Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,109 members, 7,835,747 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 02:16 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User (22845 Views)
Shaming Of Women Over Leaked Sex Videos Or Nudes. / Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? / Twitter User Searching For Husband For Her 47-Year-Old Aunty (Photos) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 5:33am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Never allow anyone pressure you into marriage, this actually is a reminder, I was been pressurized some years ago and so I almost ended up with a guy who talks anyhow and even said something annoying to my mum before me and I was like 'yeepa mogbe', his family even wants a protruding tummy before marriage and I tot to myself Adunni Ade, this has never your kind of man, everybody including friends wanted me to go ahead with the marriage when I declined, (they feel I was getting old). Well he got married a year later and I got married 4 years later. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by rock003: 5:40am On Jul 30, 2018 |
MajorJeffery: Marriage is globally appreciated oga, even by foreigners. Marriage isn't an African thing. Stop acting the fool oga. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 5:55am On Jul 30, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz: I dint know why many ladies keep using these lines.. Look here lady,forget all the ranting..there is no right or wrong person in marriage..ladies are just generally confused and they dont even know what they want and in 8 out of 10 cases after all the so called waiting and being extra careful they still make the wrong decision so what is the fuss about waiting for the right person...Taaaarh.. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 5:59am On Jul 30, 2018 |
adedayoa2: And if you must be sincere..s your husband a perfect guy? does he not also have a but? i guess you settled with him regardless cos you got wiser and now understand the word tolerance. No man is entirely good and no man is entirely bad but it is about what you make out of your choice. The mistake many ladies make is marrying who they want and have feelings for rather than marrying who wants them...Not every guy that proposes marriage really wants to be with the lady. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Lifeoffjay16: 6:08am On Jul 30, 2018 |
If you miss the age bracket of 24 to 29 for marriage as a lady. Your chances automatically becomes less than 25 percent. Most ladies want to club and have multiple sex partners at that age. Then you start blaming society and men after. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 6:11am On Jul 30, 2018 |
MajorJeffery: Oga leave matter..marriage is very important and infact it is an institution meticulously established by GOD almighty. Only a sexually indecent person will wave off marriage because such will only end up having sex outside marriage which is against GOD's will for us. Guys and ladies who dont respect GOD will say marriage is not for them simply because they sleep around. 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 6:18am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Toks2008:na, I actually had feelings for him o, I'm married to the man I left for him then. But I saw the difference and I was like what kind of mistake I'm I about to make. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by InvertedHammer: 6:18am On Jul 30, 2018 |
// Any lady above 28 and is too much into Jesus/Religion should come with a warning label. If you visit her Facebook wall and all you see are Bible quotations, run for the hills. It is a bait. Don't buy into the scam. // 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 6:19am On Jul 30, 2018 |
bezimo: Spot on bro. I just pity these ladies who think they have time until they wake up to realize that they are 30 already and trust me on this,,,most guys would rather want a lady in her 20s because they see any 30 and above as desperate. Another problem with ladies is their way of life at a younger age...most guys just hate it when a lady has too many body counts regardless so live a decent life so that even if you are above 30 and single,any guy will still respect you. 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 6:19am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Lifeoffjay16:thank God out didn't say 'all' |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 6:25am On Jul 30, 2018 |
adedayoa2: I like that...sometimes it is better to try other men and see which is better. I had a wonderful ex who was all i ever wanted in a lady but because i met her when she was 19 and infact i was her first guy,she did not know my worth which is perfectly normal since she has never dated any other guy. So about 6 years ago after a whole 11years of an affair with me she said she wanted a break cos she feels she has been caged all her years...i knew instantly that she wanted to be free to see if she can get something better so i let her go.....guess what..three years latter she ran back to me nd i forgave her but too bad i had to move on with my life. You were lucky that you still met the guy you left when you retraced your steps cos if he had moved on,you may still be single till now. 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 6:43am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Toks2008:walahi I am o and I thank him almost everyday for forgiving me because he knew about the other guy and knew I was all out for marriage then. And though he isn't perfect but I'm happy I got married to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by bezimo(m): 7:05am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Herrmes: I am not part of the problem..the women are the problem |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 7:06am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Toks2008:what's with this 20's and 30's you guys talk about all the time? You think all ladies fall for that? Ladies in their 30's tend to make more mistakes and cause of that most of them try as much as possible not to make bigger mistakes. Don't be deceived o |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Facidio: 7:19am On Jul 30, 2018 |
