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Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2018
MissRaine69:
Dating is supposed to be empowering. It’s supposed to .
After getting to know the person an then?

Pls is there any rest room around here! undecided cool cool

B4 my boxers turns into water fall

Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 1:05pm On Jul 16, 2018
MissRaine69:
Dating is supposed.
Ya blame bla Black baga cut the crap!

Don't cry over the interest is the game changer in our date stuffs today,

Pride helps fuels it to burn to shreds.

Change is the only thing constant in motion, remove it everything dies,

Same goes for relationships, ladies complaining they have been meeting the wrong guys, hahahahahajahahaha who told you they are wrong?

You dressed up to provoke guys sexually and you intend to have a relationship without fun attached, yet you turned the your BF To Atm machine to have started what you don't invest...

Look you can't expect to get when you flaunt and flash your body in the domain of hungery lions?

Any kind of guy you have in your life right now is as a result of your dressing code and mind configuration that your whole body vibrates about...

For me I didn't see anything wrong with the dates if before and this era.

Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 2:02pm On Jul 16, 2018
TkhGuy:
Ya blame bla Black baga cut the crap!

Don't cry over the interest is the game changer in our date stuffs today,

Pride helps fuels it to burn to shreds.

Change is the only thing constant in motion, remove it everything dies,

Same goes for relationships, ladies complaining they have been meeting the wrong guys, hahahahahajahahaha who told you they are wrong?

You dressed up to provoke guys sexually and you intend to have a relationship without fun attached, yet you turned the your BF To Atm machine to have started what you don't invest...

Look you can't expect to get when you flaunt and flash your body in the domain of hungery lions?

Any kind of guy you have in your life right now is as a result of your dressing code and mind configuration that your whole body vibrates about...

For me I didn't see anything wrong with the dates if before and this era.
What on earth are you trying to say exactly
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 16, 2018
milemimi93:
Dating was supposed to be knowing each other.

But how can you know someone when all her life is fake full of pretence?

Unfortunately Nigerian women are fake. Everything about them is deceitful.

They lie a lot. Unfaithful and ungrateful set of beings.

Whenever a Nigerian girl tells me "Good morning" I look at my wristwatch before responding..
lol being patiently waiting to see your comment on this thread....
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 3:57pm On Jul 16, 2018
MissRaine69:
What on earth are you trying to say exactly
I don't remember writing in Chinese language or Japanese either, it's cristal clear...
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 3:59pm On Jul 16, 2018
TkhGuy:
I don't remember writing in Chinese language or Japanese either, it's cristal clear...
It’s not, hence the comment.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 5:29pm On Jul 17, 2018
MissRaine69:
It’s not, hence the comment.
I was clear as the sky don't remember using any vocabulary words that's incomprehensible..
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by mgtow: 6:49pm On Jul 17, 2018
TkhGuy:
I was clear as the sky don't remember using any vocabulary words that's incomprehensible..
Your writing is mostly incomprehensible. I had to get a forensic team to help me figure out what you were trying to say on your original thread. We got the message eventually, but it was a struggle, just like your writings on this thread.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:59pm On Jul 17, 2018
savvy12:
Dating is a complete waste of time.
All my life,I have been meeting unserious guys.
All they want is sex and nothing more.And the funniest part is that I don't demand any kobo from them.
i am very sorry to say that you are the problem here, not these failed men. who chose to date them, if not you? YOU made a bad judgment here, and allowed these no good men to enter your life. i suggest you choose better next time.

The only solution is to date when you are ready to settle down.Most guys are time wasters.They know they are not ready but they will never tell you.
A) if you really believe that "guys are timewasters" now then fair enough... but why would you think that, when YOU are ready, men will suddenly stop being timewasters?!
B) dating is about understand the mechanics of a relationship, by trials and errors, and to hopefully sort the timewasters from the good men. starting to date the day you are ready to settle down is not only a waste of valuable time, but also very foolish.

