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Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nobody: 5:04am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
Should I say you guys are lucky?

Yea, there are people who do some shitty things. Like I said, the trick is not to get caught. A colleague was given a suspension for not paying his rent. Sounds trivial hah? He was human for not paying his rent. But the moment his landlord decided to come make a very dramatic scene at the office...it became bad for our reputation grin

Now the girl brought it to the public, hmmm.
You get my point now?

My/our...Anyone that's okay by you cheesy
like wtfhuh
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by phase1: 5:17am On Jun 28, 2018
Very randy mor0n.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by femi4: 5:36am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
Look at the comments above, they are more concerned with the slayqueen and her other customers. Typical naija mentality. Always chasing the irrelevant thing.

The guy has gynaecologist on his profile, if indeed he is a gynaecologist...would any of you allow your sister or wife to visit his hospital? What kind of gynaecologist chats in such manner?
Anybody can chat in that manner, his career is different from his personality
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nobody: 5:54am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
If a gay guy demands sex from you will probably make a thread about it so shut up and quit the stupidity, the guy has no right to enter her inbox and start demanding sex it's very harassing, lets stop behaving like animals this is 2018 ffs
confused kid
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by pocohantas(f):
Adedove:
The conversation was not official! Tell me how a phone chat is official?
And who said it is official? undecided undecided
Ahbeg, shift one side biko. I've made my point.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nobody: 6:09am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
That's what he'll tell people, but it was more about the 'ripple effect'.
Is this imo or Lagos?
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by naijapips04: 6:47am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
Lol are you for real? in sane nations this is purely harassment, we need a lot of reorientation in this country.
what sane nation does requesting for sex turn to sexual harassment? Dude its just a request, you are obliged to say Yes or No.

If a random persons meets you on the street and casually asks "can I have sex with you"? you are at liberty to either say Yes or No. That doesn't amount to sexual harassment anywhere in the world.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nigeriadondie: 6:48am On Jun 28, 2018
21savages:
Some gurls can be very funny atimes, how many guys have u slept wit dat u're exposing jst this one dat u dint cum to conclusion wit..
Guy d thing tire me. Dem go dey form as if person no dey chew their kpekus. As e dey now e get one guy wey dey chop d kpekus anyhow free of charge.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by DSDLIVEREPORT: 6:59am On Jun 28, 2018
21savages:
Some gurls can be very funny atimes, how many guys have u slept wit dat u're exposing jst this one dat u dint cum to conclusion wit..
Gbam
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by pocohantas(f): 7:15am On Jun 28, 2018
oyb:
Is this imo or Lagos?
You dey find who to yab embarassed
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by boiz2men(m): 7:24am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
You know I won't answer that HERE tongue
Your wahala plenty sef. You won't answer that here. You won't answer that on whatsapp. You want me to send a mail.. Madam HR tongue
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by pocohantas(f): 7:26am On Jun 28, 2018
boiz2men:
Your wahala plenty sef. You won't answer that here. You won't answer that on whatsapp. You want me to send a mail.. Madam HR tongue
LOL! That actually cracked me up then grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by izzou(m): 7:32am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
A gynae from Ijebu.
A gynae based in Ijebu.
grin

What's insmessage? embarassed
undecided

Instamessage

Instagram messenger

angry
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by boiz2men(m): 7:32am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
LOL! That actually cracked me up then grin
that's what my HR says. You want a pencil, send a mail.
You want to shiit, send a mail...

So annoying... And you came up with that... It was annoying to say the least l
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nobody: 7:39am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
You dey find who to yab embarassed
Nope. From your posts I figure you work in a bank in imo. However you just may also be working in lag.

As a Behind independent minded chick (nina has spoilt market for imo chicks)
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by gwmlogistic: 7:49am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
Lol are you for real? in sane nations this is purely harassment, we need a lot of reorientation in this country.
Harassment to ask for sex?
This beats me, if only you would check your dico.
He has not used his position as a gynecologist to ask for sex, his request is not in anyway related to his work.
If this is a shameful thing then asking her out for lunch to should be shameful.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by sanpipita(m): 7:54am On Jun 28, 2018
BluntBoy:
SMH.

