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Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Pataricatering(f): 2:52pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:11pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
yet if mommy stops her contributions, the house will scatter, but daddy could die and no one will notice any difference in schedule cos he doesnt do sh!t, yet ppl call him the head so most ppl honestly believe what makes a man the head is merely being a man. This here. Truer words have never been spoken Again it doesn’t apply to everyone. But it applies to enough people that it matters. That’s Why widowers have to get married the next month or they can’t survive but widows can survive even after in laws have taken all they worked together with their late husbands for. Eziokwu 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by ChiefSweetus: 3:13pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
bammo:Funniest comment here by a mile! |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:14pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
that's also the reason no one here feels the girl is too young cos we've seen women of almost every age raise children, nigerian women are not allowed to be lazy or weak cos someone has to get sh!t done Girls are forced to grow up too quickly because they will be mothers and build the home bla bla bla but boys will be boys 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:26pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
men will not treat u better even if u reduce yourself to nothing. having no standards with a man does not make u quality, it makes you a non-entity, u deserve nothing and will probably end up with that. A bottle of Veuve Clicquot for this guy please 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:30pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
it's ok for a man to hustle for sugar mommy or pretend to be a 19 yr old german girl and talk dirty to fellow men for cash in the name of yahoo yahoo, yet they hate oloshos who actually earn their money. Bwahahaha 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:36pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
I agree ImaIma1: |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by babeosisi: 3:45pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
but if a man you're committed to ever cheats on u, walk away! he will do it again, he has no respect for u and will fail u in other ways eventually. many women stick around cos to find man is hard, dont know who told them that but ok. some women feel it'll be crazy to leave him, then he'll find someone else and be so much happier with her and take pics and post on the insta u youths love so much. get this, he's happy with her just like he was happy with u, only difference is the unhappiness u chose to walk away from, she didnt get so lucky. he's not the prize. he will be just as goatishly happy with any woman who does not love herself and is ok with constant disrespect and humiliation. This is my mantra Unfortunately few Nigerian women agree with this The church will tell them to stay and fight for their marriage, even when a man moves in another wife,they foolishly stay. I don't get it. The men know they will stay so they treat them like crap because they get away with it. If a man cheats on me,he has broken our contract, it's over. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:45pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
This OP made a lot of sense in his post. I don’t agree with everything 100% but he has a lot that young boys especially these NL boys could learn from. But they are busy calling him a woman to read and learn. So what if he’s a woman? Does that negate the points in his post? Exactly. You’re proving him right by insinuating that the post is not worth anything because you think it was written by a woman. Who thinks like that except people who really need to educated themselves? 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by DKustodian(m): 3:46pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
This is a rather interesting post and some of the comments show that all hope is not lost for us as a people. By us, I mean black people. A lot of thought, time and effort were put into creating the post and it is highly commendable. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Herrmes: 3:47pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Idrismusty97:I did read everything there. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by babeosisi: 3:48pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
IamAirforce1: You just proved the OP right 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Idrismusty97:I read everything. Twice 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Herrmes: 4:02pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Bablo08:Such low self esteem. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:35pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: My Dear, that nonsense can NEVER apply to me. Thank you! |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 6:42pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
Bablo08: Why must man take the credit for the work of the woman? Just genuinely curious. I want to understand how this makes sense to you 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by ozoekwe(m): 6:53pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
@OP na excess time dey worry u, na people like u make Buhari talk say Naija youths are lazy |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
oolongtea: hmmm |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by dominique(f): 7:05pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
oolongtea: A lot of men are very ok with their immediate families bullying and harassing their wives, (some even join in) that's why they think it is abnormal for a man to stand up for his wife against his family. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by garryi: 8:48pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
itsmeurLady: Nice one. I can't but agree with you. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Nobody: 12:44am On Jul 31, 2018 |
ImaIma1: According to Nigerian women a man is only deemed responsible when he spends more money, assumes head of the family title. SMH 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by ImaIma1(f): 1:17am On Jul 31, 2018 |
dominique: They are quick to idolize their mums and treat their wives like strangers who came to punctuate or interrupt their family. They would rather uplift their mums instead of stand up for their wives. They don't realize that their fathers stood up for their wives. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by verycheese: 3:53am On Jul 31, 2018 |
[i][/i] not a problem at all. Seeing how ingrained the problem is, he needed to explain in full text, show people how to think cos obviously people haven't been thinking, think g is too hard for them. He's a man's man. Let people teach you. A man who does not know that he does not know is a scary piece of problem. Believe me, his message is majestic, it needed to come in full. YourCoffin: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:44am On Jul 31, 2018 |
cococandy: kai sista, even you? so you mean to say that a husband who brings home the cheddar will die and nobody will notice?! and who will pay the bills? can wifey get a well paid job after years of sitting on her behind watching telenovelas? as much as wifey takes care of her duty in making sure the home is in order, hubby is PAYING for everything else (aka food, clothing, roof over the family head, car, security etc).... without hubby, that woman's life become a big fat ZERO. widowers have to get remarried because they HAVE A JOB to do outside and dont have the time nor resources to be cleaning and cooking etc, while a woman would ALSO have to remarry because she would have NO RESOURCES to pay the bills, buy food for the family etc.... unless she can find a well paid job with her very important "PHD in telenovela watching" 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 8:51am On Jul 31, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Yea that’s only in Nigerian movies. In Nigeria real life, MOST women have to work and support the home as much as the husband in addition to doing everything else 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:04am On Jul 31, 2018 |
cococandy: Nigerian real life where almost everyone has a house boy/girl..... you mean to say that a gainfully employed wifey would be cooking and cleaning, or as you say "taking care of a home", after a long day at the office?! in what way exactly, if not by watching telenovelas while directing the housegirl/maid to cook and clean?! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by cococandy(f): 9:05am On Jul 31, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: You’re out of touch with women’s reality in Nigeria. How can we have a discussion?. Have a blessed day sir 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by Nobody: 9:12am On Jul 31, 2018 |
Eketem: Hahahahahahaha. This part of your post made me laugh soooooo hard. I keep repeating this in this forum over and over. Women will always be architects of their own misfortune. My goodness! Nigerian women are doomed. I don't think a lot of them value their lives that much. Too bad. Such women can't be helped. They are best left in their miserable lives and their sobbing and nagging are best ignored. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Dont Know How To Be Men!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:13am On Jul 31, 2018 |
cococandy: women's reality?! what woman do you know in Nigeria that is married to a gainfully employed man, and has herself a 9 to 5 job, that would then come home to pick up a broom to start cleaning the house? if they have children then someone else is raising these kids and if the house is dirty someone else is cleaning that house. indeed a blessed day to you too sista. 2 Likes |
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