IamLEGEND1:
O.K, first, you weren't enslaved by anyone. Some people were, but the fact that you're a Nigerian today means you were colonized by the British, and that's about it. I can go on about the how being colonized is, in a way, similar to slavery but that's a different topic altogether. The point here is you were not a victim of slavery, and clearly neither were your ancestors.


African cultures, more than anywhere else, have a long history of being pro do-as-you-please regardless of gender. Hell, we still have pockets of matriarchal societies that have survived to this day. The current norms that you so desperately embrace today came with the 2 religions widely practiced today- Islam & Christianity.

the phrase "strong black woman" is mostly an American thing (and maybe the U.K) because it is necessary to make the distinction in a country that has become a melting pot of ethnicities. I've never heard a Nigerian woman say she is "a strong black woman" because only an_idiot will assume she is anything other than black.

so why do black american women feel the need to add 'black' into the phrase? as descendants of ACTUAL SLAVES, they have been the subject of vapid & fetishistic stereotypes for decades, which is still prevalent today what with the obsession of white women with butt, breast, and lip implants.

Feminism even in its time as a purely positive movement didn't catch up in the black community as fast as it did in others. so maybe they're trying to position themselves as beacons for young black girls to look up to and believe they can be every bit as successful as other ethnicities.

I am not American so I can't claim to totally understand the nuances of their experience but what I do know is no woman was born to be under me by default. I believe with personal differences come a number of natural predispositions and a person should take the lead in matters he or she is better suited for regardless if gender.

Some idiot will refuse to let his wife who has a Masters in finance handle the family finances because he is the man and he's probably a journalist.

I am anti-feminist because like a lot of people, I believe the movement has been weaponized by bitter misandrists who don't truly want a level playing field but instead, desire preferential treatment. so make of that what you will.

In all these, I'm only assuming that you think everyone is a Christian and is supposed to give a_fuck about the bible verves you quoted.

and as someone said, there is always someone for somebody and you can find a lady who is perfectly happy to play second fiddle to you. You just need to look around.

IamLEGEND1:
O.K, first, you weren't enslaved by anyone. Some people were, but the fact that you're a Nigerian today means you were colonized by the British, and that's about it. I can go on about the how being colonized is, in a way, similar to slavery but that's a different topic altogether. The point here is you were not a victim of slavery, and clearly neither were your ancestors.


African cultures, more than anywhere else, have a long history of being pro do-as-you-please regardless of gender. Hell, we still have pockets of matriarchal societies that have survived to this day. The current norms that you so desperately embrace today came with the 2 religions widely practiced today- Islam & Christianity.

the phrase "strong black woman" is mostly an American thing (and maybe the U.K) because it is necessary to make the distinction in a country that has become a melting pot of ethnicities. I've never heard a Nigerian woman say she is "a strong black woman" because only an_idiot will assume she is anything other than black.

so why do black american women feel the need to add 'black' into the phrase? as descendants of ACTUAL SLAVES, they have been the subject of vapid & fetishistic stereotypes for decades, which is still prevalent today what with the obsession of white women with butt, breast, and lip implants.

Feminism even in its time as a purely positive movement didn't catch up in the black community as fast as it did in others. so maybe they're trying to position themselves as beacons for young black girls to look up to and believe they can be every bit as successful as other ethnicities.

I am not American so I can't claim to totally understand the nuances of their experience but what I do know is no woman was born to be under me by default. I believe with personal differences come a number of natural predispositions and a person should take the lead in matters he or she is better suited for regardless if gender.

Some idiot will refuse to let his wife who has a Masters in finance handle the family finances because he is the man and he's probably a journalist.

I am anti-feminist because like a lot of people, I believe the movement has been weaponized by bitter misandrists who don't truly want a level playing field but instead, desire preferential treatment. so make of that what you will.

In all these, I'm only assuming that you think everyone is a Christian and is supposed to give a_fuck about the bible verves you quoted.

and as someone said, there is always someone for somebody and you can find a lady who is perfectly happy to play second fiddle to you. You just need to look around.

pocohantas:
Na you gaangaan be alpha male You are wise!!!!!!!!! Jeez!!!

MrBrownJay1:


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durexdijo:

I DO NOT support any form "Domestic Violence". I believe every child both male and female have the rights to education and work but there's a deep agenda going on with all these so-called "Women Empowerment" & "Feminist Movement" funded by the west with Billions Worldwide with significant Focus on Third-world Countries with my Emphasis on "Black Societies".. I summarize my conclusion here....

In 2018, I am yet to see other races women calling themselves "Strong White Woman", "Strong Chinese woman", "Strong Arab Woman".. Its only in the black community you often hear our Women using words like "Strong Black Woman" and "Independent woman". And when they use those words.. It only means, they don't need a man and they don't need a family... thats why they've used the so called "celebrities" to create these new terms and many others "Baby mamas" and all that. The new brainwashed generation of Blackwomen now pride in calling using those terms on themselves.

