₦airaland Forum

Social media is not the issue, I believe humans are rational beings, we have the ability to make decisions of our own. The social media is just a platform where you view a lot of happenings that surrounds human life. It is then left to an individual to embrace what will be of benefit to him or her. We should learn to keep most aspects of our relationship private and work on those aspects ourselves. So many people try to copy or make their life a replica of what they see,and read on social media,thus, introducing it into their relationship which may not be of beneficial to them. What do you think?

93Miles:
Korofoh is it Ruining or Running?

chiommy123:
I will both cos there are certain things you get here that are really helpful and others re trash so you know which to take and which to throw away

93Miles:
social media builds and also ruins relationship. But it has done more of d latter dan d former.

chiommy123:
for people that don't know what works for them

Korofoh:
can you elucidate?

chiommy123:
for people that don't know what works for them

93Miles:
It's not about getting what is helpful from social media and throwing away d trash of social media except if ur point is based on 'Relationship advice'.

The moment u bring ur relationship into the eyes of the public whether online or offline, be prepared for the worse.

Case Study: SNOOP DOGG and T.I

80% of people do not know Snoop Dogg's wife simply because Snoop tried as much as possible to keep his relationship away from the public.

June this year makes Snoop and his Wife 21years in marriage.

When they got married newly, Snoop brought his relationship into the eyes of the public and under 8yrs of marriage they split. Snoop blamed their split on the music industry. He learnt his lessons and kept his relationship away from public.


T.I on the other hand brought his relationship into the eyes of the public. He flaunts his wife in his music videos, in events etc. He even made a song about her. Today where are they? They have divorced.

chiommy123:
you have a point though but particularly for celebraties. is it same with common man too? cos their marriages seems to last more than celebraties marriage not that people don't talk about them but they've decided to close their ears to those gossips and focus more on their family

chiommy123:
some advice here can work on your girlfriend or guy while others can not work on them depending on the type of person she/he is. if he is temperamental you should know how to handle him

babyfaceafrica:
ruining

OneStep3:

chiommy123:
some advice here can work on your girlfriend or guy while others can not work on them depending on the type of person she/he is. if he is temperamental you should know how to handle him