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Houseofglam7:
Just breathe Okay?
I simply pointed out an observation

and your observation is on point

MiddleDimension:
i am happy this is all you can say. i am super happy you can not counter those thing i posted up there.

I don't know why, the emboldened got me laughing out loud


Are you sure you still have your pole intact? You don't sound like a person who has any

That doctor is nt actually normal.. i hv also had an experience with him... he was very nasty.. and discussed in an abnormal way when i noticed his abnormality.. i gave him d insult of his life and blocked him.. anyway most doctors are flirts..so dnt take dem serious.. my opinion!!

Klinee:
Mehn what type of generation are we?
Imagine sexual harassment for demanding for Sex, that's reason why we have many impotent men and sexual deviants everywhere.

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Klinee:
Mehn what type of generation are we?
Imagine sexual harassment for demanding for Sex, that's reason why we have many impotent men and sexual deviants everywhere.

Sadly,You are in generations of rettards who think asking sex from strangers in the most appalling way is right.
And yes there are lots of sexual deviants everywhere. perfect examples, The doctor,and every other persons on this thread who share same idea with you.

You are an adult. He is an adult. He asks for sex. You are not interested. You tell him no. If he insists, you block his ass and move on. Everyone on the Internet doesn't need to know. Sharing screesnshots of private conversations is so, so narcissistic and immature.

sanpipita:
Lol he think sexual harassment must be physical and also thinks everyone in Nigeria is insane like them, what he wrote talks about abuse and he doesn't realize abuse can be verbal, tragic

The gynaecologist is not guilty of sexual harassment.

Can you define sexual harassment? Did he coerce her? Did he constantly make her life miserable with constant demands? Offensive demands such as the one made by the doctor is not enough to slam him with sexual harassment.

debygrin:
That doctor is nt actually normal.. i hv also had an experience with him... he was very nasty.. and discussed in an abnormal way when i noticed his abnormality.. i gave him d insult of his life and blocked him.. anyway most doctors are flirts..so dnt take dem serious.. my opinion!!

Are you sure he is a real doctor?
Because I don't want to believe any doctor will go about acting this way, without any fear of its repercussions.

MariaLavina:
Read up your copied write up and understand it. With special focus on the emboldened.


We all do not live in the West and Sanity lies not only in West

The lady that was sent the message didn't classify it as a mild transgression.

Do you even know the meaning of aggression?

BluntBoy:
The gynaecologist is not guilty of sexual harassment.

Can you define sexual harassment? Did he coerce her? Did he constantly make her life miserable with constant demands? Offensive demands such as the one made by the doctor is not enough to slam him with sexual harassment.

See I was won't dignify you with any further response if you think sexual harassment starts and ends with coercing especially if physical, I have had enough shallow responses on this thread tonight

sanpipita:
Don't people already do it, I mean attack religious ppl who come to them for preaching and what not, you think the lady wouldn't have slapped him if he said that to her face, she found his actions harassing hence her reaction, if I stop you on road to give you fliers guess its upto to decide how to react.

it is up to me to decide how i react, but my reactions had better be fair and don't reek bigotory.

any man who slaps you on the street for giving them a flier for religious programme, is a bigot and there is no place for bigotory in the civilized world.

and of course she woulr have slaped him and when she does that, the man has every right to slap her in self defence or even sue her for asault!

in our world, it is important we uphold sexual freedom and also uphold men's right to make sexual and romantic advances on women.

a man making sexual or romantic advances on a woman, is not wrong. if you dont know that, i want you to know it today.

if she had told him that look, i am not interested, and the guy goes on ahead to keep disturbing her, then that becomes sexual harrassment and she can take it to the police. she would be justified in such a case. but to tell men not to express their desires towards women, is something i consider an assault on men's agency.

pocohantas:
Are you sure he is a real doctor?
Because I don't want to believe any doctor will go about acting this way, without any fear of its repercussions.

Zoom the pic.. That young man isn't more than 20years old and there's no way a 20years old man can be a doctor in a country like Nigeria.

pocohantas:
I give up

Boiz2men, please come. What do you have to say about this your 'colleague'?

Lol..


My colleague?

Ah.. He is not my colleague oo... As if the troubles and drama of women are not enough, I should now become their doctor.. Big joke


I didn't read the story but I think the lady isn't his patient.

But most O &G guys have sex regularly na.... Besides do doctors beg for sex?


Modified

Having read the story

Dude is not a doctor. At least not yet. He could be a medical student or lab scientist.

Or gynaecologist could just be a slang to mean... He has women under his control as if he knows them too well

MariaLavina:
I don't know why, the emboldened got me laughing out loud


Are you sure you still have your pole intact? You don't sound like a person who has any

keep discribing yourself

debygrin:
[s]That doctor is nt actually normal.. i hv also had an experience with him... he was very nasty.. and discussed in an abnormal way when i noticed his abnormality.. i gave him d insult of his life and blocked him.. anyway most doctors are flirts..so dnt take dem serious.. my opinion!![/s]

He's not a doctor.

sanpipita:
If a gay guy demands sex from you will probably make a thread about it so shut up and quit the stupidity, the guy has no right to enter her inbox and start demanding sex it's very harassing, lets stop behaving like animals this is 2018 ffs

Mumu!!! That's why I said you are a Foool! You don't have any right to be gay !!
Mumu! there is what is called abnormal unacceptable inhuman evil act, just like gay, armed robbers, raping, ritualistic and should be completely condemn.
Stop equating normal sex with abnormal sex deviants, that disgusting and barbaric!
Goaaat!

pocohantas:
Are you sure he is a real doctor?
Because I don't want to believe any doctor will go about acting this way, without any fear of its repercussions.

he claims he is i even traced him to his facebook page i saw some pics of him in d lab.. buh dats to him.. just dat ppl should be careful.nt every body on social media are normal..mostly the so called doctors!

sanpipita:
See I was won't dignify you with any further response if you think sexual harassment starts and ends with coercing especially if physical, I have had enough shallow responses on this thread tonight

This is your first response to me.

