime but don't be ugly and arrogant and i'm going to keep exposing her as long as i am on this forum

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
bro you have so much time. Stop bothering yourself to engage her in any intelligent conversation. Can't you see the replys she has been giving is myopic and very unintelligent. She is not worth it. Don't waste your time again. See the handwriting on the wall. She only feels bolder when her group of dipstick friends agree to her flawed analysis. Stop wasting your time bro. I am surprised that as intelligent as your comments have been, you are still bothering to reply her dumb assertions.
My broda later realised it.May God help them grin
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jun 14, 2018
piagetskinner:
unless I have some form of feelings for that girl..and she's goddamn Beautiful


if not I no accept...its even unnatural for women to ask men out

Cave Man I see You.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adesina746: 4:37pm On Jun 14, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
man that girl is as ugly as fvck. Ugly girls are always angry, very frustrated and bitter. She knows deep within herself that no man will ever look her twice in the face whether she chooses to propose first or not so she is intentionally picturing herself as an important whatsup lady. It's funny how girls can be different. Some ugly girls i have met that are even finer than her are very humble and quiet because they know their condition. I have a picture of her on her profile sometime ago before she took it down and believe me when i tell you. I can only imagine the type of guys that even bothers to approach her. Ugliness is not a crime but don't be ugly and arrogant and i'm going to keep exposing her as long as i am on this forum
That one dont even mind her. The frustration is writen all over her. How will a man look at that one and even take her serious with her mentally. I can only pity her
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 4:40pm On Jun 14, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
Imagine this very ugly thin dark girl that looks like something from a roadside dustbin feeling important. Why did you remove your former photo. You are either ashamed & not self confident enough of yourself and you stand up to insult other ladies. The only reason guys now bother to engage you in conversations is because you are now faceless. I guess they might be thinking you a beautiful lady, if only they knew how ugly & ordinary you are. You will be spat on. Thank God i saw your picture before you took it down. You need to go work on yourself.
omg!!
You have been seeking for this preshy's attention whenever you see her comment.
do you even know when last she uploaded her pics here?
what's wrong with you this disgruntled fellow.I said lemme just feed you with this reply cos you have been deprived of it for so long.
and hey,don't think you will be getting another next time.wink

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2018
remembered when I thought I liked a guy, I was practicing on how to make my intention known but something stopped me from doing so and I would forever be happy that I didn't go ahead
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 4:43pm On Jun 14, 2018
MhisTahrah:
I'm not seeking a life partner.
Neither am i.Dont take all jokes too serious.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 14, 2018
I fail to see any big deal in having a bachelors degree tho

I see no reason for degrading others too

We aren't in the same boat.

" There's nothing like I finished from university first, so automatically I am better than anyone still in the system"


Hence, we don't need to intimidate others with our achievements, rather we should always be thankful for every possible position we find ourselves

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Deltayankeeboi: 4:49pm On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:

grin grin grin grin grin

Right now; I'm angry and upset with myself because of who I've being dissing with.

Her DP passed a lot of messages to men here concerning how ugly, local, dirty and poo these ladies look like.

Imagine what was calling me broke grin
bro It's like you know how they operate here. I normally don't call out ugly girls. It's not fair to me. But this preshy561 girl's own is too much. The day i saw her picture before she removed it, i was like imagine so this is even the girl that insults guys. I laugh, i just pity her. I swear this This girl look like needle She is so ugly and at the same time arrogant. I just was vexed seeing her insult other girls on this thread today. I just had to call her out so she can know her place. Very arrogant thing. I will keep on doing that until she learns humility

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jun 14, 2018
Saff:
So what happened to those wonderful relationships then

Anyways the point is going out of your way to approach someone. Making yourself available is completely different from approaching a man, and asking him out. And I think that’s what the OP is talking about. There’s power in femininity and letting a man do his job. Just saying.

You're moving the goal post here because a man approaches/pursues you doesn't guarantee a long relationship leading to marriage so what happened to those relationships doesn't really matter.

The point I'm making is I wasn't treated badly by these men because I asked them out. I don't know how the dating scene works around you but nobody Say's 'will you go out with me?' after teenage years.
Approaching a man and telling him you like him and would like to get to know him is the same as asking him out... or am I mistaken here?

Many have proposed to men and funded the wedding and it's wrong to assume these women are less or live a horrible life like op is arguing.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 4:55pm On Jun 14, 2018
nawa,this church rat said I just removed pic,when I was on Ban for almost 2months.
even before ban, I didn't upload my pics.grin

its obvious this he-goat wanna masturbate with my pics.
cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by mrphysics(m): 4:59pm On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

nwa teacher,cos you earned $20 per month??

shame on you,and don't ever mention my moniker to suit your hungry teaching life.undecided
Check again.



Modified:
So shame didn't allow you leave your comment. You edited it cheesy cheesy cheesy

Nairaland ladies will never cease to amaze me. Well, Mrphysics is very kind and fogives easily. Send me a PM and I can change your life for good. grin grin

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