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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by emmanuelex1(m): 9:50am On Jul 08, 2018
Shaerap, do you know that same bet has helped some other persons. Take full responsibility for your actions.
Hardlife:
Please try and read to the end.
I am a young guy early twenties. I
have been playing virtual since 2014.
I was never this useless and
unpurposeful.
My life changed when i entered university.
It all started in 2014 when i walked
into a nairabet close to my school and
saw people playing virtual. I decided
to play, as i remember i won that
period. I never knew the day i started was the
day i gave the devil the key to my life. In 2014, i spent my school fees on
virtual, lost everything. Sold my
phones, my feeding money and
everything. All went to virtual. So i was not able to continue my
education, though i remained in
school not letting my parents know till
this year. Dear reader, from 2014 to date have
been the worst years of my life. I stole
to play virtual, sold my properties, my
clothes, shoes. I became an addict. Even not being a
formal student, i still collected money from my parents, school fees
and allowance. Everything ends up in
virtual house. I could not even buy good clothes.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Redhot111(m): 9:51am On Jul 08, 2018
Xtine22:

bro, don't give up! continue playing as you may chop 50m one day to recover ur losses.... always play sure game


So if you be professional counselor na Wetin you go advice am be that?
devils advocate like you

OP I don't know how you can possibly get the money back. But giving up the habit at once won't be easy ooo. So I suggest u leave virtual cos that is the one that really enslave pple. So my take is that you substitute virtual with paper bet for now and you can always book at home, jst get to the shop to bet the code thereby reducing the time u spend there. And the time in waiting for the outcome of what you played wii be subtracted from the time spent at the shop.


Then you can start doing away with friends that are into it too. And gradually you will begin to fine the whole thing boring.

The summary is paper bet isn't so addictive and it's easier to stop from that angle. Virtual na devil tool oo

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 9:51am On Jul 08, 2018
rexorgan:



Very true lol. I went there yesterday, won 12k n left instantly. I used to be addicted to it, but now I play it for fun,maybe once or twice a month
Can u explain virtual to me? I no ubderstand
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:52am On Jul 08, 2018
Abeycityng:
GET yaself BUSY is the only solution bro..your story is very similar to mine
thank you. Knowing that people have passed through the same problem and came out of it is giving me a very big hope and determination. Thank you so much bro

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by IsaacBuchi(m): 9:52am On Jul 08, 2018
How To Avoid the Snare of Gambling

https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/102002523
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by samuelchimmy(m): 9:52am On Jul 08, 2018
When this thing hook me, I was eating my small salary'even before I get paid, it happened for 3months, then I prayed to God, I cursed my self, that any day I stake my 150 directly on virtual lemme die... Yes, but I still add small money on people's bet, money that will definitely not affect me.....its a step you can do it bro....... I
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Mariangeles: 9:53am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
seriously bro. You think i am joking. Did i beg you for money. All i need are the recovery processes to get my life back. I am frustrated. Thank you for your understanding
The first step is to let go of all you've lost ( this is the main trick the devil uses to keep you trapped)
FORGET ABOUT WINNING YOUR MONEY BACK!
GAIN BACK CONTROL OF YOUR MIND, YOUR ACTIONS! (No more excuses of "I'm an addict"wink
Once you make up your mind and take charge and responsibility of your actions, things will begin to go as you want.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:54am On Jul 08, 2018
Vision2045:
Guy download Dream league soccer, give yourself target (like building all your players to 100) play it any time the urge comes...

I was once an addict and have lost close to millions on virtual..

Delete your bet9ja registered account

Do a kolo (traditional money safe) drop it anytime u have money with you and the urge comes

If u book game and wan play go with less than 200

Make up your mind, stay disciplined, read the bible or Quran, pray...

Its not easy but its achievable.......its a sucker
thank you so much for this. I feel hopeful and determined. God bless you.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by johnydon22(m): 9:54am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
Well, i took last jamb, i passed very
well to the joy of everybody. They thought i was back to being
normal but secretly i was still playing
virtual. Virtual has eaten deep in my blood. All the money i managed to save
before the jamb period while at home
still ended up in virtual. I want to stop but i cant. Fast forward everything to today the
7th of july. I took the money for my
post utme form to play virtual. My heartbeat was felt by the person
close to me when i lost the last kobo i
came with. Till now i have not
stopped thinking, nobody knows. now
i am thinking how to get the money
back. I am a dead man alive. Gambling has eaten deep into my
soul. i am finished. I AM TIRED AND FRUSTRATED,
SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME. I
WANT TO STOP. I WANT TO HAVE MY LIFE BACK
TOGETHER. PLEASE HELP ME IF
YOU HAVE HAD SIMILAR
EXPERIENCE. I AM DYING SLOWLY. I NEED
HELP. TODAY I HAVE PUT A
STOP TO IT. GOD HELP ME.
PLEASE
HOW CAN I QUIT FOREVER