Go and read deeply about sexual harassment.

Offhand comments are not sexual harassment. Yes, they are offensive but not harassment. Harassment has the elements of repetition and pressure. None of these elements is present here.

The girl asked what the doctor wanted. He replied that he wanted sex. Yes, she had the right to be offended but this is not a case of sexual harassment.

MiddleDimension:
it is up to me to decide how i react, but my reactions had better be fair and don't reek bigotory.

any man who slaps you on the street for giving them a flier for religious programme, is a bigot and there is no place for bigotory in the civilized world.

and of course she woulr have slaped him and when she does that, the man has every right to slap her in self defence or even sue her for asault!

in our world, it is important we uphold sexual freedom and also uphold men's right to make sexual and romantic advances on women.

a man making sexual or romantic advances on a woman, is not wrong. if you dont know that, i want you to know it today.

if she had told him that look, i am not interested, and the guy goes on ahead to keep disturbing her, then that becomes sexual harrassment and she can take it to the police. she would be justified in such a case. but to tell men not to express their desires towards women, is something i consider an assault on men's agency.

You are invariably saying a behaviour of going around asking ppl for sex is OK for you? how will you react if a gay guy continues making sexual and romantic advances to you? did you read what you posted well? its ridiculous you are normalizing an act of sexual harassment

pocohantas:
LOL. All that aggressiveness...
I can't come and give myself headache arguing with such a person.

Dude was gonna choke on his damn saliva!

MiddleDimension:
keep discribing yourself

I'm not transgendered

MiddleDimension:
and your observation is on point

Mucho gracias

BluntBoy:
This is your first response to me.

Go and read deeply about sexual harassment.

Offhand comments are not sexual harassment. Yes, they are offensive but not harassment. Harassment has the elements of repetition and pressure. None of these elements is present here.

The girl asked what the doctor wanted. He replied that he wanted sex. Yes, she had the right to be offended but this is not a case of sexual harassment.

What is harassment about if it isn't offensive? you guys are literally shocking me tonight moreover read up I called it verbal harassment

Klinee:
Mumu!!! That's why I said you are a Foool! You don't have any right to be gay !!
Mumu! there is what is called abnormal unacceptable inhuman evil act, just like gay, armed robbers, raping, ritualistic and should be completely condemn.
Stop equating normal sex with abnormal sex deviants, that disgusting and barbaric!
Goaaat!

Probably rape is normal sex to you since you see nothing in a harassing act, I just weep for this country, animals everywhere.

MariaLavina:
Sadly,You are in generations of rettards who think asking sex from strangers in the most appalling way is right.
And yes there are lots of sexual deviants everywhere. perfect examples, The doctor,and every other persons on this thread who share same idea with you.

Mehn he didn't commit any crime to demand for Sex, he has the right.
So try to be reasonable.

MariaLavina:
Sadly,You are in generations of rettards who think asking sex from strangers in the most appalling way is right.
And yes there are lots of sexual deviants everywhere. perfect examples, The doctor,and everyone other persons on this thread who share same idea with you.

you really think i am a pervert dont you? and i really hope you do not have a problem with sex?
if a man asks fir sex from you and you dnt wnt it, the honourable thing to do is to turn him down RESPECTFULLY.

when he doesnt want to respect your wish and keeps on stressing you, THEN THAT BECOMES SEXUAL HARRASSMENT AND YOU CAN NOW TAKE IT TO THE POLICE FOR THE LAW TO TAKE ITS CAUSE.

bu for you to forbid men from asking for sex.from a woman at all, even if she is a stranger, is one thing that is absolutely wrong on all counts!

any body who has a contrary opinion is only being a pathetic puritant that should be existing in our world already.

Klinee:
Mehn he didn't commit any crime to demand for Sex, he has the right.
So try to be reasonable.

dont mind the idiotts here trying to demonise male sexuality

MariaLavina:
I believe he doesn't understand "Mild transgressions " in his quote. I can't think of some crimes one can sue such man for. From defamation of character (for approaching her like a sex worker) to Sexual harassment (unwanted sexual advances)

After seeing this post I believe you're a very shallow individual.

I'm sure you don't even understand the meaning of defamation of character.

Unwanted sexual advances? God! This one doesn't know the meaning of unwanted sexual advances(unwarranted sexual advances)

How would he have known that she doesn't want sex? If the young lady turned him off and he persisted with the sex talk that would've been another thing not the nonsense you're saying.

If things work the way you think people will be getting sued everyday.

Tell the lady to sue him and stop saying nonsense on nairaland.

sanpipita:
What is harassment about if it isn't offensive? you guys are literally shocking me tonight moreover read up I called it verbal harassment

Offensive can be personal but harassment is defined. I may be offended by your dressing but it does not make it harassment.

sanpipita:
Probably rape is normal sex to you since you see nothing in a harassing act, I just weep for this country, animals everywhere.

Did you just compare rape to this stuff?

You need urgent psychological attention.

sanpipita:
Lol he think sexual harassment must be physical and also thinks everyone in Nigeria is insane like them, what he wrote talks about abuse and he doesn't realize abuse can be verbal, tragic

I'm not living in Nigeria.

RedboneSmith:
You are an adult. He is an adult. He asks for sex. You are not interested. You tell him no. If he insists, you block his ass and move on. Everyone on the Internet doesn't need to know. Sharing screesnshots of private conversations is so, so narcissistic and immature.

you get the point