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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hakeem12(m): 10:52am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Abraham Lincoln ran for president a lot of times before he could win. Even buhari contested three times or so before getting elected. Keep playing jare, you go win big one day... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Smiley05: 10:53am On Jul 08, 2018 |
It's not the end of the world mate! Most of us have lost it at some point in life especially during Uni days with all the distractions(freedom, girls,partying,smoking,drinking....). The good thing is you have already started the recovery process by opening up to your parents and thankfully they have accepted you back eventhough your mum was really disappointed and upset. I barely comment on social media but I was so touched by your story that I had to register on Naira land so I could share my thought with you as I was once in your position though I was addicted to drinking and womanizing and not gambling but I was lucky I came back to my senses jut before my final year. Hence, managed to graduate with a 3rd class. All you need do is to ignore all the negative comments and insults from friends, have a plan(start afresh without further delay), stay focused, try out other things like securing a visa to places like Canada.etc. I am a graduate of Chemistry with MBA, worked as a sales engineer for a scientific equipment sales company before I relocated to London and still had to up-skill in order to penetrate the job market here. I now work as a Clinical Research Lab Technician and most of those people who condemned me during my trying times now beg me for money. What I am trying to say is it's never too late to start afresh. Nobody is going to fix your life for you. You just have to get up and do it yourself. Wallowing in self pity and regrets won't help. You seem like a brilliant dude so get up and START NOW! 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Albinoflash(m): 10:53am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Bros my case looks am i psychologist,can read someone's mind from a million mile,so its difficult for people to know what am going tru,i only tell u wat u want to hear.to be frank gamblers are frustrated and depressed people.if u were'nt born into a gambling family and u become this addicted then it could be due to depression or frustratiön,it is neva fun.and once u start,it looks like ur only source of happiness ,drug addicts can relate.no difèrence between drug addiction and gambling ,u just have to find a new source of happiness,something dat can fetch u some money,wit time u just got to start loosing the interest,it a gradual process bro.just try and believe their is God and önly him can help us 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:55am On Jul 08, 2018 |
You sef need help no different betwwen the guy oscarpet: |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Zenithpeak(m): 10:55am On Jul 08, 2018 |
bastien: In as as I appreciate your response, I put it to you that, sport betting habit is not natural. Man can become a gambler (Pls note, that is not what you are but what you BECAME) you can also become something other than a gambler. The same with other addiction problem. Anybody hooked in this demonic act needs a sincere help not to further compound the already worse situation. Lastly, sex is natural and can't be a sin when you do it right. I. e strictly with your legally married wife or husband. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ade1298(m): 10:56am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife:guy I can feel your pain, a friend of mine is facing this kind problem, even worse than yours...he is not in school anymore cos of debt. lemme just advice you. go see your pastor or alfa to help you spiritually and you too got a lot of work to do, fight for yourself..... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by cadre88(m): 10:57am On Jul 08, 2018 |
the few times I played virtual were times when I was seriously down and I almost lost hope. I won virtual a few times but ran away because I was very sure virtual would have collected it back. At a time, I was addicted to board game, I would complain I didn't have money but I played board game everyday even though I never stole to play. Sometimes, I borrowed to play. That has stopped because I came to full realisation that gambling is not a sure way to wealth. Only 1 out of 1000 people can win good money. Though many people win daily but they have lost more than their winnings. First thing I did was to stop visiting betshop. Second thing was to cut contact with people I met in the bet shop. 3rd, I started freelancing on Fiverr though it's not easy as people paint it. One major thing is "no do pass yourself ". Gambling makes you imagine having things you may not have normally. Watch more movies, learn new skill, have a responsible girlfriend. You can dm me for my whatsapp number so that we can talk well |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nelsonebby(m): 11:00am On Jul 08, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: I totally understand. I have my own addictions too. But I also know how to break them. Being on nairaland is an