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khiaa:
Is this what MGTOW taught you? I really wish that you would stay away from their teaching. They seem so spiteful and mean.

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY is not a good idea.

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY might be a good idea but the MGTOW group is as hateful, spiteful and irrational as the women they claim to hate.

We will see more men and women going their own way in the nearest future. It seems rational to avoid emotional sexual relationships for one's sanity especially if you can do without it. What I don't like is deceit. You always need to be clear on what you would give and expect in any relationship. You can't pretend to have emotional feelings for someone when all you want is sex. That is not going your own way. That is manipulating others to help you in your path

monex:
MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY might be a good idea but the MGTOW group is as hateful, spiteful and irrational as the women they claim to hate.

We will see more men and women going their own way in the nearest future. It seems rational to avoid emotional sexual relationships for one's sanity especially if you can do without it. What I don't like is deceit. You always need to be clear on what you would give and expect in any relationship. You can't pretend to have emotional feelings for someone when all you want is sex. That is not going your own way. That is manipulating others to help you in your path

pocohantas:

na only the red you see abi?

if its truly love,she will wait for you

monex:
na only the red you see abi?

LOL, I feel the same way about them, but my views may be misconstrued as one coming from a place of pain[as a woman that I am na].

pocohantas:
LOL, I feel the same way about them, but my views may be misconstrued as one coming from a place of pain[as a woman that I am na].

Marriage fails cost-benefit analysis tests for most men. I reckon same for a lot of women too. we are becoming more selfish, liberal and spoilt-for-options these days so we are likely going to see people refusing to enter commitments that fail such cost-benefit tests.

I am ok with the going one's own way ideology but they spend more time hating on women than going their own way.

mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!

wow this is true, and the topic could also be how to never be loved.

I'm quite sure she has dumped OP already. He was scared because she already started showing signs that she was irritated by him. In this parts, the man is mostly the provider. Once the table turns, trouble in paradise is not always very far away.