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Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by eyinjuege: 5:21am On Aug 23, 2018
Look at the OP, you stole someone's thread and posted;it, yet you want to be respected. The type of men raised these days. Na wah o.
Stealing is not corruption .
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:26am On Aug 23, 2018
Pipedreams:
This is why so many men are refusing to get married and opting for baby mamas. Wahala plenty
That’s the best for now.
The US adopted this babyMama approach many years back.
It’s prevalent in the US.
It’s gradually permeating NAIJA.
PRESSURES everywhere.
Most Nigeria Families now have conglomerates of dependent relatives.
Suicide has now come to stay.
Very soon it will be approved by the House of Assembly
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by sweetilicious(f): 6:55am On Aug 23, 2018
adamsoghene:
Simple but truthfully. This is the harsh truth but it's happening everyday & most homes are guilty of it. May God help men with wisdom always .
I argued this with my colleague the other day.The unwritten law is also there for the women but I just knew that that of the men is so deep.Exactly why women should understand and partner with their husbands to reduce it.Its already the punishment God bestowed upon men after the sins of Adam and Eve.That's why men die earlier than women.Mortality rate has reduced,women should help their partner and vice versa.
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by zeus9634: 6:59am On Aug 23, 2018
This is very true... a man world is tough.
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by sweetilicious(f): 7:01am On Aug 23, 2018
pcguru1:
Actually we are, we've been tied up in a web that we created; the Patriarchy , we set the rules and by the rules we're forced to be a slave to what we created. Irony
To an extent its true.You don't advice women or support them to support you. You claim macho while you die in silent.Stop all this mantra "Of staying away from a working woman". If you go for the lazy ones just so you can provide verbatim of all needs while she lays eggs as house wife,be ready to die young because human wants are insatiable
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 7:04am On Aug 23, 2018
sweetilicious:
To an extent its true.You don't advice women or support them to support you. You claim macho while you die in silent.Stop all this mantra "Of staying away from a working woman". If you go for the lazy ones just so you can provide verbatim of all needs while she lays eggs as house wife,be ready to die young because human wants are insatiable
Lol in this economy who the hell is staying away from working women, all my relatives are married to working women and they plan and do things together. Its not realistic for anyone to shoulder all the responsibilities today unless the person is very wealthy
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by otherway: 7:21am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all
soro niyen?

Ode without brain.
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by happney65: 7:30am On Aug 23, 2018
Grupo:
Don't allow her to blackmail you into something you are not ready for o. At the end of the day, you will still be the one bearing the responsibilities.
Blackmail me for where?No me..Her mother was around one day and she said it in her face that I only wanted 2 kids..My MIL was surprised and she said Noo,2 Kids are small ohh say make we get more than that..I now schooled the woman on how things are expensive these days and having so many kids is bullshit.

Wifey knows me and she knows whatever I want to do is what I will do..Nobody fit tell me otherwise
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by BlackSpanner: 7:31am On Aug 23, 2018
So many hidden comments. Warris happening
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by Oyerinde16(m): 7:32am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all
I c som men got their cassavas as well
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by uvalued(m): 7:43am On Aug 23, 2018
na like this we go de de huh huh

Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by scopilad: 8:01am On Aug 23, 2018
Na Responsibility they rush us.(Pay for this,pay for that)
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by uvalued(m): 8:07am On Aug 23, 2018
pcguru1:
Actually we are, we've been tied up in a web that we created; the Patriarchy , we set the rules and by the rules we're forced to be a slave to what we created. Irony
THIS IRONY
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by sweetilicious(f): 8:12am On Aug 23, 2018
pcguru1:
Actually we are, we've been tied up in a web that we created; the Patriarchy , we set the rules and by the rules we're forced to be a slave to what we created. Irony
To an extent its true.You don't advice women or support them to support you. You claim macho while you die in silent.Stop all this mantra "Of staying away from a working woman". If you go for the lazy ones just so you can provide verbatim of all needs while she lays eggs as house wife,be ready to die young because human wants are insatiable.
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by bayocanny: 8:25am On Aug 23, 2018
donbachi:
This is the reason why anytime i borrow money from my wife i don't pay back...i even borrowed this morning.
I will screenshot this comment to her grin
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by donbachi(m): 8:28am On Aug 23, 2018
bayocanny:
I will screenshot this comment to her grin
hahaha..pls do
Re: The Many Struggles Of Nigerian Men by buchilino(m): 8:40am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all
CRAZY GAL
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