addiction for me. Reading is an addiction too. Creative think is also a real addiction. I have tried many ways to break addictions, sometimes I replace one addiction with another. Which means, I actually substitute the action, and put another action on the motor neurons that control my addictive programming. I am able to do this, because I understand the underlying mechanics of the programming which is not physical. It is on a non-physical wiring of the light body. So each time you carry out the act of addiction, serotonim is released to the brain when you play and melatonin is released when you loose. The astral body enjoys the sensations that comes from those 'Aha' moments. You are feeding the demon, which actually is your astral aspect of the memory. How do you break the cycle ? At this stage, if you are serious about breaking this totally, without going through abuse. You must follow this rule and undergo total body change. I want to give you a simple exercise that will break the entire cycle cos it is a total life-style change. The entire program has nothing to do with breaking addictions, but it will change the configuration of the programming of your Astral body. And when that change, the neuro-transmission in your brain will fire differently. Take a pen and write these down; 1. Wake up daily at 7:AM by setting an alarm, I mean Set an alarm, do not say you will wake up by yourself. Use your Phone set alarm, Sharp 7AM it wakes you up, no matter how you feel, get the fucck out of bed. 2. Get a 1 litre bottle or plastic bottle, it has to be 1litre or more. Go to a shop and find 1litre fruit juice bottle, and buy, pour away the damn fruit, do not drink that chemical, pour it out and take the container home. When the alarm wakes you up. Fill the damn 1 litre with clean, I mean purified clean water. If you have pure water, boil and transfer it, I mean distill water. Drink 1 litre of distilled water every hour as follows; Set the alarm to ring at 7:AM, 8AM, 9AM,10AM- those are 4 hrs, and you must empty each litre to your stomach every hour. Through out the day, you will piss out the entire karma from your body. The water will purify you into your light body. water is a multidimensional cleaner. It was not created by the Anunaki Gods, it is from the Divine Creator. So drink for 21 days. I mean 21 continuous days without a break, 4 litres a day, DO NOT fail. At 21 days, the water has melted away all the neuro-programs of addictions. These 21 days, you must not gamble. 3. During these 21 days of 4 Litres each at 6PM, meditate. Meditation here, I did not say Pray. Do not call on any God or angel. You will be in charge of your body. No one being or God should interfere with you. Meditation I want here should be 20 minutes or more. Just close your eyes and look at your eye lids, you will perceive floods of thoughts and each time you remember of thinking, draw your attention back to your eye lids and keep your eyes shut and observe the blankness. Try not to think, and each time your thoughts come, you will notice they are negative thoughts, do not judge yourself. Those are the memory programs of your subconscious mind. That is showing up and deleted. Do this and 21 days after you are a new you. You will continue this after discreation at your own and your life will be great. If this my username stays one till then, contact me, then I will tell you how to connect to your Divine aspects and turn your life around. Cos you need to make some money, but not without de-programming the addiction. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Pharovo(m): 11:06am On Jul 08, 2018 |
For a greater part of 3 years i thought i was the only one going through this kind of problem. Bet9ja virtual ruined my life that i had rent some parts of my apartment to strangers to be able to keep up. Stole from my girl and even my younger sister to go and gamble on virtual sport. I have grown thin and ugly, looking tattered most of the times all because of this addiction. I promised myself to never visit the betting shop again but was only able to achieve this feet for about a 4-5 weeks before i went back with money saved up by me and my girl to rent a shop, lost the whole 180k within the space of 4 days. Now i have lost her too, lost my confidence and hope. Total money I have lost this year alone to virtual sport is more than 1.2million which includes my rent and other peoples money. The thought of suicide had crossed my mind countless times as i am now in huge debt. Please i need your help to help me curtail this addiction. Please help a brother. