₦airaland Forum

koffsman:
Bro I won't bash u but rather advise u as a Christian masturbation is a sin in the sight of God your girl is a virgin but as for u , u ain't a virgin no more bcoz of ur masturbation habit I would advise you to stay away from it if ur bae is ready to give u her virginity bros I think u sud take it save d details of u being a Christian you have done worse so make real love have sex stop the act of masturbation bcoz sexually it's gon affect you bcoz you wud cum quick when having sex and it's not good if u don't know Ow to take her virginity read abt it or download lessons abt it we have them online once u feel like masturbating find somtin to occupy your mind with or try to create anoda habit maybe drink. Read, stroll or smoke but stop masturbation it ain't good in any way God help you.

Smoke
Are you here to add to the fire

SyndyB:
Your written English is too poor like this, and you are already serving?

And yours is pourer

MzDeeb:
Op, if you don't mind you can send a mail to heartmatters78@gmail.com. I provide online counselling and therapy session for free.

I have counselled people with issues like this and i am glad to tell you they have improved overtime.

Some people might find email chat boring
e.g me

kelvinrhs:
Actually he gets the head

What difference does it make?

kelvinrhs:
Is there a on going promo for Ftc

says who?

kelvinrhs:
And yours is pourer

pourer?....like for real is there any English word like that?

ghettochild4u:
Any Testosterone pills u gonna recommend for him??
name it

L-arginine 850 mg

Confiman:
No, it isn't. I'm fighting to get out of it, why take another step of no return?

I think its better you get married to the lady soonest, delay is dangerous.Try to legalise your union before God and man.

Double post.

Confiman:
No, it isn't. I'm fighting to get out of it, why take another step of no return?

Like my unwitting laughter therapist sisioge would say: Wheeew!
What a trainwreck of opinions.
Let me sha add my own to the carnage.

Op I'm glad u mentioned somewhere that you're used to the nairaland bashings and crazytalk. Your thread was even more susceptible as you mentioned masturbation, a habit a lot of people are involved in and thus an opportunity for them to come and feel good about themselves while preaching to you as if they are ALL not guilty of it

I'll itemize my points. They are all true and fact. But I'll let you be the judge.

1. You're an orthodox Christian.(catholic , Anglican, I go with catholic but its not really important)

2. You're a 'good boy'. If you know, you know

3. This is where things get serious. You masturbate. Don't let it get to you. A book I once read said 90% of boys admit that they masturbate as they mature into adulthood and the remaining 10% are liars! Its a phase. Nothing to be ashamed of. However if it becomes an addiction, i.e , if its all you think about at work, in class, on parade ground etc.then its bad. Each time your masturbate your testosterone levels go down. That is the hormone that makes you a man. Firm muscles, powerful erections, high quality sperm etc are all affected if you masturbate excessively. Note, I said excessively. Every other nonsense you hear about masturbation making you want to rape any woman you see or become a pedophile is laughable bullshït. I heard you mentioned where u masturbate after a months abstinence. One of the guys who insulted you on the first page masturbates daily! So you're not doing too bad at all.
(That was a long point. Wheeew!)

4. Do not use testosterone enhancers of any kind!!! Worst idea ever! Do not buy Viagra or any other testosterone drug! It tricks your body into thinking it no longer needs testosterone and you're hooked on the drug for life! Sexual enhancers do no cure Erectile dysfunction! I can't stress this hard enough. Eat good food and fruits and your body will get the natural precursors it needs to produce good testosterone. You can reach me privately for more info or simply google it.
But that's not even your problem.

5. Despite what you see in porn videos, not all guys enjoy getting head! I know I don't! I have never cum from being sucked by any lady, no matter how good they are at it! All that happens is in the end the guys dick will go limp from boredom. So its not a problem! Educate your girl that not all boys like recieving head just like not all girls enjoy have their snails or breaßts sucked! Its sex ed 101! So please and please, its not because you masturbate that you're not enjoying the head. You don't enjoy it, period! Like you said, you're a virgin. The more you delve deeper into sex, the more you will see that a lot of stuff you watch on porn are big lies! No girl enjoys being skull bleeped no matter what they tell u! Also you will learn what your sexual preferences are, everybodys own is different.

6. Yes, its possible to tell that a girl is a virgin just by looking. Some girls have their hymen close to the surface. Just letting you know I believe you on that point.

7. About stopping sex with your girl. Hmmm. That's gonna be tough, I won't lie. She will get the wrong vibe that she turns you off since its a general belief in this perverted generation that if a guy don't want to sleep with a girl it means she's not sexually appealing. There are still people with good morals out there, I've seen them!
Like someone suggested... Don't be alone with her all the time, shower her with a lot of love and attention, pray (you're a christian aren't u) and hope for the best.


I do hope you two end up together, but I kind of doubt it. Nysc has a way of bringing out the sexual tigers in people, the hard work comes when nysc is over.

