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boiz2men:
that's what my HR says. You want a pencil, send a mail.
You want to shiit, send a mail...

So annoying... And you came up with that... It was annoying to say the least l

Funny. Well, I just had to think of the possible way to go about it, without being fully at fault

pocohantas:
Funny. Well, I just had to think of the possible way to go about it, without being fully at fault

Really, was it a blame game?

It was a simple request and you turned it to a job application...

Don't know why but I was hurt. For the next one week, I checked to see if you changed your mind. but you just too stubborn.

Looking back at it now makes me laugh.

MariaLavina:
The girl is right to be offended! Such nonsensical attitude from a grown man who is expected to be modest, composed and matured in his way of life. If you want direct sex, why not walk up to any brothel?

His approach is so disrespectful! Only a low self esteemed, mentally challenged being will see no wrong in it.

Although I agree with you, sometimes you can't blame some men for being blunt, when you try to be nice and subtle with a lady, some will just keep playing along and eating your money, knowing fully well that nothing is ever going to happen between you both.
That's why some guys just go straight to the point and ask out-rightly for sex. Still thou, this is way too blunt and disrespectful

sanpipita:
Harassment covers a wide range of behaviors of an offensive nature. It is commonly understood as behavior that disturbs or upsets, and it is
characteristically repetitive. In the legal sense, it is
behavior that appears to be disturbing or
threatening. Sexual harassment refers to persistent and unwanted sexual advances,

English is really hard for some of you, it defined sexual harassment persistent and unwanted advances in separate terms, it could have said sexual harassment is persistent unwanted sexual advances but hell no they know better, they know you don't need to strike twice before it become a harassment

Bro, you have no argument.

I don't know why you want to continue to do this to yourself. You emboldened an opening sentence and ditched the later part of the paragraph that differentiates offensive behaviours that are sexual harassment from offensive behaviors that ordinarily do not constitute sexual harassment.

You went again by emboldening another statement without reading it.

Sexual harassment refers to persistent and unwanted sexual advances,

Above is the second emboldening you made.

Please, show me in the chat where there was persistent (repetitive) sexual advances from the doctor?

boiz2men:
Really, was it a blame game?

It was a simple request and you turned it to a job application... ;DDon't know why but I was hurt. For the next one week, I checked to see if you changed your mind. but you just too stubborn.
Looking back at it now makes me laugh.

Not at all. I really can't remember everything I said sef. I just know I chose a medium which wasn't okay by you. I can very well remember your last response though . Very rude, LOL.
I read it severally and shrugged it off. I did what I felt was good for us in the longrun

CeeKay17:
The point is, if she liked the guy, she would have said yes to his request, if she doesn't she's free to decline but you don't have to expose the guy publicly like he did something bad when the reality is that you simply don't like him.

She doesn't like the guy so we should downplay everything? how about we atleast frown at the guy's conduct, why don't any of you see something wrong in his conduct.

sanpipita:
Lol here isn't law court but try find sometime to witness a court proceeding, again it was a mere example how sexual harassment mustn't have to be repetitive.

This is laughable.

Just go and read about sexual harassment and stop embarrassing yourself this way.

I like myself for one thing. I come here to learn and I take a bow whenever I realize that I don't have a strong argument. I don't know how you continue to get the strength to post on a subject you should have realized that you have no knowledge about.

So a gynecologist is not a human being that cant have sex again.
If someone goes straight to the point there is problem and if they beat around the bush there is also a problem.

What do ladies even want self.

BluntBoy:
Bro, you have no argument.

I don't know why you want to continue to do this to yourself. You emboldened an opening sentence and ditched the later part of the paragraph that differentiates offensive behaviours that are sexual harassment from offensive behaviors that ordinarily do not constitute sexual harassment.

You went again by emboldening another statement without reading it.

Sexual harassment refers to persistent and unwanted sexual advances,

Above is the second emboldening you made.

Please, show me in the chat where there was persistent (repetitive) sexual advances from the doctor?

Is English this hard? persistent is defined on its own also is unwanted sexual advances, an unwanted sexual advances mustn't be persistent I'm tired of repeating this, the first strike is unwanted hence its harassing you don't need a repeat to conclude a harassment happened.

BluntBoy:
This is laughable.

Just go and read about sexual harassment and stop embarrassing yourself this way.