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by emerged01(m): 11:06am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: Bet9ja virtual gambling is killing many people gradually. I know a lot of guys playing it,at a time I joined. I started losing money daily,suddenly I came back to my senses when I remembered that I have my mum,my wife and my children to look out for,I withdrew inmediately. I thank God I was able to withdraw. You have to distance yourself from your colleagues who also play virtual gambling. A day or two days to study their lives to know what they are benefitting from it. You will realize that they are benefitting nothing. This is to tell you that they are in the first stage of madness. They have lost their will. God gives everyone Will to choose the kind of life to they want to live. Devil knows that if he can get that Will God gave to us,he will be in charge of our lives. Whenever we lose our Will to devil we do his Will which are to fornicate,gambling e.t.c. We find ourselves doing his dirtiest works,we become slaves to him. We lose the direction of our lives. As you can see you are not doing the will of God but of devil. All you need to do is to get your Will back;That Will to choose to live according to the purpose of God. Bro,it is not too late,you can get it back! It is your WILL. Bro,whenever you wake up,say this to yourself,I'm having my will back to live according to the purpose of God. And pray to God to give you strong spirit to reject any situation that may want to draw you back to gambling. God help you bro! 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 11:09am On Jul 08, 2018 |
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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by TissuePaper: 11:10am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Wow... You really need to control the addiction |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by onyxo76(m): 11:10am On Jul 08, 2018 |
just like the word 'virtual' means unreal, playing virtual means playing unreal games and you will never make anything from it. You need to leave sports betting all together since you cam't control yourself again, find a bible believing church and start going there not church with all those skimpy girls and rough looking boys. I have been into sports trading for over 6 years now and have to realize some things that are no go areas in this industry, if you have self control then you can take is as business for some small change but mot as a source of income or living. kindly check this links out. https://www.bettingexpert.com/about/gambling-addiction 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by COdeGenesis: 11:14am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: truth is you very greedy. If you need money to flex and live a good life then you need to hussle hard. You not alone in this struggle. Why take 5k to gamble just to win 2k. Doesn't make sense. it's hard to stop. learn tk control yourself. also u can change environmental for the time being and also your mentality. Sometimes finding short cut to success might lead to failure. God help U it ain't easy. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Jethrolite(m): 11:20am On Jul 08, 2018 |
kuffy05:No be everything person de talk for public. I get sense by force. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by odumoyedare(m): 11:20am On Jul 08, 2018 |
My brother, ur story is somehow pathetic because I know how u are feeling at the moment. I know how it hurts to be an object of ridicule. Virtual has got nothing gud to offer but rather destroy ones life the more. I have once bin in ur shoe....exactly d same way u are lamenting at d moment was d same way I also lamented then. So many at times, I would cry after losing a huge sum of money to virtual, all my life savings went into it, I had no plan for my life cos virtual had taking over me. But the day I made up my mind completely was d day I opened up to my brother's wife when they were so much concerned about what I was making use of money for...... I didn't buy clothes not to talk of buying a car.... But that day came when God was to capture me away from d hands of d devil.... It takes a great determination and prayers cos d virtual of a thing is working along with the spirit of Lucifer..... All u have to do is open up completely to everybody around u... They might castigate u, call u names but don't bother about that.... Aftermath when u see a bet9ja shop, don't bother to stay a minute there, u need to take to ur heels and run for ur dear life.... Or else if u don't stop now, my brother u might find urself in a place u nvr expected in life.... Virtual will mk u to steal, tell lies, defraud people, all because I want to play virtual..... Please bro, I thank God for my life today n I know God will do urs too... I still pity those that I do see playing virtual. I pity them becos they do not know that they are playing their future away..... And they will love to regret their actions if they don't desist from it.... Bro, wish u all d best..... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Wiseland: 11:20am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Mr hardlife, I had an experience even worse than you.... Thank God I graduated before I started playing virtual, I was a gambler before I found virtual and you know what that means.... I lost more than a million naira to virtual between 2016-2018....but I finally took a decision because I taught about what I could have done with that money..... And I blamed myself, though it was not easy because the feeling you have when you are not playing and thinking of how much you have lost is what drives you back to that bet shop. Now my advice... Just forget the money and act like the money was stolen from you and you can never get it back no matter what and channel your energy into something else. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 11:20am On Jul 08, 2018 |
