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Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

Simple answer Don't. If you want to cheat break up with your partner or tell them you want an open relationship

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

You better don't try it before Amadioha strikes

Cheating is so easy but once your d**k is cut off, your own don' be be DAT.

Don't just dare try am.

Mehn people with different wahala oooo... So as the country hard reach the only problem wey you get Na SEXUAL PRESSURE....



baba God please bless me like this men Dem so my worries too go change

Keep it only on a friend zone.

*Marry someone you are sexually attracted to.
*Both of you should work on your sex game.
*Get busy,the more idle you are,the more the temptation.

Have a consciousness to not give attention to women outside.

Marry someone who is sexually attractive to you,
Someone who by just looking at him/her, a burning desire arouse in you,
Someone that you enjoy every seconds and minutes of love making with him or her,
Someone that don't just moan but cry tears of joy during love making with you,
Someone that bring out the "porn star" in you.
Someone who can bring out the beast in you during sex
You will never have any urge to cheat.
Cheating in marriage is very stupid and wrong.
You have to consider the health of your spouse, before you go out, sleep around get an std and come home to infect your partner.
Think about your integrity, how will your children and in-laws look and rate you if you are caught cheating.
Yuck.
Mr OP.
Go and revive your sexual lifestyle with your partner, maybe it's now boring,
Make it spicy,
It doesn't have to be missionary style all the time,
Change styles,
Change position
Try new things.
.
Lastly pray and discipline yourself.
A responsible family man don't cheat.

Those cheating shoes u are feeling pressured to wear, just put ur wife in doz shoes, then come back to tell me how it feels.
The bible says: "marriage is sacred; keep the bed Holy and undefiled".
Moreso, it's ur desire to cheat. Hence u feel the urge to do so. James 1:14 says "each one is drawn out by his desire and desires give birth to sin and then, death".
Lastly, why have u forgotten u ppl's most quoted lines: "I am a winner, not a loser" (can't u defeat this temptation ni. Abi ur winnership no reach sin). "I can do all things tru Christ who strengthens me" (Haba! Faithfulness no join the "all" things wey u can do tru Christ)?
Job in the bible said: "I have made a covenant with my eyes. Therefore, I will not give a strange woman undue attention".
U can do that too, bro and so can I. It was once a challenge to me but I'm solid now. Tnx to Jah.

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weyreypey:
So you are using two monikers on a single thread? You sound very disrespectful to the female gender... What kind of reductionism is this ... describing the entire female gender as a pucci?
You obviously have a low self esteem.


#walksoutof thread.

The Mimimile93 dude is a frustrated fagg0t. Poor upbringing, education, nutrition and health care. He needs help.

Pay less attention to him.

I don't know why any kind of human being, will feel pressurized, if they do something proactive with their time and thoughts, other than float around, thinking, breathing, imagining, dreaming about sex sex sex...

There's reaaallly more to life than sex, reaaallly!

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

You are thinking about cheating because your mind is fixed on sex with other people. You may not have gotten over the thoughts of how others exes feel...na devil de whisper and you de take style listen.

Now listen, a habit formed becomes a character. You need to learn to look at a lady only once. Yes just once...more than that will take your mind far. You need to intoxicate your mind with the thoughts of your partner...learn to be open to her and you'll be glad you did. Don't lock your phone. Always be open as to where you are and where you go. Find games or things that you both love doing and do them. Always pray together....it may be difficult at first but you'll be fine.
God's grace!

Zoharariel:
What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

Baba Baba Ijebu, I trust you. You make a lot of sense though. My fear here is Child Support and the damn Alimony. Bobby Blue Bland the late famous Blues singer sang IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER.

e be like sey you no dey see how women dey cut preeq anyhow these days.

just marry them it's that simple or make them your concubines you cant use and discard them tho but seeing that you might be a stranger i'd say go ahead and cheat with as many women as you can, why allow a woman deprive you of pleasure

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

I guess the first step to curbing sexual infaithfulness for the man is to be with a lady you are strongly attracted to sexually...

For me,if I have a lady who is sexually pleasing to my eyes,i strongly doubt if I will have problems staying faithful and this applies to many married guys out there.

Every man has a spec and if you marry any lady short of your spec,it will take the grace of GOD for that man not to cheat if he eventually comes across his spec.

Colourich:
Maybe when you rethink that all pucci are the same, then you won't cheat.

Nooo,,They are not the Same..Not at all and that is the Fact!!!

weyreypey:
Who are you? Tribe? Religion? Job? These will influence my advice.

so this question now affect answer..

weyreypey:
Who are you? Tribe? Religion? Job? These will influence my advice.

Zoharariel:
What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

Why do you want to drag many people along with you to hell
Can't you just go it alone

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

Wandering d!ck.

As e dey hard you to control your sexual urges also know that your spouse is fighting same demon..

UyaiIncomparabl:
Cheat if you want to. It's a free world.

Mma ino. Can i get a shot from u? Mbok i swear i woun't disappoint u.

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

you kw if your spouse is also cheating on u? Abegi...

UyaiIncomparabl:
Cheat if you want to. It's a free world.

...



Are You Sure

UyaiIncomparabl:
Even the ones that do still cheat.

how do u know so much to just conclude

zeb04:
I am just 24 and married.I get a lot questions like are you really married and stuff on a daily esp at work.

How do I cope with looking at all the young handsome Bobos who want my attention all day?


I think of how I would feel if my partner starts to give attention to all the wanabis he meets everyday at work or clubs.

Go and sleep...you perfectly sound childish just like your age.

Whot kids like you do in a topic like this, is just to sit, listen, and learn

cococandy:
Ask your wife how she copes with the pressure to cheat on you. Follow her advice

What if the wife is cheating?

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

I believe you are experiencing one of three things or an hybrid of the three things

1) You are being influenced by your environment i.e current location, friends

2)You are truly not in love with your partner

3) You are not ready to settle for one person



if it is the environment
To resist the urge, you can either
1) change environment or focus on other things

if it is love/trust issues
2) Quit your current serious relationship, if you aren't married or in really advance stage of the relationship.

if you are married, I will suggest you spend more time with your wife.

Encourage her as much as possible to dress or look like the type of women you find attractive, I mean the type you cannot resist the urge to cheat with.

You might even encourage her to dress like a runzgirl(or Small girl with Big God as they are now called) during pre-intimacy to fulfill your sexual fantasies, assuming your fantasies revolves around those type of ladies.

Fulfilling sexual fantasies is one of major causes of cheating in modern relationships and it is often taken for granted within the Nigerian society


In the end though, self discipline is the major component, but you can always find a way of fulfilling your sexual fantasies with your spouse.

cococandy:
Ask your wife how she copes with the pressure to cheat on you. Follow her advice

Dnt u tink by askin ha dis qstn, he has jst inform his wife dat he wnts to start cheatin