I like myself for one thing. I come here to learn and I take a bow whenever I realize that I don't have a strong argument. I don't know how you continue to get the strength to post on a subject you should have realized that you have no knowledge about.

You are one embarrassing yourself thinking sexual harassment must be a repeated act before its called harassment, bet you haven't seen ppl get sued for a one off sexual harassment act, I dey shame for una

sanpipita:
Is English this hard? persistent is defined on its own also is unwanted sexual advances, an unwanted sexual advances mustn't be persistent I'm tired of repeating this, the first strike is unwanted hence its harassing you don't need a repeat to conclude a harassment happened.

Bro, did you go to school at all

The statement is not persistent OR unwanted

The statement is persistent AND unwanted

Please, just stop this already. You have no argument.

Up ahead, the paragraph also stated that sexual harassment is characteristically repetitive.

Please, I am begging you. Stop this. Every post you make just keeps exposing your inadequacy concerning this issue.

sanpipita:
You are one embarrassing yourself thinking sexual harassment must be a repeated act before its called harassment, bet you haven't seen ppl get sued for a one off sexual harassment act, I dey shame for una

SMH...

It is people like you who will sue and then lose when your case is thrown out of court. Better stop this nonsense.

Very true, the post above this one. In a court you have to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the other party is truly at fault as alleged. Otherwise damages can be awarded if the defendant's counsel spins a good yarn.

BluntBoy:
Bro, did you go to school at all

The statement is not persistent OR unwanted

The statement is persistent AND unwanted

Please, just stop this already. You have no argument.

Up ahead, the paragraph also stated that sexual harassment is characteristically repetitive.

Please, I am begging you. Stop this. Every post you make just keeps exposing your inadequacy concerning this issue.

Beg yourself first stop trying to be smart with words, and/or is just a connective or an added phrase, they could have said its a persistent sexual advances action but then they added and to tell you an unwanted sexual advances is harassing without being persistent, but you want to skip that, characteristics has a varies its doesn't stick up to one point, you are so narrow minded

sanpipita:
She doesn't like the guy so we should downplay everything? how about we atleast frown at the guy's conduct, why don't any of you see something wrong in his conduct.

Actually I'm not referring to this guy in particular. This one is simply a mad man. So many girls on Twitter said he did the same thing to them.
I'm talking about Naija girls in general that like to make fun of guys asking them out even when there's nothing wrong with the guy's approach.

Adedove:
Master!

Lol,,,, ah still be Expert, not yet a Master...

cezarman:
Lmao! You even tried for engaging them up to this point. If you knew her type here on NL, you wouldn't have bothered arguing with her.
When they (and their male asss lickers) have nothing else to counter you with, they start using memes and mono-syllabic words.

She nor know wetin to talk again

On the contrary, my reason for not replying him was very simple. He was attacking, all I saw was an emotional outburst. Engaging him would only end up in insults as seen with some posters.

I wasn't wrong anyway, he admitted commenting out of a personal experience. People have different opinions, nothing like asslicking. I might as well say you're licking his ass, looks like that's what you are doing sef.

sanpipita:
Beg yourself first stop trying to be smart with words, and/or is just a connective or an added phrase, they could have said its a persistent sexual advances action but then they added and to tell you an unwanted sexual advances is harassing without being persistent, but you want to skip that, characteristics has a varies its doesn't stick up to one point, you are so narrow minded

Bro, are you serious? You are definitely unschooled. So to you, there is no difference between persistent sexual advances and persistent and unwanted sexual advances

The statement says persistent AND unwanted . The elements of harassment are the persistent and unwanted in the statement.

There are sexual advances that are persistent but not unwanted.

In the statement, harassment is not mere persistent sexual advance but one that is also unwanted.

I see how desperate you are. So desperate that you would think of OR and AND as just a connective word playing no part in a sentence.

Is there no difference between Ade and Sade will come and Ade or Sade will come .

BluntBoy:
Bro, are you serious? You are definitely unschooled. So to you, there is no difference between persistent sexual advances and persistent and unwanted sexual advances

The statement says persistent AND unwanted . The elements of harassment are the persistent and unwanted in the statement.

There are sexual advances that are persistent but not unwanted.

In the statement, harassment is not mere persistent sexual advance but one that is also unwanted.

