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Y3mi u have said it all, some ladies and victim card eh.

FrostyButter:
Its easy to say these things about a man cause you have never worn his shoes...Only broken people can evolve, and the man has been broken. He made the topic after many asked him to. He doesnt need your approval to take him serious...and no one needs yours too...By the way ,OP i'm not in support of muder and I feel there are many ways to have dealth with the matter.

If that's the case, just ignore me. I don't see myself ever quoting you over your opinion, 'cos I don't consider you/it of any importance or concern.

You just quoted me over my opinion

pocohantas:
If that's the case, just ignore me. I don't see myself ever quoting you over your opinion, 'cos I don't consider you/it of any importance or concern.

FrostyButter:
You just quoted me over my opinion

That's because you made me notice you.
Aside that, I doubt I would

Organs:
Ok, i get it now. Yes, some girls na wahala. Also, if a girl knows you specifically bought something for your sister and her eyes are on it until you give it to her, that kind girl worri naa. You can always tell a girl in true need which you cannot blame if you are more blessed from a girl that is greedy and selfish, for those ones, it is never enough, its always me,me,me,me for them. Pls lets hear about your ex naaa.

The story, i'll post it soon, for now i just wanna focus on some stuff i've passion for.

Lol...touche

pocohantas:
That's because you made me notice you.
Aside that, I doubt I would

y3mi:
@zinizta @WORDWAR
I hope the both of you understand that the spectrum of the human emotion is broad and consists of various feelings such as anger, joy/happiness, sadness, contempt, envy, hate, fear, love, surprise etc so if even a toddler (not even a 7 year old) can feel any of these despite not being able to express it the way every physiologically matured human does, how much then shouldn't a human as young as seven years old or less would, otherwise you both should then argue it out that a seven year old should also be incapable of expressing other emotional feelings like fear, dread, anger, bitterness, envy, resentment whch every toddlers do, my point is you can't single out 'love' while including others. It's absurd. Humans feel love from a very tender age. Fondness is what makes you as a kid want to ALWAYS be with, give and share your things with those you have affection for, on the playground, in class, at home etc. Now, how would you feel if that nursery/primary school mate of yours never for once reciprocated that feeling or gesture, only for one day to see him or her with someone else sharing and giving as you did? Shock and heartbroken is what you will feel. Don't get me wrong as I am not trying to imply that should justify whatever monster that person may later come to be in life, no that isn't the point here. I am saying you both and others who continue to judge and admonish the OP for feeling heartbroken at such an age should stop being judgemental, unless any of you want to lie that you've never exhibited neither of the human emotions at a tender age. You've never felt love and fear, dread and friggt, joy and happiness, fulfilled and heartbroken when you were kiddies

In anticipation, before you think along that line where some people like to respond with the argument that because someone doesn't respond back to one's affections just to reciprocrate that love...please calm down, relax and think it through. You know you don't love him or her but yet you can accept his/her gifts, you are quick to oblige whenever he offers to assist, you involved her in several life threatening risks which she indulged herself in out of love just so you can make it, you forfeit many of your personal aspiration just to raise and elevate her out of love, and so on and forth, please guys what is love if not seeking of mutual success, what is truw love if not self sacrifice, when people do these things out love, let's not be snappy to judge them for being a fool while ignoring the other who pretended to love and simulated it so perfectly. Such people exploits and they are unfortunately the majority in todays materialistic world. Real people would let you know from the getgo if they are interested in your helping hands or not, decline your expensive gifts with or without reasons. At this juncture, I dare say Nigerian ladies are guilty of the act of not even trying to reach inward and check if she could later discover it within her to love this fellow who's is getting to know her after three weeks but readily willing to accept that new 2017 Toyota Camry from him, which he bought and offered her not because he has lots of cash or because out of some blind love, but simply because he has always being unable to repress his empathy to provide assistance in a situation involving someone his loved ones. After all he wouldn't if he is incapable of affording it, which still doesn't diminishes his natural predisposition to love. Many Nigerian ladies/girls would never reject any but accept every expensive phones given to her by the different guys who met her at different period in a given time, and neither of these guys know better and even if they do meet, "Babe, who is that guy we met at the Cinema asking about the phone he bought you months back and why you never called'' - "oh! That one, he's just a friend who came to do I.T. at my former place of work but now working in DSTV in faraway Enugu, don't think we have anything together, you know I love you." These I believe are the sort of exploitation that has made the OP hell bent on hating Nigerian ladies. And it is not any less different from what many Nigerian so-called big men and big boys do to exploit young girls and ladies thinking they are in love.