Did you read the part you emboldened yourself?

I already mentioned earlier that harassment had the elements of repetition and pressure. You failed to see that. Thank God for the person who posted the definitions.
Harassment covers a wide range of behaviors of an offensive nature. It is commonly understood as behavior that disturbs or upsets, and it is
characteristically repetitive. In the legal sense, it is
behavior that appears to be disturbing or
threatening. Sexual harassment refers to persistent and unwanted sexual advances,

English is really hard for some of you, it defined sexual harassment persistent and unwanted advances in separate terms, it could have said sexual harassment is persistent unwanted sexual advances but hell no they know better, they know you don't need to strike twice before it become a harassment
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by sanpipita(m): 7:56am On Jun 28, 2018
gwmlogistic:
Harassment to ask for sex?
This beats me, if only you would check your dico.
He has not used his position as a gynecologist to ask for sex, his request is not in anyway related to his work.
If this is a shameful thing then asking her out for lunch to should be shameful.
Why do I have to check my dico, your comment only reeks of toxic masculinity I have been seeing here.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by gwmlogistic: 8:00am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
Why do I have to check my dico, your comment only reeks of toxic masculinity I have been seeing here.
Might take of toxic masculinity but you can't ignore the facts. That his actions are in no way related to his works. Now let me bring in the naija factor, we say dress the way you want to be addressed abi? Haven't checked the girls VB profile but something is telling me she put up pics that suggests she is willing to sell sex
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by sanpipita(m): 8:02am On Jun 28, 2018
MiddleDimension:
you are a mad man!
didnt you see where it was stated that ''...and it is CHARACTERISTICALLY REPEATITIVE...pesistent and unwanted''?

you are blind afterall or is it that you dont know the meaning of ''CHARACTERISTICALLY''?
Characteristics isn't definite it just gave you a part explanation of what harassment is, there is a wide range of it, lots of you need to learn, the definition you posted went on to separate persistent action of it and it being unwanted.



Sexual harassment refers to persistent and unwanted sexual advances, See? an unwanted sexual advances doesn't have to be persistent
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by sanpipita(m): 8:05am On Jun 28, 2018
gwmlogistic:
Might take of toxic masculinity but you can't ignore the facts. That his actions are in no way related to his works. Now let me bring in the naija factor, we say dress the way you want to be addressed abi? Haven't checked the girls VB profile but something is telling me she put up pics that suggests she is willing to sell sex
Lol damn I didn't wake up this morning for this, are you for real? something is telling you shes willing for sex? to end this Nigerian factor doesn't work for me, I don't allow society conform my opinions
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Wizaugpet(m): 8:07am On Jun 28, 2018
Some people just have Money, but Lack Sense...
Simple thing,,,, just appreciate her beauty, flatter her to nothing, since she knows u got money, she'll be willing to eat ur money,,, she's a Slay Queen.... Slay Queens Love money....
Invite her for Dinner at a Nice and classic juncture, she won't Reject....
When she comes, don't even bring in Sex as a topic, just appreciate her beauty, tell her u weren't lucky enough to get her earlier before her boo...
Just let her enjoy herself and go the first day....
Allow for a week to pass, invite her another dinner, tell her it's ur birthday, don't give her the address, just tell u will come pick her up, when u go, take her down to ur house.................... Offer everything u have, show her around ur house,,, ur toilet, everywhere, and finally Bedroom... Lock the door, have the dinner in ur Bed room, she can't go home without opening that leg for u...
Since u have the money, this thing will be so simple, it just need ur devotion and craftiness, if sex is really what u want from her... smiley wink
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by sanpipita(m): 8:08am On Jun 28, 2018
BluntBoy:
You are trying to be clever by half.

The issue here is sexual harassment. But you went and brought in sexual assault and yet want to justify it. How can you be so dishonest in argument and still want to be taken seriously?
Lol here isn't law court but try find sometime to witness a court proceeding, again it was a mere example how sexual harassment mustn't have to be repetitive.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by OrireSA(m): 8:27am On Jun 28, 2018
Lol well all men do that eventually he just got to the point much sooner
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Adedove(m): 8:29am On Jun 28, 2018
pocohantas:
Look at the comments above, they are more concerned with the slayqueen and her other customers. Typical naija mentality. Always chasing the irrelevant thing.