Cheers!

kelvinrhs:
And yours is pourer

You meant to say poorer? Chai!

chingynt:
L-arginine 850 mg

How much is it

kelvinrhs:
How much is it

15 to 20 dollars on Amazon.. You can check the from any nearby pharmacy.

SyndyB:
You meant to say poorer? Chai!

Is it your pourer?

chingynt:
15 to 20 dollars on Amazon.. You can check the from any nearby pharmacy.

Will you buy for me

zainmaxwell:
pourer?....like for real is there any English word like that?

Yes you may Google the 2018 new encyclopedia dictionary

zainmaxwell:
says who?

I just assumed because this is the second comment that I was sawing and both opc were asking for money for making FTC

UrbanExotica:
What difference does it make?

It means he is receiving and not giving. He is stingy. I love giving than receiving

kelvinrhs:
Yes you may Google the 2018 new encyclopedia dictionary

tooh

chingynt:
15 to 20 dollars on Amazon.. You can check the from any nearby pharmacy.

You have time sha

kelvinrhs:
Will you buy for me

For free?

[quote author=kelvinrhs post=68842383]Is it your pourer?[/quot
Abeg park well joor

kelvinrhs:
Smoke
Are you here to add to the fire

Baba a man has to find anoda source of addiction and if the babe knows her work she will make him stop and his family wud b his new addiction

Confiman:
Look, I know it's hypocritical to condemn sex before marriage and at the same time practice masturbation. I really do. I intended creating a thread for that practise but I thought to deal with this first. Note that it's not every thing that becomes a habit that is appreciated. Trust me, I've tried many times to stop that, I just haven't been able to.

If you do have anything to say about the opening post then that will be appreciated.

Well I hope you get to read this.

You have a bigger problem at hand. The little experiment you and your girlfriend are playing at should tell you that you are gradually becoming impotent due to masturbation.


1. You'll never be able to keep that girl for long. Even though you claim she is a virgin she's going to be wanting the JohnThomas very very soon and unfortunately you can't perform.


2. It's going to get worse when you intend to penetrate a woman. Yes I mean the impotency but I also meant your embarrassment.


3. No sir, you aren't a Christian and no you aren't a virgin anymore. She's already giving you head you say? Well that's what is called MouthAction.


4. I don't wanna scare you but you need to curb that masturbation habit fast because you are heading toward self destruction at breakneck speed.


5. Please don't fool yourself that when you get married you'll stop masturbation. False. There are lots of couples whose marriages have failed due to pornography and masturbation.


6. You are 22. Now is the right time to fight this.



7. You need to distance yourself from every factor that induces you to commit this self abuse. Yes and that includes your oh so wonderful girlfriend who gives you head.


8. Ditch your internet-enabled phones right now.



9. Try your best not to be alone for a long period. Don't stay indoors either.



8. Engage your mind and do creative thinking. Try new things and watch movies and TV less until you stop totally.

All the best in your battle to save your life from destruction.

Sadiyaene:
Me myself I be virgin too lolzzz

hmmmmmm

Did you say you're a Christian boy? How do you like your thunder?

Prognose:
Like my unwitting laughter therapist sisioge would say: Wheeew!
What a trainwreck of opinions.
Let me sha add my own to the carnage.

Op I'm glad u mentioned somewhere that you're used to the nairaland bashings and crazytalk. Your thread was even more susceptible as you mentioned masturbation, a habit a lot of people are involved in and thus an opportunity for them to come and feel good about themselves while preaching to you as if they are ALL not guilty of it

I'll itemize my points. They are all true and fact. But I'll let you be the judge.

1. You're an orthodox Christian.(catholic , Anglican, I go with catholic but its not really important)

2. You're a 'good boy'. If you know, you know

3. This is where things get serious. You masturbate. Don't let it get to you. A book I once read said 90% of boys admit that they masturbate as they mature into adulthood and the remaining 10% are liars! Its a phase. Nothing to be ashamed of. However if it becomes an addiction, i.e , if its all you think about at work, in class, on parade ground etc.then its bad. Each time your masturbate your testosterone levels go down. That is the hormone that makes you a man. Firm muscles, powerful erections, high quality sperm etc are all affected if you masturbate excessively. Note, I said excessively. Every other nonsense you hear about masturbation making you want to rape any woman you see or become a pedophile is laughable bullshït. I heard you mentioned where u masturbate after a months abstinence. One of the guys who insulted you on the first page masturbates daily! So you're not doing too bad at all.
(That was a long point. Wheeew!)

4. Do not use testosterone enhancers of any kind!!! Worst idea ever! Do not buy Viagra or any other testosterone drug! It tricks your body into thinking it no longer needs testosterone and you're hooked on the drug for life! Sexual enhancers do no cure Erectile dysfunction! I can't stress this hard enough. Eat good food and fruits and your body will get the natural precursors it needs to produce good testosterone. You can reach me privately for more info or simply google it.
But that's not even your problem.