cosmatika: that must be instamessenger...... all the girls there are hoes... I didn't know so I registered and every girl was just about hook ups. one charged me up same way wen I told her I wasn't interested In hookups nor sex she started raining insults on me that am looking for who to fork me for free....... I just deleted my account and the app straight after that incident and never went back there 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:22am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Toks2008: Not me and speak for yourself.You do not know all ladies in Nigeria so no need using the emotional line.As far as it is my life I am not ranting,Also Mr man there is something called a right and wrong person when it comes to marriage hence why it is advisable one marries someone he/she is compatible with. I know exactly what I want because I am very focused and not confused.I won't settle for less. I won't rush into something that is not meant to be because of people's opinion. When something is meant to be it would happen at the right time time with the right person and for the best reason. No need pitying people who are not yet married according to your own age range of marriage it is their lives not yours. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by pweshboi(m): 7:25am On Jul 30, 2018 |
hisMrs:I laugh at your ignorance of the wrong use of the word "inexperienced" however if your mum or friend or dad forces you to marry or go into a relationship your heart doesn't go with you're expected to meet a doomed end. I'm not talking from the "if" aspect I'm telling you reality. So ure the one that needs to wake up to reality and not the "caused" world of people trying to pleased their parents. I still maintain my stand, if you're being forced into any relationship your mind doesn't agree with you should be expecting a doomed end. Ceist Fini |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Cuteamigo1(m): 8:45am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Jiang:spot on |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Toks2008(m): 8:47am On Jul 30, 2018 |
adedayoa2: I wish you the best.. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by mzpetit(f): 8:54am On Jul 30, 2018 |
LordKO:I like your english LordKO:I like your english 1 Like |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by ItzBIM(m): 9:12am On Jul 30, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz: He clearly said average Nigerian girls, keyword average. No need to get wired up. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by CanadianEnginee(m): 9:21am On Jul 30, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz: Ok |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Davidoya: 9:22am On Jul 30, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: Good points.. White wedding is not african , it's white.. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be attached to his wife.. its biblical. These are not african but general universal accepted ways of human existence. In united states for example you won't be elected into the highest office if you are not married and have managed your marriage well , so people shouldnt africanize and demonize it just because the pressure is there.. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by CanadianEnginee(m): 9:38am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Toks2008: Thank you |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:42am On Jul 30, 2018 |
CanadianEnginee: Your opinion as for me money is secondary.Some of us are productive enough. I can make myself happy but in regards to marriage I need to marry someone who I would be happy with and enjoy marriage and not endure just because I need to marry. If age is a criteria for most African men then it is safe to say these men do not know what they want . You made some points though. As for 18 to 26 some do have priorities at then that does not concern marriage. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by CanadianEnginee(m): 9:43am On Jul 30, 2018 |
adedayoa2: Ok |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by jeff1607(m): 9:52am On Jul 30, 2018 |
I quite agree but don't allow me spend money and efforts planning a wedding and later you call it off at the last minute. just tell me jeje No lady can invest so much in a relationship or planning for a wedding and later call it off, hence the reason why ladies would commit suicide or kill their intended spouse and themselves. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by CanadianEnginee(m): 9:53am On Jul 30, 2018 |
AmazonTopaz: I never said 'ALL' women. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:56am On Jul 30, 2018 |
Thank you and leave those ladies to do what they wanna do. CanadianEnginee: |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by adedayoa2(f): 9:59am On Jul 30, 2018 |
CanadianEnginee:my dear its not about lived a good life, his family said that was what they wanted because 2 of their uncles don't have kids after some 30 years of marriage and since then its been their tradition. |
Re: Our Culture Of Marital Pressure And Shaming People Isn't Good -twitter User by Nobody: 9:59am On Jul 30, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: But you're not married or is it recently divorced? If marriage was so ecclesiastical, why couldn't you save your marriage? |
See A Chat Between A Lesbian And My Sister / Valentine Prank Special, Share Experiences / Is A Girl Who Does This Every Man's Dream Girl? ( PICTURE )
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 112 |