@Ziggylady @pafo and others expressing their disdain for a professed murderer. I have this to say...before judging the OP, which one of you is ready to swear by Ogun or Amadioha that never in your life have you ever felt like killing someone who wronged you or someone dear and close to you, so much that even if you don't see yourself doing the killing, you still couldn't help but to constantly wish death upon that someone. As humans, we all have different boiling points, and for some people once theirs begins to evaporates, they can do the unthinkable once the can't hold back but to be triggered while others but few have learn never to let that hate consume them, instead convert that hatred (powerful emotianal energy) and channel it into something purposeful. I am not condoning what he did, but I hate the self-righteous hypocrisy you are displaying here.

I wonder how @Ishilove and @pafo would engage this matter if the OP had left out the part where he admitted to have killed his ex-girlfriend as he narrate the horrendous ordeals he went through at the hands of the ladies he's been with. On the other hand, I guess he can't since he said he had always talked about it on other threads on the Romance section of this forum. But, nevertheless you guys j seem to be reacting only to the girlfriend killing side as if he is a career murdering criminal. A career murderer would take off and constantly try to evade an arrest being the prime suspect. Yet, he was arraigned, prosecuted and served his time. Finally, and for your information, there are two forms of death/dying according to Yoruba understanding, one is the clinical death where the dead is dead and gone, while the other is `ki won pa eniyan saye' (walking dead) which is almost close to what which his the ex-girlfriend lady did to him. Again, consider my analysis not as a provision to justify the murder he committed, but as the eventual outcome when viewed from another perspective, a grievous criminal offense that would still be probably adjudged as a `Crime of Passion' in the western world.

O ga o... Guy you can write an epistle for Africa... Such energy!!

My issue with his post is he is blaming everyone for his misfortunes. He is playing the victim, meanwhile it is obvious he is a very poor judge of character. He even went to vilify his seven year old 'girlfriend', lumping the child in the same class as the thirsty hoes he has been fraternising with.

Every woman did something to him. He even said he dumped all the ones who cheated on him, but despite all the 'dumping' did they not still manage to deal mercilessly with him?

See, the guy has a serious problem which he is externalising.

@ y3mi it seems u are d only person dat undastnds dat part I said I fell in love at a young age. Go to nursery/primary schools today and make research u will discoved dat those kids know what is love and boyfrnd girlfrnd stuffs even dan d adlut.

A lady here said am proud to come to a faceless forum to say I killed someone.

How would I be proud that I killed someone? Sometimes I weep for what I did. To be sincere with u, there are times I will have feelins for d girl I killed and I will weep for what I did.

I only get her off my mind whenever I exhibit hatred to women.

I never wanted to bring my story here because I know a lot of people here are chief judges who judge people by the page they walked into the person's life.

People like @ angelboy01 @ ekanempatrick28 @ Henitan24 @ NwanyiAwkaetiti are the reason I posted this thing here.
They were interested in knowing why I killed and hate women.
@ ekanempatrick28 and @ Henitan24 even sent me their contacts since they were bend on knowing what happed.
I wanted to send them via emails since I felt uneasy posting here but to avoid another person asking me the same question I had to post it here.

I don't know why some people just judge others anyhow.

mimimile93:
@ y3mi it seems u are d only person dat undastnds dat part I said I fell in love at a young age. Go to nursery/primary schools today and make research u will discoved dat those kids know what is love and boyfrnd girlfrnd stuffs even dan d adlut.

A lady here said am proud to come to a faceless forum to say I killed someone.

How would I be proud that I killed someone? Sometimes I weep for what I did. To be sincere with u, there are times I will have feelins for d girl I killed and I will weep for what I did.

I only get her off my mind whenever I exhibit hatred to women.

