| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by sisisioge: 4:21pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Wowzerful...I swearit, your husband is the real don! Nice one  8 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Alaadin(m): 4:24pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
We just arrived home not quite long. Wow, we thank God it has been resolved , like this every trace of that ur ex should be left at his mom's place , go with a clear mind and enjoy jawe  5 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 4:32pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
gaby:
wow...beautiful ending...your hubby is the mvp, he's a real man. I love the way he took and handled the situation.
Enjoy your marriage sis.. Thanks. Stay blessd |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 4:33pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
sisisioge:
Wowzerful...I swearit, your husband is the real don! Nice one Thanks |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 4:35pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Alaadin:
Wow, we thank God it has been resolved , like this every trace of that ur ex should be left at his mom's place , go with a clear mind and enjoy jawe God bless u. |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by ceeceeuwa: 4:39pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.
My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.
My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.
We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.
We just arrived home not quite long. Congrats! Good riddance to bad rubbish!!! That's why it is good to come clean... you married a very matured man. 13 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 4:44pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
ceeceeuwa:
Congrats! Good riddance to bad rubbish!!!
That's why it is good to come clean... you married a very matured man. Thank u. Have a blessd week |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by cococandy(f): 4:59pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Mature man. Keep showing him love and respect and honesty okay? 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Cookie14: 4:59pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.
My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.
My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.
We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.
We just arrived home not quite long. That is a very matured man, he takes ur past as past and moved on, and the bonding BTW u guys will increase. Best of luck in ur marriage. 14 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Prognose: 5:59pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.
My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.
My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.
We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.
We just arrived home not quite long. CORRECT MAN!!! 4 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by eniolorunfe: 6:16pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Awww... So glad it went well. Your husband is the real MVP!!! He is matured and he loves you...thumbs up to a good man! Keep doing each other good...God bless your home!  SifonAbasi:
Thank you all for your kind advice yesterday. May God in His infinite mercies continues to bless you all and increases you all in wisdom and strengths.
I am highly grateful specially to:
donstan18
edoman2016
appsdope
Eketem
Merimental
bukatyne
eniolorunfe
ceeceeuwa
Quiescere
Tunmise100
gaby
Acidosis
Dyt
eyinjuege
Alaadin
sisisioge
azelab
Cruchenutii
Cococandy
EfemenaXY.
God bless you all.
Have a brighter week ahead.
You all are blessed beyond a curse.
Thank you. 3 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by ericbertrand(m): 6:38pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
I don't know you but I'm happy things turned out well for you. Your husband is a very intelligent man. Honesty is the best policy. God keep you both. 5 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by eyinjuege: 7:29pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
This your story dey sweet me o.
Hmm, your husband really handled it well and covered all bases, as far as meeting the guy's mother in the village.
I'm happy you were able to confide in your husband. Some people would have tried to handle it alone, and it would have gone from bad to worse and they will end up looking bad before everybody. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Tunmise100(m): 7:47pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.
My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.
My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.
We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.
We just arrived home not quite long. I am so happy right now almost shedding tears. I prayed for you yesternight as i promised. Congrats. Pls, Love him more! Just LOVEEEEEEE HIM. Your husband is so mature. 14 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Dyt(f): 7:58pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
One of the few men
Thumbs up 12 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
I have never done this before but can the MODs move this to the front page so others can learn.
So happy for you dear! Pray you more colorful years ahead and also pray God will continue to give your hubby wisdom to lead the family.
Lalastica, Seun, who else? 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 9:00pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Tunmise100:
I am so happy right now almost shedding tears. I prayed for you yesternight as i promised. Congrats.
Pls, Love him more! Just LOVEEEEEEE HIM. Your husband is so mature. Without you all I wouldn't have done it. You all made it happend for me. You all restored my joy. May joy never cease in your homes. The reason why I never created an acct here was because of insults I do see here. You all acted maturedly and gave me good advice. May your destiny helpers locate you all in Jesus name. Thank you all. 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 9:10pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
ericbertrand:
I don't know you but I'm happy things turned out well for you. Your husband is a very intelligent man. Honesty is the best policy. God keep you both. And keep u too. Thank you. 5 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Merimental(m): 9:12pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SifonAbasi:
Good afternoon my good people of Nairaland. Happy Sunday!
Yesterday after a dinner with my husband, I told him everything about me and my ex.
My husband asked me a lot of questions concerning my ex like "Where's he from? What's he into? How did we meet?" A lot of questions about him. I was very honest with him and told him everything. Even told him that he (my ex) disvirgined me.
After telling him everything, my husband response was "okay". I noticed his countenance changed.
He sat for few minutes in the sitting room then went to the bedroom and slept.
Normally we always pray before going to bed no matter how tired we are but yesterday my husband went to bed without praying and I was scared to ask him why he didn't pray.
Early this morning he was moody. He told me not to make breakfast that we will eat when we returned. He went into the restroom had his bathe then dresses up and I did same.
