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I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Beke2020: 5:38pm On Jun 28, 2018
Hello Admin,

Hide my ID please. My wife is a fan of your page,she introduced me to your page. Since I started reading your page,I must confess,I have been blessed. So much,I am now referring other married people to your blog.

My wife is a wonderful woman. She is a super star. I pray to God to help me so that I can really reward her for all her love and support. Can you believe that my wife has been supporting our family for almost two years? I made a horrible mistake four years ago. I was in the banking sector. I was doing very fine and taking care of my family and relatives cos I was making good money.

But I made a mistake by allowing the lifestyle I was living get to my head. I was chasing a female client that was very rich but a single lady. She was going to give me a huge account from her company if I agreed to be her lover. I initially refused but the pressure to meet target was so much and getting the woman’s account would make me relax from getting new targets for a long time. I eventually yielded. I tried to keep it a secret as much as I could. I had an affair with this woman for two years.

Writing this down makes me so sad for being stupid and desperate. I wonder why I didn’t walk away from the job with my integrity intact. My affair continued until this woman told me she was pregnant for me. I was enraged. I didn’t want to hear it. I told her it was not part of our agreement. She knew I was a married man. I tried to persuade her all I could but she was adamant and she went ahead....


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Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by dingbang(m): 5:43pm On Jun 28, 2018
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.....to have the baby. That made me broke up with her and in her anger,she moved her account from my bank.

The bank was not happy they lost the account and I was not bringing any juicy accounts. I was asked to leave the bank eventually. I was sad and pained. I was actually so depressed that I couldn’t bring myself to start looking for a job. I was almost an deputy MD. Most banks I tried to apply with came with ridiculous targets. I eventually stopped looking for a bank job. About seven months later,I got a job in a company as a Banks reconciliation manager. The pay cut was a huge cut but I just wanted my peace of mind.

With all these things that happened,my wife took up the major responsibility in our home. She made sure our children didn’t drop out of the type of school they were used to. She took care of our house rent,daily upkeep,even my family members too. She never complained. That’s how it has been for almost two years.

I am a happy man but I see pictures of my child with that woman as she posts them on Facebook,etc. I am scared that one day,this might come to bite me. I love my wife and family to death,I cannot hurt them with this revelation. I once jokingly asked my wife if she would forgive me if I cheated on her while getting drunk. She responded that she will forgive me,as long as I don’t get another woman pregnant in the process.

So now,do I just keep quiet and let this secret be cos the woman has never bothered me for a day. I think she is just happy having a baby of her own. But my greatest fear is that the child might grow up one day and start looking for me.

What do I do? How do I handle this without loosing my family. If you ask me,I would rather die than see my wife leave me. Please advice me.

From Mr R,

Lagos

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Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Sleekydee(m): 5:53pm On Jun 28, 2018
In Charles hypeman's voice *Cheeeeeeeee worldwide* u need some accolades.

On a more serious note, I will advice u to embarrass or expose the devil now before he exposes u.

Bye bye oooo
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Alejoc(m): 6:02pm On Jun 28, 2018
Pls don't die!


Your can't force her to stay if she decides otherwise!!


Olamide sang ducking with the devil.....no condom!
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Sapphire86(f): 6:17pm On Jun 28, 2018
Sleekydee:
In Charles hypeman's voice *Cheeeeeeeee worldwide* u need some accolades.

One a more serious note, I will advice u to embarrass or expose the devil now before he exposes u.

Bye bye oooo

You too can 'smell' the lies grin grin grin The story didnt make me laugh till I read your comment.

Deputy M.D. indeed!
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by wristbangle: 6:18pm On Jun 28, 2018
Say it now to avoid future explosion. No matter how you try to hide it soon the consequences will hit you so bad.
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by MissRaine69(f): 6:26pm On Jun 28, 2018
No sympathy
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Sleekydee(m): 6:47pm On Jun 28, 2018
Sapphire86:


You too can 'smell' the lies grin grin grin The story didnt make me laugh till I read your comment.

Deputy M.D. indeed!

Don't mind him, he is seeking cheap points in form of attention.
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Beke2020: 8:10am On Jun 30, 2018
cool
Sleekydee:
In Charles hypeman's voice *Cheeeeeeeee worldwide* u need some accolades.

On a more serious note, I will advice u to embarrass or expose the devil now before he exposes u.

Bye bye oooo
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by b0rn2fuck(m): 8:15am On Jun 30, 2018
better die, that would give space for others, we too much self, my own babe broke up with me since 2013, just a week now but I can't relate the emotions to death
Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by Beke2020: 6:20pm On Jun 30, 2018
b0rn2fuck:
better die, that would give space for others, we too much self, my own babe broke up with me since 2013, just a week now but I can't relate the emotions to death
On point my broda

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