The Whiteman, In the society he systematically created propaganda for the Black woman with his media, education, religion and politics has told the Black Woman that .... You are being discriminated by your Blackman. You are being Oppressed by your Blackman. Why not free yourself from your Blackman and be an Independent Woman? You can run a family by yourself, You don't need no man to tell you what to do. The Black woman has fully fell for this snare and now she see her "Blackman" as the enemy. The enemy has brainwashed and effeminated lots of Blackman such that they willingly support this movement laid down by the enemy to DESTROY THE FOUNDATION OF THE BLACK SOCIETY WHICH IS THE BLACK FAMILY.

I have questions for the Feminist out there thats ... Did the Europeans put the Blackwoman on a seperate slaveship as the Blackman? Did the Europeans seperate the Blackwoman from the Blackman when they colonized them ? Did the Blackman raped, rob, mother and kill your kids like the Europeans did in Slavery? Now Some People out there running around talking about "Women rights" and totally forgets about "the rights of the Black race" that has been oppressed for 400 years(at a time considered 3/5th of a Man, technically ANIMAL by LAW) and is still being oppressed till today. That needs to stop. Every Black person needs to stop supporting such movement as it was never about freedom of no women(women were never enslaved in the first place) We were colonized, shackled, enslaved and sold together... We going to be delivered together!

It is time our beautiful Black women to stop fighting with the Blackman, You are suppose to be the Pillar of his rest, let him rule his household. Then you men, Man Up, take care of your household only then can we build on a Strong nation together. We cannot let all these propaganda(Feminism, LGBT rights) that the enemies are massively funding infilterate our lives and families as a Strong Black Family is what we should our Focus. They ain't funding to get people out of poverty like they fund these wicked ANTI-Family movements. For those who have been programmed to always defend this westerner's interest claim they fund our people out of poverty, Can you show me how much these Agencies have given to your poverty stricken family? Some don't even know their worth so they won't even agree to being "poor" because they don't really know what it means to be rich or in power.

This is a Psycological War we need to Fight and Win! The system has been designed to keep Black People divided so we will NEVER really see who the ENEMIES are, and even if you see them, You can always defend their interest. Wake Up My People! If we continue in this path. We will be in eternal servitude to other races.

To end this, It is sad I have to define what a Black family structure looks like. The typical Black Family Structure we know is exactly the same as that documented in the Scriptures which all these movements are actually against.. Even if you don't believe in the Bible, you atleast should know what a Proper structure of a Family looks like.

1 Corinthians 11:3 - "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; AND THE HEAD OF THE WOMAN IS THE MAN; and the head of Christ is God."

Just like a woman will be in full subjection to her boss or head at her work place with all subjection and NOT question him unnecesarily and would rather help him. The Black woman in a typical black family is supposed to be in Full Subjection to her Black man(NOT A WICKED BLACK MAN). And I urge the Black men to Clean themselves up and treat their Blackwoman right and stop abusing the authority you have. Stop breaking the Black Woman, Uplift them.. Putting the Woman Under the Man has DOES NOT mean She's Inferior to the Man, It simply means we understand Order. It only means she has he unique role to play. She should not play a man's role and vice versa, Both party are essential especially in building a strong Black Family. Order is needed in our household just like it is needed in any organization and Society. It makes no sense not to have an order in the household just like it make no sense when you say, there shouldn't be president, governors, local goverment chairmans to rule our society, that everybody should be equal in the society... There is always a need for a leader in any establishment to make progress and to function properly. Get every form of equality between the man and woman out of your mind. The woman's role is NOT a weakness but rather her strength. Both gender are NOT in competition with eachother. However, The Blackman needs to become more responsible and treat the Blackwoman better. Black woman, Prove your Man first before marrying them as you will not want an irresponsible man over you.

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IamLEGEND1:
O.K, first, you weren't enslaved by anyone. Some people were, but the fact that you're a Nigerian today means you were colonized by the British, and that's about it. I can go on about the how being colonized is, in a way, similar to slavery but that's a different topic altogether. The point here is you were not a victim of slavery, and clearly neither were your ancestors.


African cultures, more than anywhere else, have a long history of being pro do-as-you-please regardless of gender. Hell, we still have pockets of matriarchal societies that have survived to this day. The current norms that you so desperately embrace today came with the 2 religions widely practiced today- Islam & Christianity.

the phrase "strong black woman" is mostly an American thing (and maybe the U.K) because it is necessary to make the distinction in a country that has become a melting pot of ethnicities. I've never heard a Nigerian woman say she is "a strong black woman" because only an_idiot will assume she is anything other than black.

so why do black american women feel the need to add 'black' into the phrase? as descendants of ACTUAL SLAVES, they have been the subject of vapid & fetishistic stereotypes for decades, which is still prevalent today what with the obsession of white women with butt, breast, and lip implants.

