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pocohantas:
So, it is normal human feeling to say you want sex just like that.
A gynaecologist whose job brings him in close contact with the female body, goes into a lady's inbox to tell her he wants to see her for sex. You see no wrong in that?

If this gynaecologist's picture is posted here, can you allow him attend to your loved one? Please, just a yes or no will do.

pocohantas:
So, it is normal human feeling to say you want sex just like that.
A gynaecologist whose job brings him in close contact with the female body, goes into a lady's inbox to tell her he wants to see her for sex. You see no wrong in that?

If this gynaecologist's picture is posted here, can you allow him attend to your loved one? Please, just a yes or no will do.

sanpipita:
He is an idiot, a perfect of example of insanity we see on this country daily.

Hanseel1:
Lol.. These kids though

You can put across a message without being utterly ridiculous.

Even more important US celebrities and politicians have been sent such irresponsible messages before it didn't start with that lady.

One thing I've notice is most of you who glorify the west have never left the shores of Africa.

I'm done.

sanpipita:
I'm not a kid to start with and I haven't glorified west in anyway I only called out an act of verbal harassment which you are bent on down playing.

MiddleDimension:
yes, it is very ok for you to ask for sex, JUST LIKE THAT, as you have put it. that he is a gynaecologist does not imune him from desiring a woman, and he has the right to express his desire in a respectful manner. and doing it in her inbox which is PRIVATE, is a manner respectful enough!

if you dont want it, why not respectfully turn him down and when he insist after you have made it very clear, then that becomes sexual harrassment, and you can take it up!

him asking the way he did, is absolutely within every reasonable ethics

Hanseel1:
Help her to file charges against him.
Bye.

sanpipita:
Lol are you for real? in sane nations this is purely harassment, we need a lot of reorientation in this country.

MariaLavina:
A perfect description of his reasoning you have there!.

I can't believe Men here justifying sexual harassment, Such a lost society!

Hanseel1:
Sexual harassment is bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors.[1] Sexual harassment includes a range of actions from mild transgressions to sexual abuse or sexual assault.[2]

Where in that conversation did bullying or coercion occur? The young man never promised to give her any gifts in return for sex.

Do your research well before you scream sexual harassment any how.

You all will be shouting sane society whatever I don't know what is sane in the west especially USA, we that have been there don't see anything sane there.

pocohantas:
I asked you a simple yes or no question.

But if you don't get my complain, let me explain it in simple terms. Certain professions and positions imposes some level of responsibility on us. You can't be a gynaecologist and go asking for sex from random girls because you are not in a theatre.

You are supposed to portray a good image in and out of your workplace. You are a representative of your organisation.

I don't know if you work in a formal organisation, if you do...you should know this. Even if you don't, it is common sense.

MiddleDimension:
it is one thing to have restrictions, and it is another for the restrictions TO BE FAIR.

and you think asking for sex from someone who IS NOT HIS PATIENT IN THE PRIVACY OF THEIR INBOX IS NOT PORTRAYING A GOOD IMAGE?

something tells me you have a problem with sex, and if thats the case, then i think you are lost!

if he had asked to dat her, would you have had a problem with it? ir the lady was interested in having sex with him, would we have known about this issue at all? and tell me, how fair is it that a man be disgraced NOT BECAUSE HE HAS DONE SOMETHING WRONG, BUT BECAUSE A LADY IS NOT INTERESTED IN HIS ADVANCES. AGAIN I SAY: IF THE LADY WAS INTRESTED, DO YOU THINK YOU AND I WOULD HAVE KNOWN WHAT WENT ON IN THEIR INBOX?

sanpipita:
Haha demanding sex like she is a sex worker? how many chats did they exchange? do you realize both were still strangers to themselves, you want the guy to press charges for humiliation but you don't think he harassed the girl? calling you daft will be being nice.

pocohantas:
I give up

Boiz2men, please come. What do you have to say about this your 'colleague'?

MiddleDimension:
pls give up and get out! the likes of you in work places woulr be sacking men from their place of work based on your biases.

MariaLavina:
Read up your copied write up and understand it. With special focus on the emboldened.


We all do not live in the West and Sanity lies not only in West

MariaLavina:
For Sanity's sake, please cease your comments.

Klinee:
Most times you try and be reasonable before commenting, but I hate hypocrisy.
I want to ask "what is the difference between a girl who agree to have sex without much chat exchange maybe she need the sex and a girl who has a prolonged chat with a man but finally have sex with him ?"
The conclusion respectively is they all ended up having sex with a lot of time and energy wasted for no reason on the later.
So what is your point?

You demand sex from a girl you harass her? your are completely mentally deranged because you would have known that you must demand sex before you can get down with her or else it is rape which condemnable and crime.
The man demanded for sex simple, it left for the girl to accept or decline, exposing him is completely humiliating.

Houseofglam7:
The gynecologist looks severely malnourished...........or sick......

Hanseel1:
Lol.. These kids though

You can put across a message without being utterly ridiculous.

Even more important US celebrities and politicians have been sent such irresponsible messages before it didn't start with that lady.

One thing I've notice is most of you who glorify the west have never left the shores of Africa.

I'm done.

MiddleDimension:
you see, this is the problem! if the guy was anything like she would be interested in having sex with him, we would not have known about this issue! and that means whether a man be respected or disgraced, depends on a woman liking or not liking him.

pure nonsense!

so you can see that that yuy was right when he said we never see these women expose the rich men that do the same to them. they do not disgrace these men because these ladies find it that their luck is shining

sanpipita:
Lol he think sexual harassment must be physical and also thinks everyone in Nigeria is insane like them, what he wrote talks about abuse and he doesn't realize abuse can be verbal, tragic

Klinee:
Bunch of unreasonable idioot like you, so it's evil for a man to demand sex from a girl?

sanpipita:
You don't expect everyone to have same reaction, people can get triggered by things you see as minor, moreover the guy was respectful in his words or you think otherwise?

pocohantas:




Next!

pocohantas:
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Leave trash for LAWMA

MiddleDimension:
i can also slap you for stoping me on the street to give me your winners flier with a big picture of oyedepo at the front and loads of testimonies at the back. but the question is, will my reaction to you be alright?

if you had given me a billion naira instead of a flier, do you think i would slap you on the street even though it is basically the same thing you have done; i.e stoping me on the street and giving me something. now the point is: is it fair for you to be diagraced on the street because or my PREFERENCE WHICH HAS GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU? pls answer this question

Houseofglam7:
Just breathe Okay?
I simply pointed out an observation

pocohantas:

MariaLavina:
A perfect description of his reasoning you have there!.

I can't believe Men here justifying sexual harassment, Such a lost society!