I see how desperate you are. So desperate that you would think of OR and AND as just a connective word playing no part in a sentence.

Is there no difference between Ade and Sade will come and Ade or Sade will come .

Laughable you call me desperate, desperate for what exactly? I will REPEAT, SEXUAL HARASSMENT DOESNT NEED TO BE REPETITIVE OR PERSISTENT before it becomes harassment, that guy harassed the lady with his action QED

pocohantas:
Not at all. I really can't remember everything I said sef. I just know I chose a medium which wasn't okay by you. I can very well remember your last response though . Very rude, LOL.
I read it severally and shrugged it off. i did what I felt was good for us in the longrun

What was my last response? Can't remember. But it was prolly a reaction

@bold . Indeed

She probably had gone to him for certain medical processes that suggest she could be game for casual sex

u sure say na doctor true true?
he could be a traditionalist portraying himself as a medical doctor
anyway he"s chatting like a bushman

Houseofglam7:
The gynecologist looks severely malnourished...........or sick......

abegi he might not really be a doctor.maybe he"s one of those traditionalist dat sell one drug and claim to cure all sickness.

lefulefu:
abegi he might not really be a doctor.maybe he"s one of those traditionalist dat sell one drug and claim to cure all sickness.

Don’t be a savage

Houseofglam7:

Don’t be a savage

from the little u can see from the guy's pix u can see how hungry he looks na.tell me which medical doctor... A gynaecologist for dat matter will be looking so haggard.ppl be claiming doctor these days ...even the ones that hawk gbo gbo lishei drugs in the street.

lefulefu:
from the little u can see from the guy's pix u can see how hungry he looks na.tell me which medical doctor... A gynaecologist for dat matter will be looking so haggard.ppl be claiming doctor these days ...even the ones that hawk gbo gbo lishei drugs in the street.

There are doctors that look haggard now. Or are doctors immune from haggardness? Gynecologists are very busy people on the average and the stress takes a toll on some of them physically.

BluntBoy:
There are doctors that look haggard now. Or are doctors immune from haggardness? Gynecologists are very busy people on the average and the stress takes a toll on some of them physically.

guy my brother when he was in akure there was this doctor referred to him when he had typhoid.he tell me that dis so called doctor na one small old flat he dey use as im hospital and na one old woman be im auxillary nurse. D doctor no sabi one thing. To prescribe drugs dey hard am.my bro later ran frm him.na later my bro hear say d man was once a nursing student wey no finish and im dey parade imself as a doctor. There are lots of quarks in nigeria who portray themselves as medical doctors and they give treatment to ppl.why do you think many ppl die from easily curable diseases.na because nigeria na lawless country sha dats why ppl can do what they want to do. And stress does not make u look haggard..but lack of good food does.

BluntBoy:
There are doctors that look haggard now. .

bro be honest.. Have u seen a medical doctor that has the appearance of a bus conductor b4?.

lefulefu:
guy my brother when he was in akure there was this doctor referred to him when he had typhoid.he tell me that dis so called doctor na one small old flat he dey use as im hospital and na one old woman be im auxillary nurse. D doctor no sabi one thing. To prescribe drugs dey hard am.my bro later ran frm him.na later my bro hear say d man was once a nursing student wey no finish and im dey parade imself as a doctor. There are lots of quarks in nigeria who portray themselves as medical doctors and they give treatment to ppl.why do you think many ppl die from easily curable diseases.na because nigeria na lawless country sha dats why ppl can do what they want to do. And stress does not make u look haggard..but lack of good food does.

haggard

adjective

1. looking exhausted and unwell, especially from fatigue, worry, or suffering.

https://www.google.com/search?q=haggard&client=ms-opera-mini-android&channel=new

You forget that our bodies are different. There are people who eat good food and still look hungry and unwell due to fast metabolism among others.

lefulefu:
bro be honest.. Have u seen a medical doctor that has the appearance of a bus conductor b4?.

Many of the doctors in Nigeria, especially in our general hospitals, are no better looking than conductors

Many of them are underpaid and overworked. Even our hospitals are in bad conditions. Naija don suffer jor.

BluntBoy p: [mini-android&channel=new

You forget that our bodies are different. There are people who eat good food and still look hungry and unwell due to fast metabolism

like presido bubu?