The guy has gynaecologist on his profile, if indeed he is a gynaecologist...would any of you allow your sister or wife to visit his hospital? What kind of gynaecologist chats in such manner?
The conversation was not official! Tell me how a phone chat is official?
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by OrireSA(m): 8:36am On Jun 28, 2018
Girls don't understand us men, the only reason I or any man would send a girl an email or DM is because she's physically attractive ( meaning good enough to bang ) we might fall in love in the process but sex is the primary reason
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Adedove(m): 8:36am On Jun 28, 2018
Wizaugpet:
Some people just have Money, but Lack Sense...
Simple thing,,,, just appreciate her beauty, flatter her to nothing, since she knows u got money, she'll be willing to eat ur money,,, she's a Slay Queen.... Slay Queens Love money....
Invite her for Dinner at a Nice and classic juncture, she won't Reject....
When she comes, don't even bring in Sex as a topic, just appreciate her beauty, tell her u weren't lucky enough to get her earlier before her boo...
Just let her enjoy herself and go the first day....
Allow for a week to pass, invite her another dinner, tell her it's ur birthday, don't give her the address, just tell u will come pick her up, when u go, take her down to ur house.................... Offer everything u have, show her around ur house,,, ur toilet, everywhere, and finally Bedroom... Lock the door, have the dinner in ur Bed room, she can't go home without opening that leg for u...
Since u have the money, this thing will be so simple, it just need ur devotion and craftiness, if sex is really what u want from her... smiley wink
Master!
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by Nobody:
I came here just to explore the legal argument.

Someone said the guy can be sued for defamation of character. You are wrong. In the chat shown, there is no proof to show that the man called, thought or implied that she was a prostitute. From the questions, he asked, he was seeking a sexual affair with her and it is within her right to agree or refuse. However the man can sue her for defamation of character, because a private conversation was made public without recourse to how such actions could lead to damages on his livelihood and personality.

He slid into her DM, and so one can deduce they have only met on social media and she was never his patient. She wanted to level accusations based on his status and quite frankly, she cannot gain traction with this because if the gynecologist was prone to improper sexual relations in his practice, he should have been reported to the regulatory agencies such as the Nigerian Medical Association for his license to be revoked.

However she is the one, trying to cast malicious allegations against his person and professionalism when all that is sufficient is a simple response of No, I don't do casual sexual affairs. She is the one creating a fuss, her pictures may have spurred thoughts in the mind of the doctor that she is a "slay queen", if she refused his advances, is she a virgin ? is this the first time she is being approached on social media, is the man's bluntness the greatest act of indecency in the world ? If she doesn't have moral skeletons in her closet, she will not come out to shame the man.

All pretty women are subject to taunts of a sexual nature from men in their physical environment. Successful women deal with it, and move on. Crying out is just the nature of drama queens, who feel the world should revolve around them, their comic thoughts and poor lifestyles.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by SirBunky85(m): 9:28am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
Lol are you for real? in sane nations this is purely harassment, we need a lot of reorientation in this country.
wch sane nations?is the lady his patient?did the conversation take place within the hospital premises?una go just dey shout "in sane climes"unnecessarily.abeg shift
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by CeeKay17: 9:32am On Jun 28, 2018
sanpipita:
Its her body, she can decide who to sex with or not to sex with, that's her choice.
The point is, if she liked the guy, she would have said yes to his request, if she doesn't she's free to decline but you don't have to expose the guy publicly like he did something bad when the reality is that you simply don't like him.
Re: Lady Calls Out Ijebu Gynaecologist Who Slide Into Her Dm Just To Ask For Sex by cezarman(m): 9:44am On Jun 28, 2018
MiddleDimension:
i am happy this is all you can say. i am super happy you can not counter those thing i posted up there.
Lmao! You even tried for engaging them up to this point. If you knew her type here on NL, you wouldn't have bothered arguing with her.
When they (and their male asss lickers) have nothing else to counter you with, they start using memes and mono-syllabic words.

She nor know wetin to talk againcheesy
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