Saintsammurai:
Delta dey gigigba.. Warri is cool today.. Have you ever been to delta?

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

abbiboy:

Gbam...u just said mine mind!!

pocohantas:
OP, the first mistake you made was chatting with someone you never gave your number.

I don't ever give attention to a guy if I am not the one that gave him my number. Call me immature, call me rude. The first question I will ask is how you got my number. Even when you tell me who it is, as long as it is a guy...be rest assured I will never date you.

You fell for the easiest trick in their books. Sad one!

victorian:








Don't mind some girls who accept to date guys here, upon all the rubbish guys here spill about women. Calling ladies olosho, hungry leeches, hoes, bitches, rotten pussies etc. A lady will still open her korokoro eye fall for their trap? Chai!

Anyways Op ,sorry for the distasteful experience, next time u will steer clear from guys on this website. Although not all of them are bad but it's better to avoid guys on Nairaland than come online opening threads with stories that touch.
Such as this one.
Just chat friendly and move on. No need wasting your time having high hopes of a good future with any here, cos it's not written on their foreheads.

GODPUNISHUNA:


No worries. I don't doubt you. I was simply using reverse psychology so you could explain more because I actually found that interesting and encouraging.

It means not all online relationships end badly.

Have a lovely day

generationz:


telling her her something smells like fish was also a joke abi?

Saintsammurai:
I'm not done with you..

Saintsammurai:
One day hunter go catch the bush meat..
that's all i have to say to you..

Babyforever:
You reach nor let me vex take you by surprise

karli4nia:

Saff:
Nothing good comes out of NL dudes, I’ve had real experiences with two of them. Rather deal with real men tbh.

FunnyDude:



generationz you're now monitoring my post on this forum. Lols.

Never mind, it's a joke.

Can you please tell me more about the causes and implications of such fishy smell among the female gender. I just encountered such recently, sincerely it's not funny.

Amberon1:
Pls fvck off with your insanity. Didn't read your thrash.

SexyCeline:
Too many kids called "men" this days...

jakandeola:

baby girl I sware not all nairaland guys are bad am looking for love yet Neva got a chance dose guys Neva treat u well dont mean others wont .I care

pocohantas:


That's because you never started with me.

You're young, dumb and broke...you don't call the shots, I do.

So, sit down and be humble

Saintsammurai:
People are talking,, this one that just reached puberty is still talking..
you should have atleast waited for your 13th birthday before registering on nairaland..

generationz:


no I'm not monitoring you, I'm following you because you are a freelance writer and I'm also one ( check my signature)

about the fishy smell, I believe google will explain it better than I can . but from what I heard it can be caused by untreated toilet infection.


I assume its the Lady you are trying to run from that has the fish like smell , no wonder you are very desperate to let go.

QueenSekxy:
yeap. twice or so.

QueenSekxy:

yeah!!someone else said same thing.

pitiful honestly.

SexyCeline:

Lolz... That I have a small frame doesn't mk me a teenager o..

Saintsammurai:
well last last i know you are not up to 25..

Something tells me, you are still a virgin and i don't like inexperience girls..

Saintsammurai:
She said she went to school to study English..
She told Amar.abae that she is an Educationist..
Lmao..
Colourish sounds confuse..

SexyCeline:

Saintsammurai:
It must have been long then..
I have never been to IMO state..
maybe you can make me visit one day..

Saintsammurai:
What!!!!!
Don't tell me,, I'm wrong..
or you want to prove me wrong?

GrabHisBalls:
Confused is an understatement. That's how she lies to fit into any discourse. Which English? She's an Educationist. A half-baked on at that.

patricknz:
pvssy

pocohantas:


That's because you never started with me.

You're young, dumb and broke...you don't call the shots, I do.

So, sit down and be humble



When you graduate with [minimum of] a 2.1, you let me know.