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Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Freshkidavid(m): 8:19am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Many times, at the beginning of most marriages, the husband and his wife decide the number of kids they want but later, the woman decides not to have and produce more kids again. A Twitter user who is a female shared and voiced out her opinion on this issue. What is your own take on this? https://www.kingstondome.com/2018/08/lady-shares-opinion-women-not-children-husbands-wish.html 2 Likes
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Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by HungerBAD: 8:21am On Aug 10, 2018 |
I will not be quick to judge. Circumstances changes. What if after marriage, their financial situation changes?the worst thing that can happen to any couple, is to bring children into this life,and not be able to feed or take care of them. A woman has the right to tread carefully when the circumstances are not okay to bring a child into this world. 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Mynd44: 8:29am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Well actually, its her body and she can decide not to have any children sef. The flip side is that it is his life, he can decide to walk out of the marriage to go have more kids. These things shouldn't be binary. Childbirth isn't easy and a lot of women after going through one dont want or are scared to have another and they should not be blackmailed into it. But women should also not blackmail men into staying in a marriage where she has refused to have more and he refused. A better solution is surrogacy. Her eggs, his sperm and someone else (paid or whatever the arrangement is) carries the baby to term. Everyone is happy. Childbirth does a lot of things to women, a lot of women have to stop their careers, have to give up dreams, have to watch their body go through (sometimes irreversible) change so please do not blame them for not wanting it. But is it selfish? Of course it is. But is it wrong? No. 64 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Skepticus: 8:31am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by lifestyle1(m): 8:31am On Aug 10, 2018 |
If the man go born outside now she go they cry blood, nonsense... 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by flyca: 8:32am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Single ladies over to you! Please don't open your mouth and be bragging, "I can birth twenty" because you need the ring. In my own opinion, threat to life is not the only reason why couple should decide to have less kids. Economy/ finance is one big factor that people tend to overlook. For many Nigerians "Children are blessings". So they'll keep churning them out, even when they cannot bail themselves from the hospital after delivery. Please be guided. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by chloride6: 8:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: Then why get married at all. 11 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Nobody: 8:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Still single yeah? Wait until you get married, go for round one in the labor room. I'm positive your mindset will change. Some childbirth can be super difficult. With major tears here and there, some women are scared of going through it a second time. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by BigSarah(f): 8:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Plan your family well I no wan hear destitute.. Check my signature |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by MrBigiman: 8:34am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: Nice. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by sarahade(f): 8:34am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mtcheew. |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Nobody: 8:34am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Very Good point raised here by her 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Mynd44: 8:36am On Aug 10, 2018 |
chloride6: Are you getting married for children or because you love the person and want to spend the rest of your life with the person? You can get married for business, to cement ties or a range of other reasons. Point is this, getring married for children is just narrow (no offense) since you can have children without marriage. If it is kids you want, knack up your landlord's daughter; why go through the stress? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Samogbo1(m): 8:36am On Aug 10, 2018 |
nice topic ... I support ur stance except on life threatening cases... Secondly, it's high time we start encouragn less privileged parents(newly wedded couples, societal downtrodden etc) to embrace birth control measures, know their earning as to know the number of children they can Carter for adequately. This will go a long way in putting an end to hardships, hooliganism, terrorism, street urchins n destitutes littering d environment. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by adewumiopeyemi(m): 8:37am On Aug 10, 2018 |
In this harsh economy.. people no they born much children like that... 1 Like |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by monex(m): 8:37am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: Wisdom !!! 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by maasoap(m): 8:39am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: This 21st century people sha! When did all these start? Like our mothers were not having as much as they wanted in the past. 5 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Nobody: 8:39am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Marriage surely go soon die off 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Ugosample(m): 8:40am On Aug 10, 2018 |
women wahala is just too much 1 Like |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Nobody: 8:40am On Aug 10, 2018 |
chloride6:I wonder o. Yet as they claim madam super independent they still expect the man to squeeze his own pocket for them as "head of the family" Ive observed enough of working class ladies and their marriages. Everything they claim outside na wash 8 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Ugosample(m): 8:41am On Aug 10, 2018 |
maasoap: No mind am. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by maasoap(m): 8:41am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: Don't be annoyed that I'm quoting you this morning, I'm just finding your posts funny. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Mynd44: 8:42am On Aug 10, 2018 |
maasoap:What "our mothers" had wasn't exactly marriage. It was another form of servitude 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by carzola(m): 8:42am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Some women should Only visit a sperm bank Marriage is not for Everybody 1 Like |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Reference(m): 8:50am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Orla234: In that case the man will be there and will see the dangers of having another child and if he is reasonable will change his plans. There is nothing you agree at courtship that is set in stone. The basis of settling marital matters in courtship is to have a framework or bilateral understanding of how things will work. It is unilateralism in relationships that destroy them not the articles of agreement specifically and this applies all relationships not just marital ones. Business agreements, employment agreements, even tenancy agreements all stand or fall on this premise. When you hear the popular word 'let us meet', or 'come for a meeting' or 'schedule a meeting', it means unilateral issues which could affect working relationships have a chance of being averted. Courtship does not put an end to the continual conversation between couples necessary for the sustenance of healthy relationships....'my dear can we talk...my body is failing and I think I will not be able to handle another...'. What is wrong with that. 6 Likes |
Re: Lady Shares Opinion On Women Not Having Children Against Husband's Wish by Daeylar(f): 8:53am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Mynd44: Oh my I'm in love 1 Like |
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