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Colourich:
The thing here is, we all don't have marriage in mind while dating, if you keep having marriage in mind while dating, it becomes boring and you won't be free and expressive.

Is that made clear from the beginning? Why stay with someone 4+ years when there is no inclination from your part that you want to settle down. Do you actually tell the girl I am not looking for something serious and she says “yes I am ok with that” because if you don’t then the problem lies with you and your propensity to get bored.

DonPiiko:
I want to open a thread expressing how I feel about a chic but I am scared it will make her run off, she's just too classy, beautiful and friendly. If I am gonna get into a serious relationship I would love to date her. She's on my dp

Why humiliate her that way? By opening a thread that does not come across positively at all . It falls into the region of stalker/obsessive man

Rayhandrinni:
The society I live in clearly states

Yourself and a few other persons are having sex with your girlfriend.

Yourself and a few other persons are having sex with your boyfriend.

Sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it's the main reason relationships go up in flame.

Then you need to move & upgrade
As I don’t have that issue

MissRaine69:
Dating is supposed to be empowering. It’s supposed to make you feel good. It should be about two people, enthusiastically wanting to get to know each other and spend time together.

It’s supposed to make you feel good, add joy and fun to your life.
Am I wrong in thinking talking to/dealing with/dating/getting to know a person is what dating is all about but it seems making an effort that is now a waste of time. It’s all about jumping into the pool with no knowledge or sitting on it ...with the consequences coming later .

Dating was supposed to be knowing each other.

But how can you know someone when all her life is fake full of pretence?

Unfortunately Nigerian women are fake. Everything about them is deceitful.

They lie a lot. Unfaithful and ungrateful set of beings.

Whenever a Nigerian girl tells me "Good morning" I look at my wristwatch before responding..

Admin401:
That's the thing about catching fishes, you don't tell the sea what kind of fish to give you.

A good fisherman knows which fish are available based on seasons and which type of fish live in certain waters based on silt levels and how fast the water falls and finally how deep the water is.

milemimi93:
Dating was supposed to be knowing each other.

But how can you know someone when all her life is fake full of pretence?

Unfortunately Nigerian women are fake. Everything about them is deceitful.

They lie a lot. Unfaithful and ungrateful set of beings.

Whenever a Nigerian girl tells me "Good morning" I look at my wristwatch before responding..

All Nigerian women?
That’s generalising a tad don’t you think?

MissRaine69:
All Nigerian women? That’s generalising a tad don’t you think?

Sorry not all.
Only the ones born from the 80s..
Any girl born from the 80s and she's a Nigerian is a devil...

MissRaine69:
A good fisherman knows which fish are available based on seasons and which type of fish live in certain waters based on silt levels and how fast the water falls and finally how deep the water is.

A good fisherman also has bad days.

MissRaine69:
That’s your view your are entitled to it.
And I am certainly not in that category of yours. And I know many who are not as well. Whateever it is you are trying to justify with the name calling is generalisation and stereotypes . You are just one big ball of anger misplaced anger.

You know it's the truth, apart from hoeing it is also a woman's nature to live a life of lies, believing in lies, that is why a truthful guy is always at the bottom. We know your true nature now.

Colourich:
Lies, lies and more lies.

Majority of us can't be controlled by the hole especially with money.

PUSSYHOE:
You know it's the truth, apart from hoeing it is also a woman's nature to live a life of lies, believing in lies, that is why a truthful guy is always at the bottom. We know your true nature now.

I am not going to feed your ego by responding anymore. Good day to you keyboard warrior.

Admin401:
A good fisherman also has bad days.

That is true but he certainly does dwell on a bad catch. He goes home and watches the World Cup or maybe tennis or even cricket!

milemimi93:
Sorry not all.

Only the ones born from the 80s..

Any girl born from the 80s and she's a Nigerian is a devil...

You are beyond redemption

MissRaine69:
That is true but he certainly does dwell on a bad catch. He goes home and watches the World Cup or maybe tennis or even cricket!