Which state are you in my friend?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:54am On Jul 08, 2018
What I will advise is for you to stop totally.. I was onece like you 4 years ago.. what realy tempt me is the big point.. that normally fall.. what I do then is to stake high one the big point then I later loose...I was bannish from work due to this but now.. God haave realy make sometin Good in my life.. I don't even near there talkless of smilling the place.. just get it in your mind that you can stop it.. I believe that you can overcome dis problem bro...... God is your strength.. You can do it.. I no is realy hard..
Hardlife:
@
organism000 i could not quote your whole post. I think what you said is true. Whenever i am playing, i get this feeling of high in my system. When i loose, i increase the amount. The higher the amount, the bigger the feeling of highness i get. How can this be possible. Please help me
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:54am On Jul 08, 2018
jaxxy:



Op i hv a question for u. Do u love urself at all? If u do u wud stop this self destructive attitude. Or did they jazz u with bet naija shop? My advice is make continuous effort, be determined to stop all these bad habits and destructive behavior. Learn how to stop being impulsive bt rather take u time and use ur sense for once. U are under d illusion dat bet naija can give u money cos im sure u don't just play for the fun of it. Disillusion ur mind for that nonesense and virtual world and deal with the real life and real issues. From today never step into any of those stores. Keep doing dat until u break d cycle. U have formed a strong bad habit and u need to break it with strong mind and force and get get ur life back into the right thinking process. Then u can be happy. Goodluck
THANK YOU SIR FOR YOUR CONCERN. GOD BLESS YOU. I feel so much hopeful and determined now
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:56am On Jul 08, 2018
Bro he need your advice. He has realise. His mistake why insulting him more rather than advising him... na wa for you oooo
ozoebuka1:
i was disappointed when i saw you wasted your years in school, stole and everything yet your family especially your mum forgave you and cried and after seeing her tears, you still went back to play it again...

Bro, i can categorically tell you that you are just a selfish person!!!

You are not addicted to gambling, rather you are selfish and heartless for making your mum cry and still tryna do it again angry angry angry
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:56am On Jul 08, 2018
ozoneymcm:

Call me. 07038148140. ). Nairaland can't help you at this point, I'm a counselor and I'll help you for free (over the phone)
thank you sir. I have taken down your number. I will text you as soon as possible. God bless you for your concern
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:56am On Jul 08, 2018
Bro it has been a wile was Good. cheesy
McBrooklyn:
grin grin
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Dollarship(m): 9:57am On Jul 08, 2018
shocked shocked shocked
I see wetin pass me
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by ebukaka12(m): 9:57am On Jul 08, 2018
First of all, stop savings.
If ya really need to save, let someone help ya..
Juz like how some childrens do.. They give their parents their money for savings.
And any money ya gat.. Use em to buy something at least like wears, food and things ya will benefit from.
Ya need to be a little bit close to God. The prayer that should be coming to your head.. Is that God give ya the strength to overcome bet.
Avoid bet shops.. Give yourself some rules.. Like ya won't book game on ur phone, ya won't go to any bet shop.... And tryna mingle with friends that their minds ain't bout gambling (bet shop)
And most especially ya need a job that could or would distract ya from the bet shop...


I was addicted too buh not as ya thou.. I knew my limits. cool

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Zenithpeak: 9:58am On Jul 08, 2018
bastien:
no u don't deserve any insult, at first you were the cause of your own mistake. If only you had reason the virtual is a programmed game to enable the bookies gain more, even the people that programmed it can win with it. How to stop it, it's very easy, a gambler can't stop being a gambler but can limit is behavior. What to do?
1. Engage in anything that will make ur mind far from virtual both online and offline

2. Engage in sport bet, and not the virtual.

3. Only stake on sport bet no matter how sure the virtual looks.

4. Stake 100 naira, cause that's the amount u can afford to lose without getting hurt.

5. Always go out without cash or cash higher than 100,cause virtual is 150


Advice from the pit of hell!

Your boyfriend suffering from AIDS and you HIV and your are advised to always close your eyes whenever you want to have cex with each other, as if both are not siamens twins ...

Someone is trying to be free killing habit you are still encouraging him to continue with the same.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 9:58am On Jul 08, 2018
johnydon22:


Which state are you in my friend?
delta state. thanks for your concern. please help me to help myself

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by bastien: 9:58am On Jul 08, 2018
Zenithpeak:



Advice from the pit of hell!

Your boyfriend /girlfriend is suffering from HIV and your are advised to always close your eyes whenever you want to have cex with him/her.......

Someone is trying to be free killing habit you are still encouraging him to continue with the same.
HIV is a different case boss, this is gambling and virtual gambling is different from sport betting. You can't stop a man from who loves football to stop watching match. Never!

Once you're in sport betting no going back, only limitation. And that comes from him stopping the virtual and playing two gala money on sport betting.

