oscarpet:
I am one of the addict I nearly killed myself, but I took a decision and put an end to virtual soccer. gambling is evil it will lead u to many things. today I have stop but mastubation it lead me into I don't know how to stop. God help me.

bastien:
HIV is a different case boss, this is gambling and virtual gambling is different from sport betting. You can't stop a man from who loves football to stop watching match. Never!

Once you're in sport betting no going back, only limitation. And that comes from him stopping the virtual and playing two gala money on sport betting.

No human start having sex and stop. Even when u become an addict, you try to limit it.

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

Koralords:


Bro you not alone .....2012 before starting bet9ja I bought 3 cars same time from the USA ..had $28k in my Dom account ....have 3.8m in my accounts ...everything went bet9ja ..the day I sold of my car I staked 750k onces on a match and lost ....now have less then 200k in my act and squart with ppl

Hardlife:
how can i do that please. Share some ways for me. I believe what you are saying. I feel that urge whenever i play and its the same anticipation to get that urge that pushes me to play. How can i overcome it.

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

DonPiiko:
Hey beautiful

Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

kuffy05:




Lolz
You've been there before bro

OdiaI:
You don't have to explain. But if you can't access your mails because you don't have a phone, how did you register on NL and how are you able to reply my quote? If you have access to a system, you should be able to access your mail. I had the mind of helping before but you are not being truthful. Come out clean if you need help, you shouldn't turn to lying to garner empathy. There are people who are willing to help people who have gone through what you went through.

Hardlife:
PLEASE I KNOW ALOT WILL NOT BELIEVE MY STORY. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE BEEN ADDICTED TO VIRTUAL GAMBLING. ONLY THEN WILL YOU UNDERSTAND.

ANYONE WITH SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. PLEASE HOW DID YOU QUIT. WHAT WERE THE RECORVERY PROCESSES YOU USED. I AM FRUSTRATED. I WANT TO QUIT. BUT I KEEP ON CHASING MY LOSSES. PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT TO GET MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER AGAIN. I AM TIRED. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT LOSING MONEY WAS NOT THE PROBLEM I THINK I HAVE. THE WAY MY SUBCONSCIOUS MIND AND BRAIN HAS BEEN REWIRED IS THE BIG PROBLEM. TRUTH BE TOLD, I FEEL RESTLESS WHEN I DONT HAVE MONEY TO PLAY.

WHENEVER I AM PLAYING, I GET THIS HIGH LEVEL PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY SMOKE WEED. I FEEL FUELED. THE BIGGER THE AMOUNT I STAKE, THE BIGGER THE THRILLS I GET. HOW CAN THIS BE POSSIBLE. COULD THIS BE THE REAL REASON I AM ADDICTED AND NOT BECAUSE OF MY LOSSES

Hardlife:
Please try and read to the end.
I am a young guy early twenties. I
have been playing virtual since 2014.
I was never this useless and
unpurposeful.
My life changed when i entered university.
It all started in 2014 when i walked
into a nairabet close to my school and
saw people playing virtual. I decided
to play, as i remember i won that
period. I never knew the day i started was the
day i gave the devil the key to my life. In 2014, i spent my school fees on
virtual, lost everything. Sold my
phones, my feeding money and
everything. All went to virtual. So i was not able to continue my
education, though i remained in
school not letting my parents know till
this year. Dear reader, from 2014 to date have
been the worst years of my life. I stole
to play virtual, sold my properties, my
clothes, shoes. I became an addict. Even not being a
formal student, i still collected money from my parents, school fees
and allowance. Everything ends up in
virtual house. I could not even buy good clothes.

lostluggage:
Mans life ehn, dealing with addictions. If no be kush Na alcohol Or refnol, Or codeine, Nicotine sef Some na just Gambling! Soapy nko? Everyone isssa Saint Some na pussy... Nd dick na Dis one kill pass.. Some na just ashi... Dem don forget how to toast woman. Some na crack.... ** DAT one na killer*** Some are even addicted to being good ... Dey get bleeped up everyday.
Some even have all.. In their hands...
Welcome to Life and Struggles

dingbang:
Go to opm, doctor Jesus in action will heal you



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Organism000:


Hard as it might seem to believe, there are people facing addictions, be it weed smoking, to tramadol and even something as simple as alcohol addiction.