So now, what have you learnt from our short dialogue?

I see

MissRaine69:
Why humiliate her that way? By opening a thread that does not come across positively at all . It falls into the region of stalker/obsessive man

MissRaine69:
You are beyond redemption

My road to redemption has no GPS So guess that time must be invested for this to be manifested

milemimi93:
My road to redemption has no GPS
So guess that time must be invested for this to be manifested

There is no road .....nothing just darkness and more darkness

Admin401:
So now, what have you learnt from our short dialogue?

I can fish figuratively and literally ....not sure about you though

MissRaine69:
There is no road .....nothing just darkness and more darkness

There's no road to redemption? Am just hearing this

MissRaine69:
I am not going to feed your ego by responding anymore. Good day to you keyboard warrior.

Talk to 20 guys 18 would say what I said the remaining two are teenagers who can still be deceived and doesn't understand a woman's true nature. A devil in angel's skin.

milemimi93:
There's no road to redemption? Am just hearing this

None .....

MissRaine69:
None .....

There's no such thing as redemption then

milemimi93:
There's no such thing as redemption then

Not in your case ...no there is not

romenna:
dear u r correct. Alot of pipo go into relationship wit a wrong mindset, a mindset to defraud the other party. Whoeva goes into any relationship empty handed is a fraudster wether male or female.
Some go into it with only their bodies, no single personal life achievement and expect to feed off their partner.
Fraud!

u get am, recently dump my girl last week Monday Co's everyday na billing, a relationship not up to a month as in I don pay for hair like two times take my T-shirt and will even call me that I suppose give her money for wenknd but tnk God just free her jejely and am back to my ex that like sex but I can't wife that one just dey use am shine my conji

adetoroamos:
u get am, recently dump my girl last week Monday Co's everyday na billing, a relationship not up to a month as in I don pay for hair like two times take my T-shirt and will even call me that I suppose give her money for wenknd but tnk God just free her jejely and am back to my ex that like sex but I can't wife that one just dey use am shine my conji

sorry we r not on the same page bro. If u know u can't wife ur ex dnt use her to shine Congo. U r committing the same fraud I spoke about so me n u nor dey for d same category.

MissRaine69:
Then you need to move & upgrade
As I don’t have that issue

there's a 50 50 chance you do

Rayhandrinni:
there's a 50 50 chance you do

bez shansov!!
There is 0% chance
I don’t place my happiness in someone’s hands and I don’t expect that someone to fund my joys and pleasures. A relationship for me is about being compatible and complimenting each other.

adetoroamos:
u get am, recently dump my girl last week Monday Co's everyday na billing, a relationship not up to a month as in I don pay for hair like two times take my T-shirt and will even call me that I suppose give her money for wenknd but tnk God just free her jejely and am back to my ex that like sex but I can't wife that one just dey use am shine my conji

The hypocrisy you exude is beyond comprehension. You are the very same person that will say Nigerian women are hoes yet you behave like one. If you have no intention of wifing her why are you enjoying her? Just to while up time?

Colourich:
I like fun .

I stated your type of reasoning in my second post on this thread.
Someday you will get bored and wish for a serious relationship. My prayer though, you shouldn't have had "Fun" with it.

donjobill:
Different strokes for different folks!

True that!

Globally women are becoming unlikeable. Men are waking up to all female manipulation mechanisms and now understand dating is tilted in the favor of women considering sexual ergonomics and the hypergamous nature of women. Wise men are staying away from serious relationships and dating all together.

Rather than been tolerant of the toxic behavior and money chasing game a girl plays, it’s better for men to pump and dump and move on to the next before she could even say “where are all the good men gone”.

Dating is a complete waste of time.
All my life,I have been meeting unserious guys.
All they want is sex and nothing more.And the funniest part is that I don't demand any kobo from them.
The only solution is to date when you are ready to settle down.Most guys are time wasters.They know they are not ready but they will never tell you.
As a girl,it is good to use your head and not your heart.Run away whenever you feel a guy is not serious with you.To avoid "had I known".