My husband face wasn't bright. We entered the car, he started it and we drove off.
While on the road we were both silent. All of a sudden he diverted from the church route to another route. I wanted asking him where we are heading to but I remained calmed.
Before I could know it, I saw him heading to my village road. I pee on myself. I asked him where we are heading to he told me not to worry.
I began begging him with tears in my eyes. He increases the volume of the car's radio just to distract me.
After 45mins drive, we arrived my village and he asked me to show him the guy's compound so I took him there.
We met the guy's mother, we greeted her then my husband told her everything I told him.
The old woman begged us to forgive her son. My husband collected the guy's number and called him in his mom's presence.
My husband was friendly on the phone. He thanked my ex for the help he rendered to me then told him to send his acct number that he will send him back his money.
My ex told my husband not to bother that he was just helping me as a friend.
That he is sorry, he thought I was joking when I told him I'm married.
My husband gave the phone to his mom and the old woman spoke with him (my ex) and warned him to stay away from me that I am a married woman.
My husband collected the phone and told my ex that for the help he offered me, he (my husband) is going to sponsor his wedding from start to finish whenever he (my ex) is ready to marry.
My husband also told him that his (my ex's) name will be on the police watchlist in case anything happens to his wife.
My ex was begging and promised never to hurt me.
We left their compound to my father's compound, greeted my mom and we headed back to the town.
On our way home, my husband was smiling all through and gave me the car to drive.
We branched an eatery to have our lunch and he bought me my favorite.
We just arrived home not quite long. ur man got Wisdom...stay happy 5 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 9:13pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
cococandy:
Mature man. Keep showing him love and respect and honesty okay? I will. Thank u sis. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Ganjafama(m): 9:27pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Processor01:
I have never done this before but can the MODs move this to the front page so others can learn.
So happy for you dear! Pray you more colorful years ahead and also pray God will continue to give your hubby wisdom to lead the family.
Lalastica, Seun, who else? They prefer putting threads about Saraki, Davido and Chioma etc on front page. Meanwhile, threads like these are relegated to the back sit. |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by NoToPile: 8:07am On Jul 30, 2018 |
SifonAbasi I couldn't help but comment Your husband is a MAN not a boy. So matured and wise Good you came out clean E-hugs 3 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Nobody: 10:08am On Jul 30, 2018 |
A world where prostitution is rewarded Twilight zone  4 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by johnbull2017(m): 10:29am On Jul 30, 2018 |
I’m really happy you got first hand advice from good people. Like they all said, honesty pays. I’m sure you must have learnt a lot of lessons from this ordeal.
To your hubby, he is truly a good man. May God continue to bless and increase him. I also pray for his kind of wisdom and patience.
And to all those judging her, you were never in her shoes so you dunno were the shoes pinches her.
God bless your union and increase you guys.
Enjoy your marriage dear. 9 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Dyt:
One of the few men
Thumbs up
Damn !!! I'm shocked after reading the response of the husband  Biko I need to get the Man's number so he can teach me Wisdom & Patience, I'm pretty sure I won't be this patient. The funny part was when he was driving to the Village, I thought he was going to take her Father's house 4 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
cococandy:
Mature man. Keep showing him love and respect and honesty okay? Awwwwww |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by Dyt(f): 12:36pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
cruchenutii:
Damn !!! I'm shocked after reading the response of the husband Biko I need to get the Man's number so he can teach me Wisdom & Patience, I'm pretty sure I won't be this patient. The funny part was when he was driving to the Village, I thought he was going to take her Father's house
Yh I never thought he could handle it in that manner He's got my respect 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by ladyP30(f): 1:42pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Am just so so so happy for you sis my heart has been hanging since I read ur post I Hv been thinking what will be the outcome after telling hubby, but I really thank God for blessing you with such a man,may u continue to luv nd respect him more I never n dis life hide anything from him he really deserve some Accolade 1 Like |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by izaray(f): 4:09pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Aww..You married a matured man, may God continue to increase him with more wisdom |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 7:50pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
izaray:
Aww..You married a matured man, may God continue to increase him with more wisdom Amen. Thanks. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 7:51pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
ladyP30:
Am just so so so happy for you sis my heart has been hanging since I read ur post I Hv been thinking what will be the outcome after telling hubby, but I really thank God for blessing you with such a man,may u continue to luv nd respect him more I never n dis life hide anything from him he really deserve some Accolade Thank u sis |
| Re: What Should I Do? Please Help! by SifonAbasi(f): 7:52pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
johnbull2017:
I’m really happy you got first hand advice from good people. Like they all said, honesty pays. I’m sure you must have learnt a lot of lessons from this ordeal.
To your hubby, he is truly a good man. May God continue to bless and increase him. I also pray for his kind of wisdom and patience.
And to all those judging her, you were never in her shoes so you dunno were the shoes pinches her.
God bless your union and increase you guys.
Enjoy your marriage dear. Thank u sir. |