As a girl,it is good to use your head and not your heart.Run away whenever you feel a guy is not serious with you.To avoid "had I known".
let's get this straight: you are not ready to settle down but wanted to date and sadly didnt meet any good guys... and now, you turn around and warn women to only date when they are ready to settle down?! such a very hypocritical statement. are you not the one who is "supposedly" not ready to settle but yet was hoping to date men (and now look down on men doing exactly the same thing)? BWAAAAAAAH!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jul 17, 2018
TkhGuy:
I don't remember writing in Chinese language or Japanese either, it's cristal clear...
News Flash! You no sabi English! Try pidgin grin
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jul 17, 2018
mgtow:
Your writing is mostly incomprehensible. I had to get a forensic team to help me figure out what you were trying to say on your original thread. We got the message eventually, but it was a struggle, just like your writings on this thread.
grin grin grin
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 1:51am On Jul 18, 2018
mgtow:
Your writing is mostly incomprehensible. I had to get a forensic team to help me figure out what you were trying to say on your original thread. We got the message eventually, but it was a struggle, just like your writings on this thread.
Not really, you need Casket to get you back to the cemetery where you are dinged out,

I am seeing bunch of flies following you,

The flies that have no advicer follows corps into the grave like you are following the questions that you are not ask so also you will likely face thunder that's is on a mission to strike another punk ass down,

Do your self a favour asshole, be useful for once and do the Job that was assigned to you by nature, so you don't get to explode when gigantic shirt is coming out of your eyes mouth and nose.. Asshole!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by mgtow: 4:03am On Jul 18, 2018
TkhGuy:
Not really, you need Casket to get you back to the cemetery where you are dinged out,

I am seeing bunch of flies following you,

The flies that have no advicer follows corps into the grave like you are following the questions that you are not ask so also you will likely face thunder that's is on a mission to strike another punk ass down,

Do your self a favour asshole, be useful for once and do the Job that was assigned to you by nature, so you don't get to explode when gigantic shirt is coming out of your eyes mouth and nose.. Asshole!
Now your grammar here is a little better, but still riddled with a LOT of typos. You can read up on some Brighter Grammar to assist you with your tenses. I assume you went to school so you should be able to do much better than this. Shalom!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 4:45am On Jul 18, 2018
TkhGuy:
I was clear as the sky don't remember using any vocabulary words that's incomprehensible..
And that is where the problem lies ....your steadfast belief (delusion) that no issue exist.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Martin0(m): 7:09am On Jul 18, 2018
Wait wait wait!!!

open hmmmm this your thread! I have a question to ask you ooo!


The greatest challenge of dating at a certain age isn’t who to choose, or what to write. It is far more fundamental. It’s the challenge of protecting ourselves from pain, while staying open to the possibility of love.

And it’s hard. It’s the hardest thing of all.

Nearly every woman and man on the dating scene at my age has significant relationship baggage. How could we not? We’ve been separated or divorced. We may have been mistreated by romantic partners. We may have been lied to or betrayed. We have certainly all had shitty dating experiences.

And this can make us bitter and defensive. After all, when you’ve been hurt repeatedly in love, it is rational to build an emotional wall. When vulnerability has led to pain, it makes sense to bolster your defences so that it doesn’t happen again.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2018
Martin0:
Wait wait wait!!!

open hmmmm this your thread! I have a question to ask you ooo!

The greatest challenge of dating at a certain age isn’t who to choose, or what to write. It is far more fundamental. It’s the challenge of protecting ourselves from pain, while staying open to the possibility of love.

And it’s hard. It’s the hardest thing of all.

Nearly every woman and man on the dating scene at my age has significant relationship baggage. How could we not? We’ve been separated or divorced. We may have been mistreated by romantic partners. We may have been lied to or betrayed. We have certainly all had shitty dating experiences.

