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: I think almost every woman knows a man who would do almost anything for her. Yet the honest truth is, although a lot of them know at least one guy who would worship the ground they walk on, many of them just aren't mentally or physically attracted to him. It's unfortunate.


I know you might wanna ask me why it's unfortunate. I think it's unfortunate because a lot of women are attracted to men who don't reciprocate their level of effort. Yet there are men in this world who will...and they just don't embrace them for whatever reason. Think most men have been in that situation and realised it didn’t work then ended up being trash cos that was what seemed to work

Also, that's not to say women should feel guilty if their not with the man who would treat them like gold. They can't always help who they're attracted to and they can't always force chemistry. It's also wrong to be with someone purely because of what you gain

But this leads me to ask a question because now I'm wondering WHY women often dismiss the men who adore them, Ladies, do you think the saying "treat them mean, keep them keen" holds some truth? Can an excessively sweet and caring guy really be a turn off?

Several people have said the nicest guys are typically the most 'unattractive' in the generic sense of the word. Ladies, is this true? On the whole, are attractive guys less caring and are unattractive guys more caring?

: For me there have been many times in life when I can genuinely say “I ain’t shit”. When I meet a lady that worships me, it automatically turns me off bc I could take and manipulate her in ways that could ruin her, sometimes that comes in handy and sometimes it doesn’t.

: In my experience, the "nice unattractive" ones tend to become malicious and use superficial attraction as the reason that their kindness etc isn't appreciated the way it should be and become quite clingy and make it the man's fault for not being attracted to them after time.. ladies If you got something contrary to this let us know, guys too add yours.


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loyalty isn't all.

loyalty isn't all

No one understands women. They are special being.

How you wan take understand people wey never understand themselves finish?

IamFreedom:
No one understands women. They are special being.

you're right