Feminism even in its time as a purely positive movement didn't catch up in the black community as fast as it did in others. so maybe they're trying to position themselves as beacons for young black girls to look up to and believe they can be every bit as successful as other ethnicities.

I am not American so I can't claim to totally understand the nuances of their experience but what I do know is no woman was born to be under me by default. I believe with personal differences come a number of natural predispositions and a person should take the lead in matters he or she is better suited for regardless if gender.

Some idiot will refuse to let his wife who has a Masters in finance handle the family finances because he is the man and he's probably a journalist.

I am anti-feminist because like a lot of people, I believe the movement has been weaponized by bitter misandrists who don't truly want a level playing field but instead, desire preferential treatment. so make of that what you will.

In all these, I'm only assuming that you think everyone is a Christian and is supposed to give a_fuck about the bible verves you quoted.

and as someone said, there is always someone for somebody and you can find a lady who is perfectly happy to play second fiddle to you. You just need to look around.

marvinsync:



I was reading all u said but when I just scrolled down and saw that Bible verse I just stopped

ps the whole topic is bs
I don't wanna explain how but it is

durexdijo:

The very first line in your statement shows how Ignorant and divisive our race have been and we need to deal with this kind of thought. And Yes, We were colonized and I included the word "Colonize" it too.. The fact that you even attempt to "Seperate" the colonized from the enslaved shows you do NOT SEE the enslaved populace of our race as your brothers and You are just working and dealing within the "BOX" of Nationalism that the "Europeans" has put us. 400 years ago, the people "enslaved" were your brothers, sisters, mothers and children.

Its a pity in 2018, Our people DO NOT see the descendants of the Slave trades as their brother and sisters anymore.. They don't even see their neighboring nations that was part of their "Nation" How could you even attempt to separate us? The Europeans has redefined who to see as your people in the minds of our people and thats very destructive method against us.

When you go anywhere in the world, It don't matter where you from, You are still treated the same way any Blackman from anywhere would be. If I am NOT a direct descendant of the ones taken on those Slaves ships... The brother or sisters of my ancestors were on. Whatever the case, COLONIZATION AND SLAVERY IS ONE and the Same, the NEED to Ship out some outta the region is only way to ensure this race of people are never able to Unite themselves back as a race.

I know you don't care about the Bible verse, However. It was just to re-iterate what a Family structure looks like. And talking about woman handling finances in the house, That has nothing to do with Feminism and does NOT in anyway change the structure of the order of the house. So When i say a family should be in order.. Women handling such task does not affect the order of the house. I personally do not have any issue with that.

I'd argue that... The Nigerian Society today has never been Matriarchal and predates the arrival of Islam and Christianity. The Matriarchal cultures that you pointed at are definitely NOT ours and if you think otherwise, bring out your proofs. Sticking to our ancestral culture and values is My point on this.

We have been colonized, We have to start de-colonization of Black societies by first doing away with every form of colonial symbols and ideals in our lives, education, beliefs, thoughts and environment. Failure to do so means our race will remain in ETERNAL SERVITUDE to other races.

It is time we get out of the box of Nationalism. In reality, If I oppress you for a couple of years and take your wives, sons and daughters.... What would be the first thing you would do one you get a chance to be free? Would you NOT first try to get back you sons and daughters that were taken from you? Someone in his right state of mind will just attempt to re-unite his family. But of course, the Europeans made sure to give our education such that our people will be thinking about themselves never even think collectively let alone talk about uniting their real race.

You need to get yourself out of that BOX of nationalism. Boundaries DO NOT define who a "People" is, People defines Boundaries. I will have to write another article on this in the future.

IamLEGEND1:
As much pain as colonization brought, it doesn't even come close to matching the havoc slavery has wrought.

Borders might be an artificial construct but they are as old as they are necessary. And despite this 'box' we were shoved into, almost a millennium later & a person still wouldn't consider a person from the next tribe a brother to him.

This is fundamental human nature, evident in all races- we always turn on the thing most different from us and try to hate it. we're all black but we've decided tribal differences supersedes racial unity. that is something you can't pin on colonization.

And you're trying to paint Africa as some kind of paradise pre-colonization...
well, guess what? the empires were mostly feudal and unstable.....
Like I said, we can go down this rabbit hole of semantics (slavery vs colonization) but that won't help anyone.
when in other countries, you're treated like any generic Blackman, that is true. but you think we're not guilty of the same thing? 99% of Africans can't tell the difference between white guys of Slavic, Baltic and Scandinavian ancestry. or worse, differentiate a Japanese guy from a Korean guy or even a Chinese guy sometimes. a lot of races are scattered,Caucasians being the most widely spread of all. which is why we have the U.S & Australia in their current States. I don't see the British trying to bring them back "home". I do care about bible verses, just not the ones taken out of context. a good portion of the bible was written by people with the reality of their time in mind. Even God tailors his methods to the people of the era. Imagine living in the time of the old testament. The only thing people of today would've seen was a trigger-happy Deity with some serious anger issues and profound homicidal/Genocidal tendencies. I'd kill myself before I live under that kind of rule.