I never wanted to bring my story here because I know a lot of people here are chief judges who judge people by the page they walked into the person's life.

People like @ angelboy01 @ ekanempatrick28 @ Henitan24 @ NwanyiAwkaetiti are the reason I posted this thing here.
They were interested in knowing why I killed and hate women.
@ ekanempatrick28 and @ Henitan24 even sent me their contacts since they were bend on going what happed.
I wanted send them via emails since I felt uneasy posting here but to avoid another person asking me the same question I had to post it here.

I don't know why some people just judge others anyhow.

I never judged you. Don't turn this table on me pls

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I never judged you. Don't turn this table on me pls

hey! I never said u judge me. I only said u were interested in knowing why I hate y'all.

Am sorry girl.

mimimile93:
@ y3mi it seems u are d only person dat undastnds dat part I said I fell in love at a young age. Go to nursery/primary schools today and make research u will discoved dat those kids know what is love and boyfrnd girlfrnd stuffs even dan d adlut.

A lady here said am proud to come to a faceless forum to say I killed someone.

How would I be proud that I killed someone? Sometimes I weep for what I did. To be sincere with u, there are times I will have feelins for d girl I killed and I will weep for what I did.

I only get her off my mind whenever I exhibit hatred to women.

I never wanted to bring my story here because I know a lot of people here are chief judges who judge people by the page they walked into the person's life.

People like @ angelboy01 @ ekanempatrick28 @ Henitan24 @ NwanyiAwkaetiti are the reason I posted this thing here.
They were interested in knowing why I killed and hate women.
@ ekanempatrick28 and @ Henitan24 even sent me their contacts since they were bend on knowing what happed.
I wanted to send them via emails since I felt uneasy posting here but to avoid another person asking me the same question I had to post it here.

I don't know why some people just judge others anyhow.

Hmmmm I never judged or despised your action/revenge, what I did was to allow you to see the mistake you made in order for you not to repeat it again but you successfully turned the table against me. Just be good

Dudeweedlmao:
One would think that you'd learn something from all the heart break you experienced from Primary school to your university days, but you didnt learn a single thing. That's not how life works, buddy. You should always do a little introspection after every heart break and allow yourself to heal, and not just jumping into a new relationship on a whim.

As for your GF, she had no right to abscond with your property and kill your Father - even though he was sick, I mean where's the love? I would have done the same in your shoes.

I can't tell you what to feel about Nigerian women/men but just know that; it's never their fault. Their parents failed them, this is why I have an eternal grudge with Boomer parents, they experienced a booming economy and were part of the industrial revolution but what did they leave us with? Nothing. But they are always the first to call us lazy and blame us for everything. Upbringing of a child really matters alot and I can assure you 100% your GF's upbringing wasnt right.

Lastly bro, never love with all your heart or trust with all your might.

Na mumu o.. he shd av learnt from those experiences and never trust any woman

Henitan24:
Hmmmm I never judged or despised your action/revenge, what I did was to allow you to see the mistake you made in order for you not to repeat it again but you successfully turned the table against me. Just be good

yeah u didn't judge.
Read it well. I said u wanted knowing my story.

Am sorry girl

mimimile93:
yeah u didn't judge.
Read it well. I said u wanted knowing my story.

Am sorry girl

You've not done anything wrong to me OK. Just be fine and make sure you're happy. Wish you all the best.

Henitan24:
You've not done anything wrong to me OK. Just be fine and make sure you're happy. Wish you all the best.

I really hope you are like this in real life and not just pretending to be this nice and good on the internet.

It seems you are really one of the few ones that have a heart. Have a lovely day

mimimile93:
hey! I never said u judge me. I only said u were interested in knowing why I hate y'all.

Am sorry girl.

Its OK. Find peace and love within. Takia

GODPUNISHUNA:
I really hope you are like this in real life and not just pretending to be this nice and good on the internet.

It seems you are really one of the few ones that have a heart. Have a lovely day

Donno what this attitude of mine is called but I'm quite sure that this is who I'm. Blessed day ahead of you as well.

Phew! What a story....