OdiaI:thank you ma'am. I used my sist's phone to create my gmail yesterday to open this account. You can see the account was created yesterday. Only two topics have been created. I have my other account i use on nairaland. I created this one to post this for anonymity purpose. I have nothing to gain. You can read up the thread to see that i have not asked anyone for money. One man has actually called me @ addictdoctor. You can quote him to confirm. He sent me a mail too but instead i gave him my number. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by oscarpet: 11:22am On Jul 08, 2018 |
we are not dsame did I tell u sold my property or use my skull fees or even stole to play it... omorova i don't play it again.. |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 9gerian: 11:22am On Jul 08, 2018 |
First things first! You need to understand that in gambling, the odds are always against the bettors as the the bookmaker is always favored- that’s why it’s a business, and continues to thrive. With virtual games, it is even worse since it is programmed. This realization should help you understand that you will always be at the losing end. If with this knowledge you continue, then good luck! Hardlife: |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by godfrey01(m): 11:23am On Jul 08, 2018 |
the only advice I have for you is to change location where there is no betting shop at all. and even if you have online account change the password to something you can not remember again of ask someone to change it for you. Again mastubating to relieve yourself from thinking is a bad idea. mastubation is bad and should not be encouraged. for you gamblers out, my sincere advice for you is don't even try to play virtual game. its a programmmed software whwhtich2tich you as a human can not get right will result in your losing. there is a minimum allowed winning per day. A software experrt will elaborate more on this |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 11:24am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hardlife: You need to follow some steps, very crucial you stand by it. i was once in your shoes, if not more worse. You need to get back to me, i will help you get through this, it requires some doggedness. Dont, make up your mind that you want to quit. you need to trick your brain to get over it. First of, you need to let your brain believes you need to make money and you can't only get it through gambling. Set a limit for yourself, how? The total money you can lose par day is #5000(get your digits right) go back to that betting store, get your predictions right and play on...... immediately you lose to your limits, DON'T QUIT! Get some pieces of paper, just try and predict the outcomes of the virtual games, play with the virtual money and see if you lost or won! do this for a whole month and get yourself the results, are you on the losing side or the winning side. if you are on the losing side, let this pop into your mind, "you can never win the house" moreso, if you are winning too, try and get your score sheet and see why you are losing, may be it is 'anxiety' of money or stupidity. some people get afraid when they have the money and wants to 'play safe' when they have the money to stake' . my friend there is nothing like sure games when it comes to gambling, that's why sometimes... big odds beats smaller odds( topic for another day). All you need now is your soul! how do we safe it? Lets do it together. use this little tricks and let me know the outcome, so that we can know what to do next. Thanks drabeey was here |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Cricka01: 11:26am On Jul 08, 2018 |
@hardlife send me an email on echiboka@gmail.com and I'd help you with the recovery process... |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by willbayo(m): 11:26am On Jul 08, 2018 |
lostluggage:Team all |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1stola: 11:26am On Jul 08, 2018 |
dingbang:Will you keep quiet there He should go to another virtual doctor? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Schemer360: 11:27am On Jul 08, 2018 |
What did you study in school and what's your major? Organism000: |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by dingbang(m): 11:27am On Jul 08, 2018 |
1stola: |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 11:28am On Jul 08, 2018 |
@ odiaI. my phone is a small phone. it cant open mails. I am sorry. If you want to help me with recovery processes, and you feel i am lying you can click the other topic i created yesterday. It is less congested. Thank you. God bless. I have no reason to lie. Like i said when @ addictdoctor called. He restricted his number. I can give you my fb username. If you go through it, you will see i am telling you the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by 1stola: 11:29am On Jul 08, 2018 |
post=69181388:Lol Who are the "we" that you represent here? Mtcheeeeewu |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by COdeGenesis: 11:29am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Pharovo:have been there lolz.. I know your problem . I can help you 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:29am On Jul 08, 2018 |
What your facebook username.[url][/url] Hardlife: |
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