Not everything in the Bible is supposed to be an absolute truth. Room is given for adjustment. I remember a verse which states women shouldn't be allowed to speak in church, alas, we have female Reverends today. are we going to hell for that or have people simply realized Paul's letter was addressing a very specific problem in a very specific church?


in that way, there is no absolute order to the house. .marriage wasn't made to be a means of proving your dominance. but like I said, find someone who agrees with your supremacy and marry. I definitely don't want someone who constantly looks to me for answers. I married you because I
value your help & support and you value mine in equal measure. Maybe you should read up on queen Amina, moremi and a whole bunch of them in Yoruba legends.

sticking to our ancestral values! LOL!!! be careful what you wish for, mate.

You'd first have to abandon your religion and go back to offering sacrifices of white chickens and kola nut.

Our old values placed the homogeneity of tribes above everything, so that unification you crave is never going to happen this way. then there is the Osu caste system, the murder of twins, left handed people and albinos. so........,

In short, you're a fan of Malcolm X. But I can assure you that shipping all black people back to Africa isn't going to solve our problems.

+ because we have chosen to continue as the nations carved out by colonialists doesn't mean we're still being colonized. look at western Europe and how closely they are packed but still separated. Britain is even trying to break away from the agreement that gives their citizens the right to wander all over Europe as they please. Look at the former USSR, the ancient Mayans etc. borders have been around longer than colonization and black people living in other countries far away from their original home isn't necessarily a sign of racial division....

evolution dictates that at some point every race will be found on every continent. Slavery is over- at least in its old form- what we have to look forward to is solving the issues facing us like corruption and better leadership.

IamLEGEND1:
O.K, first, you weren't enslaved by anyone. Some people were, but the fact that you're a Nigerian today means you were colonized by the British, and that's about it. I can go on about the how being colonized is, in a way, similar to slavery but that's a different topic altogether. The point here is you were not a victim of slavery, and clearly neither were your ancestors.


African cultures, more than anywhere else, have a long history of being pro do-as-you-please regardless of gender. Hell, we still have pockets of matriarchal societies that have survived to this day. The current norms that you so desperately embrace today came with the 2 religions widely practiced today- Islam & Christianity.

the phrase "strong black woman" is mostly an American thing (and maybe the U.K) because it is necessary to make the distinction in a country that has become a melting pot of ethnicities. I've never heard a Nigerian woman say she is "a strong black woman" because only an_idiot will assume she is anything other than black.

so why do black american women feel the need to add 'black' into the phrase? as descendants of ACTUAL SLAVES, they have been the subject of vapid & fetishistic stereotypes for decades, which is still prevalent today what with the obsession of white women with butt, breast, and lip implants.

Feminism even in its time as a purely positive movement didn't catch up in the black community as fast as it did in others. so maybe they're trying to position themselves as beacons for young black girls to look up to and believe they can be every bit as successful as other ethnicities.

I am not American so I can't claim to totally understand the nuances of their experience but what I do know is no woman was born to be under me by default. I believe with personal differences come a number of natural predispositions and a person should take the lead in matters he or she is better suited for regardless if gender.

Some idiot will refuse to let his wife who has a Masters in finance handle the family finances because he is the man and he's probably a journalist.

I am anti-feminist because like a lot of people, I believe the movement has been weaponized by bitter misandrists who don't truly want a level playing field but instead, desire preferential treatment. so make of that what you will.

In all these, I'm only assuming that you think everyone is a Christian and is supposed to give a_fuck about the bible verves you quoted.

and as someone said, there is always someone for somebody and you can find a lady who is perfectly happy to play second fiddle to you. You just need to look around.

Bidobado1:

I like how you use good English language to chat Shiit.
In a topic as sensitive as this, you are terribly lacking if you can't see the link between slavery and colonialism. You also went as far as to say "Nobody enslaved you".
Man piss you off, you are dumb as a rock.

MissWrite:
I am soooo in love with you right now....... Your school fees was not a waste of money. Respects!

Bidobado1:


Both of you are Cvnts.

And no matter what you do or say, you will always be in the shadows of_iLegendd and he will forever be in the shadows of iamlegend_1.
Legendary Yobs.

IamLEGEND1:
Ayam loyal, ma.

IamLEGEND1:

I am anti-feminist because like a lot of people, I believe the movement has been weaponized by bitter misandrists who don't truly want a level playing field but instead, desire preferential treatment.