5. Despite what you see in porn videos, not all guys enjoy getting head! I know I don't! I have never cum from being sucked by any lady, no matter how good they are at it! All that happens is in the end the guys dick will go limp from boredom. So its not a problem! Educate your girl that not all boys like recieving head just like not all girls enjoy have their snails or breaßts sucked! Its sex ed 101! So please and please, its not because you masturbate that you're not enjoying the head. You don't enjoy it, period! Like you said, you're a virgin. The more you delve deeper into sex, the more you will see that a lot of stuff you watch on porn are big lies! No girl enjoys being skull bleeped no matter what they tell u! Also you will learn what your sexual preferences are, everybodys own is different.

6. Yes, its possible to tell that a girl is a virgin just by looking. Some girls have their hymen close to the surface. Just letting you know I believe you on that point.

7. About stopping sex with your girl. Hmmm. That's gonna be tough, I won't lie. She will get the wrong vibe that she turns you off since its a general belief in this perverted generation that if a guy don't want to sleep with a girl it means she's not sexually appealing. There are still people with good morals out there, I've seen them!
Like someone suggested... Don't be alone with her all the time, shower her with a lot of love and attention, pray (you're a christian aren't u) and hope for the best.


I do hope you two end up together, but I kind of doubt it. Nysc has a way of bringing out the sexual tigers in people, the hard work comes when nysc is over.

Cheers!

So you no like head? Quite unbelievable! Whew!

Fourwinds:
hmmmmmm

Lol

sisisioge:


So you no like head? Quite unbelievable! Whew!

Na only that one u see abi Good morning

Confiman:
I'm not sure I understand you sir. I haven't said I intend marrying her, I believe time will have to tell. I just don't want to continue doing anything stupid before marriage.

No, I'm not in the born again crew. I believe every one is free to make a decision about how they want to live. I don't berate others for not holding on to the same principles as me. If you engaged me in a discussion, you'd hardly know I don't believe in sex before marriage, cos I love my discussions clean without any holier than thou whatever... In fact, the few that hear my stand doubt it's sincerity, that's how free I am. But my fear is that I don't wanna lose my values, values I've held on to for so long... Yet, I don't wanna break her

Yes, I agree I'm a very emotional person. But I'm not sure how it applies here?

You sound so intelligent. Your challenge is simple and singular. "MASTURBATION" It is the one giving you weak erection. It makes you loose interest in sex. Sometimes, its more enjoyed than actual intercourse. You have any o control it if not stop it completely. If not, it will.embarrass you when married even you hide it now.
I pray you have a good wife, if not, the whole world will hear your story if you fail to start combating it now.

Confiman:
Please this might be a little lengthy but bear with me, everything here is needed to get the story out and ask my questions. Thank you.

This will go down as one of the most embarrassing moments of my life and I'm deeply confused. But before I go on, I'd love a quick intro.

I just created this moniker to chronicle all of my confusions and to feel free asking for help without any of my friends here tracing them to me. I'm 22 and a serving Corp member. I'm a hustler and I can say I'm doing fairly well for a Corp member.

I am still a "virgin" iff that term can be loosely applied to someone who masturbates. I'm deeply disturbed by my masturbation, but that is not the purpose of this thread.

I recently met a girl - also a Corp member - whom I'm really, really fond of. However, I strongly believe that sex is for marriage (I'm a devoted Christian) and so I have always stayed away from it. With this girl tho, we get frisky a lot. I shared my first kiss with her, and we've since gotten more intimate than I'm usually comfortable with. Sadly, that doesn't help my desire to stop masturbation as I always do that after making out with her. When doing so, I imagine all we had done and it gets me off.

However, this is where it gets embarrassing. When making out with her she sometimes gives me a head. Despite all of her efforts tho (and she is sincerely really good), I can't get myself to remain aroused. No, my hands don't give me half the sensations I get from her mouth, but it still doesn't matter as I just can't remain aroused enough to get off as is the case when I'm by myself.

Today was the very worst as I kept shrinking rather than edging towards release. It angers her cos she believes I don't want her, or how else does she explain it? She feels if I wanted her as much as she wanted me that it would be different. I know my conscience pricks me while we're at it but I don't know if that is the cause. She says I think too much about it... but I can't help the thoughts. Now I'm torn.

I need to know just two things:
1. Is it my 'plenty thinking' that's hindering me when with her? I've already put away most of my inhibitions to get that far with her, but I can't seem to go further. And I don't really think I want to.
2. How can I tell her to take away the sexual edge of the relationship without coming across as offensive, and without confirming her belief that I don't want her?

P.S: Before you begin bashing the lady, note that she is also a virgin. Her vagina is still very much sealed. I doubted that at first, but I've seen it and... So I know. I don't want to lose her but I don't want to go so far either...

sent you a DM... reply if you can

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