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Hi all
Today I found out my "husband" had been cheating on me during the almost eleven years we had been together. We didn't married but I thought the commitment was there, plus we have two kids.
Of course we had our problems during the relationship, so I could somehow could try to understand to be cheated from certain moment, but from the beginning!!!
I think he never loved me or he is just addicted to sex, or he is still a child, he needs to get everything he wants, he over react,...
I just don't understand!
Anyone in a similar situation? Where do I go from here?
Thanks for reading
*Today is a sad day*

People cheat for various reason, some for fun.. others it’s a game they play with friends......but don’t think because Mr is cheating that means he does not love you...... that’s wrong

The way a man’s mind is set up, he can love one and be ducking another....... but what I am 100% sure of is that no man will wife a woman he does not love....... ( except for financial gain )


Talk to him about it, you guys should try making it work.... break up or divorce shouldn’t be an option cos of cheating


That is my 10kobo piece of advice

...

Fvck him To Death

Or

Give Him Rat Medicine

Truth hurts sometimes!

I'm really sorry about that Arge. I understand the pain you must be going through due to your shattered trust but I want you to sit and talk before taking any action

How is he your "Husband" if you are not married?

Thanks for the comments! Will need to take some time and think about the all situation.

My "husband" because I don't think you need to get married to commite. Buy hey, that's all you pick about the whole text?

oyoni:
How is he your "Husband" if you are not married?

I don't even like the option anymore ...

IamPlato:
...


Fvck him To Death


Or


Give Him Rat Medicine

Arge:
Thanks for the comments! Will need to take some time and think about the all situation.

My "husband" because I don't think you need to get married to commite. Buy hey, that's all you pick about the whole text?

So you've been cohabiting for over 10year.... when dowry has been paid then it becomes husband and wife.

And you think nl is d best place to seek advice.....ma'am you just added to your problems

mofeoluwadassah:
And you think nl is d best place to seek advice.....ma'am you just added to your problems

The calvary will soon arrive