And this can make us bitter and defensive. After all, when you’ve been hurt repeatedly in love, it is rational to build an emotional wall. When vulnerability has led to pain, it makes sense to bolster your defences so that it doesn’t happen again.
but its about putting yourself out there on the market, and if you only give half of yourself then you will never fully give the chance for someone to know you. you must give your EVERYTHING, every time. you should only be bitter/defensive about your ex, but open yourself to the idea that the next one will be more fantastic. just because you have been mistreated by an ex shouldnt be a reason to change the great person you are, and become someone different.... and instead you should believe that your ex is the one losing here.

the minute you change your great self (because of your failed ex) then you are making HER a winner. why should you change because of someone that was NOT good to/for you? makes no damn sense to me. BE YOURSELF, always!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by jaybee3(m): 1:49pm On Jul 18, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
grin
Yo Yo Yo, been a min
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:54pm On Jul 18, 2018
jaybee3:
Yo Yo Yo, been a min
woah the man himself... how have you been bro? yeah its been a while... our common friend came to visit me in Rio 2/3yrs back and we got talking about you, lol!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by jaybee3(m): 1:55pm On Jul 18, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
woah the man himself... how have you been bro? yeah its been a while... our common friend came to visit me in Rio 2/3yrs back and we got talking about you, lol!
hahahahhahah
I will send you a PM
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Martin0(m): 9:26pm On Jul 18, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
but its about putting yourself out there on the market, and if you only give half of yourself then you will never fully give the chance for someone to know you. you must give your EVERYTHING, every time. you should only be bitter/defensive about your ex, but open yourself to the idea that the next one will be more fantastic. just because you have been mistreated by an ex shouldnt be a reason to change the great person you are, and become someone different.... and instead you should believe that your ex is the one losing here.

the minute you change your great self (because of your failed ex) then you are making HER a winner. why should you change because of someone that was NOT good to/for you? makes no damn sense to me. BE YOURSELF, always!
You are 100000000000percent correct!
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 6:57pm On Jul 20, 2018
MissRaine69:
And that is where the problem lies ....your steadfast belief (delusion) that no issue exist.
Trouble factory why are you so on me?

I made myself clear back there and if your iQ is so low that you are fighting your brains out to digest that simplified statement, it's not a crime if you ask me nicely not that crude way that's totally disgusting...
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 7:14pm On Jul 20, 2018
TkhGuy:
Trouble factory why are you so on me?

I made myself clear back there and if your iQ is so low that you are fighting your brains out to digest that simplified statement, it's not a crime if you ask me nicely not that crude way that's totally disgusting...
Narcissus.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by victorian(f): 7:15pm On Jul 20, 2018
If there is sincere communication between both parties, I dont think dating is a challenge. With sincere cut to the chase communication, one makes a better choice.
Alot of people are insincere and manipulative with what they truly want. That's why dating looks like a tough task to undertake.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 7:46pm On Jul 20, 2018
[quote author=mgtow post=69478657][/quote]Yea nice one, I [b]promise to read those to you at your funeral [/b]I will be there to pop champagne on your grave..
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 7:50pm On Jul 20, 2018
MissRaine69:
Narcissus.
That's sound like a mistake
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by mgtow: 8:13pm On Jul 20, 2018
TkhGuy:
Yea nice one, I [b]promise to read those to you at your funeral [/b]I will be there to pop champagne on your grave..
Nice one, you're getting better at expressing yourself.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 11:25pm On Jul 20, 2018
TkhGuy:
That's sound like a mistake
I never make mistakes
I meant exactly that.
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 11:42am On Jul 21, 2018
MissRaine69:
I never make mistakes
I meant exactly that.
It's cos you think so, you don't know so (flattery)
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 10:23pm On Jul 22, 2018
MissRaine69:
Narcissus.
y
. Where did she spend her today sunday?
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(op): 10:24pm On Jul 22, 2018
TkhGuy:
y
. Where did she spend her today sunday?
On the beach....
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 7:30pm On Jul 23, 2018
MissRaine69:
On the beach....
In lag right?
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by TkhGuy(m): 7:42pm On Jul 23, 2018
LivingFree:
News Flash! You no sabi English! Try pidgin grin
I didn't blame you, when were in the classroom taking English com lesson

You were busy in soup room stealing meat from your mum's soup pot grin
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