bbyby01:
I met this girl through some mutual friends online, we kinda knew ourselves but have never met. I started some mild flirting with her online and then she fell for it totally. And gradually, we fell in love. She is an intense lover I must say. She told her friends and sisters about me and I have even spoken to some of them on phone. The girl is so submissive, she will do anything I tell her to do. She tells me of how she had been heartbroken and how she was never going to love anyone until we met, how she is grateful to God for sending me her way and all. She made me promise not to break her heart and all and one time we had a quarrel, she cried for 2 days for fear that I was gonna break up with her.
Finally she came to visit me. She cooks so well and she took care of me very well too. I also loved the fact that she was so real, like immediately we entered my house, she started taking off her clothes, and asked me to help her take off her trousers (that's the first time we were seeing each other) and then asked me for the bathroom. And when we made out, I also realised she hadn't had sex for a very long time, she was very good in bed too. Me sef I gave her the best nacking she had ever received.
Problem now is that what I saw is different from the picture online. I actually don't like her facial features. That means I am gonna end the relationship at some point. It scares me because she might kill herself if I do. But I can't settle down with a girl whose face I don't like. I don't know how I'm gonna end it.
I could use the excuse of her education. She just has o level. Or the excuse of her not being my tribe, or the excuse that my mother will not like her (true but not an issue) I just don't know.
I don't want to end it leaving her with the notion that there is something wrong with her because that will hurt her more. Or should I get another girl pregnant and use that as an excuse?
Please advice me

Homeboiy:
Op first post her face let's judge from that one

2. You promised not to break her heart, why are u planning to break it nah . She will not die if you do, you ain't the ist to do it

3.How did you know she haven't had sex for long?

Lalas247:
just tell her....
the worst thing a man can do is waste a ladies time ... !
please free her she will be better off ... when.you were shagging her you didn't realize then abi ...... all these fukboyz 2.0 sha it is well

and pls do not impregnate another girl...

bigpicture001:
....ur one of the kind sh complain about...y did u back her in d first place after seeing her face as nit gud enough..? u shld know dt sex bonds ppl... now,d deed is already done, u could slow tins down by being her frnd indeed..like stand with her tru quality directive advices to could better her class nd raise her standard nd also enhance her future...I no say train her for skl ooo

Katier00:
If there is anything I appreciate is honesty, why raise the woman's hope if you know you won't marry her, just look at the flimsy excuses you gave as to the reason you don't want to be with her. You mentioned beautiful qualities she as which are rare today, yet you want to leave her because you simply don't like her face. How could you play with her emotions in such a manner? Anyway whatever rocks your boat. Na the woman wey dey fall in love online I blame

Immorttal:
Thats the exact dilemma am facing right now, ready for marriage but my fiance is not what i need, incompatibility issues but she still want me to press on. as for your case the best thing to do is to end it NOW because the more the relationship lingers the more she is emotional tied to you and waiting for proposal. stay away from overly emotional girls, there's everything wrong in dating them but not all will understand. you can never opt out when you want to and might end up marrying the wrong person.

anonymuz:
bro that's exactly what I'm experiencing too. She caring very emotional....I once used attitude but e no work. Tried communication bridge e no work too.

bbyby01:
I met this girl through some mutual friends online, we kinda knew ourselves but have never met. I started some mild flirting with her online and then she fell for it totally. And gradually, we fell in love. She is an intense lover I must say. She told her friends and sisters about me and I have even spoken to some of them on phone. The girl is so submissive, she will do anything I tell her to do. She tells me of how she had been heartbroken and how she was never going to love anyone until we met, how she is grateful to God for sending me her way and all. She made me promise not to break her heart and all and one time we had a quarrel, she cried for 2 days for fear that I was gonna break up with her.
Finally she came to visit me. She cooks so well and she took care of me very well too. I also loved the fact that she was so real, like immediately we entered my house, she started taking off her clothes, and asked me to help her take off her trousers (that's the first time we were seeing each other) and then asked me for the bathroom. And when we made out, I also realised she hadn't had sex for a very long time, she was very good in bed too. Me sef I gave her the best nacking she had ever received.
Problem now is that what I saw is different from the picture online. I actually don't like her facial features. That means I am gonna end the relationship at some point. It scares me because she might kill herself if I do. But I can't settle down with a girl whose face I don't like. I don't know how I'm gonna end it.
I could use the excuse of her education. She just has o level. Or the excuse of her not being my tribe, or the excuse that my mother will not like her (true but not an issue) I just don't know.
I don't want to end it leaving her with the notion that there is something wrong with her because that will hurt her more. Or should I get another girl pregnant and use that as an excuse?
Please advice me

Biglittlelois:
[s] You want to break up with her cos of facial appearance smh!!! what were you expecting from someone you met online?? 100% perfection she has good qualities, you love her, what more do you want??,

Do you close your eyes when you both have sex?? if you dont then she is fine, are you even fine?? i bet you are not handsome, radarada

This is how most marriage break up this days when men want facial, physcal beauty instead of character, et al, good luck in your decision bro[/s]

trash
@ bbyby01 see guy find a way to discharge that girl.tell her u no go fit marry her, reason is that, because she is not from your tribe. and mama will not approve of her.

You deserve something good. a beautiful damsel, a woman that is a stunner ,not some Obj looking woman Good luck

Zinny25:
You no like her face yet it didn't stop u from sleeping with her... Now wey u don chop tire, u cm realize say she no fine. My bro u tink u wil make heaven.. Do u know u can b persecuted for this The thunder wey wan cm ur side eeh still dey do press up...

Waiting for monkeys to quote me...

is it his fault that she's ugly

The op did the right thing no man deserves to marry ugly looking woman, deal with it