No human start having sex and stop. Even when u become an addict, you try to limit it.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by OdiaI(f): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
My friends, i became useless. No
good clothes, no property, no
certificate to hold in the end. While my mates left for class, i go to
the virtual store to watch others play. From 2014 till now i stayed in school,
3 years of it was allocated to virtual
gambling. 1 year was to hang around
chasing girls. I became unpurposeful. I lied to everybody that i was in
school while i was not. If i should continue writing, nairaland
would not be enough to write what
virtual has done to me. My life is useless now, my mates are
graduating. All my friends have left
the school. So last year, i could not hold on to the
lies much longer because final year
was fast approaching.
What will i say then. So i took the
courage and broke the sad news. I am from a very responsible home. I
was accepted back in the family. My
mother cried so much. She could not
believe 4 years of my life wasted. My
friend, i almost developed high blood
pressure. I started masturbating to relieve my
stress but never helped.
I have sent you an e-mail, try as much as possible to reply. Your life is not over. Four years is okay to learn whatever lesson you want to learn in life. You can still get it right. okay?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by pcaliphate(m): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
rebirthforgoody:
Very bad of you tongue
Pray it doesn't hit You.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Bro in Saudi arbia.. betting is not allowed and some other country. It can realy happen in Nigeria.. but I don't think so because those head of bet9ja have realy bribe. Some top people in Nigeria lottery commision.. I don't think they play dis. In kano. Kaduna and other northern state..
Jethrolite:
What exactly are you saying, you are expecting government to shut down the business or what? Do not be ridiculous. I am indeed superior to this OP when it comes to having control over my life even though that was not my intention when I wrote. I started betting online when nairabet only offered 1X2 markets. I lost $200 in a single bet 2013. This world Cup I put up N5k, the moment I lost it I backed out.

People should learn to have direction and control over their lives. It is not for government to ban when people are not disciplined.

These things happen in all spheres of life, people abuse life saving medication, their finances and others, you should not expect government to intervene by banning.

Since online betting came to Nigeria, it has spurred a new industry and created direct and indirect employment for thousands of Nigerians. You can not destroy all that because some punters have lost control of their lives.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by johnydon22(m): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
delta state. thanks for your concern. please help me to help myself
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by johnydon22(m): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Hardlife:
delta state. thanks for your concern. please help me to help myself
Are you in Asaba?
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by kofo01: 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Hw do you get the fone you use in typing
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by wizgrin(m): 9:59am On Jul 08, 2018
Ogbeni u are a big liar have never seen someone gaining from virtual pls this man is a devil dont listen to him he only want add to ur situation
fuckwell2080:
You are addicted to gambling. let me give you the secret of gambling. you play it with sense not stupidity. I started virtual last year from last year to this year 8th July I have won almost 3millon naira cash.but I did not won the money once I collect it step by step.the money I have even lost to bet naija is not even up to 150k so I am the winner not the looser. even if you remove 150k from 3millon the remaining 2millon plus is my profit.I don't play more than 1k a day in bet naija if I see am loosing after playing like 800 to 1k I move away instantly from the bet naija shop.Each game 150 naira.sometimes before I play once with 150 naira I win 5k,10k,20k and so on then I move instantly.There was a day immediately I enter the bet naija shop I just forecast a game with 500 naira I won 270k cash down instantly they have do transfer for me. so man up that is the secret but he no easy.virtual no be do or die affair.he who fight and run away live to fight another day.one love.

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:00am On Jul 08, 2018
Hi babe.. cheesy cheesy
skarlett:
You're not ready to stop it then or do you think anybody can change you if you don't want to change Dey there make pant dey wear you undecided



Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by bastien: 10:00am On Jul 08, 2018
Chubhie:

He needs to be isolated and properly treated of his mental disease and thereafter restricted to two kilometers distance to any gambling location.
bet shop are very where in the street. He only needs to stop staking on virtual.

Assuming he wasted those money on sport bet he would have won half if not all of his losing back.
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Hardlife: 10:01am On Jul 08, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
What I will advise is for you to stop totally.. I was onece like you 4 years ago.. what realy tempt me is the big point.. that normally fall.. what I do then is to stake high one the big point then I later loose...I was bannish from work due to this but now.. God haave realy make sometin Good in my life.. I don't even near there talkless of smilling the place.. just get it in your mind that you can stop it.. I believe that you can overcome dis problem bro...... God is your strength.. You can do it.. I no is realy hard..
thank you sir. God bless you for the encouragement. My level of determination to stop now is very strong and with God i am hopeful. thanks for your concern

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Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by nyabinghi(m): 10:01am On Jul 08, 2018
It is a habit that is hard to stop but can be overcome by being busy
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by Nobody: 10:02am On Jul 08, 2018
rexorgan:



Which local format? U get sense? The boy ask u for money?

Your Papa no get sense. Anuofia!
Re: I Am Finished. Bet9ja Virtual Has Ruined My Education,my Life And My Soul. HELP! by IdeyFindWife: 10:02am On Jul 08, 2018
LexngtonSteele:


Great post. I channelled my own addiction into women. Especially high achievers. This made me rise up to the challenge and stay focused.

I know deep down i can't ever do drugs, because i would never stop.

Ahh, gambling would kill me. I have a knack for winning but not knowing when to stop when trying to redeem a losing streak. That's why others trade my Forex for me.

Same impulsiveness I couldn't multitask chicks.

These days I do mostly God anyway while duplicating business & professional success across 2 continents drives me off vices.

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