Now I see the importance of having both genders in a family ( You understand their behaviours and how to deal with them better)

@Mimimile93...It's a big shame you had to learn the ways of Women in a rather harsh and inconvenient pattern., If only you had Sister, Niece or close women figure you would have understood them better and wouldn't have fallen prey. You were soft with ladies, treated them like eggs, you gave them so much regards, care and attention even at your tender age because you believed they are different. And when you grew up in your macho opinion you created a false sense of authority ( breaking up when they cheated ) only to fall back into your weakness for them after a short period of time ( Getting engaged with another lady barely 2 weeks) That isn't a sign of Strength but your dependent nature on woman for completion. Your problem didn't start in a day but since you were child ( If only you had women in your life )


As for your ex girlfriend ,Who am I to judge you? I'm not you, you aren't me, our level of self control, absorbance, tolerance and reactions to negativity are and will never be the same. But one thing I know is I would have never gone far. Killing her can never bring me peace or all I've lost but would rather bring a burden of being a murderer on me. I would have allowed Nemesis catch up on her, be a better person and showed off at her. That would have hurt her more. Death is too good a punishment for some people. But then who am I to judge.

Lastly Mister, Hate is to huge a burden to bear, Let go of your burden, clear your mind of your pasts and move on. Accept your mistakes and focus on the future. Because that is the most important thing. Let me open your heart today, No matter how much you talk I'll of women, hate them or judge them, They will never cease to exist. So why waste so much energy on hating something you can't change instead of getting your own inner peace.

MariaLavina:
Phew! What a story....

Now I see the importance of having both genders in a family ( You understand their behaviours and how to deal with them better)

@Mimimile93...It's a big shame you had to learn the ways of Women in a rather harsh and inconvenient pattern., If only you had Sister, Niece or close women figure you would have understood them better and wouldn't have fallen prey. You were soft with ladies, treated them like eggs, you gave them so much regards, care and attention even at your tender age because you believed they are different. And when you grew up in your macho opinion you created a false sense of authority ( breaking up when they cheated ) only to fall back into your weakness for them after a short period of time ( Getting engaged with another lady barely 2 weeks) That isn't a sign of Strength but your dependent nature on woman for completion. Your problem didn't start in a day but since you were child ( If only you had women in your life )


As for your ex girlfriend ,Who am I to judge you? I'm not you, you aren't me, our level of self control, absorbance, tolerance and reactions to negativity are and will never be the same. But one thing I know is I would have never gone far. Killing her can never bring me peace or all I've lost but would rather bring a burden of being a murderer on me. I would have allowed Nemesis catch up on her, be a better person and showed off at her. That would have hurt her more. Death is too good a punishment for some people. But then who am I to judge.

Lastly Mister, Hate is to huge a burden to bear, Let go of your burden, clear your mind of your pasts and move on. Accept your mistakes and focus on the future. Because that is the most important thing. Let me open your heart today, No matter how much you talk I'll of women, hate them or judge them, They will never cease to exist. So why waste so much energy on hating something you can't change instead of getting your own inner peace.

thank you.
I pray I get over it.
It's not easy for me oo.
Especially whenever and see my course mates the level they are now in life it hurts. I don't envy them tho

GODPUNISHUNA:
I really hope you are like this in real life and not just pretending to be this nice and good on the internet.

It seems you are really one of the few ones that have a heart. Have a lovely day

trust Henitan24 at ur own peril.
Women are perfect pretenders.

Women are deadly mostly the ones that act the 'good girl' sh!t.

mimimile93:
thank you.
I pray I get over it.
It's not easy for me oo.
Especially whenever and see my course mates the level they are now in life it hurts. I don't envy them tho

Accept your journey in life as a unique one, different from your course mates. Look deeper into your soul, search for your being, accept it, love it and do everything you can to make it a better one. Love yourself, treat yourself tenderly and watch your path clear.

Love and pay for attention to yourself than your hatred for women. I wish you success

MariaLavina:
Accept your journey in life as a unique one, different from your course mates. Look deeper into your soul, search for your being, accept it, love it and do everything you can to make it a better one. Love yourself, treat yourself tenderly and watch your path clear.

Love and pay for attention to yourself than your hatred for women. I wish you success

Thanks a lot.

mimimile93:
trust Henitan24 at ur own peril.
Women are perfect pretenders.