Please note that none of the mentioned are totally bad. Alcohol lightens the mood, tramadol is pain relief medication, cannabis is organic sedative and even gambling is a game of luck. But the issue is addiction.

To break an addiction, you need to understand it's real nature. Because it is not the substance or event, but the mental programming that fuels the repetitive action.

When you repeat an action more than 21 times, consistent repetition of same actions wires the sub-conscious programming of the non-physical body, that controls our character. So, basically gambling as an automatic response is now a program of your motor neurons.

How you break the cycle ? You must disable the sub-conscious programming by deactivating the motor neurons responsible for involuntary responses.

How is that done ? Many ways, but the easiest for a dummy like you, is simple but tough for people to hear. Which of your friends or relatives really hates you for living the way you do ? Go to that person, let them make fun of you so badly that you are broken, you feel useless, and you feel like fighting the person. You cry in the inside and challenge yourself to get better. In fact, if you can go to the place you waste your money and start a fight and let them beat the hell out of you. You would have closed that chapter and never go there again.

Sometimes you need to get lucked up in police cell to face some level of trauma that will disable certain neural programming, that is what prisons are built for.

If you can not do the above, then you need to go through the slow processes which hardly work. That includes, finding a girlfriend who hates who you are now and is ready to make you better. Love changes people who fall in love and are heart broken and want to be better for better mates to lay by their sides.

Most people get married out of depression and transfer their aggression to their innocent wives. You are a time-bomb waiting to happen, and woe betide any woman who will surrender her body to a scumbag. Was this painful ?, you need more of it to feel stupid enough to change.

1stola:

Will you keep quiet there
He should go to another virtual doctor?

post=69181388:
Firstly, ignore all negative comments you read here and only take to the ones that will help you.

We want to tell
you initially to let your family know.
Good to know to have done that already. 
So after passing your jamb exam, after all the tears from you and mom you still went back to it?
We thought it was going to stop there. 
You are the only one that can help your self here.
Gambling is very very addictive.
Your life is really wasting away as you said.
When you really make up your mind and say I WILL NEVER PLAY VIRTUAL AGAIN or I WILL NEVER ENTER ANY VIRTUAL SHOP AGAIN and you keep to it.
That will be the beginning of you being a new person.
TO STOP IT REALLY DEPEND ON YOU.

GO through this website, it will help you.

https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/counsellor-articles/the-10-most-successful-ways-of-overcoming-gambling-urges


I am glad you have made the decision to quit already.
Anyways, forget about all you have lost in the past, that is the NUMBER ONE thing gambling does to you, (it says, let me recover the money I have lost and I will stop) then the losing streak goes on and on.
Forget all that you have lost in the past and concentrate on the future.
Wish you all the very best.

Once more , MAKE UP YOUR MIND FINALLY AND SAY I WILL.NEVER STEP INTO ANY VIRTUAL SHOP ANYMORE.

Pharovo:
For a greater part of 3 years i thought i was the only one going through this kind of problem. Bet9ja virtual ruined my life that i had rent some parts of my apartment to strangers to be able to keep up. Stole from my girl and even my younger sister to go and gamble on virtual sport. I have grown thin and ugly, looking tattered most of the times all because of this addiction. I promised myself to never visit the betting shop again but was only able to achieve this feet for about a 4-5 weeks before i went back with money saved up by me and my girl to rent a shop, lost the whole 180k within the space of 4 days. Now i have lost her too, lost my confidence and hope. Total money I have lost this year alone to virtual sport is more than 1.2million which includes my rent and other peoples money. The thought of suicide had crossed my mind countless times as i am now in huge debt. Please i need your help to help me curtail this addiction. Please help a brother.

Hardlife:
@ odiaI. my phone is a small phone. it cant open mails. I am sorry. If you want to help me with recovery processes, and you feel i am lying you can click the other topic i created yesterday. It is less congested. Thank you. God bless. I have no reason to lie. Like i said when @ addictdoctor called. He restricted his number. I can give you my fb username. If you go through it, you will see i am telling you the truth.