Women are deadly mostly the ones that act the 'good girl' sh!t.

Enough OK, I regret the day I first talk/mentioned you. Please and please let this be the last time you'll mention me, I'm pleading ok pleaseeeeeeee. SirBLUNT and IFearGod please help this guy wanna make me cry

You need a help and a seriouse prayer very fast.Things dont just hoppen, there are things you must do to leave a normal life.

Mimimile93 please forgive me I am sorry for judging you before hearing your side of the story. The only person that shattered your dream here was the one that deprived you of your travel opportunity as you wouldn't have met with that devil you killed.
I don't know what to say again self crying for you from within I don't wish my enemy what you are passing through

mimimile93:
I go. so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

mimimile93 i feel your pain but that dosen't mean that you should be silly and arrogant toward women...keep your emotional drama and transfer of agression to yourself and leave enitan24 out of this...the fact that she is trying to help by giving you a listening ears dosen't mean you should insult her take note

sirBLUNT:
mimimile93 i feel your pain but that dosen't mean that you should be silly and arrogant toward women...keep your emotional drama and transfer of agression to yourself and leave enitan24 out of this...the fact that she is trying to help by giving you a listening ears dosen't mean you should insult her take note

Thanks bro.. Tell her am cool with her.

mimimile93:
Thanks bro.. Tell her am cool with her.

Dont give a bitch a listening ear bro,all she wanna tell you is how all women are different and not the same,and that she is also different; while acting like a nice girl on your face,trying to make you start a relationship again with her or anybody,and then she or some other person you might decide to date will suddenly change and show you poo again,like all of them did to you before.I have been there before.A woman will never give you an advice against her fellow woman,she is just coming to subtly manipulate you further.If you need an advice about women meet a guy who you trust and knows much about the woman world,or meet your mother for advice these are the only two people in the whole world than give you sincere advice about women.

mimimile93:
Thanks bro.. Tell her am cool with her.

Dont give a bitch a listening ear bro,all she wanna tell you is how all women are different and not the same,and that she is also different; while acting like a nice girl on your face,trying to make you start a relationship again with her or anybody,and then she or some other person you might decide to date will suddenly change and show you poo again,like all of them did to you before.I have been there before.A woman will never give you an advice against her fellow woman,she is just coming to subtly manipulate you further.If you need an advice about women meet a guy who you trust and knows much about the woman world,or meet your mother for advice these are the only two people in the whole world than give you sincere advice about women.#Emancipatemenfrompussyslavery

KingTugreat:
Dont give a bitch a listening ear bro,all she wanna tell you is how all women are different and not the same,and that she is also different; while acting like a nice girl on your face,trying to make you start a relationship again with her or anybody,and then she or some other person you might decide to date will suddenly change and show you poo again,like all of them did to you before.I have been there before.A woman will never give you an advice against her fellow woman,she is just coming to subtly manipulate you further.If you need an advice about women meet a guy who you trust and knows much about the woman world,or meet your mother for advice these are the only two people in the whole world than give you sincere advice about women.#Emancipatemenfrompussyslavery

Thanks bro..

Women have done more harm than good in this men's world.

Some times I would closed my eyes and picture a world without women. Guess what I see?

I see young men in their 20s making it big.
I see young dudes thinking straight and making good decisions.

But with these who.res, an average guy thinks of how he can please a girl regardless

mimimile93:
trust Henitan24 at ur own peril.
Women are perfect pretenders.

Women are deadly mostly the ones that act the 'good girl' sh!t.

I read your post fully... And I'll be honest I skipped most of the comments and just read your reactions to them mostly... After reading your post I can understand why things went as they did , no one deserves that.

I have to play devils advocate a bit here ... I just want to ask how does it help you to harbor all that anger and hate...it takes so much energy to keep it up forever ... You can hate women all you want and attack them but honestly still will leave you stagnant. You can't be a victim all your life ( you can attack me if you want but it's true) ... You need to actively want to move on.

I think with this mindset you will just push a lot of genuine people away... And attractive a lot of women who want to "save" you... And leave them damaged with emotional abuse based on how you feel about your ex

Anyway all the best with moving forward and finding happiness

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